Why aren't you cold approaching women?

cause vagina

You tell yourself it doesn't work cause you're too much of a pussy to try it. But I know for a fact it works.

you sure live in some cliches mate. you wife or long-term gf should definitely be compatible with you in a sense that you share fundamental values and fit together intellectual wise. The ridicilous high divorce rates are the results of people only looking for someone hot instead of actually critically evaluate the partner's character traits

this.
I started doing cold approaches in like 2016, and got lots of leads, banged a few girls. In 2018, they suddenly started reacting differently.

I can't even make eye contact with a girl without feeling sheer terror and walking away as a jittering mess of sweat. Cold approaching is beyond my level, especially since I don't have Chad looks.

I'm engaged

I agree with you in general but there are a few more factors to it than that.

because I'm not autistic, I have a large circle of friends and meet new girls who I can hold conversations with at various parties or social kickbacks.

This is rape, OP. This is literally rape. You are a rapist.

Why would you be approaching ugly thots in the first place?

Sounds good man, hope you have a good life and go on to be successful

post face and body.

This is a great way to end up on the sex offender registry and banned from public places.

I despise women
I despise sluts
I want that pussy but I wont play that game
You either see what resources I have and you want to join my life or you can move on and settle for some beta faggot or washed up alpha
I'm truly a fucking animal

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I do, actually. For every 20 girls, 5-10 will give me numbers and of those girls, 1-2 will go on a date and it's about a 75% chance I'll smash. Not even a good looking dude, but I'm builtfat and have big arms. I literally think of women like sales: The more people you can get in front of, the better.

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I know it works and it's too easy that's why I don't do it. I'd rather be cold approached by a women.

you can spray your cum in her face and chuckle to yourself about how beta she must be to actually enjoy that

Whatever helps you sleep, elliot.

You have a very warped view of reality my friend. Majority of women actually aren't crazy SJWs. Even the ones who immediately reject do so with a sort of flattered smile. Also, as long as you aren't stupid (don't approach in situations where woman could feel trapped, if woman shows or says she's not interested just walk away) you will be fine.

I'm unironically adding this post to my cringe folder.

Those 10 women that said no all went home and circlejerked with their cunt friends about how much they hate men. Now they'll never trust the rest of us.

>Why aren't you cold approaching women?
I'm black.

Hate to say it user, but that is one of the few good reasons not to cold approach

It's worth doing just for the adrenaline and hey if you get rejected it's just more workout fuel

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I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder

>better than being an incel
Suppose that is true, shit I think the more women I interacted with the more I became a misogynist, could also be the years of browsing the ch0n combined with the fact I’ve fucked and dated some awful girls (a few were decent). This place will give you an awful view of women which in my opinion sets you up for failure and brings in that whole law of attraction thing where if you are expecting shit that’s what you get. Regardless I think all that rejection will make Incels hate women even more once they finally get some pussy and realize random sex with people you don’t care about is basically just assisted masturbation if you don’t have feelings for the other person. Can’t catch feelings and have them reciprocated if you don’t play the game I suppose. Regardless I applaud you for having the balls to approach random women and get numbers as that shit does take courage. Shit I’m basically chad and even I don’t do that a bunch because I’m afraid and realize it doesn’t go anywhere 90% of them time.

I've only ever seen black guys cold approach in public. Usually the woman is so afraid of getting followed that he gets the number.

Pretty sure that's not an actual thing. One of those meme diagnoses to sell pills

just go up to a girl and ask for her number. it will be shit, it will feel horrible, you will get rejected. but afterwards you will be happy you did it.

or, just take valium

>approaching random women in the #metoo era
It sounds like an excuse and I hate that shit but it's legit scary. I didn't build myself for years suffering through wagie shit to have it all wasted away in court.

you mean black and beta? all alpha black guys cold approach and get pussy out of it, sometimes even immediately

Most people don't do it because it's hard. I get a lay around every 60 girls. That's around 12 hours of approaching.

No they don’t stop believing cuckold fetishists on this website. I’ve never seen a black guy with a decent white woman in my life. Fat trailer trash or party girl roasty? Sure, White women worth fucking? Not once

I’m not on medication for it. I’m supposed to do CBT but I don’t have time between work and the gym

I see it all the time

That's 11.5 hours you could have been lifting and half an hour of beating your dick

>you sure live in some cliches mate. you wife or long-term gf should definitely be compatible with you in a sense that you share fundamental values and fit together intellectual wise. The ridicilous high divorce rates are the results of people only looking for someone hot instead of actually critically evaluate the partner's character traits

Wrong.

You should have nothing in common, and 1 person should in-fact be far more intelligent than the other, whether it be the man or the woman, doesn't really matter.

The reason the divorce rate is so high is because of the opposite of what YOU think it is. Its high because people get together based on their current matching traits, and then over-time obviously these things change, when the things that brought them together change (not talking about looks here btw) then the 2 fall apart.

IF you have nothing in common to begin with, and there is a large difference in intelligence, there is nothing that can possible break you up over-time due to the fact that you're starting off from day 1 with nothing in common, no shared traits, nothing.
t. Parents happily married for 40+ years now, huge difference in IQ between my parents, absolutely have nothing in common with each other aside from both being Greek and being Greek-Orthodox.

tu einai malaka

What the fuck do you talk about with someone you have nothing in common with? Work?

>cuckhold fetishists

what the fuck are you on about mate? im speaking from real life experience :^)

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Because I don’t want photos of me put up next to songs warning women about me.
I’m cashier and want to fuck the girls but I’m scared they’ll complain to the boss about me being creepy

see
also, probably best not to try this whilst at work...

>talk about
>women

you’re doing it wrong, mate. you ordering her her around, fucking her and spanking her when she misbehaves should be the full extent of your relationship. talk to your friends. have you ever met a woman with anything genuinely worthwhile to say? why the fuck are so many men falling for the “i want someone to talk to” meme?

Am I the only one that asks tinder dates to go bowling?
"Wanna go to the club?"
"Nah, we going bowling."
"Bowling? I don't know how."
"Good, I'm shit too."

My bowling pace has a bar, which is nice.

I'm bad at bowling, the woman would be better than me

This.

I won't stop lifting big until i get at least solid city 7's doing this to me

i like the way you think

I’ll give it a try, thanks.

Used to have hope but this guy is right. I've even dated women in STEM, graduates, careers etc and they fall apart when you try to get into deeper conversations like their reasoning for some opinions and whatever.

let me get uhhhhhh large glass of centaur milk and some scrambled unicorn eggs when you get back from fantasy land

It's not really about the bowling user. It's about casually chatting her up to make sure she isn't batshit crazy, looking at her ass as she throws the rock, and looking at her feet as she changes shoes.

Yeah I've had girlfriends and female acquaintances that I enjoyed talking to, that's normal in the first world. I don't want some illiterate slave woman, that sounds boring.

What's the rule about asking women out at their job? I know its generally looked down upon asking women out were they are forced to be nice and may feel trapped, buts theres this cute hirl girl who works at the supermarket starbucks who I'd like to ask. I'll just order a coffee and ask for her number at the end of the transaction. If she says no I'll just leave, I don't want her to feel pressured or anything. It's just that I don't have much of a social life involving women at the moment and this is the only way I think I can meet women, barring tinder which sucks for you if you don't have good pics

This only happens if you go to school, or you're involved in a creative scene. If you're out in the workforce, or you stay indoors a lot, this is hopeless.

ask her a question and see if she answers your question with eye contact. also see if she asks you a question in return. also you if you try to get her number you have to do it out of earshot of her coworkers/managers

Just slide her your number. "If you want, or not and that's okay too" and go about your day, don't stare at her expecting her to do something.

>it's the only way I think I can meet women

you are literally posting in a thread that is suggesting one of the best ways to meet women

I find it a lot easier to approach random women anyway, you will never see them again and don't have to give a fuck about what they think

Dunno about that. My fiancee and i were pretty different originally. I'm pretty extroverted and she's quiet, still. But we did share some values (personal responsibility, sanctity of marriage, etc). Over the years we've become way more similar though.

We were out for dinner with some friends the other night and the topic of trannies came up. I have always been strong opposed to normalising mental illness. The other guys there are of a similar view (both central european), the girls took the standard npc line. My fiancee, on the other hand, said, and I quote, "if you've had a dick at any point you are a man"

Great post and 100% true.

Lotta guys complain about not having good looks, but all good looks are gonna do is give you a higher success rate. With average looks if you just play the numbers like this guy is saying you'll get numbers, dates, sex, and relationships.

And once you get used to rejection it's really not that bad.

Literally every single woman I know complains about this shit. Without exception.

why have i nver thought of bowling for a first date? not a bad idea...

I find the general rule is the more a situation is high pressure the more indirect you have to be. Like on the streets I have nothing to loose and will problaby never see them again so I just go direct with compliment. At the gym because i know I will see them again I make chit chat and use non verbal cues like good eye contact and take things slower. Use plausible deniability so if she asks you if you are picking her up you can just say you were being nice

This is rapidly approaching eggs level autism.

If it's their job, and not your job, it's cool. Especially if the way in which you ask her out makes her get approval from her coworkers. If her job is your job and you're coworkers, don't do it you idiot.

Any woman you meet is 100% gamble on if you could potentially love them or not. OP is right you just hit the numbers hard until you find love, and the street is as good a place as anywhere

Theyre humble bragging you retard.

subservient and submissive does not mean stupid.

Its better to let women pick you. If you're on your purpose, in the gym, and have a sense of style they'll give you looks.

If that's true, where are you from? Here in england most women genuinely do not mind it, as long as it's done respectfully. Even my feminist sister told me one day she got approached and was so flattered by it...

Wear a suit and tie then.

You can remove the black fear by wearing a suit and tie and being well groomed.

Yeah, and if you pick up the basics you can actually get up close to them and help them with their form. It's also a safe space, ie other people, elderly, kids etc. It might sound weird at first but it's a super easy setting to relax in on a date.

>black, ignore women
lol beta
>black, chase women
lol nigger get away from my pure white girl race war now *is really fat*

It's okay, come over and I'll feed you protein rich eggs user.

I regularly shoot the shit with my bros about philosophy, politics, or some niche topic. I’ve tried talking to girls about those sort of things and their eyes just glaze over.

I like how dating a black woman doesn't even cross your mind

All good.

Just don't do it at places you go regularly because if they say no you still have to see them again.

this, this, this.

cold approaching is a surefire way to be called a creep in public, if not worse.

>just slide her your number
WRONG. giving a girl your number is a great way to waste paper and pen ink because
1. girls have no game
2. women like to be persued, and will only persue men they feel like are out of their league
>”If you want, or not and that’s okay too”
did you honestly think this was good advice as you were typing it out

Women...complaining?

Holy shit.

Dude I'm married with daughters. Women complain. That's what they do. About men. Block out female complaints like they don't even exist. Or diffuse them with humor. These 2 strategies will take u far my friend.

Only if youre ugly, spic or nig.

doesn't matter. the goals will shifted in perpetuity
>black
>lives in the us
lol gb2africa
>lives in africa
>exists
lol kill urself

dude just be a republican lol, Kanye said cops won't pull you over if you're wearing a MAGA hat

How do you deal with daughters? I'm likely going to be trying for kids in the next couple years and i can only envisage myself wanting to choke the fuck out of a greasy little shit that wants to touch my daughter.

>surefire way to be called a creep in public

Interesting, cause in my 100+ approaches i've never been called a creep or anything worse.

you guys that laser beam in on one chick and B-line straight at them in a crowded area are doing it wrong. That shit is creepy as hell. You need an opener that isn't try hard, but progressively gets better. Something like this:

>hey, I'm new to this town. can you tell me where Starbucks is? (bitches love starbucks, btw)
>"oh sure, it's over by yadda yada yada'
>then reply with "wait, is that by ?"
>she replies "oh no, it's over by "
>then you reply with something like: "you know, a decent looking girl like you might be able to make a good tour guide."
>she'll probably do the whole "haha shutttttt up!" bullshit

the thing is to not look to invested at first and then slowly make the interaction become more man to woman. And if you don't approach girls, don't (you) me with some bullshit because this has worked for me like a charm.

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>this sorry, sack of shit, “woe is me” mentality

lynch yourself then faggot, and this is a black guy telling you this

considering you are just harassing her at her workplace, yeah it sounds pretty good

It's only harrassment if you're an ugly sperg

and then you turn 360 degrees and walk away
Yeah, still got it

You have touched on the age old debate as to whether it is better to be direct or indirect with your opener.

i.e. Is it better to pretend to want some other information and not make your intentions immediately obvious, OR is it better to just be direct, e.g.

>Hi, i just thought you were cute so I thought I'd come say hi

Personally, I feel much more comfortable with being direct as it reveals your intentions right away and if she's not interested she'll let you know. Also it seems kinda deceptive to me to lure her in with some other bullshit.

But hey, whatever works for you.