NoFap thread.
Post stories, tips, and general NoFap related blogposting.
This is my last thread, as my next milestone is leaving this place. It has to be done.
Also, have your lifts gone up since NoFap?
Mines didn't, but I have to keep it fit related.
I keep a rubber band on my left arm at all times. I'm doing semen-retention, so any time I have any thoughts that are remotely close to degeneracy like porn or masturbation, I snap it. I haven't had to snap it for a week or so now.
I kinda just stopped looking at porn and now every girl I see is a smoke show
>age
>gender
>current streak
>longest streak
>why you started
>results so far
>was it worth it
>age
26
>gender
M
>current streak
24 hours
>longest streak
5 days, from starting last weekend
>why you started
Tried to bang a coworker I'd been flirting with for a while in my car and couldn't get it up. Had an epiphany about my steadily increasing habit.
>results so far
Surprisingly easy. Went 5 days without getting a boner or any urges. Even panicked so much about it that I intentionally broke my streak just to see if my dick still worked (it did). Broke it again yesterday cos I took too much preworkout and it made me incredibly anxious (back when I was "healthier" fapping would chill me out a lot). Hoping to go 3+ weeks and then maybe return to once or twice a week for stress control.
>was it worth it
Feeling a lot better now im at 2 in 7 days as opposed to the usual 5+ a day.
am i the only one who has noticed almost no change at all? i've been on nofap for 16 days so far and the only change i've noticed is that i think more women are cute or hot. i haven't been happier, more confident or more motivated and i haven't even had any changes in libido. i won't be horny at all and then something will make me think about sex and then it sky rockets. has it just not been long enough?
Is it cumming, touching yourself or Porn that’s the main problem and can I speed up the recovery of noporn with any supplements
Give it longer.
All three are their own separate evils and they grow exponentially when combined.
All of the above
>18
>M
>13 days
>2 days
>Porn habit was spiralling out of control
>Getting the shorterm urges, they'll quiet down soon
>Don't know yet, sure as hell beats fapping my life away though
it's mostly cumming and porn that's the problem. porn does bad shit to your psyche that's pretty irrefutable and cumming does hormonal stuff that hasn't really been studied because of (((them))). touching yourself i.e. edging usually makes it harder to do nofap because it makes you hornier for longer and you sometimes cum on accident. you should really avoid all three if you can.
What app is this?
Join the army
12 weeks in, no boners/desire to fap
>age
19.
>gender
Male.
>current streak
26 days with 2 wet dreams so far.
>longest streak
26 days.
>why you started
My scalp feels itchy after ejaculation and I’m afraid of going bald. I also read some people thickened their hair around the 6th month mark.
>results so far
Nothing. I’ve made some changes to my diet and lifestyle and my dandruff and seborrheic dermatitis have almost cleared up, but I don’t think semen retention had any effect on those.
>was it worth it
Can’t tell yet, but porn is something I’ve always wanted to quit, but didn’t have a reason strong enough to do it until now.
HabitBull.
Ahh yes, I love blogposting.
My sister is coming home soon and I have a degenerate siscon fetish. I always fap when she's home but then I feel disgusted with myself and also disgusted looking at my whore of a sister (she sluts out at college, probably has a roastie vag). Trying to kill that fetish as well as fapping in general.
I'm back to day 2 right now. I'm clenching my teeth (possibly because of nofap, possibly because of trying to quit nicotine/alcohol too) and I took a bigg supplement stack this morning including zinc so today is extra hard. I'm just trying to keep my mind off my dick and this thread isn't helping but it's important to write your thoughts down so they're more tangible.
I wanna do it bros. First hump is the 3 day mark, then the 7 day mark, then the 2 week mark, then the month, 2 months, and then 3 months. I'm shooting for the full reset this time.
I actually did this for years to break many habits. It works wonders. I still do it if I need to. I think it's two things that make it work: 1) it makes you realize when you have a craving because you have to snap it and 2) your brain associates the craving with pain so it starts to send the signals that make you have the craving less and less.
Protip: the stronger the rubber band is the more it hurts and the more effective the treatment is.
post a photo of your sister so we know what to avoid masturbating to
;)
I was following her on Instagram before I went totally off the grid with social media. Some other user asked me to do this and believe me, I'm sure as shit not gonna dox myself. I appreciate the sentiment(?) though
>gene 2 weeks now
>longest streak yet
>no thoughts whatsoever until today
>suddenly balls hurt like hell after about q1 he of low arousal
Am I fogged if I don't release now guys?
No, it's your brain playing tricks on you. Power through to the end and you'll be better off
>age
19
>gender
M
>current streak
5 days
>longest streak
2 weeks or so
>why you started
Masturbation made me feel weak and devoid of willpower. Also I was addicted to a lot of degenerate fetishes like femdom, feet, hypnosis, chastity, pegging, etc. I'm hoping I can slowly alter my brain's wiring and be free of these horrible urges. Been dependent on pornography since I was in middle school and the stuff I viewed progressively got worse and worse. With the one girlfriend I had I could barely get it up unless she grabbed my hair and dominated me and even then when I got up to a half-chub I just went soft in her pussy anyway and couldn't even penetrate her. It was horrifyingly humiliating. When we finished trying I went to the bathroom to jerk-off and the thought of getting pinned down and pegged in the ass while in girl's clothing and makeup made me easily rock-hard and I came in two minutes. I realized how fucked my situation was right then and there.
Trying to break a curse, essentially.
>results so far
Some of my longer streaks have been the best I've felt in years. I just need to stay strong.
>was it worth it
It will be when I have a grip on these masturbation urges, can actually penetrate women and be aroused about fucking rather than being fucked.
my balls hurt right now from random erections help me brothers
>feet
>degenerate
It’s the result of your brain thinking they’re genitals and it’s the most common fetish.
>it's the most common fetish
not it really isn't
average bjork fan
noporn:
>age
18
>gender
male
>current streak
2 weeks
>longest streak
2 weeks
>why you started
2 weeks ago
>results so far
cutting of the addiction
>was it worth it
yeah
nofap:
>age
18
>gender
male
>current streak
2 hours
>longest streak
2 hours
>why you started
I thought that was enough for today
>results so far
fucking horny
>was it worth it
nope
>age
21
>gender
M
>current streak
1.5 days
>longest streak
2 days
>why you started
To try and help with my brain fog, apathy and general well being.
> results so far
just some urges
> was it worth it idk yet
bro i was sorta the same with my ex; i could never get it up and or cum, she even gave me a blowy for 2 hours and i still did not cum. granted the fact i was doing opiates pretty hard didnt help (clean for two years). I agree with you its so humiliating, after a disappointing sesh i always had to go to the bathroom and wank while thinking of degenerate shit and i would cum in like 3mins, shits fucked.
>age
22
>gender
M
>current streak
3 days
>longest streak
1.5ish weeks
>why you started
It made me feel better. More energetic and more like a real man. Jacking off is bad, who doesn't know that deep down? But it's the bad things that it does to a person mentally and physically that go unsung.
>results so far
Super horny, constant morning weed, occasional wet dreams, more confidence, feel more masculine, workouts are better, brain fog clears after about a week in and my mind only gets sharper (best benefit imo), learning discipline and impulse control
>was it worth it
My wang is as hard as a prosthetic leg
My dong tingles at the thought of a woman
And yet I put all my energy into other shit. It's like I've got a reservoir of energy that I've yet to fully tap into or learn to control, but when I do, I'll have great power over my sexual energy and be able to put it to good use
>age
26
>gender
M
>current streak
6 days
>longest streak
1 month
>why you started
Sensitivity is fucked, can't cum when I'm with a girl. Addicted to porn.
>results so far
I was single when I went 1 month but now that I have a girlfriend I'm trying to hold off. When will the sensitivity come back? I feel pathetic. Why can I only cum when I'm jerking off?
>was it worth it
We'll find out.
>2 hour blowjob and still didn't cum
Jesus I feel bad for your ex. She must have felt shitty too.
lmao dont be shes the only one that couldnt make me cum, she was pretty bad and my oxy addiction made it worse lol
My first blowjob when I was 17 was like this. She was doing it for a while but I wasn’t even close to cumming, that’s when I knew that nofap was right.
You're supposed to tell them what you like. It's your fault if it's still bad after that.
i'm on day 7 and i'm starting to feel disgusted by pictures of thots showing cleavage
They are thots. Tainted and unpure, they are. Oversaturation of male gazes has poisoned their mind, shown them the easy and pleasurable way to live, and has made them unworthy of love from a man of virtue.
Let no thot distract you. They only seek your destruction for their primitive and pitiful gain of vanity.
Are there any addons for my browser that will automatically censor pictures of naked women?
i don't think so. i have the nofap extension (which blocks nsfw subreddits too), and blocksite, with nsfw boards blocked, and google search on strict. when i browse blue boards i simply shift click hide all the naked/hot thumbnails in the catalog. so far so good, 3 weeks without a single lapse in pure thoughts.
Could you clarify this a bit more. How often do you snap it and how hard etc? Or just explain it a bit longer
>age
21
>gender
dinosaur
>current streak
12 days
>longest streak
50 days
>why you started
had ED, humiliated by myself 5 times before thinking "this shit isn't right, it must be porn." deleted all the porn using the shred command and then discovered Jow Forumsnofap and Jow Forumspornfree
>results so far
No more ED. Now i am justing doing nofap cuz I am away from my gf (another result) for 2 months and want to focus my energy on other things, besides being able to fuck her all day once I see her again.
>was it worth it
retarded question
Don't eat the eggs, they put something in it... to make you a-sexual... You didn't hear this from me...
how do you guys keep away the devilish urges? all I want to do right now is bang my gfs qt petite best friend and throw my life away. I know its not worth it yet I have been flirting with her way more and I need to stop. I don't want to jerk off because I love this boost of confidence and flirty energy I have now but me and my GFs sex life has plummeted and this new outlet is amazing to me. wat do
>I know its not worth it
You answered your own question, user. The reason your sex life sucks is because you want to fuck your girlfriend's best friend. Why not put more effort into fucking your girlfriend?
Fucking SNAP IT. And only do it when you get a craving or bad thoughts flow into your head. That's how the association builds.
Go hard on it. After a while, it'll become second nature to snap the band. I've broken plenty of rubber bands with that technique but it works if you have the correct mindset. Pain is bad, and bad thoughts cause you physical pain, which is a VERY potent weapon against impulse.
Think about slavery. You're a bad slave? You get 20 lashes. It's been a method throughout history for control over yourself and others. It works, but you also need to do it to yourself, which I think is very important. Really drives home the thought that "fuck me, why do I do this to myself," you know?
whats wrong with your girlfriend? maybe address that
I feel bad for your girlfriend, having a shit best friend and a shit boyfriend.
This
>age
24
>gender
M
>current streak
2 days
>longest streak
15 days
>why you started
Same as these guys. Had ED and ruined my chances with this girl I loved. It's been confusing but enlightening to learn that I can get a 10 into the bedroom but I can't even get it in because I'm so deep into porn addiction.
>results so far
I always get worried that I rarely get hard and break just to "check if it works." Threads like this give me hope to keep going.
>was it worth it
It cost everything
I came into this thread because I started dating someone that's experiencing what some of you guys are. I'm trying to understand it better so I don't take his issues personally. What happened with your girlfriend?
College crush moves away, admits I was her crush so we keep talking online for almost a year. One day we get the chance to meet.
Whatever I did actually works. Cut to us in her bedroom on the second date. I feel so fucking awesome, despite having zero experience. Not only do I like everything about her, she's seriously hot. We get to business quickly, I cooly unhook her bra and she smells and feels so fucking good. Then..
It just doesn't work.
This is everything I wanted, yet nothing like I ever expected. We try so hard but nothing happens. I see the look of disappointment in her eyes, my brain is fucking racing because I have no idea what to do and it's so much to take in. I want to please her so much, I'm so upset with myself. I keep trying until she says she's not into it, then I make a big mistake and keep touching her until I realize nothing will happen. We end the night spooning and she seems to be cool about it despite confusion in the air.
In my head, I struggle with HOCD so this really fucks with me. This was my one chance to feel like a man and I feel like a failure for not being able to give it to her. It might sound silly but this really strikes the core of my identity. Days later I admit to her I'm a virgin in an attempt to clear everything up, but she seems indifferent.
It was a confusing and upsetting experience for the both of us, and she grew cold and decided that I made her too uncomfortable and blocked me online. Now I'm alone in this and feeling rejected once again.
It's so complex this doesn't do what happened justice. I'm glad I had this experience and confronted my fears, and now I'm looking for someone less judgmental than she turned out to be. Obviously have a lot of work to do on myself.
So if your man is anything like me please understand that you're not doing anything wrong and if you have patience and love to give that's what he needs. ED is a very isolating and confusing issue and you have the power to help him, if he's trying to help himself.
The last thing I wanted was for her to take it personally, I knew that immediately.
does anyone else use fapping as a way of 'resetting' ? how do you get over this?
like if i've had a not great string of days I use fapping as a way of symbolically 'resetting', whatever that means. starting with a clean slate.
I wish I could find something else I could do to symbolically reset but I can't think of anything.
You have to realize that you aren't resetting, or giving yourself a clean slate. You're regressing back to a comfortable place at the expense of you future. You need to replace this with an action like taking a shower and getting 8 hours sleep.
Day 7
Is it bad if I look at one photo of a milf like once a day but dont touch my dick at all?
I cant resist it bros its the only kind of porn i watch and only a nipple is showing
Jow Forums is making me gay, so I'm doing nofap to get rid of the gay.
you're reinforcing your bad habit, and you will eventually go back to your old ways. make it easy on yourself and go cold turkey. your allowed to check out women in the street but THAT'S IT. and that will be the hottest thing you see all day, just as it should be. soon you will go out of your way to do things where it's more likely to see women, engage with them, just being a MAN around them. this is healthy. what you're doing is not.
Broadband, Nogales makes me feel lonely.
I'm on my second week right now.
Everytime I reach around the second week I lose all interest in porn and fapping. My libido just vanishes but I become really sad, Never been with a woman and I'm 25. I'm getting old lads, time will pass by so fast... The fuck happened
>age
29
>gender
M
>current streak
28
>longest streak
Probably this one, but there was another that was close if not longer during military training, just didn't count days
>why you started
I'm addicted to it, like daily multi-hour sessions. It got to the point where it was disrupting my professional responsibilities, and the high/low of needing something to hide from/cope with life is hell.
>results so far
The most surprising results were physical. I'm also on a pretty drastic cut. Ten pounds in I've noticed that I'm losing the fat differently. I put fat on all over and grew a true gut while fapping and living poorly. I'm losing fat almost exclusively from my stomach and love handles (which are almost gone now). I'm keeping it on my biceps and shoulders. This is giving me a nice v-taper, and while it may just be the fat loss I swear my jawline looks better now that I've stopped fapping. My lifts went up too. Also, more energy, clearer mind, and better/more stable mood. I discovered that I also get alcohol cravings if I relapse. Quiting alcohol was difficult, but eventually the cravings stopped. Its interesting that they come back with fapping.
>was it worth it
Absolutely. Take it from an aging millennial, you waste your life one day at a time. One weekend wasted to fapping blows a whole week. Weeks easily turn into months. You get complacent, and before you know it a few years have passed with nothing to show for it.
My dear brother, fellow hocd sufferer here. Had the same experience, femdom porn gave me hocd. It is soul destroying i know. Keep fighting, cut out compulsions and stop fapping. If you need someone to help you with ocd google Mark freeman
I fapped twice and felt too anxious to go to my doctors appointment so I cancelled it... can anybody relate to this?
Shit nigger I feel ya. Had almost a carbon-copy situation happen to me.
We're all gonna make it.
It's been sixteen hours.
I'm not gonna make it.
Leave a mark on your wrist whenever you snap it. Wear a nice watch to cover it up though. SNap it anytime you think of anything remotely close to porn, masturbation, or anything you deem degenerate or hedonistic.
She just doesn't want to fuck nearly as much anymore. We've been together for awhile and recently moved in and since then it just seems like it's all gotten way too comfortable and there's no more sexual energy. I've tried revitalizing things and keeping things interesting and it all works temporarily but then we just sink back into a slump. The whole reason I'm starting nofap is because I've been jerking off way too much because of this very fact. It sucks and I'm a shit person for doing what I'm doing but combining this with nofap is literally driving me insane. Plus the fact that me and her friend have a very good relationship and that we all hang out alot really doesn't help.
You're right, and hearing it helps, but then the urges from nofap just come back and all rationality goes out the window.
Dick Denial December
Disavow Degeneracy December
I'll make more.
>18
>f
>2 days
>6 days
>testing self control at first, now improving sleep/time management
>this is like my 20th attempt, results are immediate as in that I sleep more and better - I tend to masturbate all throughout the night if I do not stop myself
>its worth it every time, its never worth it to break my streak
Also this time I really believe I can do it. I made a con-list and I read it to myself out loud every time I again think about masturbating. So far it has worked while most of my other attempts I broke after a couple of hours.
Just sit down with your girlfriend and tell her that you want to fuck her best friend.
I don't know for sure what's going to happen, but it can only be hilarious to hear about, so make sure you report back.
Are there any other physical benefits you've noticed as a girl aside from sleeping better because you're not fingering your clit all night? Like brain fog clearing or workouts being better? For men supposedly it improves test which has a number of benefits but I have no idea how it affects women
Also, obligatory:
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>age
18
>gender
M
>current streak
2 months
>longest streak
9 months
>why you started
Found out reading ecchi is a lot more enjoyable when I don't fap. Soon after I noticed that not only reading was a lot better, but life overall.
>results so far
Got over my anxiety for the most part. Studying became a lot easier as I had some self discipline.
>was it worth it
Definitely. Although my libido has decreased too, which I'm not too happy about. At least it has made the whole thing heck of a lot easier, I must say.
>Are there any other physical benefits
Honestly not really for me but maybe because I haven't done it for long enough.
>Like brain fog clearing
Gee, if only.
Is this typical among nofappers?
If I fap, I can’t do anything social. Can’t make eye contact, get generally anxious, feel exhausted and weak. Workouts suck, if I even manage to leave the house. I’ve avoided going to class before because of the anxiety. I’ll also end up eating shitty and fapping another 7 times.
If I don’t fap for a while, I’ll become more sociable and friendly and pretty much opposite of what I mentioned above.
I become similar to you but I know its because of what porn I'm fapping to. If it was more vanilla type porn then I wouldn't feel nearly as shitty afterwards.
I recently figured this out too except it’s just not as bad when I fap to something that feels more normal, the only difference being I can go out to do what I need to, but tell contact and conversation are still pretty shitty. I haven’t made more than 3 days in a long time, it’s about time I just focusing stop this shit
I know what you mean. I haven't lasted long either since my best days where I've done a few months, some a month long and others nearly a month. Its odd since the older I get the harder it seems to become to not just fap and watch porn.
I wanna suck on that nose
That’s definitely the case with me. Started at 19, was generally doing a week-2 weeks but could hit a month. Now that I’m 23 it seems hard to go more than a couple days
I was in the exact same situation 4 months ago. I could cum but it would take 30+ minutes and I struggled heavily with maintaining and erection to the point the anxiety about having sex would kill my chances of staying hard before I even started. You just have to push through it and it takes time, it’s almost like re learning and re defining your entire sexuality and it’s difficult when all you ever did was watch fucked up shit and jerked off every day. You kind of have to learn to be attracted to a real girl and learn to love how actual sex feels and let go of all that anxiety about sex and your “performance”. The biggest thing is absolutely not watching porn and not jerking off. This process requires you to reset and re wire your brain and every time you go back to those old habits it fucks up your progress big time. You have to avoid those things that your brain is wired to respond to(seductive imagines, whatever gives you urges to watch porn and masturbate), and have a plan on how to deal with those urges when they arise. It takes time to recover from all that fucked up bullshit porn and jerking off does to your brain. After 4 months of trying my best to stick to the plan and improve I have made massive improvements with maintaining an erection(and keeping it rock hard) and cumming. I am finally starting to learn what it’s like to truly enjoy sex and women. I am far from perfect though, I still struggle with my past issues and have a long way to go. I still break down and watch porn and jerk off now and then and every time I fuck up and do that it messes up my progress a ton, but it’s only temporary, I just have to stay on track. I have no idea how long this process takes and how long it will take to truly free myself from all that bullshit but i’m trying my best to make progress every single day and I know for sure there is no fucking way i’m going back to my old ways. Good luck and godspeed user.
>age
26
>gender
M
>current streak
3 months of nofap (6months of noporn, only fapped re-imagining girls I am fucking)
>longest streak
dis one
>why you started
I fapped for almost 4-5h straight maybe more one night, went to work all sleep-deprived. Looked myself in the mirror and realised I was desecrating my own body for absolutely no reason other than my own cowardice
>results so far
Completely relate to the "feeling broken" anxiety thing. My libido works very differently now I'd say, it's more emotional based. For instance remembering this girl I fucked squirting on my cock makes me diamond hard whereas just watching a hot ass on a screen leaves me sorta unphased. Thinking about porn really puts me off mentally, although I do know the taboo allure is still there from time to time. Also, fucking girls is now more out of my own actual desire. In hindsight, all this time I think I was fucking girls to "escape" the masturbation routine. Now I want to get a girl cause I crave seeing them drunk on my cock, and getting them to gently kiss my neck while exhausted after we're done. My brain immediately goes to the tiny details and how much I enjoy them
>was it worth it
Heck yea
>PROTIP
Stop with porn first. Completely. Maybe consider getting some low-dose pregnenolone and DHEA. I can get into some more details if anons are interested, but fundamentally most guys would be better off taking both (in the correct dosage)
Godspeed fellow anons
>age
26
>gender
male
>current streak
8 days
>longest streak
about 2 and a half weeks. I was addicted to a game, so I didn't notice.
>why you started
Stopped drinking about 2 weeks ago, and I decided to better myself with working out and nofap. Want my power to be maximum
>results so far
It's okay. Nothing too major. Have slight urges.
>was it worth it
Too early to tell.
20 M here
Considering ending a 4~ month streak tonight (started somewhere in August)
Convince me to stay strong or end it
Why did you started NoFap?
My honest reason? To try and get with my oneitis, I am really beta/nervous whenever she is around, I also do believe women can sense pheromones.
Whether or not I break tonight also doesn't change my belief that sitting in your room masturbating is pointless and will accomplish nothing
24
Male
22 days
I think longest was 36 a few years ago
Started because I know deep down that if I don't I'll never have a good sex life and maybe never gain the motivation to get another gf. Perhaps not until I'm in my 30s and the social pressures become too much. I've had ED with every girl. I also feel like I missed out on making the most of my horniest years so I'm looking to rectify that
Not a lot of results, just a way more responsive dick. I probably think about sex less than before, probably because I'm not filling my brain with porn, but when I do I seem to get erections. I do think anything else is a bit of a placebo but if it works, more power to you.
It's been worth it. Meditation and being a bit older help. Deep down porn isn't what I want and that's something I always keep in mind
yeah that's true, I need to start looking at it as always a step back instead of resetting
>My honest reason? To try and get with my oneitis, I am really beta/nervous whenever she is around
I have always treated women like men, so I can’t give any input; but if after 4 months it hasn’t helped at all, you’d be a fool to think it will.
>I also do believe women can sense pheromones.
In my longest streak, which was around 2 months, I didn’t notice any change with how women act when I’m around them; they have always liked me, and that didn’t increase or diminish.
>Whether or not I break tonight also doesn't change my belief that sitting in your room masturbating is pointless and will accomplish nothing
You’re absolutely right; if you’re trying to get women, you should experience the pleasures that sex/masturbation/orgasm provide only by having sex with them, so you have another reason to change your attitude towards them. If you masturbate, you’ll stay the same because you’re telling your body you don’t need girls.
I agree with you, problem is after about the 2nd month, Idk if I'm just low T but I feel I almost turn asexual, do I still want to get with women? Of course but I could also do NoFap till I die, it's easy mode after the 1st month, maybe it's my mindset? I have no clue (could be just a long flatline)
When I'm on NoFap for 2 weeks I feel like I NEED to talk to women
That's actually the problem, simulating your fantasies are what's messing with you.
How did your experience go?
>I agree with you, problem is after about the 2nd month, Idk if I'm just low T but I feel I almost turn asexual, do I still want to get with women? Of course but I could also do NoFap till I die, it's easy mode after the 1st month
Haha, I actually wish I were in your shoes. Nevertheless, it’s odd. I broke my 2 month streak because I was so horny I couldn’t take having 3 wet dreams in the span of 4 days. Do you ejaculate during your sleep?
>maybe it's my mindset? I have no clue (could be just a long flatline)
Do you interact with women? Do you think about them? I think about women while on NoFap. My wet dreams and high libido are probably the result of doing that.
>When I'm on NoFap for 2 weeks I feel like I NEED to talk to women
Have you talked to your oneitis? Have you actually made any progress with women in general? From what you’ve told me, it seems you’re resisting that urge that NoFap gives you to talk to women; so it doesn’t matter if you feel the need if you don’t act on it.
Why do I repeatedly fail nofap?
>Do you ejaculate during your sleep?
Yeah I would say every 3 days? Rough guess, I definitely leak almost every night
>I broke my 2 month streak because I was so horny
Do you only get hornier? Did you have any flatlines leading up to the 2 months?
>Do you interact with women? Do you think about them?
You have no idea, I have a 6th sense now when I can feel them nearby lmao, I do interact and I'm a lot better at staying confident now, but I don't have a lot of interest in pursuing any of them, she's always on my mind however.
>Have you talked to your oneitis? Have you actually made any progress with women in general?
Hard to say, in general? Probably not, with my oneitis, definitely. We text daily, and I'm a lot more flirty In general with her. Won't be seeing her for a while hence the streak breaking idea, maybe it will affect my texts?
>it seems you’re resisting that urge that NoFap gives you to talk to women
I reckon I could definitely seal the deal with a girl at a bar if I really wanted to, I just don't have a lot of interest in doing so.
Oneitis really fucks with your head
>>age
29
>>gender
Male
>>current streak
6 hrs
>>longest streak
18 days
>>why you started
Don't really know. I'm a new dad and I fap to go to sleep during the day when the baby is somewhere else, but I'm just meh about it all. I work at night btw. I want to stop because I'm too old for this shit.
>>results so far
No sweats, no anxiety, dick seems to shrink a bit, can't last long in bed, still hard after cumming tho, can't sleep, recovery from lifts are good, seem psycho level of calm all the time, and wife notices my ass more. Oh, and less bitchy overall
>>was it worth it
Fapping, not really. Was finally able to get my steam controller to connect to my phone so I tried out some 3D vids which led to porn. Thus fapping to sleep. Doesn't help sleep at all and I edge too much.
Nofap, kinda yes. I find myself reading more and doing more chores to break up the idle time. Baby girl seems less annoying and I'm more chill. Might too it to see if I'll drop back to virgin status.
Didn't fap for 13 weeks while at boot camp. Didn't notice much of a difference. Wasn't a big deal at all.
why don't you talk to your girl before you do something you might regret? do you want to salvage the relationship? maybe your gf has issues herself that she isnt upfront about. COMMUNICATE BRO
And how often do you normally?
>>age
40
>>gender
Male
>>current streak
48 days
>>longest streak
48 days
>>why you started
I was tired of feeling lethargic and depressed all the time. Nofap has fixed this for the most part.
>>results so far
No anxiety. I've stopped stuttering. More and more women have come up to me and started small talk conversations. I also find it easier to say no to people when I don't want to do things I don't want to do.
>>was it worth it
Yeah, thus far. Coming up on 2 months pretty fast here.
>Yeah I would say every 3 days? Rough guess, I definitely leak almost every night
>You have no idea, I have a 6th sense now when I can feel them nearby lmao, I do interact and I'm a lot better at staying confident now, but I don't have a lot of interest in pursuing any of them, she's always on my mind however.
You’ve left me puzzled. I have no idea why you feel so asexual then.
>Do you only get hornier? Did you have any flatlines leading up to the 2 months?
No flatlines. It seems to keep getting worse. I had 2 wet dreams today. Today I performed calf raises and got aroused.
>Hard to say, in general? Probably not, with my oneitis, definitely. We text daily, and I'm a lot more flirty In general with her. Won't be seeing her for a while hence the streak breaking idea, maybe it will affect my texts?
Bingo, don’t fap then. If she has reciprocated your advances, it appears she can become an integral part of your life. I wouldn’t risk messing up going from being shy around her to flirting and texting her, seeing that by the way you write about her you crave her. With the development you’ve made, she’ll most likely be yours.
i am going to go en further beyond nofap
nofap works because by cutting out masturbation and porn as a huge dopamine source, you appreciate the little things in life
so i'm applying nofap to video games, alcohol, internet browsing, TV, sugar etc etc.
wish me luck going monastery mode
Any luck with women? Fuckin 39 here, don't wanna be the 40 yo virgin