So I spent the past year getting fit, getting contacts, new haircut, etc.
I notice that whenever i go out several girls are checking me out, but i spent the past 20+ years of my life being an autist without female attention.
How do i reap the benefits of my work and get qt girls? I was a loser before self improvement so i had no social network, how do i approach strangers?
make eye contact
smile
gauge reaction
approach and start a conversation
Go out places by yourself occasionally so you have an excuse to stand/sit by another stranger. Go somewhere where you know women congregate, like yoga, to increase your chances.
go up to them and just be yourself bro
Treat girls like you don't want to fuck them, to fuck them. If you are both into each other it should be fairly obvious and sex is already mutually agreed upon in your heads you just have to act normal enough for a few hours or until you get to the point where you can have sex. I'm not ugly so I've never really had to go through the whole picking girls up thing where you have to convince them. Try watching one of those cringe videos for that. In short just talk to them, act normal and if it's not happening just move on.
You're a good guy bro, just b urself :)
>fresh memes
>be yourself
>approach female humanoid creature
>flex as hard as possible to be most mireable
>squeeze a wet fart between my highly trained glutes from the effort
>try to smile, but feel the sweat appearing on my brow
>the ass air strikes my butt hair like vocal cords
>try to cough to hide the imminent butt trombone
>can't cough properly because trying so hard to smile
>launch projectile ooze through my teeth
>try to walk it off
>moving my buttcheeks changes the fart pitch
>makes the metal gear alert sound
>see a nearby toilet
>run forrest
>look like autistic michael jackson
>reach the toilet
>open the door
>everyone walk the dinosaur
top kek
based and redpilled
>tfw did this in hs and it made girls want to fuck me but I really didn't want to fuck them and eventually i just got peer pressure raped and now I'm used goods
>peer pressure raped
didn't know we were on tumblr
Bro I've been practicing talking to girls since i was 14, I've probably been rejected more times than you have even spoke to a girl, now you decided to dust yourself off you think you can just utter some magic spell and get sloppy pus? No you gotta go put yourself out there, stop being a pussy go do the shit that makes you scared and reap the benefits. Yes you will get rejected and sometimes it will hurt but it's not that bad because at least you know you tried and put yourself out there
You're probably just gay
Polite Conversation.
If women are in fact checking you out (doesn't matter if they are older, heavier, not your type) take the first step and initiate the conversation. >"Is there something you wanted to ask me?"
>"I can't ignore someone like you trying to get my attention"
>"Do I have something on my shirt?"
I know I was fearful of rejection but women are just as afraid when men approach them. Almost always we are bigger and stronger than them, and to subconsciously show vulnerability to her by asking her questions, paying her a bit of attention and being polite/well spoken will quickly lower her guard a little. Start small by practicing on elderly women, then women that aren't your type, eventually you can even make a supermodel giggle and that was my goal every time I would approach a woman, make her giggle, not out of nervousness but to genuinely make her smile, who doesn't like that. Go beyond small talk, women appreciate a man who is confident about topics, for example, talk about ridiculous words you hear people use, I heard some British politician say Brexit was a 'shambolic' mess (means in shambles) but for real like who talks like that. Keep practicing and you'll be the charming man you see yourself as.
Talking to people is a skill. No amount of advice from anyone will magically make you better at it. Start talking to women in low risk situations like at a club or anywhere else where you don't know the people there. You will probably be awkward a few times until you get it right your first time. Then you'll be awkward some more until you get it right again, and eventually you will be less and less awkward and it will be easy.
Hard cringe
Soft cringe
ya i fucked up the arrow lol
> “I can’t ignore someone like you trying to get my attention.”
> t. 15 year old
Im 23 but nice cope
Literally just talk for the sake of talking. Women love to be complimented, so something as simple as cold approaching and telling her that you think she is cute and that you wanted an excuse to talk to her will get you good results at some point. There will definitely be som girls who are not really into it and think its a bit weird, but I've been practicing that and I've already gotten a few numbers and gone on some dates this semester.
The paradox seems to be that you cannot be so focused on the end goal when you approach them, ie, fucking them. It will result in inauthentic and seemingly manipulative behavior. I think the trick is to be completely secure with yourself and to just talk to them with no goal or expectations in mind. Women know what you want, so being completely honest and direct will put you in a flow state where you can just be doing exactly what you want all the time without feeling the need to present yourself as someone you're not.
Stand up straight
Clean your room
Retract your scapula
Firm handshake
Holy shit im praying that this is some sort of next level trolling
I highly doubt you'll meet women in the street so cold approaching is useless. If you meet girls at work/college/over friends Im willing to bet that you're not THAT retarded that you can't just ask a girl some basic question or initiate conversation with her. If she finds you physically attractive she will gladly talk to you, maybe even be the one that starts the convo. If not, don't bother.
Thank you for your encouragement based chad.
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