I hope she messages me happy bday tomorrow. i really do

I hope she messages me happy bday tomorrow. i really do

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OP, no one really cares but happy birthday anyways. Good luck.

I know no one cares, I don't blame them

i'm just afraid i'm going to act erratically and it will end badly

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Does she often message you OP? If she doesn't, tomorrow will just be another Monday for her.

she probably wont
and your happiness in life shouldnt be decided by if she does

>gf and I break up for a day a 2 months ago and get back together the next
>Convince her to give it another try
>Said she can't promise to fall in love with me
>Things go great and she told me that it was her rape PTSD that was the problem, not me
>Didn’t have sex since the first break up because of her PTSD and wasn’t seeking therapy for it either
>Starts neglecting me and our relationship, thought it was because she's moving house
>Starts being flaky, not making plans and taking hours to reply to texts
>When I went through her phone before this happened she had a photo of her ex saved and a bunch of lingerie/ass shots with her wearing her Halloween wig and hiding her face on there too
>Notice her ex boyfriend is also her most looked up account on her Instagram
>When I helped her move, she talked to her friends but barely said a word to me
>Said she was too tired and busy to see me the next day, but it turned out that she had a party she was going to but didn't tell me
>Tell her how I felt and that the lack of effort she's put in lately hurt my feelings
>Wouldn't have even cared if she told me she had a party to go to and couldn't see me
>She blows up on me and said I was being possessive/controlling
>I've always given her space and don't bother her when she's out with friends/parties
>Said that she shouldn't have to tell me everything she's doing or why she can't see me, even though I never meant it like that and couples shouldn't hide their plans
>Said that it's concerning that I act this way and that she felt scared
>Day later
>Apologize because I made her feel bad and was afraid of break up
>Said she's not romantically invested in me and that I want more from her than what she can give me
>Tell her I feel led on because she said things were fine and because she acted like normal with me
>She told me she can't risk being in a controlling relationship again (was in the past) and that wanting to see her at least once a week is "too much"

1/2

Wish my mom cared about me too

why is board turning into r9k

she does sporadically but the gap between has been longer this time

2/2
>Remind her that I literally give her time to do the things she needs/wants to do and never dictate how she uses her time
>Also remind her that I never stopped he being friends with her ex or having a male personal trainer
>Says I've been very accommodating with her, but it "just isn't working out"
>Said she still feels pressured, even if there isn't any
>Dumps me through text where we were having this talk
>Says she really wants me to be her friend because she thinks I'm a great person, but she just can't see me as anything but platonic
>Have some time to think and talk with my gym buddies and Jow Forums
>Explain everything
>In the back of my head, I always had a feeling she had intimacy problems because of her past relationships (chased this one guy hard, but he never gave a shit and told her to fuck off because he couldn't hide it anymore, ex LTR never put her first/gave her attention, cared about her family gatherings and was willing to move overseas without her coming at one point because he wanted it so bad)
>Without even mentioning that, both said the same thing
>Piece it together
>Realize she has commitment and intimacy issues
>She wants to chase, but never be chased
>Confront her about this
>Basically backs this up because she mentions there was a push and pull problem in this relationship
>Tell her she needs help because she clearly has problems because of these old relationship, probably her dad etc
>Tells me we shouldn't talk for a bit for the good of us, that I'm just mad
>Block her before she can and haven't talked to her since

The more I read back the more I realize I did nothing wrong, but I still feel like shit. Wtf is wrong with her? Is asking to spend time with the person you’ve been seeing a while a bad thing? How do I get over this, Jow Forums? This was the first girl I trusted romantically in almost 4 years.

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happy birthday faggot, she is busy sucking alfa dick, stop day dreaming about a whore

>and your happiness in life shouldnt be decided by if she does
Oh well. It can't be helped

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As someone who was cheated on for months on end with who knows how many other dudes, you have to remember exactly one thing:

She's a woman

And thats not to pull any "incel" bullshit out either. She is one woman out of the many, many, many multitudes of women out there, while you have to be stuck with yourself for eternity. Truly understand you did nothing wrong towards the end and your emotions WERE justified. Once you can truthfully say that to yourself, leave her blocked and forget she ever existed, like dust in the wind.

Happy birthday user!

I can't just stop thinking of her, she's the only one who was ever interested in me in spite of my hideous face and stunted mental/social ability

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Oh god.... my birthday is the end of this month and I was thinking the same thing. I don’t even know why I want her to, I feel mostly over her... it’s like I don’t want her to be over me even though I know that’s not fair

happy birthday user

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You trusted a person you shouldn't have, whatever it is you know you cant go back to her, that is the worst choice period. You are not blameless you put faith into something with not reason to have faith in it (ergo - faith) but even after being shown several pieces of evidence not to trust her you still went through with it, or maybe you don't and didn't trust her. Maybe if you did the things you say you did, you wouldn't have to tell her that you do them, or tell us either. There is a huge hole in your green text that maybe could be addressed by some simple honesty and modesty.

thanks but I'm afraid it won't be happy

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you sound like low T gym meat. I hope she doesn't message you. it'll convince you not to be a pussy.

Why would it not be happy?

Are two words too much to ask? It'll be like a stab in the heart if someone cares so little of you they would avoid doing that.

How many people did you go out of your way to tell happy birthday this year?

I did get T tested and it came back just above the normal range. that was the second time, first time was below normal.

>Wtf is wrong with her?

Who knows man, you guys just aren't compatible. But there are good girls out there, try your best to meet some new people

He'd probably just kill himself from the sound of it

Its my birthday tomorrow too, Op. Happy birthday big guy

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Well I told it to everyone I know. 4 people.

Lmao you’re a cuck
Don’t ever talk to her again and move the fuck on retard

Do something and enjoy your birthday no matter what. It only comes once a year, don't let one message dictate whether it's a good birthday or not.

There isn't much for me to enjoy

you dodged a serious bullet user

My GF didn’t send me a message or see me for my bday. She completely forgot. The shit part is her gay Best friend and I have the same bday and she remembered that faggots bday and spent the day with him and even posted on IG about it. My bday was on Friday and we’ve been “together” since May. I’m going to remind her tomorrow

Women are programmable vectors of nature, designed to select worthy males to the future to pass along their genetic information ahead

Forget the feelz user, women will never love the cute, but the grand and the majestic, embrace the iron

Happy birthday

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>Getting cucked by a "gay" guy
lmao

>"gay" best friend

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I hope FB reminds her if she forgot. She is a bit forgetful

I hope she does user

I got a bunch more than I thought I would for mine yesterday

You were acting like a beta bitch, and she didn't respect you. That's why she went to the party and didn't tell you. She just called you controlling because that's what bitches do when they know they're in the wrong but they want to blame you anyway. Hell, you fucked up even talking to her after she broke up for a day.

Stop giving a fuck about girls. Even if you do give a fuck, don't act like it. It'll drive them crazy.

You don't have a girlfriend anymore. Block the bitch, and move on.

do FB remind people? 2 years and i got no birthday wish from my friends. ironically two stranger wish me a happy birthday. i think it has a bug that it doesnt tell people your birthday

You fucked up by letting her feel like she's in the right. All girls want is to feel justified about dropping some dude even if its through delusion

I'm not an expert, but it should remind your friends if your birthday is set to that privacy setting

I'm sorry son, you're in for a world of pain

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you were acting like a fucking doormat and what women in their right mind would ever stay with that? you reckon shes gonna tell you straight up the problems bro? she is a fucking women.... got bad news for you bro women do the chasing they got fucking 50 guys on the snapchat right now asking how their day goes. live and learn bro

>while you sit alone, waiting for a birthday message
>she's out sucking on chad's appendage

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This. Allowing a woman feel she's right is a potent weapon in your arsenal, similar to nukes. Use sparingly.

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Umami is based

I’m not her, but happy early birthday bud