How do you gain self control?

you should kill yourself you unfunny cookie cutter inbred faggot
you

Sorry I didn't use their preferred pronoun.

You can start by not opening this thread because you saw two chicks bumping tongues. Oh wait...

Le every girl is a trap xd.

Fuck off back to /b fag.

Lads

I texted my ex-gf drunk telling her i miss talking to her.
She replied that she too misses the conversations with me.
Told her yesterday evening to come on over and let us talk.
She replied with "right now i'm working. but i fer something unfortonate might happen"
Didn't even go into detail on that and just asked to tell me if she has time
To which she replied " i will" and some more than happy emoji thingy

Now, is she still down to fuck? Is she actually hoping for something unlucky to happen but phrased it so she wouldn't have a bad conscious?

don't lie to yourself

what do you want to come out of this? she is probably hoping for a relationship

I want a relationship
If that is what she is hoping for, that'd be straying away from how she has been in the last months
Fucking with me for a month, telling me that she fucked with someone else after that month and her basically not admitting to herself there's still something for me

But yeah, i want her

Its the only way I deal with the loneliness user.

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>Fucking with me for a month, telling me that she fucked with someone else after that month
sounds like she does not have much respect for you, user.

She might not, which is why i'd try to demote her to "just a hole" if i'm not getting something for my heart
At least it seems to get easy pussy... shame i have to say that even

>shame i have to say that even
don't be ashamed. take is as a lesson learned. she never will respect you and care about that heart if you don't respect yourself.

So... fuck one last time, tell her to get the fuck out if she doesn't want the complete me?

it's practice.

best starting point? get off Jow Forums.

I want a three way kissing session with girls like that
is that based lads?

very based, especially if they keep kissing like that and you stick your dick in there haha

Honestly she does respect him she just wanted attention

I’m a girl I do it too

He probably never even had a gf don’t listen to him

Huh?

That's one shitty way user

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fuck that, she already cheated on you.
my concern would be to not have the same thing happen with the next girl that comes your way.

you might have a thing for people that don't really want you or care for you in the first place..

Technically she didn't cheat as we were over a month-ish broken up

I might yeah, always choose the broken ones it seems and all i want to do is help those who can't be helped
But eh in this case
I'll give it to her one more time, remind her
And be done

oh and i'll see her at friday at a party so there's that
Gonna ignore the hell out of her

a similar thing happened to me lately but fuck it, I'm done. not giving time to people who do not return the full favor.

have fun, user.

If you know a way to get that state of mind into my brain, i'd suck your dick user

I'll think about this the next days...

she wants to be your friend. staying in contact with her will cause you much more pain than it's worth.

I know she does user, told her a lot of times i don't and well, fucked her and let it be at that
She'd be alright with fucking even, but i want her at my side not, well, me in her side so to speak

>I'll think about this the next days...
about sucking my dick?

ok, just kidding also - don't have one. It has taken me a while but what you can start with is just be aware of your deal breakers. No matter how good the pussy is, be ready to walk when she doesn't respect your boundaries. treat her like a child - don't reward bad behavior. good luck.

Don't need to treat her like one as she is acting like one, sadly

If anything and saying this make me feel kinde eh, i'll try to distance myself through fucking her
Weird thing to say but, if she's playing those wishy washy games with me after some months, she doesn't deserve the full me and all i want is to get my dick wet so yeah

In order to have self control, you must first have self control. So explain why it is you have no self control to have self control, OP?

>she is acting like one, sadly
what she does doesn't matter. stay focused on yourself. your reactions are the only thing under your control, user.
>all i want is to get my dick wet
comes across as needy still but whatever

>your reactions are the only thing under your control, user.
Right now i'm a bit pathetic if anything
>comes across as needy still but whatever
It does doesn't it, she's probably getting off of the idea that i text her, that i will still fall for her and whatnot

Oh god what am i even doing

>she's probably getting off of the idea that i text her, that i will still fall for her and whatnot
not necessarily. it's up to you know. people can be given a second chance if they change. by change I mean if they stop stepping over your boundaries.
I'd suggest not sleeping with her when you see her if you can.. make her earn your dick again. make this your learning playground, if anything.

>Right now i'm a bit pathetic if anything
I'll leave you with this - just stop. try something different. what bad can that do? start now.

>I'd suggest not sleeping with her when you see her if you can.. make her earn your dick again.
Would mean fighting this inner urge to just not act upon the heavy lust i feel when i look her a second into her eyes

>I'll leave you with this - just stop. try something different. what bad can that do? start now.
Life is too short to be hung up on the past isn't it?
Thanks a bunch user, was nice talking to ya
Have a nice one!

>Would mean fighting this inner urge to just not act upon the heavy lust i feel when i look her a second into her eyes
I am glad I can control this tho. It is a hell of a power.

Have a nice one!
>I'm off to gym so I will.
you can check out mindful attraction on yt. guy has a lot of good advice. take care, user!

I will and thanks again!

Thanks for this.

This is how /pol9k/ incels really think!

>texted her i miss talking to her.
>is she still down to fuck?
Make up your mind, man.

False

Lipstick lesbians don't exist

Stop trying to cover your desire for companionship and love with "is she dtf". Go find a new gf, it'll save you more trouble than going down the same road again.

Not a shill but I suggest every man who wants to regain control of their women to read “being a 3% man.” Book is worth a read and it’s prob on a torrent somewhere for free.

Gib me pls

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lmao @ autists like this
Any man I know that has read this is an obnoxious child that thinks they're "alpha" because they managed to pull roadkill and rainbow dykes as a result of this manly teachings.
and the author requests you read it 15 times.
also back to Jow Forumstrp with you pal

It is like asking how you gain strength, you don't all at once you just repeatedly do the same thing until you see the results.

Discipline is like that, I have poor tendencies, but I refuse to be discouraged every time I fail I reset and go again, eventually it becomes hard wired into your brain and your desired attributes are habit rather than self control.

>those perfect juicy slightly veiny tits
fuuuuuug

>Incel
Fucking christ. Where do you retards come from?

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>just do it brah!
go back to Jow Forums

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Gross, why are they licking each other's tongues?
Anyway, for self control, nothing is better than meditation.

Satan is real. He is like a Satanic squid waiting to latch on and take a bite out of you and your time. He can't hurt you more than air. The squid is always around whispering lies to pull you away from that spinning g blue ball. The squids want to snuff out the light. With practice you develop skills to see the likes of the squids and tune into their tricks. You have to make the choice yourself. Don't let the squid suggest what to do or he will take a bite out of you can't latch on. Squids are tough to get off when they're on you. It takes more will power to kill a squid than to let it into your soul. Follow the light and train your wizard brain.

>This upset over a picture
Why is Jow Forums so fucking limp-wristed lately? Never going to make it.

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Realize you've got better shit to do/a reason for doing whatever you need self control to do.

Then do it

Daddy want

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goddamnit fit
i'm so fucking thirsty
don't do me like this...

Get out squid nigger. You can't tell me what to do.

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It's one girl licking a mirror isn't it?

i built mine up over a very long time. you start out, you quit, you start again, you make gains, something gets in the way and you quit, you start again, you quit, you start again, you recover your gains and make more, you have a bit of a wobble and don't lift for 2 weeks, you get back into it, and this continues on and on. each time you start afresh, it becomes a little easier to get back into things - it takes less discipline to do the same thing. it's at the point now that working out is effortless to me. i consider myself poorly disciplined in this regard because working out is a piece of piss for me now. been lifting about 10 years. same logic applies to dieting, except dieting is harder because you have to discover how to structure your diet such that you will be consistent (eg personally i have to be 100% strict otherwise i find it very easy to fuck up, others are the opposite)

This is probably the most accurate answer I've ever read, it describes my "journey" almost perfectly, congrats user you hit the nail on the head.

I dont even fap that much, but if fapping makes you lose your drive and will that easily, you werent going to make it in the first place.

FuuuuuUUUUUU

What's wrong user

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my first major heartbreak is where I learned self control.

There is no doubt in my mind emotional heart break is the best motivator in the world.

Asses don’t turn me on, but goddamn, that’s perfection.

>I am low test

unironically christianity

Gay as fuck. You're thinking of Islam, brother.

Buddhism my friend