How do I stop fapping, bros? I lack motivation to work out since I can get women to fap to on my phone instantly.
How do I stop fapping, bros? I lack motivation to work out since I can get women to fap to on my phone instantly
Other urls found in this thread:
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
twitter.com
fapping doesnt affect motivation
I am on 49 days nofap, feels gut, but it doesn't help with motivation of going to the gym. Nofap is for clearing brainfog and feeling the t
If women are your motivation to work out, kys. I used to masturbate more than 5 times daily and still never missed a single day to the gym.
not him, but it really affects my mentality for the rest of the day if I fap to the wrong thing. sometimes these thoughts can even distract me mid-lift.
Do you still have the urge to jerk off?
Typically I'm compelled to constantly, but every now and then I don't have the urge anymore. Is there something wrong with me? Am I not getting enough T?
Week 1: feel like shit, no urges
Week 2: urges heavy af
Week 3: urges get slightly less
Week 4-7 (where I am now) no urges
the thing that helped most is mentally changing the urge to fap to the urge to fuck. when looking at OP's pic related I make an effort to not think "would be nice to fap to that pic" but "would be nice to fuck her"
stay strong brother
this but also anyone who has had sex (i.e. 1% of Jow Forums) can tell you that it's way better than jerking off
Abscond from the internet. The less technology you use, the better off you will be
Only if you fuck her raw.
FUCK OFF VIRGIN
sex is definitely better, but sometimes you just gotta jerk it to get the poison out.
Don't you think it's unhealthy that you don't have urges though?
Do you feel less aggressive?
Stop looking at the internet where scantily clad women are usually posted, especially Jow Forums.
Get a hobby outside of working out to occupy your brain with other things.
I’m not gonna lie, I am, but you too, faggot.
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
If you had male friends, you’d know what I’m saying is true.
I want to nut so deep in her butt brehs
Don’t be a slave to pornography. It will start effecting your dreams and if you don’t get out much and only see your mom/sister everyday then you’re probably dream of them naked and it’s very disturbing and annoying.
Remember: Noporn > Nofap. Wait until your balls are about to erupt and then start rubbing only to physical stimulation. Don’t even use imagination or past experiences. Solely on how good it feels and that’s it. Rub your balls if you have to.
Not sure if srs, sex with condom is still better than fapping. It still feel nice, people think the difference between no condom is day and night.
There is slight difference, but being able to last longer and go harder without coming makes it worth it having condom on
Imagine you've been on a Spanish ship for months and then you crash aground and find tribes of that pic,
use a Chasity cage, you literally wont be able to jack off if you have one of these on, but should probably only be used as a last resort
Stop posting trannies
no wonder they colonized
its a woman, go look at her insta
It's probably not that he doesn't have urges at all but it becomes easier to focus your attention elsewhere.
Post her insta
no you faggot, if you wanted it you shouldnt have tried that bait and switch. live and learn.
Literally just dont do it for one day.
repeat.
dont make it out to be something huge you cant do, its a rollercoaster as your brain rewires but you can do it
>tfw don't have low T don't watch porn and don't have sex
>still absolutely no libido whatsoever
What bait and switch? I’m not even the dude you replied to first.
well one bad egg ruins the bunch, he killed it for you.
>It will start effecting your dreams and if you don’t get out much and only see your mom/sister everyday then you’re probably dream of them naked and it’s very disturbing and annoying.
What? No.. No other people do not experience this. This is just you mate.
Ah that makes more sense.
I just wouldn't want to lose any aggression.
"More like chel-dorado"
please, I beg, who is this?i think this is the first girl I've ever seen that made me stop and backtrack just to see if my eyes are deceiving me.If you dont know it then at least tell me where she is from
Who is this, source, post more, etc.
Daily reminder that sex is only truly good with someone you're in love with
Based trad poster
What a low effort excuse jesus
You have to accept Jesus Christ as your lord and savior, let yourself be filled with and guided by the Holy Spirit.
I find that it helps because I'm not as anxious to go out so I'm more likely to workout because my inhibitions are lowered. It all depends on your relationship to porn/fapping. Everyone has their own story. I've noticed that my recovery pattern is a lot different from other people's so don't psych yourself into thinking it's gonna be exactly like how someone else says.
Yes
not true
Really? For me the reality is the reverse
I find it extremely difficult consistently work out on the daily without relieving my sexual frustration as a reward
Maybe its because I use my libido to motivate me
That's not true at all, sex with thots i give 0 fucks about feels good, hell even kissing a thot you got 0 feelings about feels good
Maybe you just a virgin i dont know
>Fap to the wrong thing
What does this even mean?
I find the opposite true for me.
Maybe its cause I'm cut, but jesus I can't feel shit with a condom. Maybe I just use the wrong ones, but holy fuck raw is great, but I'd take my hand over a condom any day of the week. I just go lip with a condom on.
Honestly. I've been incredibly motivated, and have been sticking to a time table.
Masturbating now doesn't affect my mental health as much as before. Before, I'd feel guilty, but now knowing that I'm not wasting time, jerking off is just a way to relax
>How do I stop fapping, bros?
get severe depression, it works for me
Set dates to start.
If you fail. You set a new date and start again.
You can use an app on your cellphone to keep track of your achievements (habit tracking app);
You will star to take pride in your achievements.
Failing is part of the process.
>i did 57 days without fap
>iam no sugar streak of 167 days, 54 days 10 minutes meditation, 17 days 10 miles run - probably will fail tomorrow
>i am planing 2019 no Jow Forums, wish me lcuk
I wish i knew how it felt to be normal like that. Making out with thots and shit, feeling their tongue grind on mine. It does nothing for me. Everytime i hookup or make out with a girl throws me in flashdepression for days.
I dont feel those nice or special feelings. It is sometimes like i feel cold hearted. I wish i knew the experience of those things.
I’m uncut and I’m the same, condoms are garbage
I've asked this before, but I never get an answer.
Regardless maybe my story / question will just scare OP into stopping if no one else's posts will help him out.
I used to (and honestly probably still do) have a major addiction to porn. I was beating off nearly every single day. Occasionally I'd go one or two days without doing it, but for the most part... These were never short sessions either. I'd be up really late going at it for 3-4+ hours. Late last month I had a week off work and I beat my dick so long it hurt. Not like chaffed skin hurt either. It literally ached to get hard. I felt like I bent my penis too, which was very strange to me. However I kept doing it for another two days or so, despite aching to get hard, once I got going I didn't care nor think about it. Couldn't even tell you if it hurt during this time to be honest. Anyway, after those next two days. I decided I was going to heavily cutback on it because I was afraid of actually causing pain like that again.
I made it one week without fapping. Oddly, no urges the first week either. This was actually pretty long for me. But I was kinda down that day from some shit that had been going on with work and family, so that saturday night I went at it. My dick was still sore to get hard, though not nearly as much. It still felt like it had a small bend in it though I didn't think *too* much of it that night. Finished up. Went to bed. Decided it was back to no-fapping after that. I haven't beat off since that day, and its going on 2 weeks come this Saturday. I'm determined to make it two solid weeks, but the urges for me have been getting really hard. I see a SFW but still sexy pic and I just feel this tingling in my balls and chest that make me wanna go at it. I've been distracting myself with video games, and trying to socialize or anything with other people to keep my mind off it.
Weirdly enough, I haven't had morning wood, or a boner since my last fap. Before that, I can't recall either.
Cont...
Now the main reason I'm doing this, is mostly because I'm afraid of getting a boner. Like I said, I haven't had one since my last fap, and honestly I can't remember the last time I got a spontaneous erection or morning wood. That thought alone is somewhat concerning, but even more so is the thought that I do get hard to fap and still feel that bend in my dick. I'm terrified of that, because looking into it has me wondering if its a permanent thing or not. I'm afraid to find out, which is why I've been avoiding getting hard like the plague. I'm sure I'll find out sooner or later, but god damn that thought scares me. I'm hoping I give my dick enough time to rest and heal to where everythings just back to normal. If it does than I'm going to be much more careful in the future. Cutting back on porn, etc as best I can.
tl;dr
Beat my meat constantly to the point of achy penis w/ weird bend when hard.
No boners/morning wood
No fapped for a while
Urges through the roof
Afraid to get hard because I think I may have seriously injured myself.
pretty sure its based on psychology.
humans evaluate their lives in these terms.
if you don't know any other terms....
>>How do I stop fapping, bros?
>get severe depression, it works for me
This is what caused me to become a porn addicted fap addict in the first place.
Also OP, why do you (and other fuckers) use your fucking phone for porn?
woah nelly
>Leave internet
>Have other hobbies
It's incurable then, I'll just have to live with it
Same here. Feel nothing. It's hell right?
anyone who thinks it's good to not want to bust a nut is retarded
Which has given the most benefit? Which feels like the biggest accomplishment?
Maybe that's because you have too many expectations?
I'm the romantic type but I can tell when a girl isn't worth anything more than laying pipe.
Sex is a more fun experience, but no one can give you better orgasms than yourself because you know your body like nobody else
I tricked myself into liking the gym by only fapping in the locker room showers. Great way to end a workout and relax. Only negative is sometimes I get hard just when I walk into the gym and the qt at the front desk thinks it is because of her lol