/FEELS THREAD/

If a woman can see you as a friend you are definitely a cuck. I have almost no women friends because I usually end up fucking them and their friends

Ghost her you nigger. Or in the worst case scenario stop talking to her and start actively talking to other girls. If she texts you, your replies are to be 4 words or less

haha this is totally not me. I'm a well adjusted guy! haha you're such a loser op.

Preworkout/coffee

Metall worker

Ain't nothing to it but to do it fren. I work as an electrician so I know the feeling of coming home completely knackered but you're just gonna have to workout tired sometimes, there's no way around it. What helps for me is to workout almost immediately after I come home, I usually don't crash until I sit down after dinner. Have a small snack before, something with simple carbs and you're good to go. You don't want to be one of them pen pushers do you?

Jow Forums is the last refuge of feels threads. Jow Forums has been destroyed by zoomers and porn, it's indistinguishable from /b/.

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This

NOT FIT FUCK OFF

Preworkout

as long as it's kept to one thread I don't mind. Plus a ton of failures use lifting as their baby steps toward self improvement. Lastly, take a look at where you're sending these poor anons. Jow Forums is not the same board it was a few years ago.

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this is true as far as cuckchan is cncerned

Guys I think I fucked up.
>Be me, 20
>Sexlife with gf dying
>We're banging literally once every 3-4 weeks
>It's been a while again
>snap and tell her "if you want to remain as the only girl I'm fucking you'd better start acting like it"

What do? I can't just go in there and apologize and say I didn't mean it: that would just make things worse.

Break up with her. Duh.

Put actions behind your words and make her worried

How do I become a normie again? Time is running out

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doesnt mean you people can bring your cancerous self hate to Jow Forums to cry about your nonexistant willpower and failures in life.

Don't go home after work. Go straight to the gym

This. Also grow some balls and get it done user.

just suck it up and fucking do it, or figure out another way to do it.

dude you're fucking 20 you have a shit load in time, don't worry, if you break up with this girl in two years max you won't even think about her anymore.

Get a pre-workout and stop bothering people with your dumb non-problems.

You are already fucked user. If you are having that little sex in your 20s it will only get worse. Can her, and if she wants to make it work, now she knows how.
Be willing to talk through it in an adult way if she wants to make it work, otherwise get on with finding a life worth living.

I have literally no idea how to fuck a girl. I’m not a virgin and fucked 3 before, but I was in a relationship with all 3. I have no idea what to say or do.

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I find it basically impossible to lift while tired, so I just run a quick mile or two on the treadmill first. You go from shitty and lethargic to blood pumping in 10 minutes and then you throw some fucking weight around. Shit's great

Lemme rephrase, get a girl in bed.

What about a good feel?

My Mrs always does this thing whenever I've had a rough day or feeling a bit blue, she'll hold my foot up to her ear and pretend it's a phone and have really long complex conversations then have to put them on hold and pick up the other phone (other foot) and start a whole new convo.

Gives me a little chuckle everytime

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Animals are the only species nice to us

aw

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Bruh you’re way too young to be in a relationship where you have sex once a month. Either she is cheating on you, or you’re a loser. I guess both of those things coincide. Just dump the bitch and go live your life, I guarantee that when you dump her and begin to feel comfortable with yourself you’ll be having more sex in one month than you would in one year being with that life force sucking vampire.

tldr
Move on bro.

L A Z L O
>mfw when bananabread

fuck I always wanted to try bananabread

Thats what I thought when I left my ex but she's moved on to a new guy now and I havent even been on a date in over a year, almost 2 years without sex.

I understand everyone has feelings and emotions and life can be a bitch pretty often. But the solution is pretty simple and almost always the same. If you don't like something, then you have to change it. Nobody is going to do it for you. Nobody knows what you want as well as you do. If you don't like your job, then get a new one. If you want a girlfriend, then get one. If you want to get fit, then do it. It's all about willpower, you already have everything you need within. Never say "I can't", because if you do, you will be right. If you can't motivate yourself to do something, it might just be that you didn't want it as much as you thought. It's easy to make excuses, which is why so many people do it.

^this
Please help brahs

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What is normal and why is it desirable?

banana bread is the best shit, bro

Kind of a bittersweet one

My current gf cares for my well-being, with her actions too, not only words(which is a given in almost all cases, I'm just fucked up and up until now I was unable to find a woman mad enough to take care of me and my feelings) and I feel like she genuinely loves me.
She says she loves me the way I am and when I am feeling blue, she just hugs me and stays silent and we fall asleep.
I wish I wasn't heartbroken still so I could give her all the love she deserves.
I wish I could lift these feels away brahs

I don't know about again, never went back to hell since getting out, but I went from social autist to a social butterfly normie by connecting with people who share my sense of humor and aren't prejudiced(for me it was uni, my field is pretty specific with it's people). You have to trust people to take you in and like you the way you are. Also, unless you are a turboautist, the "just be yourself" meme works(at least with well-raised and behaved people)

Been there. There are a lot of variables, but I think a good place to start is to ask her why the sex life is dying. Honest answers, no white lies. It may hurt but it is the healthiest option. Then, depending on what she/you both say, you can either start working on fixing the relationship or break it off. Just don't be THAT guy. Everyone has a reason for what they are doing, even if they are doing bad things and everyone is a hero in their own story. Her reason to not have sex is as legit as your frustration with you not having sex. Talk to eachother like adults/soon-to-be-adults and figure out what is going on. I wish you both luck
All of this depends on how seriously both of you are taking the relationship, I'm not one for quick relationships so I usually try to salvage all I can, but you can also do what other anons are telling you and break up with her. You are young and there are plenty fish in the sea, so no worries.

Also, Merry Christmas you guys

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>woke up this morning and realize that my gf and I have been together for almost 3 years
>relationship has consistently improved ever since we first met
>both of us have improved ourselves mentally, physically, and professionally
>she's moving in with me this summer
Never been this happy in my life. We all may not make it, but I did.

>if youre having that little sex in your 20s

this, guys on fit are fucking multiple times a day from the age of 16

Good work my man

Sips

>pen pusher makes more money working less hours
>has enough energy to be able to make all kinds of gains
>Will be in good shape at 50 as long as he keeps healthy. Your back may very well be shot

If you weren't an electrician I'd tell you to stop talking and reconsider your life as a trade serf. If you aren't making 100k by the time you're 30 you are doing something wrong

>21 y/o

dude stop wallowing in self pity you're still a child

Everyone on Jow Forums hates themselves to some degree, there is a reason why we want to get so big.

i know that i am the one person responsible for myself when it comes to cutting but I told my mum to stop buying me shortbread and food hampers for Christmas and she keeps doing it despite how I have expressed to her that it's possible me off. she has been overweight her whole life and is trying to sabotage my cut

Jow Forums and /b/ are contention boards for a reason. We don't want their cancerous userbase.

Fuck off we're full

Your relationship should be as easy as breathing, if it's not then get out.

There are 7.5 billion people on this planet and you're questioning what you can do to stay with one of them.

Lift in the morning bruh

>woke up this morning and realize that my gf and I have been together for almost 3 years
>relationship has become more and more stale over time and I think about ending it
>I have improved myself physically and professionally while she has become more and more broken over time
>she alternates between being cold and selfish to being warm and generous making me oscillate between love and hatred about 4 times a month
>things aren't bad enough for me to just end it but not good enough for me to actually want to live with her

Never gonna make it crew reporting in

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Yeah just drop any relationship at the first sign of having to make an effort or sacrifice. I’m sure you’ll end up very happy.

leave her ass if you don't see yourself spending the rest of your life together. Don't waste another year of your brief existence on this earth in a relationship that's only going to hold you back from meeting someone that will fulfill you totally.

It will be hard (break ups are never easy) but will let you explore your freedom as a young man and become whom ever you wish to be.

This was me until April of this year. I finally had enough and started making something of myself. I still dislike myself but not to extent I did when I was this image to a T

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>only going to hold you back from meeting someone that will fulfill you totally.
I'm a little jaded, hard for me to believe that there is anybody who could fulfill me totally. Sounds unrealistic. Looking at the dating pool, I see heaps and heaps of garbage even worse than what I have now. idk man life isn't disney sometimes there just isn't anyone out there for someone

Quality

Not breaking up with useless chicks is child abuse.

If you waste her time, she will have kids at 35 and they'll turn out autistic.

You know I'm right. Once you know she's a shit mate, you GTFO for the kids that will definitely be born because muh human rights and everyone should be able to experience raising a child!!!

;_; been there and it fuckin hurts to leave someone you love. She left me 4 months ago and I'm still strugglin. Hang in there bro

I'm not sure what to do bros. Two months ago the girl I was hanging out with asked me the typical "what are we?" question, so we are oficially gf/bf since then. She is super caring, likes me a lot, was a virgin when we met...

But I am just not physically attracted to her, and I'm a feeling like a total piece of shit because of that. Things seem to go well between us, but in my mind I'm lowkey waiting for all this to end, I just don't enjoy being with her, sex feels like kind of a chore sometimes, and yet I feel like I can't break up with her.

I'm stuck, clueless and feelling like I'm going further down the rabbit hole every day...

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Sacrifice is a stupid thing to do. If you're having to compromise on parts of who you are to make your partner happy then your partner doesn't love you they love a version of you they've created in their head and they're trying to make you live up to it.

Growing together is the ideal. Compromise is like your partner saying they want you to have a Jow Forums body so you should start going to the gym; Growing together and improving one another is your partner saying lets work out together to start x activity. One is you living up to her idealised version of you, the other is you becoming a better person in your relationship and your life.

Most people are dealing (or not dealing to be exact) with unresolved traumas and/or toxic influences from people or media. Identify what it is and deal with it. If your childhood was shit deal with the PTSD or C-PTSD

The other major thing is diet. Get adequate protein and lots of nutrient dense foods like organ meats, eggs, fish, raw dairy(if availablem etc). So often does a lack of motivation/burnout come from poor diet.

See Stop expecting to find your soulmate within an hour of where you live.

You genuinely sound like a nice guy, thank you for posting this.

Platonic love is meant for men user. You’re gonna have to let her go

What would you recommend as a trade?

>have friends
>live near them
>see them every couple days
>still feel isolated because I live in an RV
>still feel like no one likes me
>still feel like I'm autistic
>still think I'm ugly

I still think I'm gonna make it

>Christmas Eve tomorrow
>Bought no gifts for anyone because another year went by with no girlfriend or friends to get stuff for
>Don't exchange gifts with parents because it usually ends badly. No siblings. Never see small extended family so don't get them stuff either.
>Not gonna be that weirdo creep getting gifts for coworkers, especially when most of mine are girls, so I just have a few silly gifts for them.

At least I'm not one of those people who gets really sad and depressed at being alone on Christmas, I really just don't care to be honest. Don't really like the commercialization of Christmas and don't want gifts myself, but being what seems like the only person without anxiety about Christmas shopping and family stuff feels even more depersonalizing.

Plumber or electrician, but that's because those pay you a fair salary for what you do with plenty of room to expand. Carpenters, brick layers, welders, land surveyors, and so on are paid slaves that will make no more than 50k by the time they hit 50 themselves even while working 80 hours per paycheck, 6 days a week

Break up with her user, its not really fair to her to string her along.

i'm actually feeling pretty good lads, i've been working my ass off but i should have a good paycheck for christmas

electrician here, shits fuckin easy as hell. i used to do hvac and that was fuckin shitty as fuck, but the technicians had it made, all they do is drive around and replace little parts on furnaces or replace filters for people. the only downside is those guys have to be on call which means they could have to go swap a part out at 3AM, but thats really no biggie

get some fucking caffeine in you, get some amped up music/playlist, remember your goals and ambitions, fight thru the anxiety and depression and tell yourself that this is gonna make you the best fucking you that you'll ever be.

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>sad cunt
>start lifting, making better habitual changes
>was a Chad for a few years
>had literally everything, was a god
>give up Chad life, get gf, go back to school
>depressed as fuck again

I'm seeing a therapist but it feels like it's going nowhere.

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>stay with parents over christmas break
>feels like they're both already senile
>they can garden and sew but can barely make a shopping list
>nothing is clean and food is always at or past expiry date
>they decided to host christmas for cousins despite house being a literal construction site
>obsessing over scuff marks on walls when there's 3 cans of pesticides on the kitchen bench
>want to help but know it's an insurmountable and futile effort
>not to mention visiting my very senile grandfather every day
What is the point of it all?

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boilermakers make mad money and you can normally apprentice at a local union

>tfw every christmas gathering my relatives ask if I have a gf
>aunt thinks she's being funny and jokes about me being gay
>"Haha.. no gf yet I'm busy."
>"You should bring her next year user!"
>Every fucking year ever
I honestly wouldn't mind Christmas gatherings if it weren't for this. I know what they're trying to do, but it just hurts year after year of repetition. Anyone else here have this problem?

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woah...

so why can't you bond with women?

hoping santa brings a cure for my ongoing self image and validation issue lads

explain

they don't even ask me anymore

im on tinder pretty much any moment i get bored because i love the high of getting matches and likes. i don't even like fucking girls off the app anymore its just nice to feel wanted after being a loser for most of my formative years

Why he bald tho????

Honestly sounds like me at 19. Consider Estrogen and Sertaline.

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Becoming a trap? Why though? Im considering dbol and test e

>gf dumped me almost 2 weeks ago because I asked if she'd give me more time
>Said she wasn't romantically interested in me anymore
>Meanwhile
>Girl at the sushi restaurant I go to started giving me discounts out of the blue
>Went out of her way to serve me and make sure the other girl at the register gave me a discount
>They had no idea why either

Should I go for her, Jow Forums? She's real fucking cute.

Here's one of my feels.

Everytime I'm happy, or high, etc, I always think about the approaching comedown. What goes up, must comes down so there will be these moments where I "catch" myself feeling good, everytime I'm feeling good, and remember that its not going to last.

It's going sideways. It's giving up, yet also making progress. Rather than trying to dredge forwards, it's going back to before puberty, and getting a clean slate for who you want to be. Both medications also make you more docile and less depressed... a combination where you stop hoping for a radical improvement, and instead just slowly improve your life by the day.

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Shut the fuck up trap shiller

Just putting the option out there. Trap shilling unironically improved my life.

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>>pen pusher makes more money working less hours
Kek not at all, I make a lot more than my university educated friends with pen pushing jobs
>>has enough energy to be able to make all kinds of gains
This isn't very job-related, I am ten times more productive after work than most desk job friends. It's more of a person to person thing.
>>Will be in good shape at 50 as long as he keeps healthy. Your back may very well be shot
This again really has nothing to do with the job you do, my dad is in IT and he's been fat as fuck for as long as I remember. Me and a cooling tech friend of mine are the only ones that work out in my main group of friends.

>If you weren't an electrician I'd tell you to stop talking and reconsider your life as a trade serf. If you aren't making 100k by the time you're 30 you are doing something wrong
This is just a retarded statement, babybooming times are over. You can't make that kind of money just from a salary, that being said I do renovation projects on the side which earn me about 50 to 70k every year so if you count those I would break the 100k a year barrier.

Probably because you're an autistic anime poster, you can't get worse than that.