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Yes. Hosting a little get together with family and good friends, plan on unwrapping all our presents by the fire while playing smash. About ten people in all will be here.

Haha maybe next year I will get a girlfriend and spend the holidays with her who knows

At least thats what i've been telling myself every year now

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Fuckyoufuckyoufucjyou

It's honestly nothing special.

You both sound like redditors.

Wife, yes, children, no. Who the fuck wants kids that early?

I won't think about wife and kids until I'm 50 and unable to slap college girls with my dick anymore.

just like walking is nothing special for someone in a wheelchair

im not a cuck of the SYSTEM

I also remember being 12yo

You're not crippled, you dumb fuck. Nothing is physically preventing you from getting a gf.

some handicaps arent visible

23yo here, and I cant imagine settling down until I'm like 30 minimum.

something will always come up if you stall.you end up dying childless

>I'm done with playing the game, now I want to settle down with a REAL woman

>nothing physically
What about my ugly face my small chest and small dick? Arent those physical limitations

38yo here, I cant seem to hold a relationship together so I am gonna be alone again.. also I can barely take care of myself so why on earth would I want children?

I give you 3-4yo tops untill you want to settle down is funny how your brain chemistry changes with age and trolls you

Sometimes you just aren't ready, it'll happen eventually bro

>25
>wife
yes
>baby
fuck that. not for another 5 or so years at least.

>married a tomboy I've been best friends with since just before college
>she's the best thing that's ever happened to me
>every day I love her a bit more
>mfw

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Maybe so, but I no damn weel that I won't have kids until I got a stable income, which is not happening atm.

No, because ugly women exist.

I'd still marry the girl in the pic. She was is perfection.

Unlikely, we're just waiting and enjoying being childless for another couple of years.

Same friend. I turn 27 in January. Had a 6 month relationship with a girl this year but despised her the entire time and just let it go past 2 months just so I had someone to sleep with at night. More recently this year met a 21 yo single mom who is an easy 9/10. Clicked really fucking well with her and thought maybe I'd found something but we just fucked twice and she moved right on to the next.
The longest relationship I've had was a year and some change in 2010 and have never had anything come close since.

I honestly wish I had a wife to spend the holiday with but I'm just going to be home alone trying come up with a story to tell co-workers so I dont sound like a complete loser.

>marrying a cum rag

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No, I'm celebrating Christmas with my husband.

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We are nothing alike. You got tons more experience. My last relationship was 12 years. last time I had a girl in my bed to spend the night with was 10 years

Yes.

30 year no gf Christmas streak

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I'm 31 and Ive never even had any experience with women, let a lone a basic GF. I'm also too stubborn and hypochondriac to see a prostitute despite it being legal here because I see them as disgusting people and im not sure why I would want to have sex with someone who has sex with hundreds of different people, thats disgusting. Don't know why people just say "Go see a hooker lmao", fuck that, dirty as fuck. Im not going anywhere near some bitch thats fucked 100s of guys.

i understand man i too would rather fuck a fat chick than pay for a hooker

>implying the average girl hasnt sucked more than one hundred dicks
You are an innocent child

Only dumb fuck-ups have kids that early in life.

Is it weird as a white guy I have only dated asians?

I've fallen for a fujo who is 8/10 in my tastes, she does the whole natural look makeup thing rather than drawing on her eyebrows and painting her face orange like most anglo chicks

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I'm 26 and feel the same way. If I met the right person then whatever, but for now kids ir a wife before my 30's seems nuts. People change too much during their 20's and that's a big reason for divorces. I'm about to start the next year moving to a new city and the future feels bright.

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congrats user

>I'm also too stubborn and hypochondriac to see a prostitute despite it being legal here because I see them as disgusting people and im not sure why I would want to have sex with someone who has sex with hundreds of different people, thats disgusting

I'm a 30yo khv and I am more worried about her being forced to do it. Being some kind of sex slave. I don't want to deal with any of that shit. If I knew she does that on her own simply because she loves the money and just doesn't mind having sex with strangers for money I'd jump at the chance.

29 years old here, celebrating with my wife and 4 children. Feelsgoodman.

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Take the paternity test m8

Celebrating it with the folks.

Then probably going to celebrate New Years by starting off the year right and killing myself

This. I don't understand why people married so early when they've basically could still get Junior discounts just a few years prior.

It's one good reason why people end up in loveless marriages, because you need some time to get to know the person your with. You need at least 8-10 years to really explore and get the fucking out of your system.

My mum had 3 kids by 25, shes 60 now, has been working at a law firm since age 30, once were were were all in school, she started university, got her degree and got a job.

Then again back then 1 full-time income was able to sustain a family of 5 (dad/mum/3 kids), so she was able to put off her education/work until we were all in school.

It is a problem that if women want this now that they have to wait until theyve already got their education, secured a job, AND THEN they have kids at 30-35+. Thats honestly awful for everyone. Its bad for the woman, its bad for the family, its bad for the company that hires her, all in all its so retarded how its done now days, because cost of living is so high.

Now is it, the Jews, or Capitalism gone to far?

Capitalism. There aren't enough Jews amd there's far more capitalists.

32 here. Been with gf for a year and were talkin about her moving in. Maybe in a few years ill have a senpai ily

>It's one good reason why people end up in loveless marriages, because you need some time to get to know the person your with. You need at least 8-10 years to really explore and get the fucking out of your system.

Uh sweetie, thats exactly why people get divorced now, they fuck around for 10 years and then try to settle and they cant, because they damaged their ability to pair-bond.

You think our oldies, grandparents, etc, spent 5-10 years "getting the sex out of their system" before finding each other and settling down? Lmao, nope. They all meet very young, as virgins, and pair-bonded and became inseparable. The reason people get divorced now is because they fuck around too much and ruin their pair bonding ability.

Funny how you didn't mention you father...

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Sure I may have some experience but I've never lived with any of them. Never grew with any of them. Never been to a point where a women tells me she loves me. Sure I've had sex with them but most of the time we were both drunk so I've never meant anything to them. The only reason I've met more than you I can guess is because of my job. I'm military and I work in a shop of ~45 people that i constantly have to work very close with. Truthfully most of the women are niggers and the rest have psychological issues but it's all I have to work with.

Who hurt you

No. Im never having a wife or kids. Never had a gf so I'm just a genetic dead end.

good for you user

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Nah not yet. But she is meeting my mom in a few days so that's something right?

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Hes 66 now, retired, almost died a few weeks ago (internal bleeding, has heart burn problems) , but he is good now. Yes my parents are still married, they just spent the entire day repairing christmas day for all the family, my parents are the only ones not divorced out of all their siblings so theyve always been the "goto" for all family events as its the only non-broken household.

Same. It’s not even a physical appearance thing for me. My mental/psychology health has never been normal and it’s has kept me from ever being able to get close to a female.

Women are highly social (in general) so it’s easy for them to see your autism, so it’s bascially impossible to get a gf because no woman wants an autist.

>27 yo
>never had a gf
>hadn’t had sex in 4 years
>every year it’s the same “meet any new girls user?”
>went back to nursing school this fall
>”’meet any new girls in nursing school user?”

Kind of over it but I just hate the awkward few minutes and looking for an exit strategy. Also, most of the girls I liked in high school and college have either aged horribly and or gotten pretty damn fat. Maybe I’m coping but I’m kind of glad nothing came to with those women

I want kids, I think it would be comfy to be a dad and have a loving bond. I also think it's cool how life has made it this far and I want some part of me to continue.

>male nurse
>doesn't like girls
Just come out of the closet already.

They are already in prior relationships though

No, I'm spending it with *your* wife

>Also, most of the girls I liked in high school and college have either aged horribly and or gotten pretty damn fat.

Thats every single woman. Im a HHKV and its not COPE at all that I dont feel jealous at all.

You know why? Ive got lots of normie cousins/family members around my age, and yes, all of their GF/Wives got FAT and UGLY faster than a WoW expansion life-span.

Yes I was JELLY at the start, but when I see how women age/gain weight, you really end up just feeling like you're free, you didn't get trapped into the vagina-trap.

The benefit of being a HHKV is that you never get a taste of that "golden vag" that all these guys do, so they just cannot imagine life without a woman in it, so even if the woman gets fat/ugly, or is fat and ugly from the start, they dont care, they just want a vagina to be there with them.

I remember 5 years ago I went to my god-brothers wedding and I was SEEETHING INCEL, was all super depressed leading up to it. Then I saw his wife at the wedding, and then all the depression left me, and I was happy, she was ugly, and already had gained weight from the last time I saw her, now-days she even fatter, and im just thinking how lucky I am to have never got stuck into that lifestyle of needing/having a woman in my life.

>hurr cope

Read my post, I WAS ONCE A COPING FAGGOT, but now its different, I legitimately dont care, 99% of you guys have fat/ugly or soon to be fat/ugly GF/Wives, have fun with that lmao.

>b-but muh GF/WIFE is special, shes not like 99% of other women who get fat/ugly FAST

Sure bro, thats what every guy says. Im sure you'll be that special guy who gets that woman who doesn't gain 30-50lbs within the first 5 years, im really sure you'll still have that petite GF....lmao.

Ik what you mean. Got my first gf at 25 after only having flings in college. The amount of emotional management is insane. Even when i click with them there is always a probe into my past, my commitment, my emotional response range. Not to mention every girl has an obsessive orbiter that they exploit as long as they feel they have a chance.

No chilluns just a wife. 25 btw

>27
>fiance
>planning on 3 to 4 kids
is this acceptable?

Kek, Midwestern women are trash in AT LEAST equal proportion to coastal women. Don't kid yourself.
t. 38 married with 4 kids virgin wife married at 21/ her 19, lived all over continental US.

I’ve just moved out and have independence for the first time in my life. I don’t want to fuck that up by tying myself down with a wife and screaming kid. There will be time for that in the future, not now. We don’t live in the 30s, no need for kids at such a young age.

There is no turning back once you have them

>most of the girls I liked in high school and college have either aged horribly and or gotten pretty damn fat.

Like the others have said, this is ALL women. I went full cocoon mode in a different part of the city from where I grew up for maybe 3 years for college. I come back home and every person in high school I remember has either let themselves go or looks way way older than they actually are.

Cutest girl in school, mad prude, every dude wanted to be inside her in high school, saw her at a party the moment I got back from college guess what. She BLEW UP she was super fat and last I remember settled for a dude that's fat as well.

Do what you want but really you should not settle down. There's girls turning 18 every fucking day why the fuck do you want to get tied down to one?

23 and still virgin, I'm crying in my room while listening to either sad or edgy music.

I’m not the only one who doesn’t understand the baking of cookies and sweets for Christmas..right?

goddamn if this isn't the truest statement i've seen on Jow Forums

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Im 25, just finished my medical training, have a literal 9.5/10 catholic gf who I lost my Vcard to (sorry God :'/). I feel so lucky for her.
If I do bad on my specialty postulation to become a surgeon, im planning on getting married and going into a rural area to live the good life for some years and then apply again (in my country you score points for rural practice)

We are all gonna make it

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Feel the same way man. Just have to focus on improving yourself. Gotta love yourself before someone start loving you

38 here. Just my kids and girlfriend.

Their mom left me when I was deployed to enter into a polyamorous relationship with an obese woman and a very effeminate man (both of whom are street performers).

you ve got the touch, you ve got the power...

You're not 12% e-statter, feel free to prove us wrong with a picture

Yep. For me it's anxiety and "deer in the headlights". If I talk to a girl that I like a lot or pop a boner in public, my flight or fight instinct kicks in. I've gone blind in some instances just staring very blankly at girls. One time a girl touched my boner and I passed out from the sudden rush of adrenaline.

I'll just have to make it alone.

30 year old here.
Yes, I'm celebrating Christmas with my 4'4" childlike midget wife and our newborn daughter.
And if you're wondering how childlike my wife looks, she looks about 7 - 12 years old despite being the same age as me.

no, it's completely normal to want to date women who both come from a culture of appreciating men and feature the most feminine physical characteristics

20
Going to my country to celebrate with family, one of my cousins wants to introduce me to one of her friends so ehhhh prolly something.

Am I mentally ill if I am completely content with my preference to be alone most of the time? 24 yr old btw

Just about to put my two boys in the bath and dress them in their new Xmas pyjamas. Then we're gonna watch a nice Xmas film before going up to bed and reading a Christmas book to them until they fall asleep.

You really do appreciate Christmas more when you have children. I love being a dad. It keeps me motivated to stay fit.

Based and lolipilled unless shes an actual midget with a weird shaped head then thats a bit of a yikes for me but whatever makes you happy user merry Christmas

I know that feel. Came close this year but that fell apart in November...

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I am too poor to marry now, but my gf is patient.

23 here and I feel the exact opposite. When I turned 22 I got an overwhelming urge to get married and have children.

Same but it doesn't even bother me. It's weird to think that something so normal - something that people do without even really thinking about - is something that I've never experienced in my entire life.

I think it will happen eventually, I just haven't been trying to make it happen. It seems nice for the people that have it but I honestly don't have a desire to put in the effort and time to make it happen for myself right now.

ive never really came close in the last 12 years, or more like ever.

I once thought I was getting a relationship when I first tried tinder 4 years ago but I was retarded and didnt understand it was just a hookup

since then im incapable of love I think

If you are in your 20s and you have a wife or children I automatically know you are completely brain dead. Fucking level of retardation lmao, specially in the US

The Greeks (Byzantines) from 100AD or so celebrated Christ for Xmas/New Years by giving out tons of food during the week. This went on until around the 1900s all of the western world, then industrialization hit and that got mixed in with giving gifts that weren't food, but they kept the food part in as well, so everyone just has tons of food + presents.

>4'4"
Wut? That has to be a legitimate medical condition.
Is she cute?

31 here.
Single af. I have no serious prospects either. Spending Christmas with the family. At this point I'm just focused on my career and lifting.