How do you cope with never having had a girlfriend as the years slide past you?

I really don't care. Why should I be upset about something that depends on the will of another human being. Just better yourself and go your own way.

The truth had to be said sooner or later.

>I have more pressing issues than no gf.
Usually it's indicative of those pressing issues.

It's not hard... you just need to recognize the signs when a girl likes you. I bet a girl has liked you before and you just didn't know it.

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I just try to not let it define me and focus on other things.
Right now I'm trying to get back into the groove of socializing, after years of literally just working and staying indoors.
Got in contact with one of the few friends i had in school, he seems pretty understanding about me being the way i am, after I graduated i pretty much cut all contact with him because of anxiety issues, I feel bad about it, but he reached out to me justa few hours ago.

he invited me to a party next week, well' see how that goes...
I tend to become a living icicle around large social crowds and I'm already anxious about going

>reeee normie!
I realize that I've been incredibly lucky to have a friend that want's to help me out, I'm just trying to get back out in the world, this time i won't turn down an opportunity to get out and talk to people

Self-hate, lots and lots of self-hate.

I self-hate myself into realizing i'll never have any value into a relationship, so I can look for other solutions like sui and NEETdom

I am a high value man. I will only settle for the best and will be patient.

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I ask myself is it worth the time, energy, and money having one and I'm like no.

>Why them and not me?
If there was ever a thought I could banish from my mind forever, it would be this. I'd be so much happier if it never existed.

>How do you cope
I don't. That's why it's so hard.

Just read women hate threads. Nothing gets rid of the fantasy better than realizing the true nature of women. Once you hate them, you'll never feel the need for one.

jesus christ dude, why are you posting this

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Fuck your gay threads OP. You're a complete faggot for posting fucking images of celebrities but flipping them on here to drive anons nuts that they can't google them. You're just a complete Reddit-level faggot on par with the guys who buy prototype games and don't dump them.
I hope you get raped by a pack of niggers and then kill yourself, cockgoblin.

That is the problem. I had. But only mentally ill ones. How you cope with that?

>How do you cope with never having had a girlfriend as the years slide past you?
By trying to get a girlfriend.

Alright normie. At least you aren't so repulsive and unwanted that even the mentally ill want nothing to do with you.

>I feel bad about it, but he reached out to me justa few hours ago.
>he invited me to a party next week, well' see how that goes...
Jesus, you havent had contact with your friend for long time and first thing he does is invite you to a party (after literally 2 hours of you contacting him), if this is legit and you are not making things up, then really it is fucking pathetic. Is there nothing else that this board (and probably Jow Forums as a whole) but party, weed/drugs, and reee/cant get gf/why is chad getting pussy. My fucking god, I quite disliked the npc meme especially from pol perspective but I now realise most of you so called robots are legit npcs yourself.

It's not hard to find a GF if you actually want one.

I assure you, the mentally ill want PLENTY to do with me

next thing youll tell me is to be myself
right?

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why are women so brutal... Oh well he didnt recognize my signs better move on to the next dick

The obvious solution was right in our faces all along.

slidded?
hope this is very original

Not really... I wanted to keep the story quick and concise.
We've had some coffees a few weeks ago and talked about what we've been up to, and this is what it has been leading up to, him inviting me to a party, that is his way of trying to get me out a little.
He's the one that tries to get back in touch with me every now and then, and I usually turn him down and tell him I'm busy

And where did you get the party/weed/gf thing from? all i was talking about is that i want to get out and meet some people and get some friends, it's a pretty humane need in all of us.
I don't even drink...

I had a gf once, but we fell out and cut off contact because I was literally 14 and starting petty drama if I recall

I cope fine,

>And where did you get the party/weed/gf thing from?
Whenever anything social is being discussed its usually one of those things, at least thats the impression I have after browsing Jow Forums for a long time

>cope
>assuming it pains me that much
Hah. I don't give a fuck. I used to years ago, but that time is done. Now I'm a hermit.

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The worst part is that I know exactly why it's not me. You probably do as well.

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Well, when I mentioned social anxiety I wasn't talking about the meme type, i have a hard time even looking people in the eyes when I'm forced to speak.
I have no idea why this guy even bothers to contact me other than that he might just be genuinely nice, so I'm going to take up this opportunity to try and change my life because I've been sick of living alone.
Your just gonna have to trust me when i say that i don't do drugs, I'm definitively not a "party guy"

I think that we should be nice to each other and more encouraging

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I don't cope, but I've accepted it. I'm ugly and balding at 24 and was bullied by women most of my life. My family stopped asking me about not having a gf years ago. I turned to religion just to help with the pain. I have to believe that us robots were put here to test us and that we will have everything we could ever want after death. Normalfags who go through relationships and happiness as a second thought will not ascend to paradise.

I have real problems in my life, that's how.
Women are just a very expensive luxury item.
>inb4 implying you could attract a woman in the first place lmao
I didn't even say that you faggots

ooohh

ooohhoo hooo.

ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooyoooooooooou bastard you. Nonono. no. NOt having it. aha. no. fuck you.

By getting high, playing vidya, watching what I want and not giving a fuck.

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>tfw the "just get a girlfriend, it's not hard" bait is actually starting to trigger me

Nicola you bitch what the fuck have you done to me

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Mostly I stare off into space trying really hard to depersonalize, but sometimes -- sometimes, I take multiple showers and cry a lot.

I genuinely think that if it doesn't happen soon I'm going to do something really bad. I can't be a 25 year old incel. I'd rather die.

This together with an unending existential crisis is driving me completely insane. I want to kill shit, become a hitman, do anything that involves guns and killing.

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I'm feeling that as well. I just want to hit something strong until it buckles and bleeds

Yeah seems like something that bothered be a lot as a teenager/early 20s. I'm 23 now and stopped giving a fuck. Probably gonna die a friendless virgin but I've made peace with it

>whenever someone brings up the subject
More like whenever I go outside and see couples. This is why I stay inside most of my time.

Yea, it's like my last resort. This existense is so meaningless, maybe killing will make me feel something. That's what I think about sometimes, those thoughts used to scare me, but now I don't care anymore.

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I sure as fuck don't. I'm not top fucking tier, but I'm miles and miles better than most of the trash men I see who have zero problem in this regard. I have a good job, a good education, a nice apartment, savings, I'm not even short or ugly. Still escapes me.

Relationships are almost fictional to my psyche at this point.

I just want to be recognized. I want to feel present in the world. I seem to only be able to conceive this as
>getting a girlfriend/getting laid
>becoming famous renowned artist
>going on a killing spree

The latter is looking like the most viable option at the moment desu

I did and she find some rando white guy who wasnt a pussy.

I feel you brother, I'm the same. Well I don't really want to go on a random killing spree, but I would like to kill pedophiles and rapists.

How often do you go out with friends? How often do you talk to women? When's the last time you asked one out?

Not a bad attitude

Some men can never find love my dude. Shit sucks.

i don't really care tbqh. i look at it like if i don't have a girlfriend, obviously i'm not at the point where i deserve to have one and i'm not providing enough value for one. it's not really at the top of my priority list. i'd rather just be a neet and enjoy my time. my hand is also probably better than putting in the effort for a gf. i'm not really a people person and putting in the effort to get one and then having to do all the work for sex and then all the work in the act of sex just doesn't seem worth it. i'd only want one for sex if i have one and idk just doesn't seem worth my time not to mention the girls time. not too keen on soaking up a womans peak fertility time just to fuck her and use her holes. maybe later in life when i start acquiring money and resources and want to start a family i'll look for a young girl in her 20s to start a family with.

>How do you cope

Here were some of my coping strategies:

I worked really hard, long hours. As long as I was hard at work, it took my mind off the sadness. I could go as long as 4 or 5 hours at a time not thinking about it, and then I would later realize that I had at least had a few hours of reprieve from the sadness, and I would be grateful for that.

I tried to convince myself that life wouldn't be that terrible if I never got a gf. After all, some people are a lot unluckier than me -- for example, they have to go through life blind, or in a wheelchair, or something. At least I should be thankful I'm healthy and have a good job.

I tried to convince myself that I was being "smart" by not having a gf. No worries about pregnancy, STDs, or having my life ruined by a crazy girl. No worries about ever having to go through the pain of a breakup. And I was avoiding potential financial drain by not having a gf. I became the king of rationalizations, all to try to hide my pain.

The hardest thing for me was that I was scared of the future. I could see myself at 40, 50, 60, whatever, and still all alone, and that terrified me. So I tried to "focus on the now" -- and I tried to keep myself from thinking about the future.

If you're all that and still get rejected by girls you ask out then you're probably just an asshole.

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>next thing youll tell me is to be myself right?

Yup.

> Just be yourself.
> Just smile and say hi. The rest will come naturally.
> Just look around and see which girls are checking you out.
> Just ask friends which girls are crushing on you.
> If a girl friendzones you, then just ask her to hook you up with another girl.
> Just send her a racy text compliment, then write "oops, that was for someone else". That will get her curiosity going.
> Just have a positive attitude, that's really all you need.
> Just talk boldly and confidently to them, they love that.
> Just give her a quick compliment, a smile, then quickly turn 180 and walk away. That will "plant a seed", and get her to start thinking about you romantically.
> You'll never find anyone as long as you're looking, so stop looking for a while, and it will just happen naturally.

God, I have like a billion of these. You have so many things you can try.

I swag & I cook.

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what store do they sell those at?

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I had one.
and I know I can get one.
there is no coping when I know it's 100% within my grasp to get one, I just choose not to right now, I got bigger things in mind for my life and for myself than a sexual/romantic partner.

better question is how do I cope with the loneliness and the answer is I got you faggots for that .

>It's been hopeless for a long time, from the very beginning. You will never represent, user, a young girl's erotic dream. You have to resign yourself to the inevitable; such things are not for you. It's already too late, in any case. The sexual failure you've known since your adolescence, user, the frustration that has followed you since the age of thirteen, will leave their indelible mark.
>Even supposing that you might have women in the future - which in all frankness I doubt - this will not be enough; nothing will ever be enough. You will always be an orphan to those adolescent loves you never knew.
>In you the wound is already deep; it wilI get deeper and deeper. An atrocious, unremitting bitterness will end up gripping your heart.
>For you there will be neither redemption nor deliverance. That's how it is.

I don't have a girlfriend because I'm incredibly selfish. I am a huge sociopath who is genuinely incapable of putting someone else's feelings before my own.

I'm just confused, I don't understand why nobody is interested in me romantically. I'm not ugly, I'm fairly polite, I'm smart, I'm (semi) talented, I'm in great shape, so why doesn't anyone want to be with me?

No, you're another angry incel who thinks he's Patrick Bateman
> I am a huge sociopath
As apposed to a small sociopath?

Because there's tons of Chads to compete with

>you are not good looking therefore not good

wow it's like the incels are right but you attack them

I've learned that I can't fuck away the pain. But at least I can fuck anything that walks and have norimies think I'm some kind of ladies man.

WHICH ONE OF YOU DID THIS? I DID NOT CONSENT TO HAVE MY POST ON REDDIT DELETE THIS
reddit.com/r/Jow Forums/comments/9qi9f9/robot_gets_some_unique_advice/

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Are you socially competent? Any recreational skills or hobbies?

I have a females friend after I'm with her I feel less sad about the >no gf part of my life she also let me rest my head on her shoulder the last time I saw her

mushrooms, meditation, various spiritual interests. im currently interetested in gnosticism and i believe god is malevoment but jesus will return and hopefully he can end my conciousness so i never have to experience this nightmare ever again, or put me in anime heaven or something

also i castrated myself

Are you the user who posted his castration?

Fairly competent socially, but I don't do much recreationally

yeah in 8ch, but the literal nigger admin banned me from there because he simply didnt like me, i didnt break any of the rules. and just deleted alot of my good posts

i dont want to post there anymore, so i show up here

Shut up; that's how.

The best thing to do is to just block it out of your mind, lest it drive you crazy.

It helps a lot once you turn 30...that's around the same time the "fuck it" mentality to life kicks in when you realize that nor matter how hard you work to improve your life, you will always be a loser and there's not much else to do other than ride out this patience game of waiting to die called life and fill up your time with stupid amusing bullshit in the meantime.

But sometimes you make the mistake of reflecting on your life and knowing that you'll never be successful...never be a husband...never be a father...that your bloodline dies with you...alone.

...and it hurts....it really fucking hurts.

::sigh:: ...and society wonders why so many of us either kill ourselves.

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Well, I do so by working, training, and studying. Also hooking up with girls in Tinder every couple of weeks is a good way of not having sad feels induced by being horny, I guess.
I've never been able to get a gf though, but I find it quite easy to get laid with males and females, so it probably has to do with me being too focused on improving myself and not really thinking about the person next to me. Who knows?

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I don't "go out". Group activities aren't my style and I don't have patience for the empty bullshit most people consider conversation. Moreover, I don't drink alcohol, so 90% of adult activities are already gated off. I only have one or two people I would consider friends, and the only times they "go out" are with their wives, girlfriends, or children.

My job means I talk to women all the time, usually in an intimate (1 on 1) setting to boot. I've no trouble with this, other than the aforementioned dislike of vapid blathering. I don't think I've ever formally asked someone "out" before, and I've no clear picture as to what that would even mean. If it's just inviting them to something I was already going to do, like get food or see a movie, then I've done that a couple or so times a year. But, again, I don't do many things that would be group activities, so that opportunity is necessarily low.

That's an easy cope to make user, and I'm sure I can't convince you I'm not an asshole, but my job requires I be amiable and empathetic, so I'd like to think I have a pretty good idea of what asshole behaviors look like, and being a pretty introspective guy I can tell I don't have many of the big glaring ones.

>this is a original comment
I didn't expect r9k to be so blatantly r9kish
haha

fuck. she really is a cutie, isn't she?

This board man

This fucking board

Alcohol usually does it for me. That and working overtime

It used to bother me but eventually I got to a point where I just don't really care anymore. I've been alone so long it's more comfortable and the idea of being intimate with some one repulses me.

The universe has a plan for everyone, and for whatever I was meant to be alone.

>why not just get a girlfriend?
Holy fucking shit

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I do relaxing things that I wouldn't have the time for if I had a gf. Also try to keep busy to keep mind off gf. Also fap a decent amount.

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I just don't think about it anymore. It's too depressing.

I'm about to turn 25 and I'm puzzled by what people do on dates. Intimacy and having an emotional connection to someone not related to you is a foreign concept to me. The idea of sex doesn't exist either, I can't conceptualize it, I can't picture myself doing it.

I see couples everyday on my college campus kissing, holding hands, hugging and it's all so foreign to me.

literally life as an autopilot NPC

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Don't feel the urge to kill despised degenerates. No satisfaction in it.

Iktf, I will be heading off to the korean army soon as a virgin so I might do something really dangerous, I might start randomly shooting toward the north while Im on guard at night and hopefully start a war and some bloodshed...
If I am not gonna experience love I want to experience war, I want to go out and see some shit humans should never see and become desensitized to any emotions forever

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I focus on other things. Too many other issues in my life I'd rather get sorted out before I care about a relationship (eg. career, pursuing grad school or potential doctorate, etc).

The fact I've never really been approached makes me believe there is something intrinsically wrong or defective with me though that goes beyond appearance, social skills, or personality. Perhaps it's really just that simple. It's a gnawing feel that eats away at my limited confidence. I use that as a justification to safely assume that it was never meant to happen and likely never will. I'll admit I've never made a move myself, so I can't really complain. I just figured I would have met someone where things would have clicked through happenstance at this point in my life. Those chances have kind of dried up at this point, as I'm kind of too old to be thrown into circumstances where I'll meet new people without taking the first steps myself now. I don't really see a point in those first steps as I don't see what value I would bring. Nor do I see what value a relationship would bring at this point, having never experienced one. You can't really miss something you've never had. Just feel stuck in life while everyone else moves on with theirs and either is getting married or moving on in their careers. Slowly distancing myself from friends and acquaintances out of some semblance of shame or awkwardness.

I just lost mine forever.

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Just imagining how expensive having a girlfriend might be helps me get through the day. Like, even small gestures like taking her to club or a restaurant can take a toll on my financial well-being. So, instead I buy games with the money I saved.

Don't buy it, rent it. Women are overrated. You are sad because you believe in the Hollywood fairy tale of how some woman will love and care for you forever. Reality is women are incapable of love in the same depth as men. They love whatever social status you can give them, nice house, car, gifts etc until a better offer comes along and her hamster brain goes into overdrive and she leaves you like you never existed. You've been warned!

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MGTOW and jacking off

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>says this
>posts anime
sure thing bud

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women are fickle my guy