We’re both back in town for Christmas break.
She broke it off in a really rough way 4 months ago and I finally got over her...
and now she hits me up drunk last night and says we should see each other wtf...
I don’t know if I should just block her or go and see her. It’s just still so painful to think about...
Is going out to breakfast a good idea or what I don’t want to get hurt anymore I might just block her...
No it isn't mate. Nothing good will come of this.
She hasn't fallen back in love with you. She's lonely and bored and thinks 'ah good old user he'll do until I can go back to my new great life' Sorry to say that mate, but it's probably true. If it makes you feel better you'll always have me, I believe in you and I love you.
Block her user, it’ll only get worse from here if you keep contact.
Bruh...
Bro stop playing games block the bitch
This man knows. Don't be her toy again.
dont block her. just dont respond.
As the other poster said, she’s bored and has no one else to talk to. She’s not getting any dick or was just broke up with someone else/got dumped.
Go see her. Maybe it's true love... why else would she come back? Go to her.
Does it again, call the police
DO NOT RESPOND TO HER and move on. Trust me. Trust us. Trust Jow Forums
PUMP AND DUMP user NONE OF THIS OTHER GAY SHIT GET SOME CHRISTMAS COOCHIE MY BOY
Put her on “seen” and nothing more
Hatefuck her
redpilled
if you're confident you can fuck her without catching feelings again, go for it then ghost her. but you most likely can't so the wisest course of action is to ignore her. godspeed
as much as I hate to admit it, this is probably the case OP
This
Been there, done that. Got dumped again last week. Shit like this never works and it's better to find someone new.
Tfw I'm the abusive ex that always brings them back and makes them think there's a chance just so I can keep fucking them
I've been doing it for over 2 years to my last ex
...
This is correct
Oh fuck off
I've been on Jow Forums for years and it's part of board culture to be there for our bros. The fags at /rk9/ don't know shit, but most advice here is pretty decent.
I like that this is a place where men can have each others backs.
Oh no, the girl you love is back and wants to talk to you, better steer clear!
Everyone in this thread is a pussy trying to sabotage you. This is what you want, bro. Go get it.
I did this one time, meet up with her and act like you barely even care to be there. When you drop her off after hanging out she will try to kiss you. Stop her and calmly ask her, “what are you doing?” I did this too an ex and I’ve never seen a woman lose her mind more in her life. She was an absolute mess. Women can’t handle rejection.
Wait a minute, you guys remember that post thanking the jannies? This post is completely unrelated to fit and jannies ARENT cleaning it. Thread is evidence of shit jannies
This is the kind of shit advice you get from /rk9/
OP, if you go to her, you will hope for something. You might tell yourself you won't, that you won't let yourself get attached again. But it won't work. You will hope, you will fall in love again - and she will take that love and hope and crush it, just like she did 4 months ago. It might not even be her intention, and things might even work out for a little while. But eventually, she will remember why she broke it off the first time, or find some other reason, and she will dump you again.
I've been through this 3 times in the past year. It's not worth it.
Grow up lad. My ex hit me up last week after 4 months apart. You have to know, she is only fishing for resources. Not necessarily money, but validation, the most valuable resource for a woman.
She is testing the quality of the conversation just to see where she has you. If you give in, if you are over her, if you've perhaps found someone new, and so forth getting the information she needs. She is not in love with you, she has 4-5 other orbiters JUST LIKE YOU in her scope, from whom she feeds off and gets her validation off.
Be assertive, don't be a cold fish that is just showing her you're mad. But do not give in, do not meet up with her.
Be good and be smart, women are whores and you should also be. There are levels to this shit, you have to play the game or be played by the game. Cuz in the end, no one blames the player but the game. Be strong and fuck that whore.
>broke it off in a really rough way
Dude, why are you considering seeing her? Call the police. What could you even do with her anyway? Lick her pussy? Get your balls played with? There's no hope for you if you're thinking about having a social call with the person who violently ripped your thing off.
BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK DONT DO IT NOOOOO MERRY CHRISTMAS
Send her a fuck you
Normie pls go and stay go
Redpilled, but also quite based
similar feel OP
long story but we connected via long distance texting after not interacting for a while, she wanted to get back together after it got all lovey dovey then I basically called her a slut and pushed her away
now I'm finna call her and tell I'm sorry and that I love her when I get some time to myself
this is a bad idea but fuck it
What did you say to your ex lad?
Well lad, in August she reached out, commenting about my trips and so forth I put on Instagram & snapchat, saying things like: "Looks like you are having fun, I'm glad for you. I'm moving next soon".
>she moved to study or something
In translation from whore to human: "Looks like you are having so much fun, I don't like that it bothers me and I'm moving next week so I'll have it better than you".
4 months later, one week ago she reached out before she moved back to her shitty city and said:" Hi, you just crossed my mind all of a sudden that's why I'm reaching out this randomly, how are you user"
To which I replied something:" Hi, I've been good moved away got my dream job as an engineer etc etc got a brand new apartment in a big city in my country (her dream city aswell)", to which she replied and asked how I'm liking my new job.
I did not answer this one just to test her patience. She later replied something like:"Hello are you there???". To which I replied: Hi again, been busy yes I love everything about my job". She simply said: "I'm glad for you".
And that is where I left her on read. Not too cold nor hot, a rejection but at the same time not, simply indifferent. I'm living my best life, getting more /fit for each day and she is in over 50000 $ debt for a shitty 4 months education ;).
She knows this and as some lad said on the thread that these whores can't withstand this. Since every other guy would panic and ask for a meet up, feeding her with validation. Fuck that, got no time for that. And if she ever tries to ask me out, then and only then, will I simply say that I do not have time for her. Doing this. I'm feeding of her, and not the other way around.
That's the game my lads, eat or get eaten. Do not submit to the warmth of a beautiful pussy. You will get hurt.
To be a dildo for a soulless slut.. or not? To give yourself to someone that has probably mocked you in front of other men? To kiss a mouth that routinely fills with random cum?
I’d pass. You deserve better.
Exactly
Based
This
This is a fucking based thread in here.
Post in this thread to make it in 2019 boys. We all deserve it and we're all going to get it.
She's out there right now looking for us too
Here's your chance OP, do you wanna make it, or do you wanna be a sad cunt?
Offer her no explanation, offer her no justification, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, don't give her a reason to make you feel bad. My ex used to drunk text me like clockwork at the beginning of every semester in college, because she didn't have anyone else and needed some attention.
I would recommend not texting her back at all, because that's the adult move. But if she pesters you, just respond with a "Not interested" or a "No". If you call her out or make fun of her, it just leaves an opening to allow her to make you feel bad. If she asks why, don't respond. The goal should be to get her to leave you the fuck alone, it's not your job to teach her why she's wrong, or to change her.
You can do it OP
based
what if it is true love and this is my only chance?
not OP
Hitting dangerous levels of based and redpilled there mate. You're a good guy
Don't you feel any remorse for making her feel bad?
Why would I? It’s not like women are people or anything.
>To kiss a mouth that routinely fills with random cum?
That's hot though
u r bad goy
He's part of the problem but if he's been doing that to a girl for 2 years, then the girl clearly has issues and he's probably having to deal with a crazy girl just for pussy
just fuck her lol
why would u ever agree to see a female in the AM when they are at their most hideous and most irritable