Do women actually care about personality?
Do women actually care about personality?
in a roundabout way, yes. if other people like you, she will like you.
If you are 7/10+? Yeah
Otherwise? Hell no
They only care about themselves.
yes but it's a cold comfort for us, most robots have terrible personalities
Yeah, if they were only interested in what a man looks like they'd have no way to choose between Chads
Buck up user, there are plenty of ugly guys who swoop attractive women through their charm or success. A cynic might say that they only date ugly guys for money, but at the same time you have to have confidence to get money and are probably pretty interesting if you are so successful.
really it's just that after a really basic level personality carries very little weight compared to everything else.
Once you're attractive, sure, it matters, but if you're not attractive physically, then it doesn't.
yes, but everyone's piece of shit personality in this thread will get them nowhere.
I like to think I have a good personality
most people think too highly of themselves, even if they know they are shitty
Most of them in Oklahoma do. Personally I think its number one. Of course I have things I find attractive like everyone else. But a 10 can go to a 2 if the wrong thing comes out if their mouth and vice versa
I don't think highly of myself, I know my flaws and I know I'm ugly. What I meant by good personality is that I'm not a dick to everyone I meet
Damn I need to move there then
Maybe. It's more traditional I think, at least from what I've seen on here. Most people stick with the one they found in high school. But you have your outliers. Also not unusual to find women who never had a boyfriend even into their 20s.
For me. I'm with the same guy (first boyfriend) that dated me in junior high
Whoa. Oklahoma sounds based
I'm 5'11
White
Get told I'm good looking
But I'm autistic and no self confidence
How well would I do dating wise in Oklahoma
Idk. The lack of confidence thing makes it hard to speak to girls doesnt it? You gotta be able to chat with them. All shy girls here
I can do it but internally I'll be freaking out. I can not sperg out but inside I'm having anxiety and I might blush but I can definitely talk but I can't start up a convo
>Do women actually care about personality?
going by what I have seen they most certainly do.
a 7/10 5'6 qt blonde friend of mine, is banging a 5'6 5/10 mexican dude.
she must have seen something in him besides his looks, confidence and personality go a long way.
You.may do alright then. Everyone's friendly. Easy to start small talk. To outsiders it seems intrusive but okies are just like.
Hey there! How you're morning? What are you up to? Oh well have fun!
Thats comforting to hear. How's the job market in Oklahoma
What state are you in?
she lives in florida if that is what you are asking.
Depends on your occupation. Youd get paid less here but things are cheaper than most places
Florida people are based?
That's nice to know
Oklahoma sounds great
Are the people actually nice or two faced like in alot of southern states
Older generation seems more two faced. I think everyone has a tendacy a little bit
Only if you look like Chad first.
I assume that once you are attractive to them their are aspects of your personality that will endear you to them or that would kill their attraction for you.
Much like us
True, are people easy to get along with there or are they annoying
if youre ugly and poor nothing will save you
Yeah they do, id say the smart ones anyway. most young chicks dont give a fuck though. i feel its mostly a bragging thing between the inner group. who ever can get the hottest dude wins. obviously they dont really talk about it but they totally subliminally do it.
Do milfs care about looks?
A little bit but not really. Looks are king
Really? Just fuck life then
Learn game OP, watch how life really works...
I've definitely rejected stupidly attractive men on the basis of personality. I've also liked unattractive men on the basis of personality.
Trouble for a robot is that this is never aplicable to online scenarios.
we do, a lot actually, T think i care more about personality than looks as meme as that sounds, it's true
>Do women actually care about personality
Personality matters only if you're attractive and come from a rich family. Otherwise no. Women will show no interest if you're poor and ugly despite excellent personality.
>>Do women actually care
only about themselves
Definitely, but if there's no physical attraction then it doesn't matter too much (goes both ways innit)
I'm probably a 5/10 but my gf says I'm one of the nicest people she has ever met so I guess so
Yes but you have to meet the bare minimum of physical attraction. Then how you act matters. If you're Elephant Man, no amount of personality is going to help you. If you're like a 5/10, a good personality will give you a leg up on 5/10 guys who are pieces of shit.
Think about it like this:
Getting a wife is sorta like fishing. If you have a nice shiny lure with a good strong hook, you'll get plenty of bites. Even if you suck at reeling them in, the hook is so well embedded in them you'd have to be really fucking dumb to lose it. On the other hand, being ugly but with a great personality is like being really good at reeling fish in, but having no bait, lure, and a really shitty hook. You're hardly going to get any bites, and if you do, there's a good chance it'll get away anyway.
Yes. Women often choose fat ugly asshole bastards because they're "funny" and "charming"
Women who are in their 30s and below 6/10 care.
Yeah take a look at ice poseidons story. Nerd chad who made it big and has tons of followers and tons of chicks around him because he has a commanding leader, funny, outgoing, confident and autismal personality that women are attracted to and they fight over him and will fuck him. Its pretty shallow but he still has access to pussy and status solely because of his personality. Hes a lanky ugly motherfucker and still gets plenty of hot chicks on his dick
There are only two aspects of personality which were found to be important.
Being socially successful is the first. Which is only partially related to personality.
The only part of personality which had a massive impact on the attractiveness is wanting to have/being good with kids.
that's just being polite, doesn't mean you've got a good personality mate
I do, but some don't. It's the same with men.
>who made it big
So he's rich? and women follow him?
Hmm...
Absolutely. But the problem is you have to have a genuine personality. Its like you can't call a cat over with treats because it knows you want that. But if you are enjoying a book and minding your own buisness cat will want to sit in your lap because now you are more comfy now
Looks and personality > just looks > just personality.
Obviously. That's how ugly men get laid.