I love you, and that's what matters

A relationship is much closer to a parent-child bond; usually father-daughter though sometimes it can be the opposite depending on how unconventional it is

Essentially your friends are equals; they can handle themselves. You do things with them as separate entities looking to have a good time. In a relationship you are dealing with someone who you care about extremely deeply - could be the same as with your friend - but they are not your equal. You are either their dominant - thus a protector, a decision maker, etc. - or a submissive, meaning they make plans and you go along with them because you like being given/told what to do. This is directly tied to sex and bringing the socially acceptable part of that dynamic into a publicly acceptable format - thus, a relationship.

perhaps you misunderstand. when a girl shows any affection towards me, even if she only means it as friendship, i start trying to fugg her because that's the bond she's trying to establish (in my mind). it sends mixed signals. how can she claim to love me if she won't show me in the way that i need, namely throught intimate touch. having a female friend doesn't fulfill any yearning in me. only if she's a gf does it carry any weight or give any meaning.

>I love you
Yeah, sure you do. Go fuck yourself and never speak to me again.

>Go fuck yourself
doesn't need to when she has someone to do it for her :-)

I absolutely hate you.

better do something to prove you hate me.
other wise I won't believe you.

You're saying you find it impossible for a woman to love platonically?

When I was 15 I threw a party at my house while my parents were gone. They found out about it but I was spared because my older sister cared about me and took the blame for everything. She lost her car and phone but still maintained it was her and not me. That's what platonic love from a woman looks like. As much as this board would enjoy it I did not need to put my penis inside my sister to know that she loved me.

A woman who wants to have sex with you doesn't have to actually give a shit about you either, you know. Women are a lot more like men than we want to admit.

Bruh, a story about a fucking SIBLING looking out for you does not compare to relationships with women.
Your sister would not have done that for some random goofy beta like you who wasn't related to her

No, but she'd do it for a friend she genuinely cared about.

You realize someone you've been genuine friends with for a long time and a sibling are fairly similar in terms of closeness in your relationship? Oftentimes friends even overtake your siblings. I suppose we might have different definitions of friend though- I had a very uniquely close group in high school that has stayed in touch for years.

>You're saying you find it impossible for a woman to love platonically?
no. i'm saying it's impossible for ME to love a girl platonically.

This is clearly because you are incapable of empathizing with them properly, for whatever reason. I used to be the same way.

Women are not misunderstood or victims.

When did I ever say they were? I merely said you specifically are not able to empathize with them.

PENIS STIFFY, CUM REAL STICKY!

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Why would you do this, OP?

reeeeeeeee

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>incapable of empathizing properly
this is actually wrong. i'm legit autistic and i empathize a little too well. it can be very draining, mentally, emotionally, and sometimes even financially. it leaves me vulnerable to people who want free handouts. as a defense mechanism i learned early on i had to shut off the empathy switch and it's only allowed to be used when someone is extremely important to me, i.e. a girlfriend. even then i still get taken advantage of, but not as badly.

you're replying to more than one person. you know that, right?

I agree but I think of it in this way. Everyone here has autism, half is underage and they cannot put themselves in another ones shoes. A lot of people here lie too and exaggerate. They cannot relate to the female gender and write in a way that the similarities between the two sexes are almost nonexistent. The way some talk reminds me of nigger or muslim hate leaked from Jow Forums, whatever race it can be or the opposite of lolcow that bitch about men. It's almost misanthropy and most just hate themselves. The ones going too 'extreme' on this board are trolling or most haven't been outside in a while and just waste all their time on the internet to form their perspective of women.

it will be so gratifying when this self-loathing pile of mass dies.Having empathy and feeling bad for people are two very different things. Or perhaps I am the one in the wrong by using the term empathy when something like "understanding" is probably more accurate. You have to be able to clearly distinguish the logic and reason of someone else - how and why they think the way they do - from your own and start applying that as context to their behavior. When you do this, you realize most people are genuinely not malicious but simply carry around a lot of personal baggage that can be helped and worked through.

as for more than one person: sure, but then again if I can't tell you apart there isn't much of a difference

Most people don't realize how underaged Jow Forums is. As a user for 5 years who turned 19 last month I'd bet about 70% of the people on here are minors. Gives massive perspective on some of the worldviews I see.

>most people are genuinely not malicious but simply carry around a lot of personal baggage that can be helped and worked through.
i do understand that, but helping someone takes a lot of energy out of me. i have to ration it carefully. being unironically autistic, i am unable to determine many people's motivations. i have learned to default to "fuck 'em" out of necessity, out of self preservation. it makes me come across as a selfish prick at time, and i'm ok with that because it minimizes the chances of me being fucked over. i have a really hard time telling people no, so i do my best to keep them at arms length.