>meet a girl a few weeks ago
>invite her to come hang out with some of my friends one week after meeting her
>she enthusiastically accepts
>1 hour before we were supposed to meet up
>she ends up flaking with some BS reason, saying that she'd like to reschedule
>text her that it's okay and it's no problem :)
>that was the last text I sent her and it was 2 weeks ago, I pretended like I didn't care
>yesterday she texted me out of the blue wishing me merry Christmas
>end up talking again
So yeah good thing I did the no contact thing, I was considering texting her first on Christmas but I kept postponing it, looks like laziness paid off this time
I don't know if I keep pursuing this, a flake means she's not interested but she's very communicative through texting
Meet a girl a few weeks ago
You’re a cuck and feeding her free attention for nothing in return
I wouldn't say I'm giving her much attention, it's just that I wasn't expecting her to give me any after me not talking to her
why the fuck do you post this on Jow Forums, nigger?
also, in those 2 weeks she got fucked raw by two different dudes, but she wants to keep her options open to betabux, thats why she will write you once every week or so. but don't expect to fill her hole within the next two years
That’s what attention whores do bro
>Oh right
>Hey! Where’d my orbiter go? Lol
>I’ll wave the smell of pussy at him for a sec and get back on the attention train
If you “met” her on tinder or something like that then the guys above me are probably right and you should just drop and forget her. If you met her in real life it’s slightly better chances that she isn’t totally BSing you.
>attention whore
>doesn't seek attention for 2 weeks
The only correct response was to text her "Merry Christmas" tomorrow and then no more to ill edge responds again, and then you only respond a minimum of 4 hours later
I met her in a dancing class
fit is my home board and I don't post anywhere else
She's busy with her first string Chad, and then he moved on after fucking her
>dancing class
OHNONONON HOMO ALERT
this
Yeah? That’s how it works. She’s not getting it all from one nigga.
it's actually a really effective way of meeting girls in person, there are always more females than males in these classes, and if you're funny you'll always make a good impression on your dance partners
Same for improv and drama classes, you guys should try it sometimes
The only improv I do is with my left hand and my penor
she clearly doesn't seek attention from OP if she contacts him only once in 2 weeks.
Stfu cuck, these are the only good threads these days.
For OP, this is why i hate interacting with women, if they want you, and you show you want them back, they turn off cause they know they can your attention for free as their friend.
Ignore them, and their hamster brain kicks in, making them want you more.
It is fucking retarded but its what you get when you deal with women.
Yes, to place him back in her orbit
Don't be so quick with this, I did this once with a woman and she's now my oneitis, I haven't even seen her in 3 years yet she's always in my mind. She showed interest but I thought back to what my Jow Forums friends said so i ignored her and eventually she gave up and found a different guy to fuck, I felt like an idiot and still regret it to this day. His advice isn't wrong just be careful when using it
>having oneitis in the first place
>completely ignoring a bitch like an autist instead of showing vague interest every so often and escalating as she wants more of your attention
Idiot
Tou would never know, the second you answered her advances she would ghost you. Its in their nature to secure as many options before choosing 1 out of the 10 guys she has DM’ing her.
If you like your 1/10 chances then good luck. If you wish to get a gf, just ghost her back and wait for her to crawl to you.
If a girl is showing interest, then you set a date . Then you pull back and have limited contact till you see her. Repeat this for as many dates as it takes to fuck.
If she flakes or makes excuses, then you start permanently ignoring her and never respond. That's a dead end waste of time.
People with no experience don't understand how to properly pull back