why is it so hard to make friends with autistic guys as an autistic girl?
there are barely any autistic girls to begin with so it feels like I'll literally never make any friends I can relate to, I can't relate to normies at all and whenever I try to make friends with them they hate me
Autists are dramatically hyper-involved with their interests, girls typically have no interest so autistic girls are just especially vapid.
Do you like going fast and trains?
You need to learn that men and women can't be friends.
no I like collecting things and organizing stuff, my special interest is video games and modding video games
in my experience autistic girls are not vapid at all tho, most of them barely even take care of their looks
I don't either
but they're hard to find they're all in hiding like me because there's only autistic men out there and they are absolutely the worst to be friends with, not worth it at all, it's just stressful and exhausting
where can I find other autistic women to be friends with then? I can't be friends with normie women, I have tried and it is impossible
Friendship is a two-way street user, maybe you should try harder to make friends with them
Don't aspies love forums? There must be one out there for females. Or Reddit. I'd assume it's hard for any aspie to build true friendships with other aspies because they're often selfish and lack empathy.
I've tried to make friends with autistic dudes before and they just want to put their dicks in me, it's actually impossible and not even worth trying
I can't make friends with autistic women because they barely even exist, I wouldn't even know where to find them
I had a actual dxed gf in 2012, they are possible to find. She made a serious call out post for me, I'm. Dxed autistic so people usually ignore my social fax pas but she took it seriously
Men can't be friends with women unless their sexual needs are satisfied.
Now think to yourself, are autistic guys people who have a healthy sex life? Hell not. It is impossible for women and men to be friends if the man is sexually famished. Women can pull it off but men can not, and as an autistic guy I will be thinking of fucking you instead of being your friend if you were going to offer yourself as a friend, and always be aware of it
it's hard for me to build friendships with normies because I literally don't even understand them at all, not because I'm selfish or lack empathy. it's hard for me to be friends with autistic dudes because like I said, they just wanna fuck and also they don't have empathy and are selfish which just makes it more stressful to be around them than just being alone, they're not worth being friends with because of that.
I have no problems with empathy and I'm not selfish tho
What games do you mod, femanon?
TES games and all of The Sims games
inb4 som mad skyrim mods
So find autistic men who don't want sex, it's not hard. Asexuality is overrepresented in the autistic population
I'm almost 30 I've spent my entire looking for them but they don't exist
>and also they don't have empathy and are selfish
Wow, you sound like a terrible person. No wonder no one wants to be friends with you.
yeah, it's called having autism my dude
don't really know what else you were expecting
You're not autistic, probably just BPD who got misdiagnosed. Those are terrible selfish people too.
nope, def autistic
I have all kinds of sensory disorders that have nothing to do with BPD
I'm diagnosed autistic and you are spot on. Except that I have problems with empathy and I can be extremely selfish. So what happens is you can't have any friends or relationships whatsoever. I'm fine with being alone but sometimes it would be nice to have someone that cared about me.
I'm not selfish or have problems with empathy, I just feel like friendships with anyone that isn't an autistic woman like myself are too exhausting and stressful to be worth it
normies I have literally no idea what they want from me
and autistic dudes are similar to you, selfish and have no empathy. I obviously don't think they do it on purpose tho, I used to be just like them but I had to practice really hard at training myself to think about how other people might feel to be more empathetic and less selfish so I understand why they do it. they just make terrible friends and I'm tired of putting up with it only for them to be like:
>me caring about them and being nice to them
>so this means I can put my dick in you right?
>nope
>wow friendship ended
I can't take growing attached to someone like that over and over again only for them to toss me aside because I don't want to fuck them, it's exhausting
> 26
> KHHV
> seem to have lost libido
> maybe ace
> slightly autistic but not diagnosed
> not sure if I should be contactfagging for potential friends on a basket weaving forum
Up to make a new friend, even though apparently men and women can't really be friends and you'll have to flash your tits at random intervals throughout the duration of our friendship to scare the incel spirits away and for good luck.
Idk. Show some of your mods or something interesting though. Modding is nice, map making is pretty nice too, 3d modelling is difficult and game designing is a bitch.
Forgot to add discord it's in the trip now
I don't relate however how you think every a autistic man is after sex. As said.
I've met plenty of men that say they don't care about sex whatsoever.
I have had some friends that are girls and I never wanted to have sex with them, the idea of having sex with them made me feel grossed out.
Try harder.
>and you'll have to flash your tits at random intervals throughout the duration of our friendship to scare the incel spirits away and for good luck.
ehhh no thanks, sorry
good luck
Because autism makes social interaction hard, you're probably just as awkward as we are and it all ends up a big cesspool of awkwardness that neither of us can handle
The best way is to become a prostitute. You get attention, sex, and money. What's not to love.
At some point you are going to have to choose one of three things
1. But the bullet and deal with the normie women
2.try and find a autistic male that isn't a complete dick only thing about fucking you nothing else, ditching you after he's fucked you/has not chance to fuck you
3.come to terms with being alone maybe be a fall of something 2D
The trick is to find the opposite of you not the same as you. Opposites attract. Use it to your advantage, think more about it everytime you feel the tingling.
literally find one that faps
i hanged out with a girl and didn't come on to her at all. i even massaged her, especially her butt. we cuddled for like 1 hour and i didn't pop a boner
all because i fapped the night before
Try to talk even if they don't and show your power level.