>mfw guy tries to talk to me and i act autistic the whole time
It only lasted for like 20 seconds because I cant keep up a conversation, especially with a guy I like. I felt so fucking nervous as I was talking to him, I couldnt even bring myself to make eye contact with him and I noticed I had an autistic grin on my face the whole time. My voice also sounded as if I was held captive in someones basement and told me to say my final last words before I go. Im terrible at being a normal human female. I realized i will never find a boyfriend because I cant talk for jackshit and Im utterly terrified at the idea of a human male interacting with me since Ive never really had one as a friend. It definitely does not help that im unattractive so my fate looks to be pretty sealed.
I really hate socializing with people for this reason because every time I try I miserably fail and they back away from that point on. Ive been friendless for the past two years and onwards and I dont think things are going to get any better. The only way I can subdue my loneliness is by getting a dog because at least it doesnt expect me to require social skills to experience companionship.
you are a girl (presumably), it is okay for you to make the weak willed reaching out via messenger to a guy that has approached you irl. doesn't work the other way around tho
Jackson Reed
It's ok when girls act autistic it's cute to guys.
I'm gonna make some tea, any anons want some? How do you have it?
Colton Cooper
Even if it's fake, some robot could read this so i'll post an advice. Nobody truly cares about you. So if you sperg and embarass yourself, do not fret, they'll forget it soon anyway. So just b urself fampai
Sebastian Peterson
Hurr durr "girls always have it easy"
While slightly true, OP is probably ugly to the point where everyone thinks they can do better. Appearance is like 95% of everything that matters
Asher Lewis
You know the rules and so do I. It's simple really.
Sounds like you probably made him fall in love/lust desu. Few guys really want another worldly knowitall Stacy, many endure their persona for their tits.
Caleb Murphy
It's much more likely that she's from a little below average to average looking, and she just hasn't made the single step a woman needs to do to score: Go outside. For example to a bar, a cafe etc.
Hudson Kelly
not necessarily lol
Jeremiah Hall
Unless she looks like Gothmog, then yes necessarily lol.
Ayden Jones
>Slightly
A girl stuttering over her words and acting nervous is cute and fuels us to get her out of her shell.
there's a 99% chance as a guy you'd get put on a her mental "potential rapist list" aka the unattractives
>A girl stuttering over her words and acting nervous is cute and fuels us to get her out of her shell. Maybe for robots, but your average normie male does NOT like shy autistic girls. If anything, they see them as weird and uninteresting.
Blake Williams
Then stop going for normie males
Honestly the idea of a girl being awkward and having difficulty speaking to me is really nice, I wish I could be that attractive that I'm intimidating in that way. A girl has called me intimidating before, but only because I don't really talk much.
Henry Anderson
There's a girl in my class who kinda acts like this. Glancing at me but avoiding direct eye contact, talking to me but sometimes stuttering, not saying anything or repeating the same words. Playing with her hair to a point where it seems deliberate, or just smiling for no apparent reason I don't know if she's into me or just generally a bit goofy
Joshua Adams
The guy I like isnt even a chad, but to me, i find him really attractive while to others he might just be a little bit average looking. Also, I cant control the fact that the ones who do try to talk to me are of normie status and have a solid understanding of basic social skills. In fact, everyone in my area is normie to some degree.
Adrian Gutierrez
Lol C if this is you, then i just want to let you know that i think its adorable. Also i really dont mind it that you have trouble socializing, i had a big problem with it till someone came around and helped me. If it isnt you then i guess i made a fool of myself waiting for you to leave the library yesterday. J
Andrew Johnson
>OP is probably ugly to the point where everyone thinks they can do better. she said guy talks to her aand she spergs out. a guy talked to her
Jose Long
Sorry to break the news user, Im not her and youre not him. I hope things eventually work out in your favor though.
Luke Myers
Also if it is you, could you just reply instead of posting on an anonymous indonesian textile weaving forum
Hudson Lewis
Ouch, ok thanks anyways. I figured she may post here since shes a giant weeb
Asher Barnes
reckon there's any way you could speak to this lad by text, or online? maybe there are some games you both play, then you'd have an excuse to go in a call
Angel Taylor
If you want a boyfriend, why not ask robots for contact info? We aren't all ugly or mean, and we're probably more understanding of autism than the average norman. I'd be willing to talk to you if you post your discord
Andrew Moore
They fucking do. Dumb bitch OP is just autistic. All of the females here are too retarded to function. If they just tell the guy they want to hang out then it will work 9 times out of 10 but these pussy ass cunts are deathly afraid of rejection while us guys are the way we are because we've been beaten to death by rejection.
Evan Bennett
I don't think you know the rules user. Tits or GTFO apply to those who try to get attention because they are a girl. OP wasn't attention whoring. She just said that she was terrible at being a normie. Lurk moar.
Adam Turner
He is out of the ordinary for me, but it is impossible that I could be out of the ordinary for him too. About as close to robot-thinking as females usually get.
Nicholas Nguyen
I like shy, akward derpy women. I'm not a robot. Yeah I know wtf am I doing here. I drop in when I get bored on the other boards. Any way when a woman is shy or akward it takes a lot of pressured off the guy which makes the conversation more enjoyable even if you are studering or talking very softly. When I have a conversation with a Stacy it's like I have to fight to keep my attention on the conversation because most are just carbon copies of each other going on and on about the same dumb shit. My mind just wants to drift and all I hear is bla bla bla. My ex-wife was a Stacy it was honestly mind numbing. So I actually like women that that aren't like that. Maybe it's because I'm older now but hang in there you will be ok. Just don't run away when you are being derp stick around. What's the worst that can happen the dude isn't interested. The girl I'm dating now could definitely be a fembot she's never been here but she was just like you. Once we got past that akward stage (and it took a while!) she's turned out to be one of the kindest, caring, loving people I have ever met. I know you will find someone if you don't give up. If a guy approaches you and starts talking just stick with it! I know it's hard and your first response is to run away but the longer you talk and the more you try the easier it will be. I promise
Samuel Bailey
>9 times out of 10 but these pussy ass cunts are deathly afraid of rejection while us guys are the way we are because we've been beaten to death by rejection.
That's because women aren't usually rejected. When we are it's absolutely crushing.
Guys can handle it better or at least get used to it...
Austin Robinson
there's a girl like this at my work she's at the desk next to me says the minimal she can to people, maybe a few words a day when i have to explain something to her or fix something she messed up on and she has to come over to my desk she acts peppy and excited and has a big smile on her face and you can tell she tries her best to make other conversation but fails miserably at it i keep my distance and ignore her unless i have to interact with her, honestly dealing with girls like you is just too much of a pain
>beaten to death by rejection It's just a numbers game. Get rejected move to the next one. Don't get mad don't lose confidence keep moving. If your game is weak change it. Figure out where you are going wrong. Most women are wired the same it's not hard to figure out how to pull the strings. The most important thing is to be confident. Without that you have nothing. I know what your about to say just stfu because you can learn to be confident it just take some effort
Adam Sanders
>she thinks guys dont like nervous autismo girls sweetie he'll still fuck you
Liam Reyes
>Ive been friendless for the past two years I'll be your friend, you wanna play games, watch weebshit and masturbate together user? You'll see it's easy talking to a guy after a while.
Jason Wilson
>you'll never masturbate back to back with a femanon
>>you'll never masturbate back to back with a femanon
I'm 40 and have never done this. If we get as far as being nude the cock is going in the V I'm not masturbating. As a matter of fact I've never masturbated with a woman unless you count pulling out a few seconds before and jerking it a few times to blow on her tits or in her mouth
Gabriel Wilson
I more meant on a call or camming or just doing it together typing desu. A female friend to play games with, watch stuff with, and masturbate together is something I could really use.
Justin Phillips
my wife in everything but title and mother of my kid just left me last month. How did you get thru your divorce and get out and meet people again? im 28 and our daughter is 3 and im fucking dead inside. She left me for another guy and they are now "happy" together and i've been left to pack or throw away whatever shit we had that she didn't take and navigate being a parent alone. You got any advice user? would just kms now if it wasn't for my baby girl. I can't even fathom trying to meet new people right now. It's killing me
Nicholas Thomas
>women are all the same to me, does not matter what hole you get I never get people like you. Glad that I never felt that way about girl even if they were just short flings. Would spared me a lot of pain, but being like that would just be too high a price.
Andrew Jenkins
Nobody cares if you can't talk some guy will teach you because you give him boners
Kevin Miller
>Any way when a woman is shy or akward it takes a lot of pressured off the guy which makes the conversation more enjoyable even if you are studering or talking very softly. If you're an extroverted chad. If you're a robot it makes it fucking difficult because these dumb bitches will let you think that they're not interested and then go cry about everyone wanting Stacy. I'm not gonna try to flrit with some timid cunt that might report me for sexual assault or whatever these assholes do these days.
Liam Jackson
>women are all the same to me, does not matter what hole you get
Never said that don't put words in my mouth asshole. I'm actually in a commited relationship. Did I say any any fucking chick? No I didn't. Move on to the next one you like. What are you going to do be a fusion incell and sulk about the woman you can't have or go looking for another one. Die forever alone I don't give a fuck
Wyatt Martinez
>fusion incell Fucking incel*
Luis Hernandez
>mfw girl tries to talk to me and i act autistic the whole time
Dark as my soul. Wait no thats not right. As negro as this femanon
Adam Jackson
if you like the woods video games and music i could be your friend otherwise good luck
Bentley Anderson
That's fucked bro! You have it harder than I do because I didn't have kids. For me I stayed busy and I think this is important because when you aren't busy you are sitting dwelling on on everything that has happened and it that will fucking eat you alive. I picked up new hobbies but in your case if it we're me I'd focus on your daughter, things you can do with her. Have have fun together and remember she is what matters most now. I know you are hurting bad but you can't change what happened it's done you need to move forward. Believe it or not I have a couple of friends that are in the same situation as you and women have been very receptive to them as far as dating. It's strange like the polar opposite of a single mom. Man you just have to let the past go we can't change it. You will be ok it takes time to heal. It took me a long time but things will get better. Just stay busy and focus on your daughter. Don't anhero that would just fuck her up.
Adrian Howard
Something else I just thought about is if you are following your ex on social media stop! Remove her from all social media accounts you have. I did this when I left my exbbecause they will go out of their way to make you feel like shit posting kissy kissy pics and other shit. I don't know your situation as far as parental rights but if she gets to see the girl and come pick her up then limit any contact to the phone or pick up and drop off points. Don't ask her how her life is and don't tell her that you are crushed it's like feeding a troll
Robert Hughes
Nobody in real life thinks autists are cute, female or otherwise. Fuck off
Kevin Price
This is solid advice user, It's exactly what i'm trying to do right now. Just focus on my daughter. It's just so fucking hard. packing my shit all day and going thru everything today just fucking murdered me though. Moving back into my parents house for 6 months at almost 30. Have to break my apt lease for $2300. Last day here saturday. My brother is bringing his pickup and were getting it done.Good news is I do get to have my girl for to or 3 nights of the week. I just can't shut my fucking brain off at all. Sleep is hard.
Also fuck facebook haven't been on social media since 2014
Austin Baker
It's gonna be really good for me to actually say goodbye to this apt tho. Nothing but good and fucking sad memories that give me nightmares now
Angel Garcia
I like to read these posts and pretend it's my crush posting them. That way I can imagine she was nervous while talking to me today because she's into me and that's why she didn't talk to me long. In reality I know it's because I'm boring and don't know how to talk to girls or guys
>doesn't work the other way around tho I'm getting laid tomorrow because I got drunk and messaged a girl on messenger. I heavily recommend it if you're not ugly.
Christian Jackson
>mfw I work with a girl like you what would you think if this handsome guy let out the stinkiest nastiest eggiest fart in existence?
>I couldnt even bring myself to make eye contact with him and I noticed I had an autistic grin on my face the whole time. My voice also sounded as if I was held captive in someones basement and told me to say my final last words before I go.
I wish a girl would act like this around me
Charles Russell
Autists don't think they are autists you fucking fag that is just us people that really have a hard time talking to people. I can deliver in a dialogue bit every time I'm doing that I feel that I want to die so fucking hard. I don't know man.
Try to talk out loud to a mirror if it was a normal person don't. If it's hard you may need to practice your talking if it's not remember that most people is brainless while they talk to you so try to fake your calmness as much as possible. it works:) Hope you find friends
Andrew Martin
Depends on what symptoms of autism. Meltdowns are definitely not cute, and if her special interest isnt something youre into it will get super annoying. Plus some of them cannot into hygiene. It can either be cute or it will be terrible They will still get sex from Chads super easy tho.
Jeremiah Kelly
Nobody can stop looking at your ugly face or something?
