how the fuck do i cope with this? It has gotten so bad that it is starting to physically hurt. You know that feel when you are so sad and depressed you feel a lot of compression on your chest? I cannot take this anymore.
Extremely depressed and suicidal over no gf
try your hardest to get a gf, if you fail then commit suicide
I just fucking cannot. I tried, and tried, and tried, but to no avail. I am not even ugly, i have been rated a 5-6.5/10. The blackpill isn't a meme, it's over if you aren't an 8/10
how old are you? what was your method of trying?
20 years old. I tried tinder, starting small talk with random girls, befriending girls to get to know them at first, etc. tried over 200 times, been rejected every time. I don't pull that "nice guy" schtick. I thank them for their time and walk away holding back tears.
Let me tell you that no-gf is WAY better than getting cucked. You don't know how good you have it. Once I was like you. I wish I had valued it.
I was fucking cucked. I slept with a girl in high school, fell in love, became a betabuxx until she found a superior dude. Still hurts to this day.
tinder is fucking aids. try other sites like pof and okcupid. set a goal that if you don't have a gf by certain age you'll kill yourself. that's what i'm doing anyways. i set my date at 25 years old. set your date to the maximum age you think you can bear the pain till, and if you don't get one by then, you can die without regret because you tried and failed.
unless of course you can somehow be cured from the pain of loneliness and tfw no gf.
It's so fucking painful it makes me want to get another gf only to cuck her and make someone else feels like I feel so I don't feel so alone anymore.
live for yourself you stupid incel
I got nothing to live for. While i was sleeping with my oneitis in highschool i was actually happy. A woman in your life fixes all of your problems, i would know because i got a small taste of it before.
3 years and i still think about her everyday. Even though she used me and cucked me i still love her and i hate myself for it.
What happens if you had a gf but then she breaks up before 25?
well i'm not sure. i set 25 because that's the longest i'd be willing to wait in misery. if i had a gf who breaks up with me before 25 i would probably do 1 of 2 things
1. kill myslef
2. know that if i find a gf i could do it again and search. might set suicide goal to later date if no wife by like 30 or something.
I really hate false hope. Rather be miserable then hold onto a sliver of false hope
>A woman in your life fixes all of your problems
this honestly. If you're alone, you have to become godlike to have any satisfaction.
but if you have a gf your effort only needs to go as far as it takes to keep her.
this is literally just deoderant and a haircut for most men.
>i still love her and i hate myself for it.
I get it. To feel loved by the girl you love is the greatest feeling in the world. I would give anything to get her back but I can't. She fucking KEKED me. It hurts so much.
>KEKED
LMAO. I was sure I had written cucked. The power of Kek is with me.
You're only 20. You have to learn how to not give a single fuck and just focus on yourself and do things for you, learn to how to make yourself happy.
driving was a huge cope for me, but i realized i cannot afford gas anymore, so my only cope now is dota. Dota keeps me happy until i realize that i have to go another day with no gf.
How tall are you? super orginally
Driving is one of mine too. Are you living the neet life or a really strict budget? I'll tell you from experience that video games are not a good coping mechanism in the long run of things. At our age, people are making moves in life, starting familys, moving, etc. bibeo bames were the shit when I was a teenager, at the time. but I have so much regret not going to school events, hanging out with friends, girls, etc.
gfs are pretty ez to get you just have to put yourself out there and don't bring your emotional baggage along with a gf. because you will ruin it, then be worse off than before.
5'8 and 3 quarters
I wagecuck minimum wage, but my car gets shit gas mileage. I bought a 500 abarth but whenever the turbo spools i get like 12 mpg. Hearing that exhaust note is awesome, but it uses up way too much gas
I do not know how to socialize. I cannot learn, i tried but it always seemed to foreign to me. It is like understanding another language