How do I get a yandere gf

How do I get a yandere gf
I want her to stalk me and be obssessed with me

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fit all of her ideals and make her want to fight for you. don't give in to her easily though

What do yanderes mostly like in a guy?

I don't know if I'd call myself a yandere but I have been known to stalk and be unhealthily obsessed with my exes.
Not sure if they had many qualities in common. I just tend to build a strong attachment to most people that show me affection.

So just be affectionate and kindbbut without an ulterior motive?

I guess so?
Different strokes for different folks though.

I guess I should try to get to know a girl first and hope she's like that

for me personally I become obsessed with people who have traits that I admire and can look up to, and who don't always give me everything I want immediately. the former is more important than the latter for me, though, because if I'm not interested in somebody, 99% of everything they do is a complete turnoff. too much affection? turnoff. entitlement to my attention? turnoff. emotional attachment? turnoff.
I like feeling wanted, not needed. I don't want to be the person fixing your life, I want to make your life better, even if it's already good. I want a relationship where two people are stable by themselves and can lead their own lives without each other perfectly fine, but their company makes it 100x better. So yeah, that's my ideal and that would have to be the situation for me to become obsessed with somebody, as I am now with my current partner.

Hmmm this is great information to know. Thank you for help

I can see the logic in some of this. When I obsess over someone, it's usually because they show me affection. But just too little affection where I feel distant from them. So I try to compensate for that distance by stalking them.

Interesting. I'm learning alot thanks to these repliew

As a fellow yan, I'm sorry to say that you don't choose them, they choose you. You really don't want a yandere. Also avoid anyone with BPD. They say they're yandere but they're not. They could one day suddenly hate you and decide to cheat on you~ DO a little research faggot.

There was a yandere dating website once. You want to know what type of people it was full of? People who wanted polygmist relationships, trannies, weaboos, koraboos, and then there were a few crazy people then there was a really tiny number of yandere's out of hundreds of people there was like 5 maybe. Yan communities are full of people who pretend to be yan for attention or because they're just edgy weaboos. Yans are also not as cookie cutter as they are in your animes. They have A LOT of mental/emotional problems.

But I want a gf that'll threaten to kill my family if i talk to another person other than her

You need to be gigachad for a women to become that obsessed with you, like the Beatles during Beatlemania. Think of the likes of Elvis and 1 Direction. It's a uniquely female phenomenon, there isn't a huge following of men who go berserk at Taylor Swift concerts for example.

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Please be bait
Not Originally

Guys will get obsessed over normal girls though

>uniquely female phenomenon
That is so disappointing, I want my yandere bf NOW.

Yes, day to day life the "male yandere" is far more common. But celebrity wise the fandoms are almost always girls. It is a symptom of hypergamy where women are always striving for a better mate. There is also an element of preselection. If a lot of women desire you, that increases your value even more and increases their desire. In reality woman only go crazy and are willing to kill for the upper ecchelon of Chads.

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Please let this be bait
I just want a clingy gf

Just get a robot bf they'll probably be clingy

Jotaro probably respects more women than Hol Horse

Hol horse doesn't hurt women.
Jotaro tells them to shut up and is disrespectful to them
Jotaro called his own mother a bitch
>inb4 he traveled all the way to Cairo to save her life
Yea but he still doesn't respect her enough to not call her a bitch