I asked out a girl yesterday and she said yes...

If she's from work its more likely she felt pressured but its not over yet. Also depends on what you picked up as "flirty" from her. Some girls need endless amounts of validation and you might have been unintentionally starving her of it with your autism. Care to explain her flirts and how she looks?

She straight up called me cute, asked what type of guys I was into, said she only dates guys like me, and asked if I wanted her number. Not gonna explain how she looks because that isn't really relevant

*what type of girls I'm into
That's an embarrassing typo nice

Sounds like a shit test to me. Don't write her and just wait. You probably get a reply from her that's only like 5 words, telling you she was busy or some shit.
After this wait some hours and tell her you were busy yourself, don't mention the date. If she is interested she will ask you to go out on another day. Don't act desperate.

In that case don't even worry. For her to be that straightforward backing out now would make her look insane/desperate. Just kick back knowing you've already won.

>Short, one word responses
Sorry my man.

You got roastie ghosted man. Shit sucks, but you shouldn't get too hung up on it.

double down. tell her you're there and waiting. wait for the inevitable "sorry i was busy!" response and tell her "i already left"

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go anyways and make an effort to talk to some girls there. and some dudes too, you might make some friends.

It's 4:00 now and still no response. Decided to stay home and play Castlevania Aria of Sorrow instead. Work will probably be weird

>are you still good for today?
wtf are you thinking? she already said yes. go fucking meet her you dumb cunt

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yeah this. just saunter in, late, with an air of nonchalance.
>game on

>Dating women from work
user, what are you doing?

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I'm not just not going to check and show up without knowing if she's going go be there or not. I doubt she showed up at all of she couldn't even respond to one text

It's originally McWagie's

holy fuck you are an autist and i am actually glad you are not going. hopefully she tells everyone where you work about how you were too autistic to even show up to a date.

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She said yes yesterday at like 9:00 PM btw unless you're actually autistic enough to think I shouldn't check to make sure 18 hours later

god i hate you fucking kids today. we used to fucking call a person and ask them on a date then just fucking show up. you didnt have to check in to be sure she is making it.

are you trolling right now or are you really this fucking stupid?

please dont stop being who you are... its a benefit to the world that you will not breed.

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Yes, still go. At worst case, she'll look bad and you'll be seen as dependable, reliant and that promises are important to you.

If she doesn't show up, just ghost her.

>just ghost her
dude ghosting is really fucked up. dude that was molesting me for 2 years fucking ghosted me when i turned 7. not sure if i was just too old for him by that time or what. i may have started to get a bit chunky. but at least let me down easy. take me to a fucking chucky cheese or some shit.

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>unless you're actually autistic enough to think I shouldn't check to make sure 18 hours later
If I arrange to meet someone at 4pm tomorrow, and the current time is 9pm, why the fuck would you have to check if's still going to happen. It's literally the next day.

>dude ghosting is really fucked up
>girl in OP not showing up isn't fucked up
You're retarded

Already been an hour dude
Because people aren't always dependable, especially girls, and I don't want to waste my time coming if they aren't showing up.

>girl in OP not showing up isn't fucked up
wot? read the fucking thread you dumb fucking cunt. OP didnt even show up after he made plans with her. you are just as retarded as he is for not being able to read you daft motherfucker.

dont have kids user.

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>Because people aren't always dependable
you made plans and didnt show up you fuckwit.

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I seriously hope you're just yanking my chain or some shit. If she actually wanted me to show up, she would have reconfirmed or asked me where the hell I was, which she did neither. If you make plans with literally anyone you always check in the day of to see if things are going smoothly, unless the plans were created that day. The fuck breed of autist are you?

Reading this makes me cringe, big time. Looks like you're the kind of autist that would fall for textbook roastieness. Gr8 job m8.

>be me
>be yesterday
>having text convo with girl
>she stops responding
>texts me the next day that she didnt press send on her last message and was wondering why i stopped talking to her
you fucking retard shit happens. that same girl stopped texting me for 3 days after we were in the middle of a conversation. she dropped her phone in the ocean while she was camping. shit happens you fucking idiot.

I was saying that you implied:
>girl in OP not showing up isn't fucked up
Pic related is you

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No, you're right user. I always make sure that the date is confirmed at least 30 mins bfr. Otherwise don't go. I've been stood up once and it fuckin hurts.

>implying i was implying
Holy shit you have downs or just a touch of the tism? He didn't show up. Get the fuck out with your hypotheticals.

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OP just be sure to fill us in on whatever shit she texts you for not having turned up, right? we're all buds here m8.

Do this please. I need a good laugh.

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"No problem. Met somebody while waiting. See you Monday, Susan, you fucking cunt."

Go half way and wait a few minutes. If she calls asking where u at say you are running late. If she doesnt call then just go home and chill. Dont be that guy that gets stood up like a faggot

How pathetic. If you get stood up it will build character. You can hold your head up high knowing that you were a man of your word and showed up to a date that you said you would be at.

Bring your laptop and some earbuds and sit outside. Order a water and something light like a bread basket or something.

why are men these days such pussies.

don't be that guy who doesn't get the punani

Oh yeah almost two hours now and still haven't gotten shit btw. Mostly I'm just mad because I was becoming comfy with >tfw no gf
But then this girl comes along, gets my hopes up, crushes them, and now I gotta start all over. Just say no if you don't actually want to go out fuck off with this ghosting shit

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SHE SAID SHE WOULD BE THERE. YOU GOT SCARED AND GHOSTED HER. ARE YOU MENTALLY RETARDED?

She'll just be passive aggressive and ignore it whilst telling all his coworkers what a retard he is behind his back.

>crushes them
nigga for all you know she lost her phone and still showed up. you fucked up bad because of you have a very fragile ego that needs constant texts reassuring you that she likes you.

kek

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Nigger can you not read? Op sent her messages trying to clarify. If she cant even reply then she sure as hell wont show up. And if she went she would have had the decency to ask what is going on.

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Stop falling for the memes, moron. You stood her up. Doesn't matter if she also stood you up, but now you took a situation in which you were in the right and turned it into one where you're in the wrong.

>telling all his coworkers what a retard he is behind his back
one can only hope.

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>She lost her phone for assuming
>Apologize next time I see her and set up another date
Easy niggy

>Mostly I'm just mad because I was becoming comfy with >tfw no gf
But then this girl comes along
THIS ALWAYS FUCKING HAPPENS WHYYYYY

This makes me so fucking angry even though I dont know you.
Girls (not all, I know, but enough) pull this shit all the fucking time.
I just dont get it, how can you consider yourself so fucking important that you cant even send a simple apology/explanation?
How can you have so little regard for other peoples time and effort?
It just boggles my mind and I cant deal with this shit, and worst of all is it seems like this kind of blatant indifference is becoming the norm

She just so happened to lose her phoneafter setting up a date?

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OP is a literal faggot onion boy. Why would a child ask a woman out to do grownup things in the first place?

My generation makes me so gd angery.

some great autism ITT

>trying to clarify
clarify? there was nothing to clarify. he asked her to meet him somewhere and she said yes. holy fuck you are an idiot.

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high lights or greatest hits pls

I know man. Probably should have taken it as a sign when she was only sending one word replies and being so fucking slow. Makes me not even want to try anymore

Stop fucking inferring unknowable things from people you do not understand. Not everyone fits into these neat little autistic categories like roasties or chads you people make up.

the fact that you have to ask, for example

I can feel the lack of self-confidence in your texts.

Here's how each of your texts should have been worded:
>I'll pick u up at 4 tomorrow
>[this message isn't sent at all because she already knows the deal]
>On my way, be there in 5
Are you trying to fuck this girl or conduct a job interview?

You have to be in control, and you don't even have to act like an asshole about it. If she has a problem with anything you say, she'll let you know and you can go from there. Asking constant questions and being so formal is weird as fuck, like it isn't even a friendly tone yet you expect this to get a girl to fuck you?!

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I haven't been in a date in 6 years but this guy seems to know what he's talking about

yeah, assume the sale. OP needs to learn some game. and some self-confidence too.

I hate you fucking cunts blaming OP. This fucking whore said she would go out with him and then ghosted him. It's her fucking fault. Go fuck yourselves.

You don't need to have ever been on a date to understand that you should at least talk to a girl you are trying to fuck as naturally as you would a friend. Every text from this robot looks like something I'd send to someone involved in an important business meeting.

yeah OP is a fucking idiot orininino

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I agree with what you say to an extent. The correct path is both firm and considerate. Always try to find the manner that balances those two. But unlike what a bunch of autists on the site say, if balance is impossible, you should ere towards the considerate. Not because you should bend down before women, but because its the right thing to do.
We don't know that she ghosted him. All we know is OP stood her up.

>We don't know that she ghosted him. All we know is OP stood her up.
it's completely normal to confirm before you meet someone. I had a meet with a friend from the internet these days and we were chatting on whatsapp until we met. This fucking whore just ghosted him

Fuck off. If a girl agrees to go out with you, you don't essentially ask her "y-you sure?" twice more. It gives her doubts that she'll have a good time because OP seems completely unsure of himself.

Put yourself in this woman's shoes:
>guy asks you out
>say "yes"
>he texts you details and wants to check if you're ok with them
>"ummmm i just said 'yes'..."
>he texts back: "Alright cool see you then"
>"wow, he seems really uninterested in this... sounds good... *sigh* this guy might be a drag."
>[4 hours before the time]
>guy: "h-hey you still want to go out with me?"
>"WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS GUY'S PROBLEM?!"

It is normal, I'm not faulting OP for that (although his language choice is sub optimal). I'm faulting him for saying he'll do something and then not doing it because he let the autistic losers on this site get in his head about stacies and ghosting and signals. He took a situation in which he was in the right and turned it into a situation where he is in the wrong.

originallly kek

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I still can't believe you fags somehow checking to see if the other person is showing up is wrong. I'm convinced it's just one dude mass spamming this thread with his agenda, but if it's real what the fuck

I dunno man. There's merits to both sides here. Being stood up - and tolerating being stood up - is really shitty. OTOH being a clingy insecure khv is a major turn-off too.
OP just needs to be more manly in his interactions with women from now on. Let this be a lesson to him.

I am OP. I have literally no clue what any of you are talking about all I did was ask to see if she was coming, she didn't reply so I took that as a no, and I stayed home. I've had dates before and I've always made sure that the other person is coming because the bitches are constantly fucking late and it's annoying as hell wondering if you just got stood up

Have you had any response from her yet, user? Also, how old are the two of you?

it's not your fault, OP. Don't listen to these faggots, you did nothing wrong

show up anyway and if she doesn't show up it doesn't matter anyway.
objectively you're no worse off and if you don't show up and she does, you look like an asshole.

lol fucking moron

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there date was like 3 hours ago. he stood her up like a fucking idiot.

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oh no... this is a joke r-right?

No. I'm 19 she's 18
I'll just apologize then and set up another date
Sure did

you didn't do anything wrong OP.
also don't send her any other messages unless she texts you first.

not a joke. dude is has a hard case of the tism

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what is this? the Jow Forums equivalent to # believewomen? #believeOP?? bloody hell.

I haven't. I considered it but I thought it would be better to just come into work and give her the cold shoulder unless she actually explains or really does get mad at me for not showing up

>give her the cold shoulder
something tells me this won't be too difficult for you OP

Don't give her the cold shoulder. Treat her normally you fucking sperg.

It won't. I'm a pretty stubborn fucker
>Just pretend nothing happened OP and act like you're still on good terms
Y'all claiming I'm doing pussy shit but want me to still kiss her ass. I'll respond to her if she talks to me first or needs something work related, but I'm not going to start any conversations myself

You aren't kissing her ass. You're acting like its no big deal. Because its not a big deal. Treating it like its this huge deal is what got you here in the first place. If you normally talk to her, talk to her. If you normally don't then don't. Don't treat her any differently. Do not ask her out again or bring up what went wrong. Act like it means nothing. Because giving her the cold shoulder shows her that to you it did mean something.

The amount of mental effort you kids spend pretending you don't care is absurd. If you really don't care that she ignores you after asking her out then fine. But if you are upset with her for not texting you back you don't have to hide it. If something like that turns her off then fuck her, she isn't worth your time. That's what not caring is.

faggot, next time call her or talk in person and don't check if she's going. She probably lost interest in you when you asked her if she will come (again). I'm male and I have a friend like that and sometimes I don't meet him more because of this bullshit.

Whose this "you kids shit". OP is sperging out and its hard to get around. The least he could do is pretend like he isnt sperging out.

If a woman liked you she wouldn't give a fuck how you phrase a text message. If she doesn't like you, the phrasing of your text messages isn't going to change her mind.

My dude literally all I'm doing is playing Castlevania

She's gonna flake.
Listen OP, flakiness is the disease of this generation. Triple book yourself, expect 2/3 to flake out. Sucks but such is life.

Make plans with exact time, place and remind her how much you think being a flake is ugly (no girl wants to be ugly)

Next time you see her I'd mention in no uncertain terms: flaking is powerfully unsexy. my time is valuable. In or not, I don't care, but communication is what grown ups do.

Works reasonably well, and if it doesn't work for you at least you leave her hopefully better for the next person. Campsite rule and all.