Serious question: How many of you actually want to be helped, and want to change...

Serious question: How many of you actually want to be helped, and want to change? It seems like most people here just want life handed to them.

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you mean like rich people have life handed to them? hmm

I'd like to be helped. Tell me what I need to improve on and I will.

Some people do have it handed to them. I'm not saying that's the way it should be, but why should that matter?

I'm retardedWas meant for What if I said step one was to stop going on Jow Forums?

yea i guess it makes sense that we should all try really hard and struggle just to live a dull existence compared to rich and attractive people

I hate this sentiment. It might seem like robots want life handed to them but god-damn if even the very act of making up your own bed feels like hell, if any sort of chore feels exhausting then suicide is the only option.
And don't get me started on discipline. Both discipline and motivation are shit. What's not shit is habits (Discipline is an asshole way of forming habits and will make you hate yourself.) But it's difficult to form new habits especially if the world's against you every time.
Try telling the NEETS with 20-year work gaps who fucking wrote a thousand resumes, had a hundred internships, graduated with a 4.0 GPA with an honors degree but never even got an interview. And compare them with the vast majority of this board who don't have anything going for themselves except mindlessly consuming media.

I mean yeah, if it makes sense to not go on here

You act like the only board I browse is this one

How about you don't compare yourself to rich and attractive people and just try to build a life you can be content about with your own two hands?
Life isn't fair. Figured you would've figured that out by now.

>bro just don't compare
lol where do people come up with this shit. everyone does it, if you say you don't you are full of shit and we all know it

>You act like the only board I browse is this one
Fair enough, but this board shits on your mental health, not just you, but for everyone. Ideally we'd all leave this site, but if you must stay, only visit a board dedicated to a socially acceptable hobby/interest (sports, cooking, photography).

I once actually gave a shit and worked hard
Got nothing from it
Now I'm a worn out man with nothing in life

I really want help. I've been through therapy, i've been to the clinics. I got my diagnosis (not autism somehow tho) and i've been doing self help.

I want to learn how to feel happiness. I want to be able to do new things. I'm working out, i want to be muscly. I want my family to stop insulting me by becoming a person worthy of complimenting. But with every step i take, i take two steps back. And every time something good happens to me, ten more bad things happen to me. I can't take that shit anymore. It's too hard. I'd like a lucky break for once.

I don't know if "everyone does it". But even if they did why should we compare ourselves to others. Like said

I need real solutions to things not dumb pep talk. My family just wants me to wageslave so i can pay their bills. I want to actually get out and make real money and get real independence. Part of the reason I slithered into NEETdom was because I was tired of paying for them and their happiness while my life has been in perpetual limbo and misery.

>But even if they did why should we compare ourselves to others.
because that's how life works and trying to be 'above it all' is pathetic delusion

dont need help? my life is acceptable for me. not everyone here is a normie or an incel. there are those who sit between the lines. i doubt i will have a relationship so it is nice to read about those who share the same hardships.
good women are a meme. the ratio be 90% bad, 10% good women. chance of meeting a good woman who judges me by my personality is so low it isn't worth thinking about.

As far as being social goes: I'm perfectly fine with a few good friends. Whether we are a social person or not is in our genes. I'm just doing what makes me happy or comfortable.

The secret to improving your life is to do at least one thing per day every day that makes your situation better. There's plenty of simple things to do.

>Exercise
>Clean a room
>Fix something broken
>Get rid of something negative
>Apply for a job
>Train yourself in a skill that will help you find a job
>Normalize your sleep schedule
>Practice a skill you've always wanted to learn
>Try and make new friends

There's lots of ways to become better and happier. All you have to do is one thing per day until it becomes a habit. Then when it gets easy enough, build up to two or three.

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Some of us have knowledge, we know what to do, but not how or we do not have the tools, just look at normals, they struggle too, how does a mid 20s neet hs dropout with 0 network even get back in the workforce? We are legit on par with SAHMs, can't even get a shit job where I live unless you are female or an immigrant willing to be underpaid with no insurance.
Even if we are now willing to live and change we'll never amount to anything, ship's sailed.
Was close to an hero last yr, guess I'll wait till parents stop breathing.

A voice of reason. I also don't feel like I completely belong to this board, but I'm far away from normie's world too.
Despite that I live my small life feeling content most of the time.
Also achieving wizardry in 2 months. There was a time when I though I'm gonna off myself at that point, but I guess those thoughts just... wore off somehow. Or I just learned to live with my failiures.
Sometimes I think od myself as of a cocroach - durable.

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I meet one and I fucked up hard. She wasn
t amazing looking but she liked is dating a friend of mine who is worse looking then me and unemployed. I fucked up mang. People told me she had a huge crush on me but sh

Just getting by is enough work as it is, so no. Nice bootstraps meme tho.

This is me without the needless 90% bad bullshit that user pulled out of his ass.

For me the situation is basically that any woman I could possibly be attracted to is overwhelmingly likely to not be attracted to me. So why bother with all that stuff?

Fuck yeah I need to get out of this funk

I know this, but there's nothing fucking else to do. Hours to cut to hell and since I can't find a 2nd job, I'm online all day 5/7 days a week with nothing to do


What fuckin do, user?

i'm an intellectual elite and moreso a spiritual master so if the kikes weren't fucking shit up I would rightfully have 737million slaves you do the math buddy
also your porn is not impressive

Maybe you need to quit being a victim and accept your not going to get the job you wanted and find something else to waste that brilliant brain on.

Of course we do.
It just depends on how you take it, do you let it roll of your back or do you obsess over it and make it the reason for everything.