>meet a girl a few weeks ago
>1 day after meeting her ask her to hang out
>ends up flaking with some BS excuse and asks me if we can reschedule
>i reply "no problem :)" and that's it
>i haven't contacted her since(must've been 2 weeks of no contact)
>she texts me a few days ago wishing me a merry Christmas and we end up talking again, but I still can't get over the flake
OK Jow Forumsbros I'm considering giving her one more chance. My question here is what's your favorite back exercise?
Meet a girl a few weeks ago
You know there's an advice board on this shit hole right?
Pump. Dump. It ain't fucking rocket surgery.
You did the right thing. Let her reschedule with you. Don't initiate with flakes.
>Pull-ups
i think the issue is he cant even pump too initiate the dumb
You should have asked her again when she contacted you. If you're still talking though, just ask again during conversation.
If she flakes a second time you dont contact her again.
The rule is always try twice, no more.
Have you seen it? You get better advice pretty much anywhere else.
I was texting a qt younger mommy from tinder for a couple weeks until she was finished school and i was finished work. Then she straight ghosted me the day we were gonna meet up. I'm still confused. I don't know if i did something wrong, if she got spooked, if her family fucked her shit up for failing her classes or if she just met up and rode chads dick that day instead. I said:
>thanks for wasting my fucking time
last time i texted her but i still wanna meet her and suffocate between her legs. This was a week ago
She found a better fuck at that time, your just back in the que mate it’ll be your turn soon
Talk for a week or at least a couple days you pussy - she doesn’t even know you and you prolly look like desperate weirdo
I don't think I can recover from such a thing. It's maximal beta to come crawling back, I still dream about that fat ass and tall Croatian genes though...
Meet up, see how things go. 2 weeks is not that long to wait and it is xmas time after all so maybe she was busy.
But the moment she flakes or does anything dodgy again just leave.
Nah. I don't go on the internet for advice. But I believe you.
>flakes on you
>"no problem :)"
Do you not see how extremely pathetic and beta that sounds?
She's just going to flake on you again and you're going to come back here and post sad wojaks. Just ghost her, it's that easy
Forget her user. (srs)
Depends on the nature of the flake and if you think she's worth one more chance.
This. Girls are dumb - but they have strong instincts to flush out weakness. She did not even know she was doing it - it was just instinct. She flakes on you - and you should have told her to get her ass over to you, because she got you interested, and now she is going to follow through.
Instead you sent a bitch an actual emoji. Fuck that shit. She mentally put you in the beta orbital zone. She’ll use you to ego fluff. She’ll fuck men she doesn’t even know in club bathrooms while you think you are getting somewhere.
Women are sluts with the minds of 10 year olds. Take charge, don’t give a shot about her, and get what you need. Now, if you find a “keeper” one day - that is handled a little differently. But still, you are not her friend, you don’t take that role unless that’s what you want to be. Let other guys be her texting buddies. That’s just my 2 cents. If you want a loyal friend - get a dog so you aren’t lonely, and make guy friends. Then use her for exactly what you want. If that is a quick lay because she is worthless - so be it. Or if you find a passable woman... marry her and have kids. Either way, use her for what she is - something to fuck. You start going Disney on some woman - you’ll be cucked by next Friday.
t. virgin
OP did fine. What you don't want is to come off as a butthurt little bitch like this guy
t. supplicating beta fuck who doesn't know how women work
You really write like a virgin though.
You get nothing out of it if you get mad. Show her that you don't care and you have plenty of other options (even if you don't).
>is xmas time after all so maybe she was busy.
I personally never buy this excuse. People, grown ass people not even talking about girls, are always on their phone or check it at least once a day. If someone doesn't reply to your shit after 2 days, it's 100% intention.
Uhh guys, i was the one not replying to her, she always replies almost instantly whenever i text her and when she texted me merry Christmas I waited for half a day before replying because I was busy