Has anyone dated an older woman before? I'm 21, really clicking with this girl but she's 25...

>25
>older woman
Try cracking 40s with a 40 year old black former bodybuilder cum marathon runner (I'm lying I don't drink) with the female equivalent of Barry White's voice and a clit that must have been an inch and a half long

I have many favorite lifts, for chest it's db bench on a slight incline, for back thickness it's bent over rows, for width (eg primarily lats) it's weighted neutral grip chin ups, etc.

most people at 25 are graduating uni, starting careers and some women are thinking about kids. Some live by their own.
most guys my age are still at university, living at home and taking copius amounts of party drugs on the weekend
It's totally different levels of maturity

Just like women who go for younger men or men their own age.

last time i dated was 4 years ago and it ended miserably

Enlightening post, thanks
> i did feel a bit more pressure to have nice things since she was at THAT age where she should be living in a house with a husband driving an audi etc.. i was a uni student still
Yeah I think this is the main issue, I feel like I'm basically a kid because my life consists of uni, working part time, gym and music festivals. I dunno if I'm capable of taking on that responsibility

Heaps of problems came from her being older than 25. Your age doesn't really matter.

THIS HAS TO BE SHIT BAIT, no?

>I can't be bothered to wake up at 8am

bitch, join the army or something.

>Clearly beta males granted they are financially stable

alpha's make money and naturally are disgusted at beta cucks.

>Drinking every friday night

Jow Forums bait confirmed

Dated 48 when I was 21
30 when I was 22
currently dating a 29 year old while I'm 23, as well as an 18 year old

I’m 27 and dated a 34 year old and it was horrible

He's 21, dipshit. He's a kid.

Why are you settling for all that rabble if you're getting an 18 year old?

you sound like a faggot bro. why even reply to my post?

no worries. it was a bit of a rant but hope it helped.

>uni, working part time, gym and music festivals.

same here bro. it's the good life trust me. i think you can date her, but keep it light, more like a fuck buddy you have feelings for.

its in a woman's nature to try and change the man so just look out for those snide comments and shut that shit down when you can.

because the marginal utility I get out of having a younger girl's body does not outweigh the weighty detriments they bring with callow minds and personalities

True love comes in many forms. If this woman is really who you think you would be happy with, then go for it.
It makes me wonder, however, why you would put such a revealing photo of her online, showing complete strangers not just her body but her face?
Because you could be in love with two different things.
Her body, or her mind.

That's Vicky Li you fucking retard

I fail to see how older women are not callow to you.
Are you a boring guy?
How much more "experienced" have your older women been? How many of them have even had more experiences than basically being a fuck toy for 10+ years and now she knows what she wants?

30 year old was high ranking in the air force
48 year old was the ex-wife of a member of EU parliament
29 year old has a decent job and financial independence

beyond this I just like older women, they're more storied and have more things to teach me they necessarily know through their greater lifespan

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Speaking generally, I think older women are more confident, independent and stable than younger girls. But that's just a trait of growing up, getting a job and getting hit by reality which everyone goes through.

The only downside is she will want kids soon. Once a woman hits 30 she will start getting a lot more focused for it, and you'll only be 26. If you were dating someone the same or younger you would have 9+ years instead of just 5. But that might not be a problem for you.

Also DB overhead press while standing is better you absolute god damn pleb who the fuck sits down to OHP, do you also sit down to pee? I feel ashamed to share this board with you.

stupid fucking nigger kid bitch

suck my dick, lick my balls
AND
>sniff my gooch

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Weird, as a 22 year old, I seem to mostly fuck girls 2 years my junior consistently for some reason. Why is this?

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The second might have been interesting.

I don't know how much value I'd put into the 1st and 3rd though. Women ranking and making money when surrounded by feminism and affirmative action isn't really that impressive. And I've met women from the military and they're usually just disgusting and arrogant.

How? Florida user here and im 22 and never touched a girl

boomer btfo

>those early 20s are a formative years
Hangingpepe.gif

Based advice

>feel a bit more pressure to have nice things since she was at THAT age where she should be living in a house with a husband driving an audi etc
>passive aggressive about me being out with the boys for drinks every friday, going to the gym, going skating, snowboarding, just normie young adult shit she seemed too 'old' for
Funny, that's the same age my exgf got like that. I'm older than her though.

i hypothesize that they start thinking about marriage and kids at that age and decide to make calls on whether or not you can provide for them.

lol 4 years is nothing still your generation you both can talk about shit like spongebob.

not a dating story but my older woman story i guess.

>be me
>just turned 22
>new uni term
>living in college dorms
>college residence mostly used by international students or lecturers
>first night at the mess hall
>no domestic students that i give enough of a shit about to sit with
>spot a group of east Asian girls who I'm assuming are some kind of Chinese, accompanied by an obvious beta orbiter.
>Have been studying mandarin Chinese in the off season from uni
>time to practice
>pull up a chair and sit at the table
>group obviously taken back by the 6 foot 3 white guy in a wife beater who is slightly less DYEL than the rest of the room that just sat in the middle of their group
>introduce myself in Chinese
>impressed.gif
>find out one of them is my dorm neighbor
>Invites me over for tea after dinner
>Petite, looks no older than 25 and some kind of executive from a uni in southern china
>enter about 3 weeks of shit shooting and hanging with said group
>about 3rd week into uni term
>get invited over to watch a movie and drink tea.
>she rolls over and casually tells me to "make love" to her
>get down to to buisness
>continue a few times a week for the next 4 weeks
>find out she's 35 with a husband and kids
>mfw

Favorite lift power cleans

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>22
>have never seen Spongebob
>this has led to dead stops in conversations multiple times

Unless you're Chinese too you're not shit to them. Sooner or later their family will break it off for her if she doesn't do it herself.

When I was 21 I dated a woman 15 years my senior. Crazier than a shithouse rat, wouldn't do again if I was getting paid to.

You have to go back

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By 25, she's already done with college. She's started out on her (independent womyn) career life. She's got older friends and you're her boy toy. If you try to take it seriously you're cucking yourself out of young carefree guy life.

It makes sense. Not only did that happen, the relationship took a nosedive

I'm 28. I've had chances to date older women this year. One was 32, the other was 36, I also. The age was a bit of a sticking point for me. I couldn't get past it even though if they were younger I wouldn't have hesitated. I want someone my age or younger.

That being said, I have a crush on a 34 year old coworker of mine. Probably the only person I would date that is older than me. Anyone else would have to be exceptional like she is, and the others weren't quite there for me. Maybe I'm too picky.

I'm 25 seeing a 35 year old right now
It's whatever
Not planning to marry her

Have you ever dated a girl below the age of 25? Not trying to sound condescending but They honestly have no fucking idea what they want, and they have absolutely nothing to say. Most girls under the age of 25 are stupid as shit and probably the only thing they got going for them is that they are hot.

Only if you fall in love with her. I started dating my gf when she was 25 and I was 23. It wasn't really an issue at first because she was fucking hot. Now she's 28 and her appearance has really taken a toll. She's just doesn't do a very good job exercising and her body is degrading into this really unappealing skinny fat morass. I've tried to get her on a lifting routine, even got her a gym membership for Christmas but she'll only do cardio and retarded high rep scheme lifts on random machines. Even though she's seen the progress I've made over the course of our relationship, she's reticent to take lifting/routine advice because she's scared of free weights and has this sort of fixed idea that she can't really change her body. Her face is also starting to degrade. She was a solid 9/10 in her early twenties (she's shown me some pictures) and was still a knockout for the first year or so that we dated but now she's getting into solid 5/10 territory without make up.

What makes it difficult is that her personality is a really solid 8-9/10 and she's easily the kindest and most supportive gf I've had thus far. I'm probably going to break up with her in a few months (we have a planned vacation) and it's going to suck a lot.

Early twenties is top tier imo.

Exactly. What's the problem here?

I had a 33 year old MILF fuck buddy when I was 22. She was a fucking freak and I enjoyed it a lot.

Thats nothing, depends on how you both doing in life.

To answer the question yes i was with an older woman for a while, he was like 45 and married though so not really comparable i guess lol

You made the right move. I stayed with my cradle robber until i was 25. She skipped the country with our savings and an std from the guy she fucked at some party, probably not even drunk.

Older women can be and probably are dangerous to young men. Wish i knew this when i was 19. Lost my early 20s to a passive aggressive psycho with bpd, damn shameful.

I'm 30 and she's 40, fit asian momma with big bewbs.
Everything is amazing, she's great, she cooks and cleans and doesn't talk much cause her english isn't so good (bonus, no nagging no arguments), but I want a family and I'm not gonna marry her and have kids with someone older than me.
But breaking up is a huge freaken problem because I really love her and don't want to hurt her, but at the same time I know marriage is not in the cards and I need to find a wife soon.

If you're 21 and she's 25, that isn't an issue at all.
The only issue is if she is higher social/education status than you and ends up making more money. If a woman makes more money than a man this will cause her to lose some respect for you and you will feel emasculated, and it might get worse as time goes on.

you dumbass. if she really has a 9/10 personality and you don't plan on dying alone, you need to marry her. even if you dump her and get some younger woman that girl is going to age one day too. don't kid yourself, it's very possible that you never end up with someone you actually get along with. Don't marry for looks, marry for personality or you'll blow your brains out

What about the other way and going like 8-10 years younger

I second this. You’ll get attracted to anyone in time... provided you like them.

By not asking how on the internet kek

mommy gib milkies pls

I died at the ending.

25 and over year old virgin girls are my jam, I'm pretty much a 21 year old boomer in meme terms, I lift and cook for pastimes, get along well with animals and love exploring the city and country so I know lots of good dating spots.
For girls such as these you have to be really romantic and take things easy, you must find pleasure in their inexperience and cuteness.
Don't make them feel insecure for drinking warm milk before bed or having plushies to sleep with, or keeping a light on because they're afraid of the dark. Cherish them and protect them well because other women can give you sex but only these girls can give you pure and innocent love.

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You fucked up m8 its a show adults can really enjoy when watching with their kids. It's actually incredibly fucked perverted at times. It doesn't feel like it's pandering to kids. More acceptable to kids I guess.

I've only ever dated younger, but would totally smash asian milfs if given the oppertunity.

Right now? Probably DB floor press, mainly because I've only started doing them and it's something different for a change.

>23 y/o virgin here
>I will likely not know this feel

My bro is getting married to a 30 year old woman whose virginity he took when she was 27 and he was 23. She's a high earning, white engineer so it's a good match except that she might pop out some spazzy kids.

I've fucked a few asian milfs (just as hook ups, I'd never date one). They're fine, nothing too special although I will say that because they're older and with a younger man, they typically try harder in the sack to compensate. Wild shit. Good memories.

>that ending

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if it helps, just being more mature than the average 25 year old gets you in their radar