Did becoming Jow Forums help you become more assertive? My problem is that I have trouble saying no...

he already agreed to do it but pussed out the moment he was needed, that's called being a flake and everyone is annoyed by this behavior, it's selfish and cowardly

Uber you pussies. Don’t worry about them OP, you did good

No, it’s not. Flakes are the worst and will turn into ghosts when you need them the most.

lol yeah OP, it's so assertive to be a fucking shit friend

>OP is a literal faggot
why am i not surprised

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Flaking every once in a while is fine, but otherwise you're right

Wow your "friends" are real pieces of shit if something like this causes them to go off like that. Fuck them, find new friends

kys

you wouldn't be pissed if your buddy who you were relying on for a ride bailed at the last second?

OP gave the disclaimer that he may not have been able to come through. They should have accounted for this.

Kek'd

>I didn’t know for sure if I’d be able too
OP clearly said in an earlier message that he didn’t know. OP is in the right and his friends are bitches that need to grow up and get over it. How hard is it to get someone else to drive or get a fucking Uber.

yes, flakes are people who are entirely non-dependent on you. if you suddenly died it wouldnt matter one iota to the flake. the flake is the epitome of self-sufficiency and alphaness

>ITT: dumb cunts who don't know uber exists
fuck everyone defending blue, that's no way to respond to someone who's either their friend or someone who had offered to help out irregardless of whether they did or not.
only fucking children can't find their way to a party and back without a chaperone

Based shillposter

You fucked your friends over mate. If they are all drinking at someones house, pre-gaming for your alls night out on the town and you were supposed to pick em up, you douched hard. Now everyones drunk and cant drive. Its not like you have to stay all night with them. Just drop em off and say good luck pals. Also before some retard says LOL UBER they are not everywhere you dumb fucks

Your friend was right, you are a faggot.

>boohoo
>I'm a poor fag who can't afford uber
>t. alcoholic

>faggot
>KYS
no one talks like this irl, 5/10 bait

Well good thing this is Snapchat and not IRL

>You fucked your friends over mate.
>they are not everywhere you dumb fucks
yah it's IMPOSSIBLE to get a taxi, uber, or lyft
it's IMPOSSIBLE for someone else to not drink

entire fucking year has been ruined

OP said this at 2pm, they had plenty of time to make arrangements before he said he couldn’t make it. He said he might not be able to make it b4 this. They’re shit friends and it isn’t last second when most New Years parties are considered early start at 7. 5 or more hours is plenty of time to find a new ride

yea, there's knowing how to say no and having boundaries, and then there's being a flake. You can trust this will be the last time you'll get invited out to anything by these particular people. If you didnt want to do it you should've never agreed to it in the first place.

Considering how they reacted, I’m not sure that not being invited is such a major concern

Fuck off, if he never made a commitment then he never made a commitment
>haaaah waaaaaah I'm drunk and I can't go anywhere waaaaaaah
Get over it manchild

Dude your friend is mentally unstable. Drop that cunt

>Last minute
It was at 2:21pm they can find someone else. That guys not your friend if thats how he reacts to you saying you won't be his fucking Butler for one evening

He's right though, faggots should be shot

Comments like this remind me Im on Jow Forums. I specifically said pre-gaming you dumb fuck. As youre a loser neet who has probably never left his house you wouldnt know what that was. Next.
If you tell someone you are going to drive them somewhere that night you dont wait til a couple hours before to bail you dumb fuck. If you had friends youd know that. If he said it the day before and his friend reacted like that, you might be right but youre a dumbass. Next

>pregaming at fucking 2pm
you're fucking retarded m8 get over it
They can still uber, lyft, or get a taxi.

if it isn't in their area they likely weren't going out anywhere exciting anyways

once again, proving you never went out and had a good time. you pre-game from the time you get up on new years you dumb fuck

Op secretly tweaking because his only friends won't talk to him after this

He stated that he never gave them a hard yes to begin with

Everybody giving OP shit for being a coward, but at the same time let's not forget that Uber exists. His friends could get a ride easily. It's fucking 2019.

Bruh can you read he said he never gave them a hard yes to begin with

Look at all these stupid faggots shitting on OP when he clearly stated he might not commit, and they can't realize these underage cunts can't afford an uber or lyft or taxi or anyone else because they're so retarded. The comments are worse than the retarded thread to begin with. You people are true flaming vaginas

>whatever youre shit at driving anyway

lmao choosing beggars are hilarious

Dude should have said a solid no instead of pussy footing around before last minute.

jk, I'm retarded. I didn't see it was 2:21PM.

What a faggot, why were you friends with that guy in the first place?
Good on you though.
Being Jow Forums helped me with self confidence and in turn helped me say no to people.

Not if he told me he wasn't sure if he could make it in the first place. I would be a reasonable enough human being to make sure he could pick me up before I made solid plans anyway.
Worst case scenario I would get a taxi and be understanding of my friend wanting to be with his family during Christmas. It's not hard to be amicable and not a cunt

>what is uber???
After uber came out, none of my friends drove to the bars when we went out. Your not in the wrong, its 2019. If they cant afford an uber, then probably shouldnt be out drinking.

You've never went out if you're that uncomfortable with taking an Uber.

>uber exists
>taxis exist
>buses exist
Dude you might be a scumbag if you dont see how ridiculous his friends response was

Only correct answer here. Fuck you retards in the thread and stay based OP.

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>you pre-game from the time you get up on new year
Who the fuck does this lmao
Maybe a mimosa in the morning but that's hardly pregaming

This, now he has to bitch to his special friends because no one else wants anything to do with him. Another gymcel is born haha

This either never happened or OP is literally a faggot. Either way this doesn't belong on this board. McFucking kys.

THANK YOU KEKSTER CRAB

Dude just showed you what he trully thinks of you lol

I always tell my friends they are faggots and they should kill themselves.

Standard, really. Usually before saying hello.

Good job user. They sound like pieces of shit anyway, family comes first. Unless they steal your gains.

bunch of losers in here who have never left their house or even had a sip of alcohol

Uber isnt everywhere you fucking retard

Okay so we can agree that if there is Uber available, then OP was in the right?

Should’ve said

“Too bad”

When he said were relying on you

What?

No, because im not a retarded manchild who cant find alternative transport

Holy fucking shit like seriously, you can hire an entire bus last minute these days.

You both seem like faggots honestly. You for flaking, and him for reacting like a cunt.

>flaking
Only uneducated insecure children think this is flaking.

What are we 18 year olds and only one of us has a licence?

Catch a fucking taxi. Shit one of them can probably fucking drive. Look at the sheer reaction, he's pissed OP dared to go against him. That's not a normal friendship reaction.

At what time did you tell them you weren't going to take them? Anything before 3 I wouldn't really consider you fucking them over. Getting a cab on new years is a fucking nightmare, but would be their obvious choice.

Having needy friends (or needy anyone for that matter) is fucking shit. Fuck anyone who can’t bear to be alone for 5 minutes or who can’t go through life without constantly relying on other people for their own entertainment and validation. Being totally and utterly independent is redpilled, albeit at the risk of becoming isolated. I have such little need to be around other people at this point in my life that it takes a concerted effort to go out and socialise, which I try to do often enough to maintain friends. It also means you tend to attract others who are totally self-assured and content in themselves, which generally leads to healthier (also fewer) relationships and friends.

OP’s friend sounds like a man child faggot

> 'friends' who abuse you and only use you for free transport

OP is in the right

The screenshot says it's 2:21, but NO ONE should react like that just because their designated driver bailed. Having a backup plan is part of being a responsible adult

>being a faggot
stop that

You're right, nobody should react so aggressively because they were flaked on by a faggot. But OP shouldn't have flaked to begin with. He was a fucking pussy that you know fine rightly avoided giving a no until the last second because of his being a pussy and it fucked with people's New Years plans. FAggots are faggots for a reason.

One my 'friend' once told me to fuck myself. I decked him right then and there.

No you didn't. You just wish you did.

Dammit.

Seems like you bailed on them instead of saying no, so you're still a doormat.

sorry, I meant outside of Jow Forums. still clearly fake, so you’re all still clearly retards

>ITT underage idiots who don't understand that your friends aren't obligated to bend to your every whim
OP's friends are lucky he even offered to give their lazy asses a ride.

Being a flake is the least alpha thing you can be.

If they react that way to something so easily manageable, they deserve to be flaked on

What a loss lmao

If your night is ruined because of one person bailing on you then you're an idiot. If you don't understand why that's the case then you're too young to be here

This probably wasnt OP's first time flaking either judging by the reaction.

>Can you drive us new years
>Maybe I might have to spend tine with family
>Thanks bro youre the best
>fast forward to the day
>sorry family came up
>FUCKING KYS REEEEE
how is OP in the wrong?

All this classic Jow Forums reading comprehension
>"I'm sorry but like I said - I didn't know for sure if I'd be able to"
This isn't flaking, he never 100% agreed before. It's on them to have a backup plan.

OP I'm on your side. Fuck your entlited "friends" that think you have to drive'em everywhere. A couple of months ago I couldn't bring one of my[spoiler]female[/spoiler] friends with me on my car because she lived in a completely different way from where me and my other friends lived and since I'm not a fucking taxi and she could easilly find someone else to drive her I told her I just couldn't take her. Literally on new's years eve this bitch started an argument with me on how she doesn't think too foundly of as a friend because she doesn't think I can relly on me just because of this ONE time I couldn't drive her home. I called her a spoiled cunt and now we aren't really talking kek.

>on how she doesn't think too foundly of me as a friend because she doesn't think she can rely on me
Sorry for not double checking my post friends

Do kids nowadays text through Snapchat? Why though, it sucks for it

Are you guys retarded? He literally told him before that he wasn't completely sure. Meaning he needed time to find out, and then found out that he would not be able to.
So he told him, and his friend freaked out and called him a fag as well as told him to kill himself.
OP just did himself a favor and exposed what a shit "friend" that guy was.

everyone knows a maybe=probably not. sounds like ops friend is a social retard, especially relying so heavily on one person

>Do kids nowadays text through Snapchat?
Yes

>I’ve always hated faggots anyway
Haha never heard that before...

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based legionary

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If you think someone who throws a temper tantrum because their ride for going out to drink cancelled is worth calling your friend you must be real lonely.

kill yourself.

>2019
>using f****t as an insult
Put this on social media and ruin his life lol
Dubs and you have to

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