Be me getting fit and starting to look good, get more, confident, etc. Tinder says all of a sudden getting more swipes (doubt but ok for ego?). Match with cutie who shares interests based on pics. Kind of late and still beta fag so decide wait till next day to message. Get home from school (Unmatched).
It shouldn't hurt but it does. Should I have not waited? Im I doomed to be completely disregarded based on looks alone?
Also if you want I can post face and body
Don't go on TInder until you get your shit together irl
don't be a tool of satan, user, get off tinder
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Bigger question: I have urges to cheat with other women but I have a gf. What is the fuck can i do? I love my gf but I have these urges. I have never cheated. Looking at porn satisfies this urge. (Especially when my gf is to tired for me)
Better yet, dont go on tinder.
Sounds like a classic cheating fetish. Just keep watching the porn, it'll satisfy those urges and what the gf don't know won't hurt her.
Cheating is fine as long as she doesn’t find out.
I feel worse for her. You guys matched, she noticed you and saw that you didn't message her then she took time out of her day to un match you as a little fuck you. Think about it
yeah seriously fuck tinder. I had a girl messaging me back, I thought it was going alright. Then I say one thing slightly wrong and bam- unmatched instantly. Like god fucking damn it wasn't that unforgivable. I wish I had one more chance to make it right but no. One slip and it's over forever.
I wonder what your gf would do if she were in your position...
post face and body
not okay bro
That means they didn't mean to match you in the first place.
Confront her IRL
Oooooohhhhh BURNED SON
>(doubt but ok for ego?)
Do you want me to tell you if your getting more swipes?
Are you me?
Keep horses in the stable, you don't have to ride them but know you can at any time
It's not considered cheating if it's a quick fuck. Shit happens all the time. Its not like I have feelings for the side bitches I fuck. Means nothing.
Didn’t even mean it as a joke, I’m dead serious. The problem with men nowadays is that they go above and beyond for roasties that would drop them the moment they get bored.
>”B-BUT I WAS SO NICE AND SACRIFICED SO MUCH
That’s cute, Mother Nature doesn’t give a shit.
Yes it fucking does.
I hope your ex meets me and I make her into a neonazi.
It's not like we're married. Yeah I'd be a dick if I cheated while married but until then who fucking cares.
You’re posting on Jow Forums don’t act like you’re drowning in cooch
Now that I'm fit I get mires all the time. Sad to say though I have no confidence at all whatsoever and I probably have some severe body dysmorphia. That or I'm bitter because I know they wouldn't have liked me before.
Serious advice from someone that just lost a girlfriend.
Open up and communicate. We didnt talk till after it blew up in our faces and we were already done. Turned out everything could 've solved just by talking and being understanding.
And that's the trick as well. Accept people as people with flaws, and you will be happy. Both of you tho have to.
post face and body you are probably average face and above average body. Its most likely all in your head and the failures are snowballing on top of each other. You might be ugly as sin though
You sound sad. You a virgin? Course you are.
This is 2019. No problem getting my dick wet. Sure 90% are 5/6 avg but pussy is pussy.
>Kind of late and still beta fag so decide wait till next day to message
you guys overthink this stuff. yeah you have to take the lead and ask her out bur if she actually wants you she'll play along- if not, then hey okay, no need to spend more time on her. on to the next