All throughout my early-mid teens I was kinda ugly, or perhaps average but a sperg. Around 18 or so my face lost a bit of puppy fat and revealed my high cheekbones and general bone structure. Now girls will sometimes say I'm cute or attractive. Especially if I run by and they're in a group. Anyone else know this feel? I should probably be glad but I need to tune my social skills from all the years I lost. I'm 19 now
Anyone here become attractive after high school?
I've actually been having less less attention from women as I've grown up.
People have told me I look like a fucking douchebag so I don't know if that has anything to do with people not talking to me. My dad says girls mire me when we are walking together but I just cannot believe him because I've never noticed it.
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Maybe you're attractive but dress and/or act like a douchebag
I'm 26 and think I'm more attractive now than I have ever been
I looked like a child
yeh unfortunately i went through puberty really late compared to everyone else which made sports harder and i looked very childish when other people my age looked like young adults. now i've caught up i just look very average really. many of the people from my school put on tonnes of weight now from partying too much but thats not an issue for me since i have no friends haha.
i also think that i developed socially a lot slower than others due to the fact that i have no siblings so spent less time with people my own age when younger. i have very average social skills now really.
its just a shame cus i feel like i would have enjoyed my youth more if i was averge too back then but its whatever
I got way more attractive after high school. Started dressing better rather than lmao jeans+hoodie combo, can grow a half-decent beard, and am working on getting Jow Forums. I was skinny coming out of high school, went to uni and then evolved the Freshman 15 to the Freshman 50. Again, still working on my body, but I'm for sure more attractive than I was when I was in high school. I feel like my social skills got worse when I started going to uni though. I was somewhat popular back in high school (got voted into the yearbook) and pretty much lost most of my social skills because I'd sit alone autistically in my lectures. 21 now and am better at socializing after I got a job on campus last year.
On a side note, one of my best friends recently fucked this girl I had a mini-crush on back in my freshman year of high school, and apparently she said that I got way more handsome after high school. feelsgoodman. Also got friendly with a girl I crushed on in middle school, she had a boyfriend but I could tell she started crushing on me in college, even tried to flirt with me when she was fighting with her boyfriend. Kinda regret not smashing but I knew she was a bit of a psycho bitch. Half tempted to hit up some girls from high school on Instagram and shit but I need the confidence to post pictures and shit, my profile's been inactive besides lurking/liking stuff.
Was in better shape, mental state and my test was higher during my senior year.
Graduation is when you wake up and all dreams die.
FUCKING DELETE THIS RIGHT FUCKING NOW!
>My dad says girls mire me when we are walking together but I just cannot believe him because I've never noticed it.
Same here, except it's my Mum who says it
who /goodfeels/ here?
I've been getting more and more confidence lately. I have less of a problem talking to people (esp women) these days. I also open more conversations with a smile, and they smile back at me. feelsgood
I’ve been ugly my whole life. It didn’t change after hs.
no lol
orthdontic jew fucked my facial growth
Yes. I lifted, gained about 30lbs of lean muscle and also grew my hair out.
I've had a couple of girls during first semester literally just walk up to me and unironically ask for sex
I was so fucking retarded in my hs years. Fuck it college is doing me way better anyways.
same user, recently I've started to chat and joke with my colleagues way more than before. I think they like me :)
We're all gonna make it
how can i lose my baby fat on my face? am 18
Yes until I got fat again. And now I'm almost 30 and my hairline has receded a quarter of an inch. Im losing weight and getting fit but whats even the point im past my prime.
If any of you bastards is a teen or early 20's get your fucking shit together right fucking NOW. No not tomorrow. Now. Get off your ass. Go to college, workout.
Don't be like me. Heed these words. Or the regret you will feel as a boomer will be immeasurable.
no haha
I didnt get attractive until about 22. Thats just from aging really.
Getting facial hair and a proper hairstyle too.
Wow must suck to have peaked in highschool.
Can't relate lad
Way better. In fact, with every passing year I've only gotten more attractive. Particularly through college.
I came back to visit and stopped at a local bar that's mostly the younger crowd. Saw a bunch of people I knew from high school but haven't seen in years. One of the prettier girls from my grade (regrettably a lesbian) grabs my face and goes "holy shit user you look like a model now"
Feels good man.
I'm happy for you :)
And then everyone clapped
I'm usually a lurker but I know this feel dude, I'm 21 and only now in the final stages of puberty, getting my snail trail and some small facial hair growth spreading. Last two years in uni while being mistaken for a middle/high school is/are rough. I still look 16-18, but at least I feel comfortable hitting on freshmen and that I'm now 6'4" and moderately lean.
Same but I don't believe her I think she's just trying to help motivate me/ stop me dying alone
Yes
Late blooming is common in men, who don't reach peak sexual attractiveness until late 20s-30s (generally speaking) and sometimes mid-40s (genetic gods).
Note that "peak sexual attractiveness" doesn't mean you will go from Ogre-mode to a Greek god aesthetic
Not me, I got fat and unattractive
Yeh random people call me buff now and that stupid normie word toned
>Used to be a fat fuck
>Get lean and stronger
>Missed formative years for dating / socializing with girls so I'm a total sperg around women
Urgh it's so bad
Same, I know how to fake the "normie" smile now.
Definitely. Senior year was good bc I was taller than 90% of kids at my majority hispanic school and looked like a grown man compared to most of them. When I got into college I've started caring more about how I look, kept lifting, properly grooming my hair and beard etc. Dated and fucked the hottest girls I ever have so far, and now am seeking a wheyfu to go steady with. We're all gonna make it bros
Cut to single digit bf
Oh hell yeah! I used to be shy and socially awkward, especially around women but now I can talk to anyone and make them laugh. It turns out that I actually feed off interacting with folks. If I'm ever in a bad mood and a stranger decides to talk to me, it almost always lifts me up
Thank you
Almost, they didn’t play the national anthem until the bar closed, as is tradition
People called me ugly all through high school but now hoes keep trying to give me head
>tfw i actually catch people miring and also get told about people looking at me by friends and family all the time
Feels good man
Basado
Life is about playing angles. Consider how terrible everyone your age looks.