>be me >24 year old neet that has never even held hands with a girl >doing seated curls >a girl sits down next to me and does leg extensions after one set she looks over at me and we make eye contact >introduces herself asks my name >says she saw me in the nearby coffee shop once before, asks if I'd like to go there again with her >I say yes >she gives me her number >texted her last night a few times >I'm going to meet up with her in 40 minutes
Is this a normal occurance? Did I finally make it? What if she asks what I do for a living? Should I pre-plan topics to talk about?
Just relax and be yourself. Ask her about herself and just listen, act genuinely interested in her. If she asks you about yourself just dilute the truth. Like your plans for getting back into school or finding a job and improving yourself.
Maybe this encounter will get you to stop being a neet
Brody Stewart
>is this a normal occurrence? No, it's not normal. She probably just wants your kidneys.
Asher King
Don't worry about the escort nonsense. Sometimes people do actually see others and wish to get to know them.
Just go out and if it turns out great then just be happy and go with it. If things don't work out for any reason whether it be that she had an ulterior motive, or maybe you both just didn't hit if off then just let it go. No big deal. At least you gave it a shot. Just return to your normal routine and keep going on with your goals. You will meet someone else eventually as long as you are sociable.
Ethan James
I fuckibg love this board
Joshua Hughes
She was saying that she had nothing to do this evening as well so I suggested we go to the movies to see Glass and this is what she responded with. Fuck my life. Just let this thread 404.
This, we're all here shitting on normies all day but we wish we were normies in this cold universe being a normie is a bit of relief Don't fuck it up op and dont overtalk or over try hard with her, ask questions about her let her talk and try to be as interesting as possible dont hesitate to lie
Carson Wright
Also dont fall in love if she's doing it with you she's done it with alot of dudes and alot for women means 50-100 youre probably the 101th dick she's gonna take
Remember that her name is to her the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Be a good listener. Encourage her to talk about herself.
Talk in terms of her interests.
Make her feel important – and do it sincerely.
Nathaniel Collins
Kek not worth selling your wizard powers to a whore
Connor Rivera
What absolute bullshit :(
Blake Thomas
Unironically just bee urself. Just have a normal conversation with her like you would any other human. If she starts physically touching you, don’t be afraid to very gently reciprocate, she is doing it on purpose. Godspeed user and make sure to just relax and go along for the ride. Even if you don’t get her you will learn from your mistakes
Jordan Harris
What kind of autist suggest a movie for a first date jesus christ op you managed to dry up even a prostitutes vagina
>dont messit up Fuck that. Have fun, mess it up. It's a learning experience
Adrian Hernandez
check OP's last post
Brody Williams
F
Elijah Rivera
>What if she asks what I do for a living? you are preparing to re enroll in college and and looking into the availability of various part time jobs in the areas around the colleges you are applying to.
Leo Morgan
Don’t do this fucking lol she will walk all over you. The one thing I’ve learned is be a nice person, but do not let a girl start walking over you and do not let her feel dominant over you, you will be cucked instantly. Disagree playfully, maybe tease her a bit, but do not let her steer too much. I was a 20 year old khv last year and just doing this improved my game infinitely and helped me get laid. Now I have the issue where I have to pick which girl I’m going to fuck and can’t decide lol. Oh yeah and also a lot of girls are totally vapid and brainless, so make sure you talk a lot or the conversation will be garbage and she will get annoyed.
Kayden Long
Pls provide more screenshots
Jace Morgan
What the fuck Since when do escorts provide demos
Jonathan Foster
LOL also never go on movie dates - you are supposed to do something together, bond over it and have conversation to find out who you are. Not to consume media sitting side by side in silence.
Go to eat/drink something should be the minimum - better cook together, do a sporty activity (climbing/ice skating), dancing, or whatever your hobbies are. (no autistic "male" hobbies like video games or collecting shit)
Charles Taylor
Oof. I feel you op
Carter Butler
Include me in the screenshot pls
Hudson Cooper
ahahahahah wtf
Juan Green
im actually really happy for you user
hope it works out
Michael Russell
I'm sorry you've had such a rough life that you need to lie about it online.
Joseph Jones
No include me in the screen shot. This dude is lame.
Jonathan Murphy
Let her talk about herself, try to act humble when describing your interests
Thomas Hall
Idk I personally have had success with movie dates under the condition that it is at my place. Then you can cuddle and shit. Netflix and chill is an ez way and it doesn’t cost anything if you just pirate he movies.
Jaxon Cook
F
Christopher Flores
OP post more of the earlier convo you had with her. I want to see if there were any tells before she dropped this on you?
true, thats different then cinemas. but then there needs to be more initial attraction and you need to be bold enough to make a move on her while on the couch together. She guys like OP will just sit next to each other and nothing will happen.
Jason Clark
If you unironically think that letting her lead all the conversation and sucking up to everything she says is how you get women you must have only dated some ratchet turbo liberal. I’m not saying be rude or an ass or some shit, but you also can’t be a total effeminate cuck.
Evan Harris
*shy guys
Wyatt Johnson
is this real or manufactured? show the whole conversation
