Yesterday, this really cute girl that I saw in the summer a few months ago asked me to spot her on squats. I first saw her in the gym in the summer and asked to work in with me on the cable rowing machine.
So yesterday, while doing my squats, (I'm not even strong at all) she turns while I was taking my break and asks me to spot her on her squats. I think I have a crush because even prior to that whenever I saw her, she made my heart race in a childish 10 year old crush type of way.
I told my friends and they said I should talk to her but are they reading too much into this? I really don't want to have this blow up in my face. All she did was ask me to spot her on squats. I'd like to talk to her but I don't want to read too much into this one instance.
What do you think I should do Jow Forums You guys never give bad advice.
Also I want to add that I'm real awkward at first when speaking to people I don't know. I'm a naturally quiet person so I don't want to spill my spahgetti trying to just make small talk with her. My heart is hoping that it's something more and that theres actual interest there because of how she makes my heart race but my Brain is telling me to avoid this situation entirely.
Ay b jus ask her if she tryna fukk, complament her and tease her my g u will be slaying pussy getting aids in no time
Daniel Sullivan
>ay ma, I'm a spot you real quicc den you gon' find out what dis dicc do tho'
Christian Sanders
Dude just fucking talk to her. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out no big deal. You need to practice talking to women you're attracted to like they're any other person. It's literally a skill you have to practice. Getting used to rejection is the same thing. Just fucking embrace it. Life is struggle and pain. Embrace it.
There's no downside to talking to her, only upsides. Even if you fail and sperg out, you will have gotten a tiny bit better at socializing and talking to girls. Think of it as resistance training for your social skills. Through time, repetition, successes and some failures, you will improve at it.
God damn it. Give me Strength /fit. I'll have to do it or I'll regret it I think....
Ethan Perez
Bro the only reason she asked u to spot her squats was so you could stare at her ass. Go for it bro
Luis Sullivan
Go for it man. Trying and failing is better than never trying at all. And who knows, you have a decent chance of succeeding. After all, a girl asking someone to spot them for squats is a huge "go ahead and check me out so we can talk" sign.
Why can't you dumb niggers have normal basic conversations with people without making it into some gay shit in your head? If you are a shy fag just be a shy fag, what else would you do, say hi nigga you sad cunt tons of people are uninteresting interacting with you isn't special quit overthinking shit
Jonathan Edwards
stfu
Easton Anderson
Kill yourself, that'll show her!
Tyler Wilson
you're an idiot dumb fucking bitch
Dominic Jones
best case scenario you fuck her
worst case scenario she says no
don't be a bitch you already know what you want to do
Julian Sanchez
I'm unironically saving myself but I know what you mean.
Aiden Long
>You guys never give bad advice. jej
anyway, what time do you gym?
a good start would be to ask her out for lunch then start to talk to her about life: what degree is she studying, what's her hobbies etc.
I live in an apartment thats inside campus but I go to breakfast right after the gym.
Carter Young
how often do you see her in gym? daily?
if so, start small chat between sets, ask her if she also stays on campus and if she eats breakfast pre or post gym. if she eats post gym too then ask her to join you for breakfast.
So far I've seen her everyday this semester. I suppose I have to take this one step at a time. Just saying hi to her tomm and getting her name or do you want me to just go in there and follow through?
Jayden Rogers
Look into phenibut.
Kayden Mitchell
"I've been seeing you everyday, but I havent heard your name yet"
properly introduce yourself and then ask her about herself and just casually talk
I have taken everything to heart. The hard part will just be me having the guts to act. I know she’s human and I have nothing to lose with trying but it doesn’t come ez for me. Thanks for the advice man. I have to sleep to wake up for the gym. If there is success I’ll post an update with the same OP pic. Wish me luck.
