>spend years improving my fitness and mental state
>realize that I no longer find my gf attractive, she is below average and I deserve way better
>break up
>spend 3 of the loneliest months of my life, meet tens of girls hopelessly and be disappointed with every single one of them
>realize that the only time I was actually happy was when I was with my ex
thanks Jow Forums
Spend years improving my fitness and mental state
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Kill yourself, it's your fault and only yours.
You decided to break up, not us
It’s always good to be reminded of where you sit in the social hierarchy
>I no longer find my gf attractive
You obviously broke up with her for a reason, there was something you felt was missing in the relationship.
that's why you should not break with current partner until you find the better one
we should learn more from women, boys
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DYEL lifts 3 months, makes noob gains and thinks he's a god compared to his lardass gf. Breaks up with her even though he had no game at all. Blames an anonymous basket weaving forum.
Many such cases!
that's how narcissism and bipolar looks like
cant say I feel bad for you
Rose tinted glasses user, people leave horrendous relationships and still look back fondly, it's the way the mind works
>DYEL lifts 3 months
>>spend years improving my fitness and mental state
DYER
Literally just went through this. Been split up with my ex for almost 6 months now, but the first 4 months were hell.
Its hard to see any other possibility in your life because you're thinking that she was the best you ever had and ever will have. I guarantee that at some point you will come to terms with that stage of your life ending and will find new confidence and creativity being on your own.
Here's a video that will help
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grass always seems greener on the other side. always remember this anons
thanks guys. I didn't feel any regret when I broke up with her as I thought I'd just find someone else, but after meeting a lot of girls afterwards I just realized that people are fucking shit and I was lucky to even have met her in the first place.
but hey, even if she was one in a million then there's at least 3800 others like her, r-right
Don't rush it, find happiness from within first
truthpilled
live and learn, brah. you'll get over it.
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>Ditching someone you got along with because of their looks and because you thought you "deserved(LMAOOOOO)" better.
Just fucking lol. You will die alone and only have yourself to blame for it.
Why can't people live on their own without going into crisis.
I'd much rather live on my own than being with someone I'm not attracted to just out of fear of being alone.
That's woman shit. Imagine being so insecure you prefer having a partner you don't like over being alone.
You deserve it tbqh
Insecurity. The Aryan and /fraud/ circlejerks are mostly just people compensating for not having any confidence in who they are and start coping instead of improving themselves to the point where they are happy with themselves. In my opinion, a man without an ego big enough to be self sufficient isn't a man at all.
Nope, that's just comfort talking. You dumped her, found meaningless sex and now you just want to go back to what you had before. But you're not the same person so move on.
Been broken up for over a year now after my gf tried to cuck me and I walked away from our whole life, house and dog together. We shared the dog, which made it harder to move on, until recently when she threatened not to let me see him and I told her to fuck off and just keep him then. It was the most miserable year of my life but I did at least get Jow Forums instead of an hero thanks to you bros, and I'm doing pretty well now, while she's gotten fat and depressed and fucking a jobless auschwitz escapee.
Anyway, I'm thinking of trying online dating. What's the best one for trying to find an actual relationship and not just degenerate hookups? My best friend met his wife on OkCupid, so I was thinking of trying that. Bumble also seems kind of promising.
Exactly, if you can't make yourself happy you can't make anyone else happy
Women are a waste, you should search for a qt Jow Forums male. Guys want to bond, while females want your money or children.
>arguing over custody of a dog
Man.
Yeah, man. Wasn't fun. We got him when he was a puppy and had him for four years so it was like having a kid. I fucking love that dog but it's not worth dealing with her crazy ass anymore.
Don't do online dating. I can tell you from experience its either yung_thots using it as a dial-a-dick service or 30+ something that has hit the wall hard. Go out and meet people.
Bumble is cool, but you have to recognize every girl you meet on there has a roster of dudes lined up on there so don't get invested in anyone until you agree to be exclusively
My almost two years long relationship ended like a month ago and since then my libido has been pretty low, I rarely get an urge to fap and overall I don't feel like bothering with women at the moment. Is this normal?
That's fine. Tbh I'm really busy with work and nursing school anyway so I don't have all kinds of time to invest, but I would like to at least go on a couple nice dates and chat up some qts.