Has Jow Forumsness actually helped you with women?

No, I got more female attention as an alcoholic.

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nope still an awkward weirdo with acne. girls look at me more often now that my jawline is back and am getting Jow Forums tho. i think there's hope for me in the near future as i make more gains both with lifting and life in general

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Yeah, but not because of the physical gains. Its more about the fact that I had to go waaaay above my comfort zone to pay for a gym membership, to learn the lifts, how to use the equipment, deal with having to work out with unknown people coming and going near me, and so on. It helped me to achieve a "don't give a fuck if I fail" kind of attitude and I just go for it with everything in general. I ask girls out more often when I go out with the boys, most of the time they say no but every now and then there's one that says yes and we start dancing and having fun, we kiss and if lucky we fuck. Still no gf thought but thats on me, maybe later this year I'll pull it off.. who knows. All I know is that I don't give a fuck if I fail, ill keel trying and failing until I get it right.

I'm still autistic but funny so I have always attracted girls. Being fit just made me slightly more attractive and able to choke them harder.

Nope.

Money is the most important thing. You can be the fittest person in the world but who gives a shit if you don't own anything. And anyways, you can't get truly fit if you're on a budget.

Yes.

>I've also become less emotional and women like that believe it or not
Oh I believe you on that, 100%

Haha this is my life except I have difficulty trusting people, so getting a nice body has actually made it even worse because it's just made me not trust people for being interested in me even more

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No

Nah it helped me realize just how pathetic they are though.

That looks like my dad

it actually completely removed all desires to be with them, for me personally.

sure, I still like checking out girls and all but I no longer want anything to do with them; weightlifting and training gives me a sense of permanence and fulfillment no women have ever given me. I see some of my friends go through gf after gf or get married and become reliant and dependent on their spouse, and basically devolve into a shadow of their former self. I have no desire to walk that path.

also i guess there some psychological thing behind it too; both of my parents were incredibly abusive, now that I’m older and no longer in abusable (thanks Jow Forums) they start playing like the abuse never happened and ask me to hurry up, get with a girl and give them grandchildren to play with, just like their friends’ kids.

needless to say my family line will die with me. I’ll probably adopt a kid or marry a widow with a kid if I want to become a parent.

you could've just said you're gay

Yeah girls call me good looking but when i pour my heart out they leave me because the expect something else

>when i pour my heart out
You only do that and not go full-retard, when you push them away a bit to rope them in. Put things this way - when my gf wants to "cuddle" after sex, it disgusts me how clingy she is and I piss off to the shower, but when she says, "alright get off, good job, go away now" it makes me want to pin her down and actually spend the time with her.
Just don't be a sappy homo dude.

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slightly. I'm still bad with women, but I fuck a little better when I do manage to get with them now, and I'm a bit more confident.

A little bit.

Fitness? No staying off the internet did though. Haha

Yes.
I don't get any more or less attention than before, honestly, but now I'm not too much of a pussy to keep replying. Just confident I've got something to offer now, at least.

This

Yes. Im not socially retarded

i suppose i could, i do enjoy 2D traps on the reg

I like to think I'm more attractive after lifting for 6 years, but I did graduate college a kissless virgin so I guess I'm not.

It has gotten me attention that I do not capitalize on

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I meant it as in having atleast some feelings towards her other than pump and dump. I've fucked ONS alot lately but i dont even enjoy them. Its hard to find the balance what im supposed to say and what i shouldnt say to keep a girl

Yup, lost weight on my face and got tiny abs and now I have a girlfriend.
I was lucky though, she approached me and I had a load of gym boomers tell me to invite her places.
Ended up asking her out after like 6 dates then we became degenerates and fucked like rabbits.

Not in any way whatsoever (never expected it would)

no but I just hit a new PR with 16 chinups the other day

Nice. How big are your arms?

Don't show emotion to a woman EVER.

God bless that camera man.

fitness itself yeah maybe, was always right into sports as a kid so I don't know what its like to be without fitness.
Jow Forums itself, in some ways yeah, im pretty emotionless now towards women and i blame that mostly on how anons show and call out girls on their shit. just makes me jaded

This.

since I started lifting my gf insecure af im not sure if thats a good thing or not.
and I get more mires from girls but I dont bother talking to them since Im taken
>inb4 noncheating beta

By itself no, but combined with getting rid of acne, getting a job, taking care of myself generally and trying to improve my life has.

But sometimes the most fucking strange things appeal to people, apparently im 'wise' and 'mature' because I actually save/invest money. People are weird.

Are you sure? Because im trying different things, now im able to get laid most of the time but cant keep the hot ones

at least gas is only a buck 79

Who the fuck fills their car up with milk?

>before: fatty, invisible
>now: not fatty, not invisible

guess that counts

Becoming fit made me love myself. Becoming confident made women interested in me. Being muscular has the side effect of being something that women generally enjoy once you're naked around them, but the primary benefit was the first thing I mentioned.

Unironically it has made me worse at women and interactions with women generally. It helped me socially because I'm easily accepted in every group and in every social instance, but I'm actually far more critical of everyone around me and I'm sometimes considered an arrogant asshole unironically. Not the cool "arrogant bad boy" either, but the downright nasty ass fuck.
It also doesn't help that I see everyone around me as lazy and fat, especially women.

But yeah, getting fit made life easy and if I was to ever put myself out there and put some effort into it, I could easily get s girlfriend or fuck buddy. I just don't. I also don't dress well at all and I don't care about dressing at all nowadays. I only wear black shorts and a black sleeveless tank top every damn day.

kek

I know that feel. If you start from fat, the way people change as you get that bf% down is saddening. Like wtf, I'm the same guy. Why does the fat matter so much?

Keep going though. It's your health.

"helped" me date my ex again, so dunno?

Ya for E85, which goes through your engine like glass and sludge's up in low temperatures cause its dogshit and shouldnt even be used. Its a waste of fucking cornfields and we have no reason to spend money on that shit. It also ages like crap, even worse than normal gasoline if Im not mistaken. But it eats engines due to it being slightly more acidic and wear engine parts out faster. Theres a reason normal gas is 45 cents more expensive.

Does Jow Forums believe in love?

>Younger sister is engaged to a great guy and they've been together for years
>Best friend has been in a happy relationship for years
>My first real gf that I was dating for a few months this year dumped me because she just wasn't invested in me
>Might have been cheating on me too because she nudes of herself on her phone that she never sent/showed me
>Before her I'd been hurt by a lot of women
>Now I don't care anymore and just want to make myself the best I can be, all for me

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here

This is sadly true. Unlike many people on Jow Forums, I don't hate fatties (I was one), but accept that no one has any obligation towards them when it comes to dating/sex.

I don't even hate the fat acceptance ones, since I was also on that page at some point (you get into that when you have almost given up, next stage is self-"acceptance" which can last indefinitely but if it does end you finally take the right steps to stop being fat), although as a male (male) who is also not a zoomer I didn't really whine about it in public, just become bitter, like incels (the fat ones are probably in that stage).

After losing the weight, however, I can also see it from the other side. But even then, this doesn't justify becoming invisible if fat.

in terms of talking to them, getting mires, getting numbers and stuff? Yeah, a ton.

In terms of actually having sex? not 1 bit.

I liked myself a lot more when I was fat. Could be from other factors and life changes though.

tfw in that don't care anymore mode

tfw fucking with my ex bareback

>Does Jow Forums believe in love?
No, but the ideal is worth chasing

I think you need love to raise a child. Try finding a virgin and trying to not be intimate yourself unless you really think she's the "one."

tfw virgin til 26
tfw started lifting at 25 just to not lose the opportunity to ever be somewhat fit
tfw been getting laid consistently for almost a year now, at 27

yeah, it helps. but if your only goal is to get laid it wont help. Find a reason to better yourself for yourself, then look for sloots

Sorta. Made me realize that I've got a pretty decent cock size.

Good for you, man. I just got to finally doing 5 pull ups after two month of doing stupid assisted pull ups. From zero to five.

They know to stay away from me
I wont be getting laid anytime soon anyway
I'm one of the dangerous type of guys so women stay away from me

Inb4 I'm joking for yous
Ok. Than I would have had all the gym thot pussy by now
Women dont want broken boy friends
They want a man they can control easily and I'm not that kind of guy and never have been

I am a wild beast of a man
Women can tell anyone but him...
You should see me in the gym lads
You'll see and understand the pain I have been through
The weights all I have left

Women dont want broken men

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No, the gym just turned out to be another form of escapism for me

i feel that

you gotta learn to hide your power level though

caged, but never tamed

Can you help me?
I wont hurt anyone at all but I have a legit beast inside me

I need to know. What do I do to tame myself and keep myself in a normal mind state
I actually go to the gym and destroy the fucking weights. When women show up around me they leave
They know this guy is ready to kill

I just want to learn how to present myself differently but I'm in so much pain and I cant hide it. I wear a hoodie, I hide my face
I pace around the gym like a caged animal

I would listen to what you guys have to say because in seriously an animal. And I know its not good
People in society usually wants to lock away the animals among us but I wont let them

What is power level mean anyway

Lesbian here

I lost weight and got super fit. My thigh muscles have attracted my current girlfriend. Do I count toward answering your question?

It has been 2 months in the gym now and all attention I get is from Milfs and old hags, Staceys still ignore me

Never had an issue taking chads sloppy seconds

Damn nigga I hope this is a joke because you sound like a spaz

We all know lesbians aren't real, try again poindexter.

I'm high test you dumb fuck
Post body...

do you box or do any martial arts? play any contact sports? I play rugby, and get irritable as fuck during the offseason because I can't hit anyone. You only get so much catharsis picking up a piece of metal.

>Do I count toward answering your question?
the question was "why aren't you posting your muscular lesbian thighs," right? and no, you're not answering it.

>wears engine parts out faster
It cleans your engine, its alcohol. It's even great for drag racing because it runs cooler and has an octane rating of around 110.

Ironically, the gym made me crush on a boy

Nah, you're not high test you're an 18 year old spastic.

>it cleans your engine
>it's alcohol
Sounds like you're saying it's going to act as a degreaser which would damage the engine.

Yea I actually want to beat the fucking shit out of someone everyday

I'm in a weird situation in life. Everyone I know keeps pushing me down and trying to fuck with my head so I stay depressed
Kind of like attacking you with bad words daily so something sticks in your mind
And I'm crazy right? Well yea

If you only knew what i live through everyday
All i have is the gym to get the agression out
If I dont lift heavy the agression and rage just changes to depression
I need to lift so I dont get depressed and yes. I scream in the gym when nobody is around

I may be slightly insane but dont forget
You made me this way..

desu why not play comp vidya?

35
Plenty of shit to be angry about in my life and it drives me to compete and achieve these goals I have

Let me guess.. wow user is insane
Okay nigger fuck off
Dont try that psychology shit on me and get into my mind. I'm done with that
Nobody else can ever get into my head ever again
You dont know me.
Let me suffer in peace

Cant stand video games
Gym or go home and read books... dont bother asking what books
You wouldn't get the material at all

>35
>still acts like this
You might have brain damage lol

Than fucking help me you piece of shit. I have had people play with my emotional state for months now. Than tell me how I should act since I never got over my repressed abuse... what's wrong with me then

It looks like you have your head up your own ass user. You take things way too seriously. I can't help you though, we don't even know each other. Good luck and learn to relax.

It's called being confident and not taking shit from anyone anymore

Nah a lot of ppl are like that
aka 'manchildren'
They believe world owes them something and they feel offended and act like arrogant freaks because they are starved for pity and attention

Dude it's crazy how much I feel for you. When's the last time you've really gone all out on somebody? Not necessarily tried to hurt them, but really tried to impose your will on them. Hit them as hard as you fucking can.

Sounds fucking amazing, right? But that's not even the best part. The best part is THEY'RE trying to do the same to YOU. And sometimes they succeed. That's where the killer instinct takes over. All this wild, boundless rage you have. You don't know what to do with it, everyone is sneakdissing you and it's not like you can punch them in the face. But in a match, in a fight, your only worry is maybe you don't even have enough of that fire. Because better believe, they got some too.

Sounds like you're surrounded by a bunch of women, literally or figuratively. You need to bond with some real men, and there's only one way to do that People play rugby til they're 60, there are clubs everywhere(I'm actually American). Boxing gyms as well.

Nah, you're not standing up for yourself. I suspect you never had a father in your life.

Reading shit like this makes me realise I'm probably pretty mentally healthy after all.

Imagine being this much of a narcissist
>why isn't everyone a onions boy like me??
Idk, maybe because they didn't have the silver spoon and a blessed life like you did?

lads needs your help on this matter

>be me
>back in august gf breaks up
>start seeing each other again end of december
>have been seeing each other up until now almost every 3,4 days
>we fugg, for the last 2 weeks raw, before that only with condom

am i the idiot here, or she

If being fit doesn't help you getting pussy, it's because you aren't actually fit you are just a dyel.
I thought that i was fit just because i had visible abs, but i was just a dyel with a low bodyfat. When i made real gains in upper body women finally started noticing me.

Stop trying to justify being an edgy ANGERY 35 year old manchild.

I don't want to fight anyone... that would be dumb and worst mistake of my life

I simply dont want other people to talk shit about me
I basically dont want anyone to talk shit when I haven't talked shit about anyone or done anything to them so why disrespect me like that? Why hurt me over and over

Why is anger bad
Why is agression bad

How do you live. You just let people walk all over you?

Going from Auschwitz to normal yes, everything else not really. But then again im not in kkona land

>onions boy
lmao that's actually hilarious

speaking of which
Check out this candy-ass. I have mental health issues but they have nothing to do with my post. When people insult me I reply with a smile and a laugh, maybe jab em back if they're a friend. When I lift I focus entirely on my form, coolly pushing myself til failure. But the fact is, in an age where people put their soul into their iphone, men need to be reminded that they're men. Rock em, get socked, rock em again. The rest is just window dressing.

I'm not him.