AMA frens :-)
I used to be heavily depressed, not depressed anymore, AMA
Luis Campbell
Justin Foster
>waa waa I'm depressed
Gosh, how did you ever wake out of that fake slumber, OP.
Benjamin Gray
What would you say to your past, depressed self?
Carson King
Buy some eggs because I just realised I'm out and the store closed an hour ago
Nathaniel Brooks
Don’t take everything so seriously and don’t be so ‘rational’. Humans are not rational at all, sometimes things get ugly only because one in reality is just tired or hungry. Try to understand others.
Also love yourself. If your little Brother or your son would tell you that he is depressed, would you tell him to smoke weed and do nothing? To just be sad? No, you wouldn’t. You would tell him yeah life’s hard and it won’t get easier but you can get stronger.
Dylan Taylor
did you change exercise levels or diet? how about sunlight exposure or going outside more
Brandon King
Sometimes I have days where I cant get myself to do anything. I just literally stay in bed, dont eat, dont shower, dont call or text anyone. Only times I get up are for pissing and smoking. Did you have this too? How does one get out of this?
Jose Powell
I always exercised. Sometimes more, sometimes less. But I’d give everybody the advice to exercise. Even if your mood won’t get better, you’ll build a good habit. And even if you’re still sad, it’s better to be Jow Forums and sad than just sad. Also I’m trying to cut rn for summer, desu if I would eat more or eat breakfast I think it would be even better.
Of course I had this. After I finished school because I had nothing to do. Only went out to smoke weed, no contact to old friends or really anyone at all. Only to senpai because I live at home. It’s okay, days like this happen from time to time. Unless you don’t let it to your head and start make it normal it’s fine. You always need the ambition to change and actually DO shit. Like just do it. Even if it’s not fun. You’ll feel better afterwards
Jayden Ward
isn't being irrational about rationality literally just "irrational". if so, how can you say you were initially rational at all? flawed logic
Ethan Hughes
If you wanna play with words, I actually never stated that I was rational, I just would give the advice not to be rational all the time. But you know what I mean autistfaggot, lmao why are you focussing on such a minor point though?
Zachary Brown
because your statement falls apart if it doesn't make sense?
Zachary Foster
Wrong
Adrian Lee
Your depression is gone
Okay help me than
I have been psychologically manipulated and gaslighted for almost a year now
I feel like shit and I have nothing I can do. They're forcing me to consider suicide
Everytime we talk they make sure to throw gaslighting in there...
James Allen
Human beings are not rational. We are rationalizing.
Jose Cruz
so, obviously, first question is - why can't you just throw that person away?
Matthew Sanders
Not OP, but look at your own contradictory double speak here. You're aware that you're being manipulated and gaslit but it still bothers you and makes you feel depressed? I understand if you're stuck with these people for financial reasons or something but it doesn't make sense for you to hate yourself while knowing full well the people who make you feel like shit are just inventing the reasons.
Elijah James
something yet to be comprehended doesn't imply irrationality. to imply something isn't rational just because you don't understand it is about as good as a nihilist saying there's no reason for life just because he hasn't found one. it's illogical and false.
Elijah Hall
I have been trying to find another job
When I started working here I was nice to everyone and just happy to work here but then things changed.. they are trying to force me to snap because the gaslighting doesnt go away and now I feel like I have PTSD. I am really broken and they dont stop but somehow other people end up getting brought in and get in on it. I have noticed them doing this but it hurts me so much I cant stop them or forget about what they did
They did some horrible things and without video evidence I have nothing
I am staying positive but it's so painful
Jaxson Lopez
well how the fuck are we supposed to help you then?
Christopher Cooper
Just tell me not to kms and I'm good
They're forcing me by manupliating me and it just doesnt stop
Noah Scott
> They’re forcing me to consider suicide
Who is they? And how tf are they forcing you to consider suicide? Will they kill you if you don’t kill yourself? Or kill somebody from your family if you won’t kill yourself? If not then idk about “they” but just delete them completely out of your life. Don’t be with toxic people, I’ve been alone for quiet a time and it’s hard sometimes but solitude is better than wrong people. If they are really fucked up, then move if you have the opportunity. Or just go out for really important shit and be careful. Idk maybe also a gun if amerifag. Maybe professional help too, I wanted to but she was a fucking whore and I couldn’t even start therapy so I decided to do it by own. I don’t know if I could help you, because your post was really unspecific but that’s what I‘d tell you to do.
Ah good that my internet is shit
What did they have done? You are anonymous. If you can’t go to the police and it’s really fucking you up than just give the job up unless someone you love does neef money ASAP. There are plenty opportunities to make money.
Ethan Turner
dotn kys
Adam Morales
>Just tell me not to kms
Also wrong Punjabi timestamp forum, but I hope only wholesome anons are ITT
Caleb Allen
Cops cant help
HR wont help because they protect the company
The people supporting this group is all against me and I'm deeply hurt. The past few days have been horrible
Wyatt Collins
this screams attention whoring from post one onewards
Lucas Bailey
Trying to shut me up and pretend I'm the problem?
Mason Gray
Guy you're replying to here. Do you happen to have any strong male role models in your life? I've been in your situation. I was convinced I was a genetic reject who was hideous and destined to be socially rejected. Turns out I was just awkward and spoke too much. Shared too much. It made me socially weak and I didn't have a masculine social frame at all. In all honesty, you aren't going to fix this. You need to take it as a lesson and move on. You're not part of their tribe and you aren't going to change that. Fins another job and try to be more socially adept.
I know it sucks accepting genuine social rejection. But as you get older and have more experiences to reference, you realise how meaningless the rejection is. I've been dumped by women that I wouldn't even give the time of day to now. I've been socially ostracized for being socially weak while working at god damn Home Depot. Those dumb cunts are still there and years later I'm earning more than triple what they are. You need to convince yourself that your potential and worth are beyond their opinion. You have the advantage of being able to endure and navigate places like Jow Forums and Jow Forums, where people are savagely honest and dedicated to self improvement.
Henry Carter
yikes
Jack Peterson
Ok listen to me Niggerfaggot.
1. Don’t kill yourself.
2. give up your faggot job
3. you have absolute responsibility for your life
4. stop being a little bitch
Asher Campbell
You should have nipped them in the bud user. As in, cut the energy-drainers out of your life before they attach to you like a parasite. Just leave. I know it’s hard and not always feasible, but leave.
Austin Ross
You are beginning to piss me off!
I have been applying and interviewing
I just got denied today for another job that would pay more and I interview with then last week
They said no
I'm trying to get another job so fucking badly you wouldn't believe
Andrew Hill
yinkies!
Tyler Allen
How long did it take for you to realize not caring about the negativity and going your own way was the answer? If not, what was the answer you came to?
Jayden Ramirez
There was no moment of enlightenment. I‘ve always knew that if I am depressed I am only fucking my own life and there is nothing positive about it, but knowing doesn’t make it go away. You can’t do anything against it. But idk somehow I don’t feel as bad anymore, not that I feel super duper great but just like okay - normal. And that’s something to be grateful about. Like real shitty depression ~ max. 6 months. But before I had a on and off relationship with depression so yeah
Eli Martinez
Alright OP
How did you 'want it' bad enough to change?
and more importantly
how did you 'love yourself'/realize your worth?
These 2 are my biggest issues, no self-confidence/drive and self-loathing/negative-esteem
I gotta learn how to pursue action and be great on my own
Isaiah Fisher
>How did you 'want it' bad enough to change?
>how did you 'love yourself'/realize your worth?
Both have to do with the same thing, it’s like a dog is biting you. And the dog is biting most people, but it doesn’t hurt enough to make most people react. But if it‘s really hurting and you can’t take it any longer you have to start fighting back. If you‘re miserable enough you don’t have no time for excuses.
Also I’m the oldest and need to be a good role model to my little brothers, so they have somebody they can look upto.
Also for the second question, as I already stated, if someone you really love and care for would tell you how miserable they feel would you tell them to be down, smoke weed and just be sad all the time? No, you would try to come up with a plan. So why not for yourself? Also just think about your mom or somebody you really love and just keep grinding for them pic related
Caleb Reed
Fuck user, you make it sound simple
I've become toxicly entrenched in comfortablity and coasting which is becoming a prison I'm living in- I've become complacenet and passive
anda s for rolemodelling- I'm also the oldest but my family is a bit unhinged, so as possibly applicable as it is, it's close but off the mark. Still I get your point
Evan Nguyen
It is simple. Not easy, but simple. You just gotta DO the shit you need to do. Don’t even think about it.
That’s something I need to hear too, because I need to study more. Godspeed user
Asher Lewis
Gotcha user
Goodshit and God Bless you too!