I'm a fatass who wants to join a gym but I have social anxiety. How do some of you fellow fatties deal with being in a gym
I'm a fatass who wants to join a gym but I have social anxiety...
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Nobody pays attention to you as long as youre respectful.
This video helped me out a lot.
just go cunt
Just fucking go and do some stupid fat person warm up like cycling for 5 minutes or rowing machine or something, after that move off into your workout. People won’t even realise you exist and if they are looking at you, it’s the same way you look at them. You don’t think anything of it your just fucking looking around and accidentally had someone in you line of sight. Jesus Christ just because the gym has normies in it doesn’t mean they’re goi g to bully you for fucks sakes. Just go for once and rip the fucking bandaid off
Realize most people won't even notice you. You can do it OP.
3rd FUCKIN DAY WITH THE FUCKIN TBAR ROW AND IM FEEEEEEEEEEELIN IT
Just go dude, nobody cares. Trust me
Checked and based
I always feel amazed by the fatties joining the gym. I was a landwhale before (still chub, 24% bf but I want to make it down to 18)
You go there and make us all proud you large beast.
I've been in the gym for 4 years and never spoken a single word. Just go and mind your own business.
If you're anxious because of your weight, just think that there will be a lot of other fatties there. Before I started I expected to walk into a room full of Arnolds that would laugh at my 90lb bench but it's not the case. If you're anxious because you always are then I dunno.
>go to gym
>work out
>leave
Not a fatty but I was closer to a nigerian child than an actual healthy human being.
I just went to the gym and minded my own damn buisness.
Sometimes a coach would come and ask me if I needed help, or told me if my movements were not good and that's all.
Not a fatty, but literally no one gives a fuck who else is in the gym. Your self consciousness is rooted in ego. Are you really so important that people are going to care you're working out...What exactly do you think people are going to say or do to you? Go through in your mind those exact scenarios that you have hypothetically imagined. Once you do this you will realise anything they can say or think has almost nothing to do with you. Point your finger in front of you right now and what do you notice. One finger away from your body and 3 pointing back at yourself. Anyone who would actually laugh at you for working out and trying to better yourself is riddled with their own insecurity and you shouldn't feel angry towards them or upset. You should feel sorry for them. Go to the gym.
We don't allow fat people in our gym, you shouldn't even consider going to any gym while being fat.
Have some respect for the people that have to look at you from every possible angle of the mirror, disgusting.
>be fatty insecure beta
>go to gym and cut hard
>my body thanks me, feel amazing
>year in
>one slut that told me condescendingly "don't go too hard big guy" in my first week and did some other weird bitchy shit to me and a couple other fatties has been mirin hard lately, body is very transformed and im not too gross now that im not fat
>talk to her after im done squatting
>asks me out for coffee
>agree
>when we meet I order 4 large expensive meme lattes while she's in the bathroom
>chug two of them and sip the other two
>steal 40 dollars from her purse
>sprint out of the store and vomit from the extreme intake of sugar in such a short time and drink water for my burnt tongue
>drive home
>still have no idea why i did it to this day
If anyone judges you for being fat in the gym they are trash.
Or disgusted by your pathetic existance.
I'm not fat. I you judge a guy/girl actively trying to improve you are a piece of shit.
I'm always nice for fatties in the gym. It takes them shit loads more motivation and will to be there so keep pumping iron my chubby friend! #nohomo
I can tell you how
Mogg everyone
Absolutely destroy and stare at them
Most people have worse social anxiety than you think so because you're fat absolutely stare at everyone and look at them
Make sure they know you're not fucking around and you're there to lift some big weight.
Pic related
You think I give a shit I'm fat. Kek
I will lose the weight eventually but for now I'm not moggable
Most guys in the gym are like 5ft8 anyway so at my height it's no match
Just stare and look at them. Make sure they know you're there to lift some heavy weight
noided
Mog? “More food please” is more accurate user haha
Top kek
Well memed
Same guy who keeps his head down when I walk into the gym
Talk a big game online
Manlet IRL
Based
This has got to be bait, if not you're just the weird fatty that stares at people
Gin milkies
It doesn't matter if everyone judges u or thinks ur fat and dumb. Just don't back down from a challenge. If it feels like shit, but u know u should do something just do it. Doesn't matter if u fail, or embarrass urself. Hiding and running is weak. Go and fail a million times for all it matters, it's the right thing to do. If it doesn't get better fuck it. Keep going.
I'm a sperg, just literally go in. Use cardio machines til you're comfortable and then hop on resistance training when there isn't as many people there, know what you're doing with form and shit. After the first session you'll be comfortable enough.
Nigger of course they’re intimidated.
They think you’re either going to follow them home and eat them, or hire bounty hunters to freeze them in Carbonite.
Here’s a list of the few things people care about others doing at the gym
>smelling awful
>being obviously unclean
>having bad form
>lifting far more than they can handle
>hogging limited machines/stations
That’s literally it.
It took me some time too, but you need to realise that people literally don't give a fuck.
The world doesn't revolve around you even though you have a decent gravitational pull, just go to the gym and exercise, no one gives a shit about you being fat.
Somebody who has respect for the gym and understands personal goals will respect you, and thats the majority. We see you as doing the same as us, trying to better yourself. There will always be assholes who need to mock people who have less than them though, you can't change that, and if you can't accept it you will never succeed at the gym. Get over that part and the rest is up to you, you can become whatever or whoever you want with enough effort. Its sink or swim just do it, you have nothing to lose.
It’s good to desynsitize yourself. That being said don’t get too comfortable and be a loud meme excersizing faggot. Seen this fatty doing push-ups in the power rack.
As most anons said, literally nobody gives a shit.
Every time I see a fatty in my gym the only thing I think is that I'm happy they're trying to change. Most people are nice.
Everyone is there to better themselves, so everyone's equal.
The only fatty I can't stand at my gym is a mouth breathing retard who's grunting obnoxiously loud because he's lifting way too much.
Important to realize that
1. Everyone is there for themselves essentially
2. Nobody started there being fit/buff/etc.
They probably won't even notice you, and even if they do they'll realize you're there trying to improve yourself and as long as you're being respectful you'll be more than welcome
Look man, I promise that no one will look upon you negatively. Being fat in the gym shows people that you are trying to improve, which will warrant respect from most people. Either that or people will just ignore you. Most people are only focused on themselves in the gym regardless.
Since it's still early in the year half the people are gonna be fat just like you, also no one's gonna pay attention to you, you'll just be another body in the gym. I had some anxiety first time going in but it actually doesn't matter. Just push through the first time and it'll be completely fine and easy form that point on.
the dad bod is strong with this one