Got more fit, girlfriend still doesn't care

I've been lifting for about 3 months - I went down from 170 pounds to 150, have good pec and shoulder development...even have a 6 pack now. My girlfriend still never initiates, and when we have sex, is a dead fish. Why even fucking bother man.

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>150lbs
Its because youre a twink

Source?

I'm also 5 foot 8 (on a good day)

fuck off you technologically illiterate faggot
>also I don't have the sauce

>not raping your gf so it's more exciting for both of you

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Imagine jacking off to degenerate shit like this.
Japan is truly a disgusting country.

Time to get a new girlfriend.

You need to communicate your desires to her if you want things to change op. You cant just start lifting weights and expect your girlfriend to change the way she interacts with you

This was hot. Japs make the best cuck porn.

Aisai, Doui no Ue, Netorare 2 ~Harada-ke no Baai

fastest way to dry up a pussy is to complain about your sex life you absolute virgin

OP needs to rape her. his gf does not view him in a sexual manner.

this is what got me into lifting - thinking that my gf not wanting to sleep with me was caused by me not looking sexy enough. Turns out I didn't pay attention to her and she didn't feel that I appreciated her for who she was (I didn't) and thus I kept on lifting for a year without change in the bedroom. I broke up after a year, at this point my confidence was fucked up and I felt that I wasn't attractive enough for anyone to want me physically.

Now I'm with a woman who appreciates me for who I am and who doesn't even care about whether I lift or not, I just do it for me. She's happy for me when I'm happy about making progress but she loves fucking me no matter if I lift or not.

Protip: look at your relationship and if you really appreciate the girl that you're with. If you do, try to look at it from her perspective - ask her how she feels about the two of you in way that allows her to tell you how she actually feels. If you are happy with her (apart from her being a bore in bed) and she seems to be happy with you (after you've REALLY tried to listen to her version), you should break up. Being in a sexless relationship absolutely kills your confidence and you should get out before it hurts you permanently. I stuck around with my ex and we didn't have sex for more than a year, I'm still affected by it.

tl;dr - your body isn't the issue and you should break up with her asap if there UNLESS there is something that you can actually fix in your relationship that'll make both of you happier

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I have discovered that fixing my appearance is worth nothing because my personality is repulsive to normalfags. With this in mind, I'm not planning to change because pussy isn't worth not being yourself over.

There're no greener pastures for me on the normie side. As a result, I no longer think about such carnal pleasures and have invested 100% of my efforts towards just being myself.

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what about your personality is repulsive?

>expecting reasonable dry dialogue to change primal nature

Have you ever interacted with a human being in your life? OP's gf isn't attracted to him, but he can make her attracted to him. Unironically rape her. Just grab her and start fucking her whenever you want. If she wants to be passive, so be it.

I followed this advice. My gf went from stone dry uninterested bitch to trying to stop me, to crying a little, to screaming orgasms, to begging me to fuck her. The best part is she eventually gets trained to be aroused by being used so you don't have to care about her pleasure at all and she'll enjoy it more.

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Do you know the Ship of Thesus problem, gentle frog poster?

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Women don't hesitate to talk to me, but all that have known me for longer than a week are driven away. As such, I can only conclude that if it's not my looks to blame, it must be my personality.

Unfortunately, or maybe fortunately, I've stopped caring about it at this point, since it's unnecessary suffering that I can otherwise avoid. So I've just focused on self-improvement and doing what I feel like doing.

What is it about? Is it good? I wanna find berserk with more rape, does it exist? Gantz was pretty cool but I want something more hardcore/explicit. Honestly just berserk kek

Of that I do know friend. So I have decided that if I am to remain myself, I mustn't deconstruct myself and I shouldn't focus on changing myself for others anymore. The only possession worth having is possession of oneself.

Sadly the only places that like melancholics are Mongolian cave-painting groupchats. It's a strange feel, I'm both relaxed and happy and yet also sad.

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Yeah I really, really cannot be fucked to keep up with pop culture and events/news to have something to talk about with regular people.

Some people have no sex drive. She might be one user. Have you tried talking to her about it?

If you literally did this to get your girlfriend to have sex with you, you're fucking up my friend.
Find a new girl who likes you.

Also, don't rape her. These people are trying to land you in jail.

This is also part of it. There's nothing I have in common with people on the surface level, so I can't make small-talk, and you can't have deep conversations without getting to know them through small-talk first.

I'm pretty lonely but I've realized that that's just how things are. However, I don't really harbor any dislike or hatred for normies, since I'm past that point. Don't wish harm or ill upon anyone and yet I still sometimes wonder what things would be like had they gone differently.

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Sorry about your frigid gf but honestly that's a sign that she doesn't really feel for you. Your body probably wasn't the issue here buddy.

same user that's still no excuse to be a fat cunt though

Pardon my autism, I misunderstand the context.

As for myself, I lost 20 pounds, went from 190 to 170 over the last 2 months, and I'm at a manageable 12% body fat user. Though I'm still unhappy with my body, so I'm going to keep improving forever.

What about you, are you struggling with fatness user?

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op here. I think if I dump her, I won't ever do this over again. I'm done with girls.

I know that feel user. It's a pain and there's too much suffering for it to be worth the energy investment. In essence, people are a liability. But do know this, you're going to have to learn how to have fun by yourself or else you're going to kill yourself.

thanks for understanding bro. And nah, I think I'll just hang out with my bros. I don't think I'd kill myself just because I wouldn't have a pussy to fuck. Honestly, it's a lot worse fucking a girl that's just waiting for it to be over.

If you're not happy in a relationship either talk about it with your partner or end it. Don't waste your time

>some people have no sex drive
don't fall for this meme. some people have an unrealized sex drive. this isn't the same thing. if a girl isn't sexual it's your job to make her sexual. EVERY human enjoys an orgasm and the closeness of sex. if a girl isn't enjoying sex or interested in sex it means YOU are the problem, not her.

>try talking to her
NO. what the fuck man? where did you learn that? you need to speak only with actions and positive experiences.

Lifting won’t fix your relationship buddy. And having a better body won’t make your girlfriend more attracted to you; physical looks are only a small part of attraction for a woman. It’s hard to fix a dead bedroom, and you might decide that it’s not worth it, but you can do it by asserting yourself and making who you are as a person more attractive.

Kakumeki no valvrave (valvrape) is a good anime.

Perhaps if you change little by little, and in ways in which you consider improvement, you will remain yourself. Similar to a clumsy little tadpole maturing into a mighty frog.

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It’s good advice though. Obviously don’t literally rape her because that’ll land you in jail and it’s an awful thing to do to a person you care about. But treating her sexually according to your sex drive and without waiting for permission is how you get her interested. Come up behind her and grab her tits while she’s doing the dishes, slap her ass when she gets up off the couch, grab her hair and kiss her deeply instead of just a quick peck to say hello. Then see how she’s reacting, pull back and push forward again.

Girls are like Jow Forums. You might hate it but there's a void inside you will eventually draw you back.

Don't bother, get the fuck out immediately...you're sexual appetites are incompatible even before engagement. Imagine how shitty this situation would be married with kids!

>t. Married father in dead bedroom

So she just lies there and takes it? Throw her around, if she just lies there then you should be able to put her into any position you want. Instead of a dead fish think of her as a blank slate.

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Thanks user, maybe I will. The way I'm looking at it now, is that I'm self-improving and what happens, happens. If a girl does end up liking me, I'll be pretty happy about it but I'm not improving FOR a girl to like me, I treat it as a side-quest. For me now, self-improvement is my main goal.

We're probably gonna make it one day,