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KILL YOURSELF YOU PEDO SHIT

I havent even seen porn in years
Pedos are feminists because they atributte beauty to a female

Yes.
Sounds like you are telling yourself you are into tomboys while you are actually into kids.

>I already told my mental health coach and he didnt do anything.
The stigma about pedos in society is that they are unpredictable and mental cases. He might be acting indifferent just to not get you to act impulsively and keep an eye on you.
If I were you, I'd claim I was just making a shitty joke and never touch this subject again.

I Reject boobs and asses.
Some kids are very femenine and i dislike that too.
Maybe its the traume of being told ita bad to look at naked women so now i reject femenine bodies

Stop craving worthless things realise that right now you are making a huge fucking impact in the rest of your life just because you are missing something find what it is and leave the stupid karate gym class in the meantime

Thanks for derailing the thread and then leaving. No more pedos and faggots allowed,attention whoring will be shown on site

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Got rejected. She was in my plans for the future but now my plans mean nothing. She was my only motivation in the past couple of months to work hard on myself. She was the only thing that made me fight my depression. Now I feel lost and I don't know what to do with my life.

Tell us the story user. Writing about it will help you understand and overcome it, plus we will be able to give a good advice maybe

Seconding this , I'm here for ya as well broski

Due to an ear infection, I haven't trained for almost 8 days, I fucking hate it. Was on a lean bulk, everything going as planned.

How much muscle have I possibly lost? And how much fat have I possibly gained? Can't even look myself at the mirror, thinking I've lost what I've worked for. I know it's much psychological, but still..

We met a couple months ago and she was the first girl in over 10 years who was genuinely attracted to me. We spend a few amazing nights together and kept in touch after. I've been depressed for a long time and she made me feel alive again. Everything I did after that was for her. I worked hard on myself, started making plans for the future, I was ready to blossom after being cocoon mode for the past 5 years or so.
Somewhere along the line I fucked up due to my neediness and watched her interest wane off. I realized that early but felt better living in a bubble where everything will work out between us and we'll be together in the end, because it helped me work hard on myself and my future. The thought of us kept me motivated and helped me deal with my depression. And desu I saw this coming, and honestly I just needed closure. And I got it today, in a very soft way. It didn't hurt as much because I anticipated it, and quite frankly it's not really about her, but about how she kept me motivated all this time. Now I have no plans, and no motivation to do anything, and I feel like I'm back to square one. I'm a 30 year old loser who still lives with his parents and no girl will ever want me if she finds out about my life.

Glycogen levels decreasing making you look flatter, as long as you've been eating correctly (and even if you haven't desu) you probably have all of your muscle still. 8 days feels like a long time when you're used to training day in and day out but it really isn't. You may have gained some fat but it's likely a negligible amount and you only look like shit because of your glycogen levels. Get back in the gym, snort some creatine, and you should be looking big again in no time.

Move out, man. Your life is still ahead of your but you need to get out from your parent's house

This is a thing I wanted to do for a long time but the problem is that my parents are poorfags and they are leeching money from me, and it's hard for me to tell them to fuck off because after all they are my parents. So I feel stuck, because no way I can support them and me.

I've read this once in a shitty novel but this seems to have stuck with me:
>"You weren't in love with me, you were in love with the idea of me"
It seems that you were in love with how she made you feel, and how you could utilize it as motivation. The good part is that you can achieve that with every other woman you will meet, on any dating app/site if you will.
The bad part is that it's a really destructive way of gaining happiness because people can disappear very fast and you should strive to base your happiness and source of motivation on something that is more stable rather than another human being.
It's hard and it sucks I know, but I suggest trying to find happiness in more permanent things.
Best wishes to you user

>they are leeching money from me
Ffs just LEAVE, they are not entitled to you as a slave just because they made you.

How do you lift trough the feels bros? I try to exercise trough it but I just get overwhelmed with sadess and emotions

>base your happiness and source of motivation on something that is more stable rather than another human being
I've done that approach. I've neglected chasing girls, concentrated on career and fitness but in the end it got me nowhere. It all means nothing to me if I can't pass my genes.

I know man

got rejected by a 3/10 uggo. This made me realize how ugly I really am.

Don't take it to yourself,even absolute uggos think about themselves as qweens these days

How do i deal with the excruciating heart tearing pain when i know i will never have Natalia gf :(

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This
Fucking 3s think they are 7s on bad days.

>tfw no gay gem user bf

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obv answer is obv

fall in love w/ a real cute coworker and perish every minute watching her being happy w/ a 25+ y/o fag, getting engaged married and giving birth to a beautiful little girl

repeat until Natalia is just a hearty nostalgic memory

>bonus points if you cry literal blood tears like I did yesterday
>extra bonus if you rly doesnt care anymore

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I'm too depressed to eat enough, or my metabolism is too fast. But I have been fluctuating between 163 and 167 for two years.

wait, is that the girl who was russian chief executioner for Ukraine or something

Ok, how do i do that ? I just go randomly to her say hi and then ?What do i say after that, i feel like i have nothing to talk about
Natalia Vladimirovna Poklonskaya-prosecutor general of Ukraine

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thanks, couldn't quite remember her name.

np fren.She has a cute name,well... everything about her is cute..

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When I look upon her it makes me realize that soft power really is a thing

>my first job ever
>start falling for literal wholesome ukrainian girl

Thanks brother, you made me smile

oh, its definitely a thing..
Good luck user

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>tfw fallen in love with a very cute co-worker but she has a bf
>they all do

JUST

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Well Jow Forums I have a dilemma.
>meet amazing girl
>smart
>beautiful
>similar interests
>we get along really well, have great conversations
>treats me better than any girl ever has in my entire life
>exactly my type, dresses modestly but has a surprisingly great body (big tits on a thin frame, great ass, etc.)
>sex is fantastic
but
>find out she sometimes gets cold sores
>mfw
Please tell me I'm blowing this out of proportion, it seems stupid to pass up on my dream girl because she gets the occasional cold sore. So, any advice? Any of you guys have it? It seems manageable/avoidable if we're careful with it.
It's not even her fault by the way, apparently she's been getting them since she was a little kid.

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but sometimes they ditch him.

you retarded user?

and then youre too deep in te friendzone and ''youre a great guy but not her type''

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I'm losing my mental health fit, I lost my factory job because I got really sick. Been applying like a mad man and every time I go through multiple interviews then at the last one I'm told I wasnt selected. Its getting hard when all these companies say "we have 100 openings" and you make it to the last round but dont get the job. It's making it harder to workout because now I'm doubting my ability to even basic ahit correctly.

Not always. As long as you don't get sucked in convos about her ex-bf.

wrong, she never talked about him to me but i still got that

oh its more complex more deep truth lies in the nuances

>u realize she is a good person
>u realize she is a fun person to be with
>u realize u 2 lived your lives exactly the same
>u realize u enbded up in the same thinking pattern with the same ultimate truth
>u realize u 2 are meant 2 b 2gether
>u realize she completes u
>u realize she is absolutely the only one u can trust 2 complete and support u in ur 'mission' as a man
>u start 2 listen 2 her
>u listen 2 her each and every day a 15-20 mins then an hour then hours
>u start 2 b w/ her more than anything else u do in ur daily routine
>u realize she is as much dmgd as u r
>u realize u r d only answer 4 her suffering
>u realize u r d only 1 who can truly heal her
>u catch her eyes 4 weeks now
>u luk in2 her eyes for like hours
>u will eventually kiss her in a weak moment of
both of yous

aaaand she will become confused amused and falling in love at the same time tries to hold onto her (several!) relationships and keep you on a very soft leash (4 u 2 know where ur place is) but end up fuckin it up and u triing to make her love u and show a spine will eventually confront her several time and drift apart gr8er distance than tristan da cunha from NYC

have fun!

Probably. Are you implying that I am making too big a deal of this?

>She breaks up late november
>Looksmaxing (gym and grooming) and lifemaxing (study, career and socialize)
>Realize that I am actually better off without her
>Doesn't stop me from having dreams we are still together every night

Feels bad man

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bro, i drank from a glass of beer at a bar that someone else drank from. now i get cold sores all the time. IT'S NO BIG DEAL.

bonus point for already imagined life together, the places you should visit, the life you will lead, the sweet, spiritual, emotional lovemaking, for dreaming about her awoke and asleep

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>everytime a girl smiles at me

Tfw that just happened today...wtf..

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Copy/pasted from a thread the jammies disappeared this morning
>I genuinely want to kill myself, like unironically. I hit the bottom of a mood swings about half an hour before the end of my shift tonight and I don't know if I'm coming back from this one. I've survived every depressive episode so far but I think this one is different. I was going to go sign up for a real gym today but instead I'm sitting in my car in the parking lot at work scrolling Jow Forums again. Then I'm going to sleep in my car, in the parking lot at work, until the heat wakes me up, and then I'm going to take a shower and wait until it's time to work tonight
I'm not even living anymore, I'm just phoning it in and waiting for something to happen.
I do double the speed limit on the interstate because I don't care if I live or die.
And on top of all the shit I've been dealing with for my whole life, the girl I like at work isn't interested.

I can understand where you are coming from. I had similar feelings for a long while. But to be honest, I also realize that this life is basically a one way ride, from beginning to end without any second chances.

Whatever comes out of this life won't be repeated, unless you believe in some sort of reincarnation, so the best you can do is realize how meaningless life can sometimes be and that it requires you to give some sort of meaning it yourself before you pass away one day.

That's not a dilemma you fuckwit, marry that girl up you nigger

Family is a scam

The thought of having children gives me the howling fantods.
There, I said it. I can't say that IRL though.

Yes

Wh-what's a howling fantod, love?

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Some expression I picked in a book. English is not my native language. But basically it tores my guts.

fantod
/ˈfantɒd/
noun (INFORMAL NORTH AMERICAN)
a state or attack of uneasiness or unreasonableness.

A howling fantod is when you're feeling that, but you're also howling

I'm much more afraid of marriage than having kids. I work with too many grumpy dicorced old men. Having kids sounds neat though haha

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This post would've been so much better had you not used nigger spelling.

Why is that user ? I would love to have at least 4 kids(sons) and rise them to become better men
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Finished with gf. Know that it can't continue but still have feelings and its hard to let go.

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>marriage
I wouldn't go with a girl who wants kids anyway
I guess it has to do with a) fear of aging and b) I don't want to be like my father.
I know I could talk with a therapist but I'm afraid it would lift my fear of having children and I would end up with children.

Things are actually going well. Haven't slept much recently but other than that life is great. Started dating this girl, have been managing to use mind tricks to delude myself into seeing her as more than a 4/10 since it's fun and easy. Hot girls are too much effort for me right now.

>Tell girl that she shouldn't make any plans the day before valentines
>i'll stay at her place
>ask her if she'd be okay with me gifting her something, not telling her it was for valentines
>"don't know user, i don't have anything to gift you. do you expect something?"

She doesn't want something serious now does she?

>, just go with something cute like a funny/endearing card without laying on the romance.
Well i did want to lay out a heart with rose buds on her bud and put like 3 roses in the middle. Anything else?

> in the very best case scenario she hasn't made up her mind yet, but she's on the fence if not unwilling
Is that really the case though... She's been acting in public pretty much like my gf
Oh and she's my ex we just recently have been seeing each other again (1.5 months

>a girl
>acting pretty much like my gf
>she's my ex
Sounds a bit complicated.

It is but on the othr hand, her actions tell me something else
My head hurts though

>My head hurts
No kidding.
Joking aside, I think your idea is cute without overdoing it.
If you want some advice though, I feel it;s better to give small gifts that are relevant to the person you like any time you feel like it rather than on "artificial" occasions.

>cute without overdoing it
You really think so?

She likes valentines day and i didn't get her anything last year, when we were dating.
Can still hear her say " well maybe next year" so, if anything i'd do it for her.

Yes, I mean you're not buying her overpriced thing, you're doing somehting yourself, it's simple and she;ll get the intention right away. You had any other idea?

It's not overly romantic, seeing that she herself is unsure if she wants a relationship?

>any other idea
well, just put a small pack of chocolates on her bed with one rose

you see the recurring theme

in that case, yes it might.
Well as a plan B you could leave pic related on her bed with a flower that is not a rose.

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i know that she's a romantic fan herself, but yeah i dont know man
i should just stay true to myself and do what i want to do shouldnt i

Well you know her better than I do

still, her words are kinda shaking my mentality sorta

T-thanks Jow Forums
I'm glad I'm just being a neurotic fuck as usual

Started talking to this girl. We had similar interests, hobbies, tastes in TV/movies/music. Went on a date last week and I thought it went well, she initiated a hug at the end. Now she's been really distant. Said she had family issues to deal with at weekend. I asked her to clarify yesterday, and she said her mom was in the hospital. Trying to give her space now but I'm a little sad. It's either really bad timing on my part, or she's using a really big excuse to not see me anymore.

SO FUCKING WHAT?
Marry her, you absolute cretin. Cold sores are nothing, I've been getting them sporadically since childhood. If you drop her just for that, I GUARANTEE you'll be back here in another feels thread moping about how you let the perfect girl slip through your fingers.
Grow some bollocks, for God's sake.

>used to be a fat freak
>found a girl who genuinely liked me
>fucked it up by being an asshole and a creep
>decided to improve myself physically and mentally
>lost shitton of weight, got promotion in my job, working on degree, doing kickboxing
>my confidence skyrocketed
>many objectively attractive women show interest
>I still feel like I want only her
>she's dating some fat fuck now and completely lost interest in me
>started to slowly realize that she probably has a fetish for fat guys and that was the reason she was interested

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You mean the
>"don't know user, i don't have anything to gift you. do you expect something?"
part ?

yeah that too

well maybe she's unsure of how you feel about her as well. Sorry, don;t have any personal experience of rewiring broken relationships

Things are going objectively well with this girl, we've met in person several times and thing's have gone fucking great, but she's a very infrequent and brief texter and it's making me overthink everything for no reason. It makes no sense because I'm coming off a relationship where the girl wanted to text/talk on the phone about *everything,* and I actually prefer this girl's style of not texting a ton and leaving more to discuss in person. This is honestly the ideal situation and I'm somehow getting extra stress from it. Maybe I'm more clingy/needy than I thought I was when I was with my ex.

I'm planning on going a lot harder on my hobbies this week, and by the time uni's started back up next week I should have plenty of other things to do to keep me sane. I think this could be a great thing if I can figure out how to finally rise past dumb insecurities and become truly self-confident.

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no problem user. maybe she does, guess only she can answre me that but i'm scared to ask

lol it's like you're asking her out all over again basically

it's a bit more than asking her out though somehow i dunno

Yes, because you're aksing her to try again something that didn't at first. Why did you two breakup anyway?

she broke up because i wasn't "that extrovert" in her opinion, which changed and well here we are

So she has more fun with you now than she used to? Then give it a try.