Hey guys, feels thread is now open. Let a load off of your chest so you can focus at the gym. I'm hitting bench tonight and am stoked about it.
>be me >be engaged >Fiance and I decided to wait until after summer to start worrying about wedding as we are busy >She starts planning obsessively almost immdietly >says pressure of people asking when the wedding is has gotten to her. (weak sauce, I know) >last night were driving talking about the wedding and she explodes on me about how I'm not putting enough effort into planning the wedding. >I tell her she seems stressed, try to communicate with her and attempt to remind her we talked about not rushing or stressing the wedding >she continues with passive aggressive comments >I explain to her what she is doing and calmly let her know I don't appreciate it >she continues to give me verbal jabs >I straight call her out and point out WTF she is doing >demand that she recognizes what she is doing and apologize >she can't she starts crying and drives us home, canceling our plans whatever, i'm not dealing with this so I go for a run >I come home with flowers and say I don't care who is at fault, I recognize my part and just want to move on >she accepts flowers and sleeps on couch continuing to be an ice cold cunt to me.
Should I call off the engagement? She does shit like this twice a month and refuses to look at her actions. I'm sick of it. She is literally perfect except for this. Anytime she pulls this stunt I'm exhausted for days following and it really effects my health and work.
Anyways, I'm doing an amrap bench at 260 tonight, hoping to get 7.
>she accepts flowers and sleeps on couch continuing to be an ice cold cunt to me.
Up until this point I was like dude wtf are you complaining about she's just being a woman That's not great user, I don't think it's serious enough to dump her but damn. At a certain point. Twice a month huh.
Cameron Bailey
pee in her butt
Gabriel Watson
>drives us home >sleeps on couch
she controls your life ergo she is the dominant one in the relationship. jump ship if you wanna live - otherwise be a cuck
it will be great pleasure to hide the pain smilin in the camera while holding the offspring of someone else
I'm also engaged, user. I've been accused of not caring enough about the wedding the entire time. I just ignore her for the most part.
Occasionally she'll have a little shout but I just explain how she's wrong and I don't have the patience for it. I think the problem you're having is that you admitted that you were in the wrong by coming home with flowers.
You'll always have to work on your relationship, and there will always be the odd fight, but just work through it and you'll be okay. No reason to start worrying about calling things off yet.
Good luck mate
Christian Myers
Trying to slowly get back into a healthy overall routine. Cut down on drinking last week. Stuck to a calorie deficit this week. Was planning on getting back into the gym next week but I fucked my knee at work on Monday. Feels like I pulled a muscle and it hasn't gotten any better since then. Want to start working out so fucking badly but I'll feel like a cuck if I can't hit legs because of this.
Ian Smith
>be me >friend says to me “isn’t it crazy how we’ll either marry or break up with our girlfriends?” >realize I’m stuck in a loveless relationship, wasting the best years of my life with a girl that I can’t break up with despite liking another girl that I know likes me already and is single >Valentine’s Day is one week from now and I’m going to have to pull the trigger between now and then >I know it’ll crush the girl I’m going out and she’s already suffered a family tragedy this month (and I have dumped her before too)
What do lads?
I think you should sit her down, reassure her about your commitment to your relationship (if that’s how you feel, but you must like her if you got engaged) and then bring up your issues with your relationship and try to get assurances that she will work on her flaws
I think calling off your engagement will kill your relationship stone dead tbqh desu
Although maybe that’s what you want
Fuck it man do what you can. Can’t train legs? Do push and pull or something, or even cardio if you’re able for it
Isaiah Nguyen
Don't know if it's shitty advice but put some pressure on her. Tell her that until she explains herself why is she doing this you won't talk to her or something like that.
Right? Its a bit much. I can handle a womens shit, but this woman gets a bit more pissy than most. Lol, okay will do Bringing flowers was me trying to be a bigger person and not lets this bloom out of control. Idk man, homestly is marriagr worth it? Theres a big part of me that wants to start drinking again and start fucking the hottest most random sluts.
Thanks bros. And to the guy who called me a cuck in the making...fuck bro too real
Jaxon Edwards
She feels stressed because of the wedding and that's why she started planning but seeing you being so chill made her angry because in her eyes you gotta start planning now as she is shitting her pants even though you had a deal. The way to fix this might be just helping her cope with the stress and showing that you understand
Jason Cruz
>Hemorrhoid so no heavy lifting for couple weeks, no lower body work until recovered >Weak and tight glute medius that's kept getting injured/pain >Forearm tendon issues, but getting better with massage Basically have just taken the past few days as rest, next 2 weeks or so will do pretty much nothing but some re-hab exercises, massage and stretching for those issues. Maybe some push-ups/pull-ups for easy sets so I'm also letting my forearm/wrist rest. I mean I've taken it as a pretty blunt reminder to get off my ass more often and get shit done, focus on aspects of my life other than fitness where I've lately been getting a bit obsessed to the point of excluding all else. And to get those nagging issues/weak links fixed by just working on them and not worrying about the rest. But it hurts, it's less motivating to just do the re-hab stuff and little else. I know I'll lose some gains with 2-3 weeks of no real lifting and not taking any calisthenics to high enough volume. And then I'll want another couple of weeks of GPP, core work, cardio and stuff to get back in shape before starting back to heavier lifts. I did a nice cut but now I'm just starting to look skinny, I just want to start a new program and get joocy.
Adam Myers
GET OUT OF THEREEEE
Aiden Price
Cmon bro, you know i was understanding and cool as fuck about it. She was doubling down after inwould acknowledge and listen...i was srsly wtf
I have the same problem except not engaged op. Gf occasionally loses it on me, I can only count the times on one hand over 3/4 of a year but still annoying when it happens. And then if I try to comfort her she stays mad and it’s INSANELY difficult to move them past it. And they realize you just wanna move past it when you did nothing wrong anyway and get mad at that too. I was planning on splitting up in a couple months anyway because I’ll have to leave town but I know it’ll make her feel awful. She knows I have to leave and even brought it up a few days ago about how she hopes I’m not just going to leave her. Don’t know how to have this conversation it sucks. But maybe that’s why people tell you to get the relationship straightwhen you FIRST start dating. Problem was if I had told her that early on we may have never started dating I think
Dump her now rather than later. Keeping up the lie is harmful for both of you.
Cameron Ramirez
she’s definitely stressing but she also might be one of those self destructive people that cannot accept happiness. so the concept of getting married and living a happy life forever is scary and she is taking measures, conscious or not, to impede it. this is also why people inexplicably cheat, so beware. i don’t know why, but humans cannot comfortably live contentedly. Just when they start getting settled, they seek out changes which more often than not end up worsening their situation.
Ayden Howard
A wedding is hardly the most stressful thing life is going to throw at you, though to be perfectly fair it is up there.
Leave her for someone else. It's fine to be mad, it's not fine to act on it in a way that damages someone you claim to love.
Your choice if you want to settle for a suboptimal lifelong commitment that you'll have to live with either breaking or spending decades in.
Jacob Kelly
>married >living a happy life forever
You're revealing more about yourself than you're getting at with her, bro. In fact this entire post reads more like projection than advice.
Blake Walker
You've already dumped her once. Generally the rule is if you break up once, you'll break up again.
Carson Lopez
She's a spoiled cunt. No one deserves that kind of disrespect. Dump her.
Ian Morales
wtf are you talking about? I’m not the OP and you totally missed the point of what I was saying. don’t ever respond to me or my son again
Jason Martin
If you bring someone a gift, they accept it, and then retroactively decide that they're still angry and take it back, they're literally on the borderline spectrum, albeit probably not too far in or this would be far from the largest of your problems.
Run away, OP. It only gets worse with the more comfortable they get.
Dylan Young
No, I really didn't. You're revealing a ton about yourself with the way you framed marriage and described "humans" in super general terms and then referred only to a small subset of people who are uncomfortable with routine. It's sad really, your life sounds incredibly uncomfy.
Still, I hope you have a good go of things, user. We're always here to help.
Thomas Fisher
Im an ungrateful bitch
>About a year ago >Meet a girl in class >Instant chemistry, I can clearly tell shes attracted to me >Ask her out >She has a boyfriend already >No matter, we can be friends >Fast foward to this semester >Have dated a ton of girls since >Oneitis is in yet another class with me >She still is clearly attracted to me >Still mad about her >Still dating her bf >Im currently dating a very cute blonde that I have a lot in common with >Things are great with blonde >Still can't get oneitis out of my head >Everytime I go to class and see her I want to fucking shoot myself >Everytime im out with blonde i feel like a dishonest scumbag
Why do I have little bitch feelings? Blonde is even hotter than oneitis but I just cant talk to oneitis and not feel like a little kid in christmas. Fucking hell mate.
>only have two real friends >one of them joined the army 5 years ago and moved out of state >only see him once every year >he's getting married >hung out with other friend every now and again, fucking around with our cars or just to talk >he tells me he's moving out of the country >tfw no more bros
The only cure for oneitis is cutting them out. It's probably not what you want to hear but you know it's right.
Xavier Sanders
Guys, I am so happy right now! >Be me >Have a physical job, like training, going out in nature, swimming, diving, shooting, all that jazz >Come May '18 >Got in a car crash >Broke my right hand >Out of commission after an already stressful February-April period where I didn't get much lifting done >Get sent on sick leave through June >And another two weeks >Spend the time being despondent, shitposting, overeating and learning to jack off with my left hand >Weight goes steadily up >Don't go out much anymore either, sick pay doesn't leave much room for fun >Finally get my cast taken off and begin training my hand again >Ever so carefully begin lifting again, pretty much from scratch out of fear that I'll break my hand again >Benching 40 kg, deadlifting 40 kg, squatting 60 >Slowly and steadily pile on the weight And today I hit 150/95/172.5! My hand now no longer feels tired after lifting, and I'm hoping to have my 205 kilos deathlift back and hitting 170 kilos squat in time for the anniversary of the crash. While I haven't had the greatest progress with losing some of the weight I put on (7 of 13 kilos), I'm also seeing results there. It might sound a bit weird, but hitting that 150 kilo squat was a major milestone for me, and for the first time in a long time, I'm feeling optimistic and enthused about the future. Sorry for rambling, bless you all, we're all gonna make it.
How do I stop telling myself I’m garbage without becoming an arrogant cunt? I feel like the only thing holding back that part of my personality is that I tell myself I’m a piece of garbage
Cameron Anderson
OP, every relationship is different obviously and we can only advise from what you’ve said, but what you’re saying reminds me of my ex.
Instant chemistry with her. Felt like I’d be with her forever. Never cared about someone so much. As time went on and we got closer, she changed. Started doing crazy things (storming out over petty little shit, refusing to have a mature discussion about things and instead sleeping on the couch, etc).
These things don’t work out if they get to this situation. Try this: stop giving her attention when she’s being unreasonable. If she genuinely cares about your relationship, she’ll notice that when she’s being unreasonable it pushes you away and she’ll stop. Otherwise, she’ll just let you drift away. Nothing you can do about it, you just have to let whatever happens, happen.
Just my thoughts. Best of luck mate.
Luis Richardson
Yes, call it off right fucking now. It will not get better.
Signed, Guy who went through this EXACT SAME shit.
Aaron Rogers
How do people get this far in a relationship and not correct this type of behavior early on? Or just break up? Did this just start once you two were engaged?
>buying her flowers even though she hasn't recognized her mistake and apologized cuck
My ex wife didnt pull that bullshit until we were engaged. Three years with no insanity and then BOOM, full bitch mode. It really makes you question yourself and whether or not you're seeing clearly. I didn't divorce her until I realized all of my friends and family members hated or avoided her because of how she treated me.
Colton Morales
Currently unemployed after quitting my job on Tuesday. Was gonna wait until Friday but got fed up with the bullshit to where trying to find a new job or doing some introspective thinking would be better. Yesterday I went over to a Tinder sloots place and got high. I wanted to just chill and splurged my entire life story and ruined any chance of getting laid. For the first time in years I friendzoned myself. On the plus, the high I had the rest of the night gave me time to think about myself and what I want. My interaction with the sloot gave my an eye opening experience as to what women are actually like. This day has been recovery mode and I haven't left my room except to piss and eat. On another plus, a sales job I was actually considering back in November talked to me again and wants to see me on Tuesday. Part of me thinks the new guy they probably hired quit but I will see when the day comes. Also fairly certain porn and masturbating once a day is killing my gains and rotting my mind.
Colton Phillips
A prenuptial agreement, antenuptial agreement, or premarital agreement, commonly abbreviated as prenup, is a contract entered into prior to marriage, civil union, or any agreement prior to the main agreement by the people intending to marry or contract with each other.
Nolan Butler
Had the same thing for a long time. Just fully concentrate on the blonde, and dont talk to the other girl at all.
Dylan Torres
>My interaction with the sloot gave my an eye opening experience as to what women are actually like.
Can you explain?
Cooper Howard
I was at the college coffee shop yesterday and ran into a girl I had a fling with like a year ago, she sort of spilled her spaghetti and avoided looking at me. I met her in one of my clubs, we went on several dates, and we cuddled and watched anime, and before I left, she tricked me into looking at her fox shaped earings and she kissed me. It was a really wholesome kiss like I had never felt before. All my kisses had been sexual before that but this one felt different, she kissed me again when she walked me out of her dorm, and then confessed to me over text. then like two days later she had some sort of breakdown over stress from starting college. said we shouldn't hang anymore, dropped out of all her clubs, ghosted me. I felt like total shit because up untill that point I had never felt love, only had manwhored. And as soon as I felt it for the first time it was gone.
anyway I never said anything to her but she was really avoiding acknowledging that I was even there. she hadn't changed a bit. ruined my mood for the rest of the day for some reason
Ill say this once and one time only: the most important rule when it comes to females is YOU CANT CHANGE A FEMALES EMOTIONAL STATE WITH LOGIC AND RATIONALE. This is where you fucked up OP.
Men can do this, they can rationalize the situation, and their emotions will follow. Men often think the same works with females, but it just doesnt, you cant change how she feels with logical arguments. You either awknowledge her emotions "Oh I had no idea you felt this way, I will have more consideration". Or you try to change her mental state by cheering her up, or taking her on a fun date.
Try to logically explain why a girl has no reason to feel [blank] and youll notice they will always get annoyed
Anthony Stewart
>she tricked me into looking at her fox shaped earings and she kissed me
That's so wholesome user.
David Foster
Break up in St Valentine´s. She won't recover from that so she won't have a new bf in a few weeks and then you won't start asking if it was the right to do and you won't regret it
Cameron Flores
> be me > stalling on bench, feel like im breaking wall tho > last week, grueling 4x5 > struggling to get the bar moving for the first 4 inches off the chest, rest good > flashforward to today, chest day > 4x5 on bench, feeling weird today but ready to rock > every rep, chest feels amazing, > form great, bar is exploding for the first 4 inches then slows down > mfw Why cant my triceps and pecs both be on when i bench. Why does one off when the other is on. Im breaking wall cause i felt good now.
Bro, i went deep in to listening and being attentive before i had to explain she was being a straight up bitch. I know you dont logic women, facts. Good looking out though.
Jayden Price
yeah it was honestly the most wholesome thing I've ever felt. her earing was poking into my shoulder so I told her so She could move her head a bit. and she said "they're little foxes, you want to see?" and when I turned my head over to look she darted up and kissed me. then she kind of buried her head into my shoulder and giggled
>She does shit like this twice a month and refuses to look at her actions
Cancel the engagement/wedding shit. Abort immediately. You will be a miserable sack of shit with that adult child as your wife-boss
Robert Phillips
Incredibly based. Well done and God bless you.
Aaron Fisher
Well, after I sperged out and told her my life story, we went kept talking and I decided to put on The Office. Cuddled, kissed, a bit of petting, and then she cuts it off. Now note: up until this point she has already gotten half naked in front of me to change, made it clear that her roommate (who is a dude and apparently never fucks her) won't be back until 8pm when I'm there at 2pm, she changed into like a nightgown thing that very clearly showed off her legs and a bit of her ass, she takes off her bra to show me her fucking nipple piercings FFS, AND she has lewd pics on her IG. All the signs of a hoe. My biggest concern was that I hadn't done weed in a while and was more concerned driving home and not spending the night. Had no idea I was gonna sperg as bad as I did.
So, once we start fooling around she essentially tells me that she is used to doing whatever guys want her to do and she just matches the vibe of the guy she is with. With me, she felt that there really was no vibe. Mind you this was through her CONSTANTLY beating around the bush so it took a while to figure this out. I knew it was over and essentially wanted to see how far before she would try and be direct and say she wasn't interested. Kinda slipped out of her mouth and when it did she tried her damn hardest to cover it up. Was trying to personally attack me as well. I remember her saying that she just wanted a relationship with none of the commitment as I was leaving.
So, on my 20 minute drive back through the city in rush hour traffic while high, I concluded that there are 2 types of women: ones that act as breeders who are just there to make the average Joe to keep society progressing and then you have elites who make very special and specific children that help manage or contribute to society. The sloot was a breeder. This is a very TL;DR and I can expand on it if you want. Thanks for reading my blog
I had a girl that turned into a real cunt once we officaly started dating. I guess she thought that she could do it or something now that we were dating and she had me secured. I don't remember what she said exactly but I yelled at her and told her to stop being a cunt. I realized after that she was going to get getting on my nerves like that to fuck with me or test me so I just broke things off
I had a girl I was seing last semester she decided she didn't see us dating so we just stayed fwb. as soon as we 'weren't seeing eachother she started acting like some sort of highschool bully or something. we fucked one night and she ran off with my shirt and wouldn't give it back. she was pretty tall so she held it above her head.
I really regret this, but I put my hand on her throat, I didn't squeese or anything but I told her to give it back and she did. and then things got all serious and I drove her back. We never really talked again after that.
am I a piece of shit? I'm not really sure if I took things too far or not but she looked really worried for a bit because I did that
>learning to jack off with my left hand THE STRUGGLE IS REAL iktf it's hard to go back, once you go left
Gabriel Mitchell
I didn't know the green M&M was Asian.
Ryan Allen
lel, Mark Manson writes about a bunch of similar experiences in his book "Models". Seems like a normal thing that happens some times, guy dumps a bunch of negative emotions out on a girl and she loses all sexual interest.
>parents wondering how I never had gf >Bros and cousins think I'm chad >Co-workers surprised I'm single and try to hook me up with their families >Roommate seeks advice from me about dating and sex >Doggo thinks I fuck 10/10 bitches >TFW never had GF >25khv 5'10" manlet
Beginning to lose hope. Also I hurt my knee before a local 5k charity run can't participate.
My ex stole my hoodie but it's a hoodie, bro, not my life savings. the fuck is wrong with you? obviously you were bullied, unpopular, or some shit in school holy shit, though I'm actually laughing at how cringe this is because I find it unrealistic that someone could be so retarded
Christian Thomas
I got tricked once by a girl. she asked me to look at something on her phone. I moved closer to look and she kissed me. she made me feel real fuzzy. I wish I knew how to make moves
anyways, >be learning about mental health in school >depression comes up >boy there sure are a lot of boxes I can tick >especially the ones about self loathing >and fun things not being fun
Ryan Martinez
Im attempting this. She sometimes texts me asking me just ths dumbest shit for some reason, pretty sure it just an excuse to talk to me. Do I ignore her if she does this?
Carter Edwards
sounds like you overreacted to her having some fun dude, we all make mistakes though so just make sure to learn from it brah
Chase Lopez
>was a fatass as a kid >went through late primary school - start of university as a fat fuck >lost 40kg back when i started uni cause i was a fat fuck and something i dont want to get into drove me to that >looked and felt great >2017 hit and i'm back on my bad habits >tried to lose more weight because im not lean enough to start bulking >2017 to now always find myself binge eating after a week of eating clean >kept thinking im just being soft on myself and should keep trying to get back on the correct path >sat down at my desk multiple times after binging to write out a meal plan or figure out if i'm lacking any nutrients or just plain not eating well during the week >find myself avoiding social meetings that require going out and probably eating >would skip dinner with family because i "just ate" before dinner and already hit my daily intake >if i overate i would compensate with exercise >overly fixated on calories, macros, body image and weighing myself everyday >emotionally eat when i feel like shit because >no gf or whatever >get to the point where i eat too much and have to vomit >realise recently i might have an eating disorder that i had when i was a kid >again, thought it was just me being soft on myself >look up symptoms >fuck >go to the doctor today to confirm it >starting therapy soon Get yourselves checked guys. I've lost two years of potential progress because of thinking i was "fine" or "mentally well"
hard to type out it words but she was being a complete bitch to me the past week before that with personal jabs and shit
When I was like 11 I got picked on by girls in a very similar way and I guess that pissed me off. It wasn't her just joking with me. like she was activly trying to fuck with me
Hudson Morgan
Was in similar situation. Just understand that you are better than other people in some areas but at the same time you are worse in other areas. Imagine a mathematician and an architect. While the mathematician is a lot better in math he doesn't know shit about how to build buildings. That way you won't be arrogant and you won't treat yourself like garbage
Benjamin Morales
iktf >parents say I am handsome >parents friends say I am handsome >jokes about "I've got a niece that would go for guys like you" >"all he has to do is start talking"
I hate myself and have lost hope. not a khv because internet, but that stuff is meaningless to me if there are no feelings. hopefully you don't lose hope
Levi Harris
I was hoping the context would redeem you and it kinda does.
Eli Adams
>"all he has to do is start talking" my soul hurt, reading this
Ian Bailey
This kind of behavior is awful for a mother to have dude. Don't marry her, she will fuck up your kids if you do. You need someone who is at least mature enough to recognize and apologize for their faults. She's not ready for this kind of commitment man, I think she might genuinely have some trauma if it's as bad as you say.
Aiden Peterson
>want a gf but big inferiority complex that makes me think "Why date me when there are always others who are better" >has led me to constantly trying to improve myself until I am the best or in the top tier
Brayden Long
>current partner admitted they have no ambition or drive by saying "i'll always be poor, so if we do the marriage thing you'll be the breadwinner" >tell them if they return to university they can make at least 50k+ >"i'm dumb user, teehee" >tell them money is important, and that i want to be as wealthy as my parents if not more (mom makes 85k, dad 120k ) >i know i'll make bank with a cse degree that i'm finishing in may, i don't want them sponging off of me >they don't seem to give a fuck, 27 and depending on their grandma to pay his car insurance, rent occasionally and medical insurance since they live below the poverty line >they never want to go to the gym with me (i've gotten substantially fit to a 20% bf from 25% within the past few months) >he puts out only once a week if not that due to his antidepressants >inb4 fat or ugly, not the case at a lower end body fat, no acne or scars, aesthetically average russian gril, with only 1 person i've ever dated - him >gets upset if i want to study or improve myself because "its like you want to be better than everyone" >self improvement is a noble goal, and should be aspired to >all he does is play vidya, eat baked goods and laze around >have told him i value being healthy and educated and financially well off >i don't want a yacht or excessive luxury, just comfy upper middle class like i grew up as >"so, you know i have issues that prevent me from being successful" >so does everyone dipshit, work through them >he has no fucking drive whatsoever, what do anons >planning on continuing to cut to 18% body fat and reach top tier 9/10 body aesthetics and make more money to try and have him notice how much i've changed so he'll want to as well >if he doesn't start trying to improve or try to get somewhat on my level i don't know. probably will have to leave him >know that his life will be in shambles without me since he relies on me for mental support (he has ocd) >inb4 fat roastie golddigger for wanting financial stability
life pro tip user. If a girl doesn't go out of her way to apologise for something without you asking too, she doesn't think she didn anything wrong. wich is a pretty big problem if she's being a bitch.
real talk, give her like 3 days without telling her, If she doens't improve, break things off. Its going to be really hard but its going to save you a lot of anguish down the line and a lot of money.
My appetite keeps ballooning, which annoys me as it will affect my gains. I can feel it slipping away again. I don't have much time before uni finishes (mid-late June), so I want to put in as much work as I can with as few setbacks as possible. The trouble is, stress sets off my IBS, which is always painful and is the reason my appetite disappears. Any tips on how to overcome this?
Michael Williams
You niggers need dread game. Badly.
If a girl thinks she has you whipped, she'll treat you like shit.
>humans cannot comfortably live contentedly. Just when they start getting settled, they seek out changes which more often than not end up worsening their situation.
It's just you. You need to get your shit sorted out with a therapist and stop project your crazy bullshit onto everyone else.
Cooper Wilson
you need to dump them user. they just want to leach off you in the future
Josiah Reed
do you claim him as a dependent on tax returns? if not dump him. sounds like he's just dragging you down. your life is just starting. don't let it begin with a ball and chain around your ankle
Brandon Adams
>tfw this >tfw "I just need to do X, then I'll be ready for Y." >tfw finish X, "Nice, but now I need to do Z, before I do Y." I would beg for a merciful death, but I still have some stuff to do, first.
I thought that redpill stuff was just incel shit until the girl I was dating last year got mad at me and told me that I wasn't getting any that night. so I laughed and asked if she was sure about that as I took out my phone
>mum has been overweight her whole life >only exercise was taking the dogs for a 20 minute walk every day >both dogs have died, no longer goes for walks >she is also retired at 55 >is now completely sedentary besides walking around the garden for 10 minutes >still overweight, eating high calorie foods and ice cream >tells me she might get a stomach band surgery to lose weight >tell her thats ridiculous and that she just needs to eat smaller portions and less unhealthy food >arguement goes like this for 5 minutes >just her telling me that its harder than i think and i will understand when i am older >tells me my overweight sister has also been considering the surgery anyone else here have family that seem completely oblivious to how stupid they are about health? my mum is like 5'5" and 105kg
I believe I've heard of that book. Well, during my periods of boredom during unemployment I now have something to read. Thanks, user.
Charles Turner
just as terrified of talking to people stumbling drunk or cold sober. at least something works for you
Thomas Richardson
>incel >redpill
Jaxon Butler
>to try and have him notice how much i've changed so he'll want to as well dude no it won't work get out, now >t. basically your bf from 3 years in the future had to move back in with my parents but I'm better off now than I was when I was in his situation we both are get out you've seen the writing on the wall but you're still trying to wipe it off trust me, I'm saving you some time and heartache if your bf is ANYTHING like me, he'll need to be dragged into progress by necessity, and that's not something you want to be a part of srs getthefuckout/10
Connor Rogers
i feel you user >formerly overweight at 81kg 5'6 >over 3 years ago lost weight to hit 60kg within 6 months >tell my mom who weighs 81kg at 5'4 advice and offer to help her lose weight >"user i'm not young and don't have the metabolism you have" >meanwhile she eats 5 large meals a day >i don't know what to do to help her if she can't do it herself >my sister quit swim team recently and has slowly been gaining weight >am terrified she'll be a whale like i was once. >have her go to the gym with me when i visit from university, and pay for her gym membership >she's slowly been losing the 15lbs she's gained from quitting swim team and ballet >i'm proud of her user, but my mom has no fucking willpower in terms of dieting and i don't want her to get obesity related illnesses
William Phillips
I despise this feel so much >don't offer anything others don't have >there will be someone stronger >there will be someone better looking >there will be someone funnier >there will be someone who is more successful
how exactly do your refer to specific vernacular without using them, user? your post had better be some double-meta supertroll or some made up shit like that, otherwise you're actually retarded
Nolan Gutierrez
You can literally get any man you want, just drop that rat.
James Murphy
desu sounds like a lost cause. Sunk cost fallacy, you haven't considered the amount of time you've been dating him that could've been used to find someone who is ambitious. Chances are he's not going to improve even if you sit down and have a talk with him. He seems to not value self improvement and it's not something you can teach someone it's something they have to discover themselves. Although it's gonna super painful if he's the only person you've dated because I'm sure you've had good times too and theres a reason you date him. I think you should move on, you can do whatever you like.
Nicholas Brooks
>be me >28 >white >brown hair >green eyes >6' >lean and muscular >no signs of balding >good job >own my own place >complete autistic sperg >regularly catch qts eyeballing me >they never approach me >too much of an autistic sperg to approach them >everyone at work wonders how a guy like me doesn't have a gf >they're starting to openly wonder if I'm gay
I'd rather be an ugly fat fuck because then at least I'd have a valid excuse for being a loner.
Jonathan Perry
whoa, now ease up you do know you're on a Taiwanese Mental Patient's Bread-Baking Whiteboard, right?
Michael Evans
>real talk, give her like 3 days without telling her, If she doens't improve, break things off. Its going to be really hard but its going to save you a lot of anguish down the line and a lot of money. >acting like a woman
No, sit down and talk about your feelings like a functioning human being. We aren't mind readers, neither are they.
