Sexual fitness

fuck off demoralizing agents

Seriously this. Your dick is protecting you. Never put your fucking mouth on a woman where your dick wouldn't even touch, the fuck is wrong with you

REEEE STOP I LIKE HER

Maybe you don't love her.

Ok but seriously lads, I need boner advice

Give advice on how to give a good head

You were nervous, its entirely normal, and also out of practice of having sex.

Ive always been the same, if I haven't had sex for a while (6 to 12 months) and start up with a new girl it might take me a session or two of foreplay before I get hard, but once you get over that hurdle you're fine.

If you can sit in your room and get an erection and ejaculate while masturbating you do NOT have ED, or any issues with your dick. That simply isn't what ED is defined as. Not getting hard with someone else in the room is not a sign of any type of ED.

I would recommend you stop masturbating though, because you do get hornier over time if you stop, try to give yourself a week of no wanking before you see her.

Ok
>first foreplay is the most important. You need her loosened up so start by softly stroking her body with your finger tips, progressing to nibbles/light kisses on her ears (she got super giggly when i did that)
>youll want to move your hand to her vag after 10-15min. (and NOT the 4 fucking hours i waited), and slowly stroke up and down with SLOWLY increasing pressure
>youll feel her clit harden and her pussy get moist when shes just about ready, but continue for a few more minutes
>you need to be dominant, so you initiate the kiss which progresses to making out, all the while youre feeling her up
>by this time youll want to pull her pants down, and softly kiss all the way to her vag
>this is important: every girl is different, so adapt to how shes replying
>anyway, I start off with taking my tongue out like a dog (flat and wide), and you lick her from vagina to clit and back, dont move your tongue you move your head back and forth
>slowly increase pressure, when you get to the vagina press down harder so your tongue gets into her hole but keep dog licking up and down
> by this time she will be moaning, and remember every girl is different, but i focused on her clit at this point
>sucking it softly, flicking it around with my tongue in swirls and "bean flicks"
>but its important that when she starts moaning harder, you keep the same intensity and same tongue movement for a bit for her to enjoy it and then you go a bit harder, swirling your tongue around that clit, sucking on that clit with your lips, and flicking it
>EACH GIRL IS DIFFERENT, YOU HAVE TO ADAPT
Dont be a pussy about tongueing her, you want to please her.

Thanks man, i havent had sex in a loooong time (6-12 is about right)
You know whats wierd? I could do that, be in my room and whip it out and think of mental imagery of women ive seen in the day and get hard....but after yesterday, I FUCKING CANT DO IT

try psyching yourself up while your going down on her, don't think anxiously about your performance, just think about how much you wanna cream her, imagine yourself fucking her, and try losing yourself to those thoughts
if that doesn't work (big yikes if it doesn't) then you could try blue balling yourself before she shows up if you're not gunna cuddle for fuckin four hours when she gets there
be warned though, you're playing with a loaded gun if you do that and it may or may not make your situation worse, I just know it works for me

Thanks brother. Good luck tomorrow

Im a HUGE thinker, I just fucking know its nerves. 3 weeks ago i was getting the thickest girthiest boners of my life when I was smoking pot so I KNOW i can do it, its the mental thoughts and doubts about my perofmrnace 100%. Thank you so much

>then you could try blue balling yourself before she shows up
what do you mean

What's her height and weight

pic?

When I get nervous my performance tanks. I met a girl that literally looked like one of these Kim Kardashian lookalikes... I have no clue why she even wanted me, she seemed way out of my league... I literally asked her out as practice, expecting to get shot down.

And despite a good date, and going to her place to fuck... my boy didn't want to cooperate. She was so pissed at me she threw me out of her house.

>don't think about it
But seriously, grab some boner pills, take. Em 45 min before she gets there, clean your room, light some candles, put on whatever music you find sexy (she won't mind, I promise) and crack a beer with her in bed before you get going.

Don't rush, but let your instincts control your movement, not any conscious thought. Just let go and at worst you'll give her more head and say you just had one too many before she came over.

You don't apologize, you don't panic, just lay back and chat for a bit while you play with the body (touch hair, fingers, the cheek and the neck, maybe a little thigh) and see if things don't get running while you let yourself relax. And at worst try doing it doggy style. Once it's in you'll probably perk right up.

Oh, and most importantly
>pic related

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Whenever I can't get hard I just grab the girls hand and put it on my dick and say get me hard. Hasn't failed yet.

Plus if you don't get hard you can just blame her

Also normal. I had the same thing happen.

Hadn't had sex in a year, met a new girl and we arranged a time to meet up (both knew it was for sex). Day came and I couldn't get it up at all. I was so bummed out I couldn't even get it up for a week after that. She blamed herself, I blamed myself, thought it was a porn addiction or my dick was broken or whatever.

Eventually I wanked one out just fine and I realized it was just a one time thing. We organized another time and I fucked her 4 times over 2 days. Been seeing each other on and off for a while now.

If you are really concerned about it and cant get out of that mental state, go see a GP and get Viagra. They give it out pretty freely for guys who have mental blockages for sex but can normally masturbate fine.

Lay her down, get ontop, make out with her, grab your dick and start rubbing and grinding it into her, get it just enough hard to where you can stick it in, then just keep thrusting. Breathe into her ear and she'll breathe into yours and kiss your neck. This gets me going every time

>taking any type of erection pill and alcohol
You're a fuckwit, that's the single worse thing you can do, they counteract each other.

>eating pussy
>not getting your dick sucked
>telling them to play with their pussy
>telling them how to play with their pussy
>telling them to cum with my dick in your mouth
>blowing a load down her throat

Hey op did you jerk yourself off after she left? Beta bitch

Does it count that I care you’re a fucking phoneposter?

Kill yourselves

I'M TRYING FUCK

Do you smoke?

One word bro
CIALIS

>I COULDNT FUCKING GET HAR

I will never understand how people have this problem. My dick can always perform no matter what.

I've been having similar issues OP, I just sort of lost my erection while fucking her.

A few months ago, I had no issues masturbating everyday to porn. I've since cut that out, and my masturbation frequency has slowed to about a once a week. I wouldn't be too concerned (arguably, I prefer it this way) if she didn't express interest in sex at least once a day.

I had the same problem. I just could not maintain an erection even though she was very attractive. I was just honest about the situation and made it clear that I liked her and that physical attraction as not an issue. Just let her know that you're not sure why your having trouble, and perhaps your a bit nervous around her and you need her to show patience while you get confortable.. Some girls take it pretty personally if you can't get hard, they think it's a problem with them.

same problem as OP. Will kegels help with this? After todays performance I am willing to try them out seriously. I've done them in the past for probably a week, but didn't notice anything. (I wasn't having sex back then).

thank you OP. got any more foreplay tips?(I am very awkward with my hands) btw Do you always use the dog licking technique. I've tried practicing licking pussy, like just licking the air, and I can't fucking move my tongue for more than a minute, let alone at a consistent pace. I am doing it pretty fast, though, I think I can do it for much longer if I do it a bit slower.

>be me yesterday
>haven’t even kissed a girl since my first time in 2012
>get girl to come home with me somehow
>can’t stay hard for the life of me, like my dick is completely unresponsive
I still had a good time and got a huge weight off my shoulders but brehs... wtf do I need fucking chemical help? I’m only 24

>be me
>been fucking this girl from work since early october
>she's 19 I'm 24
>two days ago she comes over after work and we start fooling around
>not really feeling it so i just do some extra foreplay on her
>getting pretty in to it and start going pretty rough while fingering her
>actually fucking dripping wet
>this sets me off and I go diamonds from feeling her pussy just pouring
>start pounding her pretty hard
>suspiciously wet
>pull away the covers and inspect further
> blood errywhere
>freak out a bit from seeing blood all over my dick, legs and arm/torso
>ask if I'm hurting her
>"no user it's fine it doesnt hurt, I probably should take a shower though"
>join her in the shower and she tries to initiate again but I'm not really feeling it anymore
>shes on birthcontrol so she tells me its not early period or anything like that but apparently bloodvessels in the poon can get extra sensitive if youre on birthcontrol for an extended period
>think nothing more of it
>change the sheets and we go to sleep

>wakes me up real early next morning stroking my dick telling me shes still really horny from last night
>ask her if she really wants to because Im fine either way and I dont want to hurt her
>"nono its fine just keep going"
>fuckit.jpg
>start fucking her again
>almost immediately notice blood on the tip of my dick again
>tell her shes bleeding a bit and ask if I should stop
>"no just fuck me please"
>bit thrown off by this but start going at it either way

>start getting in to it so I push my dick in as far as I can as I always do
>literally feel something pop
>pull out quick and ask if shes alright
>"wow, ow, shit I dont know"
>inspect
>pussy looks like a fucking knife wound
>just fucking pouring out over my bed
>freak out

>cont

>run to the bathroom to get some toiletpaper
>run back to the bedroom and see her pushing her hand against her pussy just to contain some of the bleeding
>asks me if its bleeding alot
>dont want to freak her out so just say its fine but she should sit in the shower for a bit
>push the toiletpaper against her pussy and stand her up
>she can barely stand, says shes lightheaded
>yeah no shit
>lead her to the bathroom
>about halfway I look at the toiletpaper and notice the wad is fully soaked all the way through
>tell her to just stand still for a sec and dont look down
>run to the bathroom to get more paper
>BANG
>hear a loud thud from the livingroom
>ohshit
>grab a roll and run out to livingroom
>shes fallen on the floor
>puddle of blood under her
>she looks fucking scarred for life

>get her up and lead her to the bathroom
>before we go in she looks at the livingroom floor and starts hyperventilating
>tell her its gonna be fine and Im gonna call an ambulance
>"NO! Please dont! I hate hospitals please dont call anyone"
>absolute disbeliefe
>she looks at her hand thats just covered in blood and she goes really pale

>Im just standing there with blood all over my cock not knowing what the fuck to do
>ask her what she wants me to do while i run to get her some juice to keep her from fainting
>her eyes just goes wide and she says
>" I cant hear you and Im blind "
>what
>shes fainting
>turn on the shower and start showering her while i try to make her drink the juice

>after a while she comes to and starts to regain some colour
>give her a candybar and some more juice and ask her if I really shouldnt call someone
>she tries to play it off casually and just says nah it happens
> what in the actual fuck

>bleeding stopped
>create a makeshift tampon for her with some toiletpaper while I go change the sheets yet again
>dry her off and lay her down in my bed
>falls asleep instantly

>cont

>stand in shock in my livingroom just watching the absolute carnage through the apartment
>so much fucking blood
>shower myself off and put some clothes on
>clean up for about two hours

>finally done so go back to bed
>still in shock I guess
>when I crawl in to bed she wakes up
>gets on her phone and wont even mention what happened
>ask if shes ok
>"yeah nah its cool I dunno what happened"
>getting pretty pissed that she is being so fucking casual about it
>she tells me she should probably head home
>not even a sorry or thanks or nothing, but I guess its my fault too so w/e
>asks me when she can come over again
>tha audacity of this fucking bitch
>tell her I dont know but I dont want her to feel bad so tell her this weekend
>"sounds great, I was scared you wouldnt wanna see me again after this"

Have been laying in bed for almost 2 days trying to process what the fuck just happened. Fucking roasties man.

Dont even care if anyone reads this just needed to type it out just for my own sake.

Sorry about the blogpost

You missed out my man. Next time make sure to drink the blood for the iron gains.

And then there are still JIDF shills here trying to convince you NoFap is a scam lmao

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get drunk, also 4 hour foreplay is too long

i absolutely recommend watching serial killer / psychopath documentaries on dates with girls by the way

Its a sighn bruv, listen to this man right here. My dick works fine, only time it didn't was this Korean slut, she ended up giving this dude i know genital warts.

yo guys how do I talk to a girl sexually in a group setting. We go to folklore dance classes pic related. And incidentally we were next to one another, she initiated conversation. and was smiling and shit. Should I be sexual, or should I get her away, one on one and then be sexual.

Feels awkward when I know other people can hear me. Like I guess I have to be more subtle, because at that moment all I could think of was "you are cute" but didn't say it because other people would hear it also.

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Ask her out you fucking sperg, or get her number at least. Its not hard. You miss every shot you dont take, rejection is not as bad as kicking your self for not trying. I believe in you user. Ill do an extra set for your good luck today

>giving head to tinder/bumble girls

holy shit you are going to be an STD farm

Lmao dubs confirm op gettin the herp

okay any ideas where to go? I can't get her to my place, because parents. And I think it's a popular opinion that going to the movies or going out to eat = likely a shitty first date.
Can't think of any fun activities + it's pretty bad weather for the next to weeks around here.

Also I am not looking for a gf. Just for a fuck buddy. I think of making this clear after the first time we have sex.

Yes
You're too timid. If a girl's not going to fuck in an hour of cuddling she's not going to fuck. Honestly if she's not fucking you in 10 minutes 90% chance she's not going to fuck.

This.

She sounds fun, I'd keep her around. Anyone who can lose that much blood and shake it off to being fine the next day is a trooper imo. You should fuck her in the ass, I bet she would love it and wouldn't complain

Movies is shitty cause its like 2 hours you can't talk. Dinner and drinks is not a bad date, and tell your parents to gtfo for a few hours its what id do. Or her place after drinks.

Just talk to your parents about it, say you would like it if they left you alone for a while preferably an evening.

guess I am going to hope she has a place, no way I am getting my parents out.

You got a nice car? Nothing drops panties like a sweet whip fren. Just get head in there, works like a charm

I don't have one, man. I could take her to a nearby hotel i guess.

Go vegan and do cardio for improved circulation.

Please do not take her to a hotel lmao. Those are for escorts my man. I guess her place, but no car is a huge turn off for most girls, even the ones who arent vapid cunts.

Wisdom

fuck why is it like this

Borrow parents car? I want you to get it user, but i am running out of idea lol.

>Nothing drops panties like a sweet whip fren
I dunno about that. I got compliments on my cars from girls, some of them getting literally wet when I put pedal to the metal, but I wouldn't show a nice car right away to a girl you want to make a gf

how about me and her grab the bus, then walk 5 minutes to my place, and then I'll tell her to sneak past my parents into a room that doesn't get used much so we won't be bothered. Sounds good enough?

Sounds like something from the 1950s but sure. You'll be throwing stones at her window next.

Fair enough, letting them know your well off attracts the wrong type of chick

Its worth a shot iGuess. Just go for it man, hearing no isnt the worst feeling in the world

drink a little bit to calm your nerves and you won't think as much. It helped me the first time and now I never really have that problem

jerking off without cumming before she comes over

hahaha what a fucking pussy, you're seriously scared of taking a viagra with ONE beer? Or any number of beers for that matter??

The only thing I worry about if stuff between us gets awkward, and we'll have to see each other twice a week at the dance classes. Don't want to make her quit, because I made it awkward. I've heard the saying to not shit where you eat. Not sure if it applies for the workplace only.

If yyour not planning to make it a long term thing who cares, if she says no just treat her with complete indifference. Girls go fucking crazy when not put on a pedestal. That might even change her mind. Just dont act thirsty ya know

Guys I was invited by my best friends younger sister to make some pudding in her college apartment but was told to not tell him. That to me meant that I'll bring pudding and fuck her.

I was on NoFap already (a month or so, I don't have much privacy ATM, I'm not a NoFap apologist) and I got really excited at the thought I was bursting with excitement but she called up the last moment saying her room mate came back and we'll have to arrange for another time.

So I went into the bathroom and jerked it out. What happened for the first time in my life that as I was edging I ejaculated really hard without an orgasm two times, spraying up the bath, and only later I orgasmed and came much more.

Fuck I pressed something and it somehow posted on it's own.

I was really sad she wasn't there to share the triple load I'd bust on her tits. But the thing I'm asking is... What happened? Is it possible to control this and do it often as I am in awe at my penis' possibilities!

Not gonna help you for tonight, but if this looks like a repeat issue, highly recommend L-Arginine. It's part of the HOLY GRAIL OF CUM that actually works. Dirt cheap (I've used the same $15 bag for a few months now) and after about 2 weeks you'll see noticeable erection gains

Check reviews across Amazon/the internet, it's one 'dickpill' supplement that works ez for erection strength

Gl fellow fitizens

she was acting cool about it but was most likely more freaked out than you for almost dying.
console her about you beeing worried about her safety. dont blame her for what happened, unless you plan to scare her away.
sounds kinda hot, reading all of this tb h familia

Jesus Christ I thoroughly regret reading this on the way to see my missus

Do you smoke/vape? That will kill your dick

How did you get a girl to come over? Can I get some stats, and where you met, and techniques used to lure her into your abode.? That way I can procrastinate and never make a move on the girl I like.

thanks for the advice bro, in retrospect I guess it is kind of hot that she wanted me to fuck her even though she started bleeding again in the morning.

Will meet up with her again

shes most likely super self conscious about this, even if she will avoid letting you know this.
i would even go as far to argue that its a good thing since she should be more inclined to stay with a person who knows weird quirks of her. makes it unlikely for her to go out and search for a random cock to hop on, if she knows that stuff like that can happen.
just dont embarrass or ever blame her for it and you are golden, my fren.

makes alot of sense actually.

do you think I should meet up with her tomorrow and just not try to initiate anything? since she probably hasnt fully healed yet its probably not a good idea to try and fuck her again.

its gonna feel wierd hanging out with her despite sex being off the table, might give her the idea that Im looking for something more than a casual hookup, wich im not sure I am

Start dating dudes, cause you're gay now.

thats up to you.
i think that it would be important to signal her that you are not repulsed or disgusted from her, based on what happened. you can never go wrong with some light cuddling.
if shes interested then you can initiate, but insist on 'taking things slow' since 'you care so much about her' and 'dont want her to get hurt'.
feel free to bang her, if she doesn't mind, but this time you will have to be careful / gentle to avoid her actually dying on your cock.
good luck.

Go to the bathroom, look at porn until you get hard, then get back out there. (Let it be a lesson that porn fucks with your brain)

Then why did you even ask for help faggot

>4 hours cuddling
Lel pleb

I'm having a hard time cumming from anal with my partner. Like, with oral I finish pretty quickly but when I'm railing that sweet booty hole I cant finish easily. I have a hard time feeling it on the head of my penis so I try to take longer thrusts but he likes it when I'm deep inside and ramming him hard. When I'm going deep like that I cant really feel anything. What do guys?

is she fat? "big tits and big ass". i bet shes fat.

fucked a girl. 2nd time in my life. First time that a girl is on top of me. Says my hip bones hurt her. Now I really need to bulk guys.