I just asked a girl for her number at the gym

Don't text her at all

She's definitely a wheyfu. I just approached her after seeing her doing some ab workouts. Told her to it works better by adding weight, and helped her with it. Chatted her up a little and then she was leaving after 20 minutes and i just asked for her number before she left. My first time talking to her at all, but I've seen her a couple times at the gym before.
>t. 5'7" manlet

Autist here. What do you talk about when you text/call them? I've had girls give me their number before but I never texted them

ur rly gonna be a beta fag and text her first??

>it wasn't that hard
yeah, you haven't gotten to the hard part yet.

Getting the number isn't the hard part, it's sustaining a fucking conversation while being funny, interesting and sexually attractive, that's what I suck at.

Just flirt a bit and make plans to meet. Women lack personality so there is only so much you can talk about with them.

Women have 0 obligation to text first. Nobody's lining up to talk to me.
If I just get a gym buddy out of it, that's a win for me already. I just started at this gym recently so I know nobody here.

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The only thing I'm passionate about a women would have zero interest in.

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What exactly did you say word for word when you asked?

>Do you want to exchange numbers so we can work out together sometime?
Pretty autistic but all I have is looks going for me.

Na not autistic. Play it cool. workout with her. Do some lifts together. Be chill. Then when the time opens up, after 2 weeks I say, ask her out to drinks.

All you have to do is listen to her bullshit and pretend to be interested. Ask her questions and let her do the talking. She will think you are a great conversationalist.

I don't really drink, this is Jow Forums after all, but I guess I can think of something. Thanks fren.
I hope so. I suck at conversation so if they don't do the talking then we're kinda at a standstill haha.

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For one, liquor isn't as fattening as beer and gets you drunk with minimum consumption. Obviously do so in moderation as well. Other than that, why not watch a movie and drink protein shakes and creatine water together? (lmao)

What does it mean if she starts making excuses when I ask to go out ? Is it over for me bros? Why did she even give me her number

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Because refusing would have been more aukward.

Blowing someone off over the phone is much easier.

Damn, thanks bro. She keeps talking to me any time we see eachother which is odd, but I think I fell into the “she’s approaching me and talking to me so she must like me” mindset.

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If you're able to approach someone and not receive an awkward vibe immediately, getting a phone number shouldn't be terribly hard. That said, has a decent point. Anyway, good job getting the number

>t. anxietyfag

Bullshit

If she's on tinder she aint worth it

>If I just get a gym buddy out of it, that's a win for me already. I just started at this gym recently so I know nobody here.
No woman gives out their number to someone they are not considering for sex or a relationship.

>she didn't make an excuse or run to another man to save her

coming from the dude that a few girls tend to run to for fake bf status, you're in

don't fuck it up

That's good to hear. I don't want to blow it, I haven't been with anyone for two years already.
It's ogre. If she makes an excuse and doesn't suggest a specific time to reschedule, then she's not interested. Just move on.

OP: a piece of advise from an autistic who used to have trouble getting women. If you think you are boring, dinner and drinks is a terrible idea.

You will be nervous and maintaining a conversation will be difficult. Also, how many other guys take her out for dinner and drinks?

The trick is to go on a first date where the date itself provides material for a conversation. Alot of bars have paint nights where you have a couple drinks then paint a basic picture. Go do a couples pottery class or take a cooking lesson. I'm decent at glass blowing and I've gone on a couple dates and blown glass.

You'll stick out more compared to other guys, you'll seem more interesting and it's easy as shit to talk about something that you are experiencing together.

That sounds nice and dandy but I don't know how she feels about me yet to do any couple things like that. I only talked to her for 20 minutes, maybe she really gave me her number for gym purposes for now. But I will keep that in mind for the future, thank you autist.

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Usually what happens is you failed to follow up on the call at a coherent speed. Any moderately attractive girl has tonnes of suitors and you blew your chance.

>she feels about me yet to do any couple things

Pure wording on my part, I don't mean couple as in going together for a while, I meant it as activities that involve two people and are good for dates.
I've learned how to make a really good first impression on dates over the years and each woman I've asked out said yes.
The hard part is still working up the courage to ask them out and even harder still is keeping a relationship which I can't do, but eventually the first date itself won't be as scary or intimidating.
Good luck bro, you've almost made it!

Nowadays Negros have easy life

Thanks fren, I really appreciate it. I couldn't hold a relationship past 3 years before but I had different values then. Now I want to settle down and have children so I am much more future oriented, which women like as well.

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I've gotten a couple of numbers so far this year text for a bit but nothing of it. They usually make up some silly excuse for not being able to meet.

There are some cuties at the gym I'd like to chat with but kind of awk to find a good time since it's gym time. I might have been too forward with these girls so maybe I'd need to chat first? Idk

based and red pilled

Give it around 2 days. Most guys will either text immediately, set yourself apart.

Be a man and call her dont text.

Is this legit? Is calling better?

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you dun goofed, you should have texted here as soon as you got home from the gym.

Now shill will think that
a. you are a shy beta
b. you are an asshole who expects her to be all over you and do all the work

Based and fedorapilled

I thought about it but what would I have said? It was nice to meet you? You might be right. There's always tomorrow though.

second mistake.
you didn't compliment her, you didn't make your intentions clear so she is in a position of guessing.

>hey it was really nice talking to you today, i would love to hang out some more with you. Want to come with me to the gym tomorrow and have an awesome workout? ;)

Hell just knock on her door with flowers, she'll appreciate your commitment

He wrong, don't listen to this faggots advice you've done well so far. Imagine texting someone moments after you got their number that whats autistic as far as she knows you have better shit to do anyway, text her tomorrow

Only good advice you've received: and Wait a few days, then call and set up a date for a couple of days ahead on a weeknight.

should have said something like this:
just keep at it op, you will sooner or later crack the code. no one is born perfect and almost everyone has to learn by trial and error how to approach women. Women like when you are honest (but don't immidietly bring up anything sexual, lol) and speak your mind, they also love when you take charge. A woman is a passenger, you are the pilot, bring the along on YOUR ride

Also terrible advice, girls know when they're attractive its not something to make conversation about they get compliments all the time literally just ask them to fuck or bring up literally anything else if you're trying to get to know them

either we got ourselves an incel or a troll here

I just got coffee before with a cutie off tinder for the first time, seemed to go okay brehs.

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Ask yourself why she is on Tinder.

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>No woman gives out their number to someone they are not considering for sex or a relationship.
what world do you live in

it's not difficult to find a gf but the gf.

i did the same as you and i'm with her since 2.5 years.

feels good knowing that low girls populated gym all wanted her number and fuck her but im the only guy who had the Balls / looks / personality to do so.

>inb4 chad fucks her in the gym shower daily

We're all gonna make it breh

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I believe so too.

why do girls run to men for the fake bf status?
>self admitted "whore" former roommate has told me on multiple occasions while drunk that she wants to marry me
does she think I'm going to saver her?

Wrong and wrong, don't think you have any authority because you fucked a 5/10 last week user. Unlike y'all I come here by choice

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>Exchanging numbers
>2k19

Dont you all use Facebook and Messenger in Burgerland like we do in Europe?

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>Dont you all use Facebook
Somebody tell him

spotted the boomer

>using FB in 2019
user.. I...

>H-hello, you're that guy from the gym, right? How did you know where I live?

Imagine your older self saying something similar to you now.

Everyone still uses it

They even have a book about it.

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cringe

>d..don’t you guys have phones?

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kek

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i'd definitely say text her around noon the following day would be nice.
what you want to do is stay in her mind. keep the moment going. she's probably quite flattered that a guy thought she was pretty enough to get her number, you want to slowly keep progressing while she's feeling that glow.

t. guy who gets girls.

>I completely refute your suggestion in a logical precedence citing quotes reputable sources.
You sure showed me, man.

I like this guy’s idea, deflate that ego of hers and increase your long stock

>getting girls
>be on /fit

literally incel mindset

Wtf is an incel? Is that a new dyel insult?

believe it or not i'm here because i'm a dyel who needs fitness advice

When you text her lead off with something like "hey gym girl".

Girls love it when you give them nicknames.

Germany uses WhatsApp 99.9% of the time, which also requires your phone number. Nobody uses Facebook Messenger here.

>gym girl

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this is a real nice tip

let him live his delusion, user

agreed, that is cringeworthy
user, it's not. it's utterly transparent

okay, what does its transparency disclose?

post looks and personality, also balls

it's transparent in that it's obvious you're a phony who's trying to be amusing. maybe it works on young bimbos but most women have seen and heard that kind of bullshit before and know exactly what you're trying to do

more like your younger self

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Today during a group lesson at the gym a girl next to me smiled at me, and started talking to me.
She looked cute.
Should I ask her digits next time? Or at least her name?

>Was thinking just to ask if she wanted to work out together or something

Are you stupid? You wanted her number so you could ask her out and eventually fuck. Don't be a retard. Forget about working out together and set up a fun date where you could both have a good time.