I got cucked Jow Forums, my best friend hooked up w my ex. I've been shivering all night long...

Kill them.

Imagine you had a kid together haha Wouldn’t that suck haha

Honestly, consider the following:
What happened is part of the past, it already happened and your pain stems from your mind not allowing it to be, meaning that you don't want to accept what can not be changed.

1) accept what happened, do not deny it.
2) do not live in the past, the only thing that counts is the present.
3) move on

If it hurts really bad then just accept the emotion; look at it inside of you, accept it, it will vanish once you do that.

Have sex with your friend to make your ex jealous

oh no

you're not getting cucked
your friend(ex friend now) is getting YOUR sloppy seconds

>i broke up with her
>i’m mad that she fucked someone else
>AFTeR i broke up with her

What the fuck??

a little change in perspective can shed new light on a situation

This happened between two of my good friends.
Two things you must know:
If you contact her or let her know it bothers you, she wins. She probably did it to spite you and it shows that she wants to get back at you. Its a petty game, so dont play it.

Number two is your friend. This hurts now, but maybe there is a reason for it. Has he said anything to you? Either he will apologize to you and realize he made a mistake and you can tell it is genuine.
If he doesnt, he is not your friend and values random pussy over you. These types of dudes never make good friends and would rather fuck a random whore than help you out.
I know it hurts now OP, but realize that a stupid bitch you no longer talk to dont have control over you. She might be trying to tear you and your friend apart for fun.
Dont write her, and see what your friend does.

it has nothing to do with the woman, you absolute nancy. it has everything to do with his supposed "best friend" fucking his ex.

that's some lowly, underhanded, jew-tier treasonous shit

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Yeah i realized i had shit reading comprehension after

I mean but why are you even mad enough to fuck the ex friend up though, like just drop them, you obviously dont really care about the hoe so just let the dumbass have her

I dumped my ex last year and if my friend went after her i woulda just been like ‘lol ok you fucknut’ . Although i didnt really love my ex so maybe thats why i’d be so chill

my friend knew how devastated i was and he went ahead and did it anyway.. that's 100% deserving of an ass-kicking.

friends don't do that, it's an egregious violation of bro code and needs to be dealt with accordingly. otherwise people are literally gonna laugh behind your back about it and think less of you if you just never deal with somebody stabbing you in the back in such an awful way.

welcome to reality of life bro', that's exactly why I don't have friends, friendship is a meme, it doesn't exists. Pussy rules the world

this was ten years ago... the reality of life is that you should be able to hold your friends to the same standards as you hold yourself. i'm kind of a degenerate, but at least you can trust me around your girlfriend and i'm not gonna rape the passed out girl at a party or steal shit from your house.

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Ok i get it now, sorry you had to experience that man. I promise theres some good people out there so dont shut yourself off completely.

Idk if pussy rules the world i think its the jews who do

too late I already messaged her last night cussing her out lol

your friend is the one who you should be pissed at; she's trying to make you jealous playing games girls love playing.

your boy? your boy pulled a fast one on you when he saw an opportunity.. fuck that, you better whoop that ass

I had sex with my best friend's(at the time) ex-wife a mere 2 months after they split. I felt bad about, and he apparently "didn't care", but us falling out of touch not long after that may suggest otherwise.

My advice is to move on and possibly not worry about this friend anymore.

nice try, badfriend.. your ass wrote a check that needs to be cashed

this was 9 years ago now. Time passes and everything moves on.

I had a friend of the same name always try to fuck any bitch that I was with, although he was a sneaky little shit manlet(that none of them would touch) and when I found out from one girl I didn't believe them, 2nd girl I was suspicious, but at the 3rd I was hurt and really angry at him

Im sorry, but you did the one thing not to do. Show her you cared.
One thing I learned from break ups is to have no contact. Writing back to them no matter what you write is like being stuck in the past.
And you writing how upset you are makes it worse, she basicly played you.
My advice stands, stop messaging her and ignore her petty shit. She is doing this to get a response from you and she is getting it.

Actually imagine these 2 situations

>ex gf with her friends at a pre party talking shit and gossiping
>they ask ex gf about user and if she heard anything from him
>she says no, and she even fucked your friend, but it seems like you dont care
>all her friends now think she is worthless to you, and there will be no gossip to spread about you

>ex gf at pre party with friends
>tells them about the angry texts she got 2 days ago from psycho ex bf user
>they all read the texts and bitch about how bitter and jealous you are
>ex gf goes out and has fun, knowing she can get aen emotionel response from you

When I was younger sometimes this would happen in our circle of friends.

It sucks for awhile but eventually you realize whether the friend meant anything to you or not. If so, it was usually settled by the offended party giving the ex-fucker a free punch to the face and then things were considered settled.

I'm a boomer though. I don't know how you low t zoomer fags handle things these days.

how did you find out?

yes! my old friend was a sneaky little fucking manlet that would talk shit about me behind my back to any girl i was trying to smash.

fuck him.

you know what you have to do...you have to fuck your best friend

yea lesser men seem to have that fucking bitch beta behaviour

Realistically, why's it matter? I gave a friend of mine the "okay" to go after my ex just yesterday. She's not my gf anymore, so what's it matter? If they vibe well, I see no issue with it.

Don’t do what this user says. You may be rightly furious at him, but beating him up is only a temporary beastial satisfaction. Become better than him in body and mind while also following the teachings of Christ. Settle down with a woman who is worth it and will make you happy. Now that’s revenge.

some people are okay with it, some aren't.

I guess it's just a moral thing. Morals don't usually have much logic to them. In my case, I had my fun with her, got some good memories from it and then decided I was over it. I can't just expect her to never date anyone else again lmao

why do women love to do this? I cant get into the mindset that degrading herself with someone disgusting is appealing because it would make someone mad. wtf

FUCK YOU. His ex friend is a literal piece of ethiopian muslim sewage. All he deserves is a harsh beating. Don't give this guy shitty advice are you kidding me? Everyone here is talking about being cucked and that he can't because it's his ex. Well if OP talks and forgives his ex friend what does that make him? You serious??? He needs to put himself above is faggot ass ex friend and unironically hit him if he tries to get near him. No remorse.

Don't be a bitch OP. Know when betrayal has happened and act accordingly.

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from someone who experienced the same thing - cut him off and make sure you never speak to him or her again

you can't control what happened but you can control your actions going forwards and they need to be kept firmly out of your life

it'll suck for a while but you'll get through it

Women ain't smart user. They only consider the external.

its not that they can never date again, they just can't date your friend. Its like this for me. My ex can date whoever she wants, just not my friends. I can't explain it but thats just how i am and i can't logically tell you why i feel this way

I just did that exact same thing, I fucked one of my best friend's ex even though I knew he would try to get back to her eventually, I was so horny I couldn't even think straight, after fucking her a couple of times I realised what I did and now I'm in a dilemma

My father told me not to say a word to him because nothing good will come out of it, but I value honesty and it just doesn't feel right not telling him

This is a fucked up situation, I actually do consider him a true friend of mine even though he acts like a dick sometimes and he often is an untrustworthy fuck, but I didn't think I actually had it in me to fuck him over like that

What should I do?

I get it. I was kinda bummed out yesterday when I saw them hanging out, but I think it was mostly cause it's just sad to see my ex herself more so than it is sad to see her with someone else. she's still so fuckin' attractive, breh

Not true at all. You just haven't found the right friends. I agree with the goofy chet me guy below you. You have to hold yourself to certain standards and LIVE by them. Your friends will see this and respect you because of it even subconsciously. Good men that will be your friends are out there, but it takes time and care to build trust that is as hard as roots of a tree. That's why when it is broken, all bets are off.

I hope you die of AIDS this year you jewish nigger.

>friend hooked up with ex
>ex
uh, you didn't get cucked, someone you know hooked up with someone you used to hook up with. That's not really a big fucking deal. Are you so emotionally fragile that you force your friends to isolate themselves from anyone you've dated even if there's chemistry between them?
Y'all really make your friends leave anyone you've dated alone?
Fragile ass bitches.

unironicaly neck yourself. You aren't his friend. Friends don't do what you did. You're scum.

I hope you die alone whenever that may be.

Are you a woman, a kike or a nigger?

> all these weak men in this thread
Treat your friends like you would want them to treat you. If you separated from your gf/wife would you want your friends running trains on her? There are literally billions of women on this planet and you’re such a fucking loser that you have to bang the one you shouldn’t.

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> caring who your ex fucks
Retard. Get over it.

I hate that fucking shit especially when you realize that they could have been fucking while you were in a relationship with her.

she's your ex you fucking retard
why do you care?

Have some self-control holy fuck.

To all you cucks defending this shit. You’re fucking brainlets who don’t understand the real world. Your boys are supposed to be team user. If one of them gets with your ex then it changes everything. Now if push comes to shove your boy is team Fem-user. Either she tells your friend bad things about you or good things about you, but either way he’ll resent you for it. They might even try to turn your other friends against you. It’s just better to avoid that situation all together.

You are an absolute piece of shit, dude

If any of my friends did this I would legitimately run him over in the most embarrassing vehicle possible to be killed by, possibly a 1990 miata

"Why did you fuck my ex user"
"muh cummies"

You're a fucking man, we spend literally all day not having sex with people we could but shouldn't have sex with. Kys

T. Nigger

I already know what I did was wrong, what I want to know if what I should do now that the dust has settled

So what I've fucked 2 good friends' exes and some semi-friend exes
My other friends who know about it dont think badly of me and say they probably would've done the same
I cant help that I have good chemistry with literally every hot girl that enters our social circle, besides its stupid to say a girl is off limits when she's anything but ur friends sister/current gf, why waste a special connection
Also its super hot with a girl who youve been stealing glances with for years and how you both fantasized about each other to flirt kiss and fuck her during a moment of unmatched passion

Yeah, what this user said. Some of you guys really seem like you have never had a friend or you have never seen people interact before.

Having a girl sleeping around the squad fucks the entire dynamic up, and she WILL talk shit about whoever she isn't currently sleeping with. The guy having his friend shit talked can now choose to either
1. Side with the girl, obviously fucking things up
Or
2. Side with their friend and just disregard what the girl says because he doesn't care about her, but then,,,, why is he sleeping with her? If he's just doing it for the sex why not have sex with literally anybody else?

I wouldn’t kill him, that’s too easy and you would get life. I would unironically hire a nigger to brutally rape him and I would film and distribute it to everyone he knows. I’d probably only have to do 5-10 years in prison, but it would be worth it and he would most likely kill him self.

put on your sunday best and go out drinking

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if you give a fuck about what your ex does... you shouldnt care what she does. laugh it off and ask your friend how he liked your sloppy seconds

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>all these weak men who would let their mates fuck their exes without thought for deeper questions
Respect, loyalty and self discipline come to mind.

>kinda hookup with girl for 2.5 months
>break it up there bc nah
>never got serious
>3months later hit on her roommate, really attracted
>roommate reciprocates
>original girl gets mad at her friend
>people shit talking ex in this thread
Did I fuck up?

>why waste a special connection
This is the gayest thing I’ve seen posted here and this is Jow Forums

Leave him one last voicemail confessing as you drive your car off a cliff faggot

The fact that you don't know what you're supposed to do in this situation highlights the kind of mindset you have to have to create this situation

You're gonna fuck his girl and then keep it as a secret between you and her? You're fucking pathetic, dude.

Man the fuck up, try not to be a complete shitstain. If doing the clearly right thing isn't a good enlugh of a reason for you (I imagine it isn't) then just know that he WILL eventually find out. Girls don't keep secrets, retard. She will eventually let it slip.

5 billion+ women in the world and he fucks your ex?

Your friend is a disloyal cunt. Drop him. If he cares more about a short term fling with your ex than your friendship then there's no friendship with him worth having. The guy sounds pretty pathetic.

kek

Hey bud

>be me
>have up and down relationship with gf
>date for 2 years
>towards the end of it I ignore her
>she then ignores me for a week
>finally go to my best friends house
>her car is there
>thatsodd.jpg
>she tells me they’re dating now
>bunch of sappy bullshit about how he will treat her so much better
>me and the former best friend get into it
>makes me leave before he calls the cops
>they got married

They were together for like a year. Luckily for me my former best friend is s loser, and they got divorced lmao. Karma is good OP. But hey it happens. You can’t let it get to you. Best thing to do is to wish them luck and happiness, relish the fact it won’t ever happen, and continue working towards your own success. They won’t last. That kinda thing never does. Best revenge is living well.

It's different for girls because female friendships are all formed and maintained in the basis of proximity, very very rarely do they actually like each other. They're fighting all the time, just looking for a catalyst to start the next fit

Be a good role model and become an hero

i dont know

if he wouldn't find out i'd seriously consider not telling him bc he may not even get back with this girl at all

how mad do you think he'd be if you confessed, he might not really care that much

Go up to him, ask him to go take a walk with you and mutually agree to slap box. It's civil, you let out your anger towards him, and nobody dies.

It's context. If you were just casually fucking some girl for two months I don't think most people would care what they did after. However if you broke up with your ex of five years and your best friend is fucking her a month later then that's pretty fucked up.

Lmao ur gay u fag

She doesn’t want you to take her friend from her and why would she want to see you coming over all the time and hear you guys fucking? I swear you guys have no ability to see things from any perspective, but your own.

Thats not cucked thats just a violation. Passive aggression is key here

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Cave his skull in

> waste a special connection
She's just a dumb thot dude holy shit
How old are you

It's the side effect of half this board being underaged faggots in high school. You can see it in every relationship thread.

then he's not your best friend, wanna talk?

This thread is full of betas trying to justify their pathetic little life with made up morals to discredit Chad as inhumane for slaying to satisfy their fragile manlet ego's

>Im a basedboy I've never had a friend's ex throw herself at me but still I think im entitled to an opinion even though I know nothing of this situation

I find it pretty hilarious that in Jow Forums out of all places I can still find people willing to tell me to kill myself because I'm not morally outstading enough, as if you self righteous faggots haven't done way worse things

I don't need a bunch of autists questioning my ethics on a taiwanese child labour forum, I know what I did was wrong and I know the right thing is to tell him, whether or not I can do that without scarring him completely is another question and the reason why I'm hesitant to do it

I'll take your advice for whatever little worth it might have, see you around fags, hope you don't get a reason to an hero in the near future

I did actually. We fucked. It would have devastated my best friend if he knew we fucked. BUT ATLEAST WE HAD THE DECENCY TO TAKE THAT SECRET TO OUR GRAVES

but i'm gay and my best friend is straight, you should try it, the homo will probably fall in love with you and since he can't have your dick then that love will translate into unconditional loyalty and support.

im a 22 year old kissless virgin and get 0 atention from females

are you fat?
do you have a decent face?

no, im shreded

my face is ugly

that sucks user i almost had that happen. that cocksucker is not your friend anymore.

Would you consider yourself to be conventionally attractive?

>symmetrical face
>good jawline
>eyes not too far apart or close together
>high cheek bones
>normal shaped head and forehead
>not balding
>decent sized dick
>interesting
>financially stable
>not autistic socially
>fit body

If not, you’re fucked
If all of those apply to you, it would be a mystery to me too user.

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I'm a 28 year old kissless virgin and I get 0 attention from females

Literally everyone has had this happen to them at some point unless they're a literal no friends virgin, you are not some sort of megachad for experiencing it

> these betas don't know how hard it is to not have sex with your buddies ex when she throws herself at you
Ask me how I know the only time you ever get attention from women is when they're fucking you to spite someone else?
If you got laid regularly you would not give a fuck about your buddy's ex

The people who sleep with their friends exes are never Chads, they're sexually deprived sneaky bitches

>ex
Get over it

I'm the same way to a certain extent. Logically I've determined that the factors that play into how long of a grace period I need before my friends could hook up with my ex are:

1) How long were her and I together?
2) How recent is the split?
3) Who ended it? Her or I?

I dated a girl from when I was 17 - 20 and had been obsessed with her since I was 14. We ended things "mutually" but it was clearly one-sided with her dumping me (in retrospect I don't blame her). I would say it took me a legit 6 months to stop feeling like she had died, 12 months before I could consider being with someone else, and about 24 months before I would consider being cool with her dating one of my friends. Meanwhile I've dated other girls for 4 months and would not have given a second thought if one of my boys got with any of them after 2 weeks.