/FEELS THREAD/

Make your workout more efficient, time your rests, do your stretches while you eat breakfast before you head to the gym. Split your workout up into multiple short workouts through the day . Where theres a will theres a way dude.

>tfw im not my gfs first sexual encounter
>tfw she was my first everything
She gave a friend of hers a bj while drunk before knowing me
How should I feel?

You'll get back up there man, I believe in you. We're all gonna make it brah. Just force yourself to get no matter what time or how tired you are, even if just going to the gym and then going straight back home is the best you can do, just fucking go.

If she wasnt dating you then, it doesnt matter. Stop being an oversensitive faggot and appreciate the relationship you have right now.

I love how these cartoons always seem to be the same age as me

we're here forever

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you should feel like a cuck. everytime you look at her or your friend have that image burned into your mind. she is a used hole. his cum was in her mouth.

lift before wage cucking, duh

I remember feeling this way when I was in HS (07-08ish). Looking back, I think I put her on a pedestal. Felt like those other guys didn't deserve it. Not sure if I found a way out of that emotion logically. Banged more sloots and it went away. Guess it came down to feeling like they didn't live up to my expectation of them that I built in my head.

desu if she's your first, it's gonna be hard to get over, but not impossible. In general, though, yeh, it is distressing to a lot of guys thinking about their girl having been with other people before them. But in practical terms, in the current year, unless it's your highschool sweatheart, there is literally 0 chance of finding a woman who is a virgin and doesn't have any other sort of crazy mental issues.
I'm with someone now who's probably had 2-3 times as many partners as me (I'm ~5, I'd put her at 10-15 based on what she's told me), and yeh, it bothers me sometimes and I sometimes feel like I'd be happier if she'd only had 5 like me, but I had a girl before who'd had fewer partners than me and I still felt the same thing, and in a couple ways it was weirder, because any time she'd said she'd done something before, I had a pretty good guess of who she'd done it with. But it's just something you have to get over, obsessing over it will only make it worse (and holy hell it can get really bad when you think about it too much), and in practical terms, you will never find a woman who is a virgin and isn't a trainwreck in every other area, so you'll either need to never have a committed relationship, have a committed relationship but always feel some amount of unhappiness about her sexual history, or just get over it. So just get over it, there's no other rational option, and thinking that you'll feel different with some other woman with fewer partners is almost definitely untrue.

Bloomer theme: youtube.com/watch?v=4pauTTPP6S8

>dad gave me a handout to renew my gym membership around August
>uni's about to start back up and I've to repeat the year due to a complete and utter downfall mentally the previous year
>my dumbass didn't realise the fee goes up for repeating
>had to use gym money and some extra I had saved on the side
>now broke as fuck and too ashamed to let dad know why I haven't been making it to the gym
>reforming my fatass eating habits
>no job to pay for my own gym
On the bright side, I'm not depressed as all hell anymore and I'm killing it in college this time. Just feel a bit guilty about not being honest with my dad. He's a fatass too and he doesn't want me to end up in the stagnant state he got himself in.

I work 12 hours a day in a metal factory

Tfw no Mommy gf :(

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>tfw skipping out on today's workout to go on another date and probably have my first kiss with this girl
I usually don't let girls interfere with my gym schedule but this feels like the right thing to do. It's a complex feel, I know at the end of the day it's just one missed session but breaking routine after so long feels weird, even for such a good thing.

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No matter what you do, you made a good decision either way. :)

I sometimes chug down an hyphy mud, shit gets me off my ass, but you shouldn't do it too much, it unhealthy af

have you tried nofap? Every time you jack off your dopamine levels deplete for up to two weeks and your prolactin skyrockets.

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Thanks lad.

this is not only /nofap/ but also /nosex/, eh? or at least /nocum/

yeah but you can get some pretty big benefits from sex with a girl you are serious about having kids with eventually. Typically the benefits outweigh the negatives and your body just gets tired instead of a masturbation/porn habit that literally rewires you into a dopamine addicted flesh husk that is aging curiously fast.
I had to break up with a girl when I told her I've decided to go abstinent. It was worth it, though.

>spend two days back on Jow Forums after a four year break and I'm already inspired to carry on living and take on a new perspective whereas before I was suicidal
You boys haven't changed that much, even if there are a lot of Ledditors and underage B&s here.

You must preserve your precious fluids.

Based neo flagellant.

>I had to break up with a girl when I told her I've decided to go abstinent. It was worth it, though.
the absolute state of /nofap/ 2019

If you're not 15 you should feel embarrassed that it took you this long to get some

>tfw started this 5 years ago
>now earn well over 6 figures
>have beautiful smart gf who lives me
>well read, has hobbies, have friends
>still look forward to a quiet death

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>tfw just enough energy to go to the gym
>but not enough to socialize with anyone or have "fun", just go home and play fortnite all alone

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I believe you user, even if no-one else will.

I relate to these feels. except she did more than just a bj. I literally told her Im not going to marry her because of her past and she still stays with me. what gives?

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>tfw can bang out chest and back day no problem
>tfw can barely keep going after finishing 5x5 squats
Fucking why lads, it kills any sort of motivation I have for the rest of the session

>I literally told her Im not going to marry her because of her past
A) why?
B) "I'm not going to marry you because you're a slut" -> serious issues you should figure out before getting into a relationship. Sounds like a very immature relationship, I'm assuming you're really young, but even mentioning marriage in the context of "I'm not going to marry you"... very odd

the benefits of semen retention > > > some doomed relationship with an art hoe you started dating in High School.

not really a big deal dude
UNLESS SHE STILL TALKS TO HIM LOL THEN YOU'RE A KEKARINO!

I'm making good progress lifting 6x a week, but am struggling with nofap badly and get sloshed at every party I go to. I don't know how I feel

I'm fat
I went to the gym today
Feels good

>tfw diarrhea on deadlift day

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good work, buddy. Keep it up.

pretty much every DL day for me. eat too much spicy food I guess. Bring pepto bismol tabs to the gym, pop em like pez while I lift. Have yet to brap all over anyone

Because like the other user she was my first everything yet I was her 3rd. So its inherently less meaningful when she sleeps with me since shes done it with others before me

And one day she was complaining that we were *only* bf and gf. and I said I had no interest in marrying a girl whos had others mens cum inside of her because its degrading and an insult to my honor as well as non-sensical when you consider the meaning of wearing a white gown at a wedding. Never called her a slut. she cried but hasnt brought it up since

>Bring pepto bismol tabs to the gym, pop em like pez while I lift. Have yet to brap all over anyone

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3DPD

>just jacked off to tranny porn again even though I promised myself I'd quit porn/masturbation
I'm literally addicted

You wanna not be a doomer? You wanna know how to be a man? You go out there, and you get a JOB! Like ME! Thats how you become a productive member of society. Its time to *mrmmrphmt* grow the FUCK up!

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Ok so why the fuck are you and/or your discord subtlety forcing this meme? It started fine but now has popped up everywhere?

You're gonna get cucked

You are pathetic.

I really hope this is b8

I want to make new friends, but I get super anxious when I put myself out there (Generalized anxiety disorder), but I get depressed and dont want to put myself in those anxiety provoking situations so I end up doing nothing. The problem is that when i do nothing I get depressed because I am lonely. It is literally a lose-lose scenario, either way I feel the pain.

You know I was fully expecting her to dump me when I said it but shes still with me and now im just sitting here like ok

seriously, how old are you? this seems like a symptom of thinking that puppy love is how real love works. Yeh, puppy love is gonna be absolutely floored by the idea a girl had sex with someone other than you. But mature adult love will be a little bit different... if you honestly feel so disgusted with her, break up, and find someone else. You need to work on yourself a bit before you're gonna have a successful relationship, no matter how good the girl is. Best to get the maturing out of the way /before/ you find the "perfect" one.

user im the guy up there who posted that shit
Just think about the present, shes with you and thats what matters. She gave up on those people to be with you.
Youre fucking her right now and thats all that matters

help
Need advice
Basically,
>have gf of almost 2 years
>she will be moving to another city about 1hr away for university this year
>I am a jealous person but she doesn't do much to make me jealous and loves me deeply, as I do her
>however she will be meeting new friends including guys, partying a lot I assume and just doing things girls do at uni leaving home for the first time

This WILL put me in a bad situation, I will not have peace of mind and always stressing about what she is doing. Can't help it it's just the way I am. How do I tell her that an LDR will make me unhappy without making her want to stay at home (she probably would rather do that than break up with me which I don't want her to do because she needs to experience life). I also really don't want to break up with her

heellllpppp

>because she needs to experience life
Thats just going around drinking and fucking random guys.
You have two choices, be a "dick" and stop her from going or leave her be and HOPE she doesnt do stupid shit while partying.
Which shell probably do.
Bad situation fa.m

yikes... Yea, that'd be tough m8. I work in a factory too but I only work 8 hours. Haven't started working out yet after work but I think I'll try it soon. As for your case, you'd probably only be limited to lift on your days off. If you work 12 hour days though I'd imagine you only work 3 days a week? Just lift on your off days bro.

>tfw have to shift my gym schedule and now lift Monday, Thursday and Saturday
>tfw don't know what to do with myself today without lifting
>tfw bored af

I think if you tell him what you told us he'll be ok with it, he won't be happy, but you spent your own money (not just his) which shows your commitment to uni.

Anyone else get stuck in ruts for like 2 weeks sometimes and stop lifting? I hate that I have no motivation to do anything except play vidya and shitpost.

Once you grow up you have to accept that normal people have had sex and had relationships before you.

I’m 30 and literally nobody I know is still with their teenage girlfriend because that’s just generally not how it works.

So what do you want at 30? A normal woman whose had a few boyfriends (in the same way you’ll have had a few girlfriends), or some retarded shut-in virgin woman who is going to be obese, insane, or both?

the longer you go, the scarier it is to get back to it. Get back as soon as possible

I don't think I'll ever be happy. Everyday I lose any hope and enthusiasm for the future and it feels like only the worst awaits me. Even if I get what I want, that will be it, what I want, an ideal, and as reality sets in I'll see how shit it is and be sad again.

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user im serious man. fucking kill yourself

You're not alone in that thought. I'm "making it" now and I've always been a good looking guy, I'm intelligent and cultured (at least in comparison to my peers) yet I feel so fucking empty.

I think this is the realisation that I've spent years focusing inward when the real issues lie outward, society is a fuck, people are lazy and stupid, yet arrogant, and culture has degraded to the point where millions of people liked a picture of an ass, which then made headline news.

>tfw was gonna go to camping with friends, about 12-13 people
>they made a groupchat, we discussed ideas back in november
>groupchat's been dead since, figured we would all talk about it when it started getting warmer outside
>hang out with 3 friends last week, one mentions a campsite with beautiful views and whatnot
>"Oh, when did you guys mention this? I didn't get any notifications."
>friend shuts up about it, starts talking about shitty games
>night goes on, eventually bring it back up again
>"user, the group didn't add you and so-n-so because they didn't want you to come"
>tell them to fuck off
>walk home
>ffw to this week
>friends are messaging me with shitty excuses
>"It's not that we don't like you, it's that we just can't fit that many people anymore!"
>sure
>find out from other friend that now about 18 people are going

One friend invited me out of pity, but I just declined. It hurts, mane.

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that feels really bad.
any idea why it happened? was it your fault? or just not a good match of people?

IKTF user, though I brought it upon myself.

Based and go-getter pilled

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My only guess is that a lot of them make more money than I do, but it's not like I make minimum wage. I make about 11.50/hr and work 40 hour weeks. So I'd have enough money to pitch in for things. I don't know, have heavily thought about deleting my social media for awhile.

Hahahaha how is being tired even real like nigga just drink preworkout hahaha literally have some caffeine hahahaha

My wife died last Thursday. I found her body that morning on my way to work. Had the viewing on Monday, she was cremated yesterday, and today was the memorial service. I feel so fucking lost bros.

Playing fortnite is bad, but playing it alone is unforgivable

>virgins are insane
ok retard

That's heavy. What happened

Drug overdose. Fucking god damn pills. I tried for four years to get her clean. It didn't work.

t. roasties and cucks

Source, this sounds like absolute bullshit

You’re an absolute faggot. I been with girls and I was my girlfriend’s first for everything. Of course she doesn’t like I had girls before her but she doesn’t go as far as saying I’m not worthy to marry her. You have issues breh, you’re acting like a little bitch.

I-is this me

> Ask out cutie
> She says yes
> I'm so happy and look forward all week tothe date
> She cancels last minute saying she isnt interested

Why say yes in the first place then cunt :(

Suck it up pussy.
I work out in the fucking sun. AUSTRALIA
CUNT
900 fucking degrees in the shade
Sweat out liters all day
Still work out night before dinner.
49 years old.
Get hard cunt.

Limitation? Never fuckin heard of er, m8

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Proud of you my dude

At least you're going to the gym. You should feel proud that despite all else, you're sticking with it. The rest will come man. Let the gym be the center point in your life.

man what the hell? that sucks, they're not your fucking friends

It doesnt hurt harry, it burns

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I have optimum blood pressure

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Youre not alone user

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>this kills the Jew

i want to go back in time, even if i got my life back on track the last 5 years are like a permanent scar, i will never get over
>tfw you will never be a kid again

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Good lads.

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