im never going to find a guy in my life time.
i just cant possibly imagine someone looking past my low IQ, inability to hold a conversation, lack of hobbies/interests and overall a failure at life who has no sense of success coming for her and still want to be with someone like me. i dont stand out physically either and am average at best. also underweight so my body looks like shit. I have no redeeming qualities about myself.
even the most desperate of robots wouldnt take me with them and would rather to fap to their anime girls. which is perfectly understandable because i wouldnt take me either if I was a guy.
not to mention I have AVPD (avoidant personality disorder), I avoid humans in general because I fear for their judgement once they find out my inherent flaws. Thus is the reason why I have trouble forming relationships and keep to my lonely self as a result.
Im never going to find a guy in my life time
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Yeah well idk where are u from femoid
will you send me nudes if I promise to tell you that you're pretty?
>low IQ
>inability to hold a conversation
>lack of hobbies/interests
None of these things have any effect on your sexual market value since you're a woman.
>underweight
hot af
I wish someone would guarantee me that if I ever found a girl like this and would take care of her and love her she wouldn't leave me once I built her self-esteem enough.
I think average looking and underweigt sounds cute desu
I guess I'll green text myself.
>lonely virgin
>would like to find someone to cuddle and headpat and lie my head on their thighs
>5'9 and mildly fit
>5.5'' peen
>20
>white anglo, brown hair blue eyes
>hairy legs and I tend to have dark circles under my eyes
>also hairy chest but no back hair
>can grow a beard but my mustache hair is too light for me to go through with it
>have no known mental illnesses (though might be mildly autistic)
>into anime, working out, history, play a lot of Victoria 2 & Fire Emblem, like reading adventure novels
>no friends or social life if that matters
>would probably be clingy if I ever had a gf
>go to uni
>regularly get 6's and 7's on /soc/ threads though idk if thats a reliable way of measuring attractiveness or not
>I do have a decent jaw line at least
>like old folk music youtube.com
>would like to have a lot of kids and be a traditional patriarch
Do I fit your bill?
At least post your tits you average bitch.
>would probably be clingy if I ever had a gf
You know we're doomed to be alone for the rest of our lives right?
self-awareness is so sexy babe, let me impregnate you
How can you complain about not getting a Bf when you basically want one never having talked to them?
Illnesses this or that how do you expect someone to get attached without you letting them close?
Then again this is a troll post.
>not fat
Great bait. We all know this is all you need as a woman.
Yeah thats why I figure I might as well be honest, since it won't matter in the end.
>how do you expect someone to get attached without you letting them close?
i wish guys had the ability to read minds so i dont have to unleash any effort or worry on my part. I just dont think anyone will be able to accept me for who I am, especially where I live since everyone here is a turbonormie and wont understand where im coming from.
the last point is something that I cant achieve with you. im sorry. I just dont believe I can birth/raise a human life when im barely stable myself to begin with,
Do you just want someone to be with? I mean having just someone to live together, do things together, we don't have to talk much. We can be avoidant together because I also do not want people to find out what flaws I hide behind me, but I can very well accept yours.
You can with me behind you. Don't worry though you won't be alone, and the creation of human life, especially your own, is a beautiful and magical thing.
If you actually want a BF just post your city, some 5/10 robot BF will love you.
this sounds very ideal but where can I realistically find someone like this irl?
You sound like we'd have alot in common femanon.
Would you date a guy who has similiar problems?
idk best bets finding someone like this on 4chinny
Well, there's me. But I assume you mean finding someone that lives close to you. I most probably live very far away from you although I'm open to ldr.
TLDR
If you're fat you're right.
If you're thin you'll have plenty of chances.
You have a golden ticket. You literally have one goal in life and you win
Jesus Christ. If you can't do that little, no one can help you.
>i wish guys had the ability to read minds so i dont have to unleash any effort
Women in a nutshell. See, you are not worse then any other girl.
Your physical description sounds enticing, and none of the mental bad points you claim to have has ever to stop girls with the same faults from getting laid or having full relationships.
If anything, you are somewhat smarter since you have the introperspective to worry so goddamn much.
You are simply shy as fuck and afraid of rejection. Feels familiar, but in a female no partner is really put off by that.
You will be fine.
smile more and improve your self.
where are you from?
I wish ldr was an option for me but I long for human contact over text.
I would also like to mention im more of a blind dating/relationship type of person. id rather just rush into a relationship after knowing some basic info of each other and make it the real deal.
idk if I sound dumb for saying that but thats how I would personally prefer it to be.
I'm from germany.
Where are you from?
>inb4 its some faggot leading on a bunch of r9k losers for a power trip
Just post your city, unless its some alaskan place with 200 people in it no one really cares.
I'm from a city from China, although not the Guangzhou guy
Welche Stadt?
originiolioliolo
how come none of you are in the us? :(
im not posting specific info.
So you must live in some tiny ass City. Well I live in Australia so it looks like you're forever lone until its day time in the US.
Well if it helps, I'm often free in your morning and your night time, or at least can reply to messages
Will ich lieber nicht auf r9k sagen
l'll take care of you.
I'll do my best to make you happy.
I'm in the US but I gotta say low IQ is a deal breaker. Everything else I could look past but I don't want to have dumb kids and unless you're less than 5 points below the white average you're gonna drag them down way too much
aw where are you located sweet cakes?
I dont want kids to begin with but thanks for your commentary
>avg face
>underweight body
>low IQ
>lack of hobbies
babe you'll do fine. that's already much higher than a bot's standards. if you're actually 5/10 (you sound like you could be higher based on your low self esteem) you can definitely land a 6-7/10 guy.
just focus on self-care and improve your mental wellbeing. learn to love yourself first.
Orignially ofcourse. Reeeeeeeeeeeee normies f off reewwe
>I dont want kids to begin with
you are wasting your vagina and should give it to someone who will use it properly
Yo what state? If you are in the Midwest Id be down to try something out
>aw where are you located sweet cakes?
I'm in Australia.
Reading the thread, I realise that we're unfortunately in different countries.
>low IQ, won't imagine 300 worst case scenarios for every actions I do
>can't hold a conversation, will stay quiet
>lack of hobbies, won't ask me to buy her expensive shit
>average looks and AVPD, won't cheat on me
>underweight, AKA not a fatty
Please be my gf
sounds like you want a living sex doll
yikes
He just said the mindset of every man itt.
If you were OP I thought you were okay with it.
>sounds like you want a living sex doll
Who does not?
I mean, that's what you are, so obviously you'll attract men who want that.
Meanwhile I want someone who can think for herself and actually likes me out of her own volition without being manipulated into it, which means I'll stay alone forever.
Please don't be so hard on yourself.
I wish I could show you what a wonderful person you are.
Honestly user I feel the same way about myself as a guy. But this post actually gives me hope, I mean, if a girl out there thinks these exact things about themselves then that means I'm not alone and there is somebody for me, you know? Just know that very rarely are you completely alone in the world and that you can always find somebody, it's just harder sometimes depending on who you are. The main key is lowering your standards. If you're going for chads as an ugly person you probably deserve the hurt you get, you need to be able to accept where you are on the scale in the world of attractivnesss.
>wall of ranting
cool story bro
I wish we lived closer.
I just want to make you feel appreciated and loved.
Any femanons interested in this as e-dating?
I have AVPD. I dont approach anyone, heck I dont talk to anyone.
Me too user. Youre probably in a different continent, far away from where I am..
New York here.
it was early morning America for most of this thread so that's probably why every one is so far away
>Youre probably in a different continent, far away from where I am..
Pretty much the other side of the world.
I hope you find somebody who loves you.
im from the west coast so everyone is still deep asleep.
time zones are surely inconvenient
I wish you the same thing as well user.
What if' we just tried to be content without finding anyone? Surely it's possible to enjoy life without falling in love with somebody, there's so much more to this shithole than pheromones.
That is fine, but finding someone isn't just about love. I suppose I'm a bit of a sociopath, but it's just pleasant to have someone to watch your back, do things together with.
>What if' we just tried to be content without finding anyone?
The more you wait the harder it will be, and the worse you'll feel when you realize that this is it.
And no it's not possible.
>im never going to find a guy in my life time.
how much does this matter to you, really?
i mean, i'm probably never going to have friends again, which is a sad enough fact in itself, but it's not enough to ruin my life, because i have other things
you sound pretty self-aware, that's a sign of intelligence
so you can probably figure out how to do things in your life that will be meaningful enough to you to keep you going
am i wrong? is this "tfw no bf" thing all-consuming for you? is a bf the only thing you truly want in life?
because if it's not the only thing for you, why not focus on the other things?
i can be your guy, wanna try to meet?
I'm from ohio if youre close enough and want to email me. Be forewarned I'm a bit of a loser
Pretty sure any given guy's favorite trait in women is being dumber than them and weighing less than them. You had to know this already, though.
I want the exact opposite though.
Post Discord. We'll chat. Don't need to send lewds or anything like that.
Just some loser from the loser state of California. I guess this thread is interesting enough to post on.
That's pretty unusual desu
If you try to give anwers that are not yes or no to every question then you will get a guy someday. I knew a cute girl, even took her to the mall to look for new phones because I intended to buy one. She was constantly looking at her feet and was giving short answers. I wanted to get to know her better since she was nice and said herself that she wanted to be friends. I knew it took a lot of courage for her, but I had problems myself and just couldnt constantly chase her and force her to speak her mind. The worst thing is she probably feels very guilty about this. Just when you find that special someone, give them your trust. She wanted to trust me, since she was more talkative via messenger, but she didnt.
It takes a long time to trust someone, and I hate to say this but in my experience, you shouldn't FULLY trust anyone. You should always be prepared for someone to go through some sudden and drastic change, completely unforseen. You should never ever have a backup partner because of this, your plan B should just be learning how to be content with being single and learning to let them go.
Read motivational and self-improvement books.
Tony Robbins Awaken the Giant Within is pretty good.
I'm sure it's as beautiful and magical as it was in that eroge VN from 15 years ago.
I was pretty outgoing as a kid but became pretty avoidant starting around middle school. I'm better at talking to people now but am still pretty much alone. I went to a club thing at my college last year but just didn't fit
Any femanons in Oregon?
Dont entertain this bitch.
She only wants virgin Chad.