>be me
>been told im decent looking
>work out everyday, use women as motivator
>try to talk to cute girl on campus
>every single time i try, i get shakey and nervous, and i turn into a spazmal fuckerino
>lost all motivation to continue
YOU LIED ALL THESE MUSCLES MEAN NOTHING MY AUTISM IS FOREVER
>only a matter of time before she fucks some dude, if she hasnt already
YOU LIED TO ME FIT
You don’t get the pussies immediately cunt, hit on the girls like hitting the gym, you mess around for a long time then you will understand how it actually works.
And fuck you here’s your (you)
Gotta practice more bud. Trying to get better at something means failing a lot at the beginning. Being charismatic is no exception.
how tall are you
Problem is everytime i go to try i spazm and bitch out of it
How do you get past your nerves, i cant figure it out. I cant even fucking say hi to her without losing it
It's not about muscles. It's about losing weight so your cheekbones are pronounced. If you don't already have nice cheekbones, then there's not really a point to being healthy. Might as well just get fat and die.
5'7 but shes like 5'4 so i thought id at least have a shot
Sounds like bullshit, but how would i know this
I mean aside from doxxing myself which i could also do
I'm not sure what you're implying here. You should know already whether or not you have decent facial aesthetics. If you can't figure that out, then you're fat.
Then stop being autistic and just treat the girls like guys, don’t think about the romantic shit first, just get used to talking to girls first and start normal conversations like you are trying to make a friend. Then you try further when you are no longer autistic
You are short, but that is a non-issue. Post body.
Who cares if she fucks other dudes. You're an autist. Just be happy to be getting laid, and I bet you'll actually get some.
You gotta view these women as "learner women", like a learner car. Temporary and just to help you figure things out.
>either you have good facial aesthetics or youre fat
What the fuck does this mean
Obviously id be biased if i had to say this about myself
Actually the first decent advice ive gotten
What about the initial nerves of just approaching, any advice on getting over that?
This is a track photo from about 2 yrs ago but this is more or less where i am
Do you have the same nerves when you approach someone else? If so why? Identify your fear and go for CBT, if not, just try to approach the girls like approaching someone else, if she is interested in you, it will go smoothly.
Hmm. You aren't BAD, but you clearly don't do heavy compound exercises, ir at least, not enough. How much are you eating? Arms are ok, as well as frame, but shoulders, chest and abs all need work.
If you're legitimately autistic and not just
>hell my fellow 4channlers im so autistic hehehe XD
Try to turn your autism into something funny, like a comedian. Women live funny dudes
Personally, I became an alcoholic for several years to destroy all of my nerves and inhibitions. I've been sober three years now and I'm completely changed. I'm like a sociopath- no inhibitions, no more barriers to cross. I feel nothing.
Lol, and I get so much pussy now. I literally went from being the weirdo in the back of the classroom to hooking up with and dating an 8/10 21 year old professional dominatrix. Life is good, all glory to God.
You look completely normal. Eat more faggot. I used to do track to. Guess what? You look better at 15% bf with muscle than you do at 10% bf as a no muscle twink like you do in that picture.
This was from 2 years ago, im in a bit of an even better shape now
Im by no means super ripped but Id say my body is pretty athletic. My point is that im still too autistic to approach women so it doesnt even matter.
Also i dont really do heavy weight lifting (its mostly curls, push ups, sit ups, crunches, planks, occasional running)
I never really did anything super heavy and i dont know where to start without looking like a chump
Nah im just pretend funny retarded
My close friends all think that im pretty funny, but im not sure how to do it around people i dont know
>work out everyday, use women as motivator
never gonna make it
>Also i dont really do heavy weight lifting (its mostly curls, push ups, sit ups, crunches, planks, occasional running)
That's nothing.
>I never really did anything super heavy and i dont know where to start without looking like a chump
Unironically SS
That explains it. Start with the sticky. PPL works great (push, pull, legs). If you want, drop a non traceable contact and I can send you a bunch of shit I have that has worked for me.
Ss?
Starting Strength, look at the sticky. Don't listen to the people who'll tell you it's a meme. If you do it correctly, you'll get very strong, very quickly.
No, no, no, no. Fuck no. Do not. PPL is superior. SS makes you a fat cunt.
Any short good advice? Im a bit wary about putting up a contact
This is all good lads, but i dont think PPL or SS regardless will help me get women, im still social autistic
Here, @bellissimo_memes on IG. You can contact me. I use this as a throwaway contact for shit like this. Just DM me.
False. 100% wrong. The biggest retards I know get girls because they are muscular.
The key word is help. Muscles by themselves won't get you women but they'll make things easier. If you're legitimately socially retarded, you want to give yourself every advantage you can.
It's because you're trying to teach her like someone to ask her. Treat her like she's just a regular dude you met. Treat her like a person, not like potential mate material.
Wait till its time to climb up on one, youre gonna be on shakey faggot