Do I really need to sacrifice so much to have a chance with below-average girl?

Of course it's that hard. Food tastes delicious and makes you feel happier when you're sad and depressed so you eat more. Is it that hard to understand?

Eating more makes you feel happier
>Be sad
>Drive to get Twinkies
>Eat Twinkies at home
>Tastes good
>Nom nom
>Eat the whole box
>Feel happy

do it for your health, you absolute retard

If you're stuffing your face with hyper palatable junk food you'll stay a fatass. If you make even the slightest effort to meal prep for yourself and bulk out your meals with low calorie vegetables your intake will drop. Idiots think eating better means spending limited periods of time starving themselves to their ideal weight so they can keep eating the way they were once they hit their goal, but if you actually eat properly you won't need or want to do that. Build habits for life not just months.

As for the excuse that you shouldn't have to because girls don't? That's 1. Wrong and 2. Pathetic. Life isn't fair, you think the world is going to equalise things for you? Such a weak attitude towards change. Nobody gives a fuck about you feeling like it's not fair, and if you examine your own beliefs you will find you don't either, there are people far below you in social hierarchy, do you care about them? Are you doing something to help the severely disabled, mentally ill, abused? No? Then why would anyone care about someone who's main problem is eating too much of their own free will?

You shouldnt want to lose weight for some chick. You should want to lose weight because being a fat sack of shit is fucking awful

Except it's not. You're warmer in the winter, float better, and survive in a famine while all the skinnies starve. You get to eat all the food and calories you want.

Do you care about your back and joints hurting all the time? Do you care about being able to climb a flight of stairs without gasping for air? It's the small things that will make your life better not some roastie

First of all I am mentally ill. Second of all cake, fried chicken, and fried fish tastes better than veggies and makes you feel happier. The fat and sugar makes your brain happy.

That's because you don't have much pride or care for yourself. That's not something that happens overnight but if you work to overcome small things you'll eventually start believing you deserve it. If you treat your body like shit part of that is you don't feel like you've earned the right to feel better, and you probably havn't. Pick any positive habit and do it every day for a week, then you'll see you can actually change yourself and you'll feel encouraged to do more. And you can.

If anyone needs some inspiration check out the David goggins episode of the Joe rogan experience. This dude was 350lbs living with his mother at 26, working minimum wage spraying for pests, basically a miserable incel. Eventually he became a navy seal and broke the world record for pullups (4000 something in 24 hours). It's a journey, don't believe you will feel the way you do now if you put in even a little bit more effort and build it gradually.

My back and joints don't hurt and I live in a ranch house not a two story one.

Keep lying to yourself fatass. Theres nothing great about being cramped and uncomfortable in public, not fitting into clothes well, feeling like shit all the time, and dying of heart disease at 45 after years of misery.

If you want to choose short term pleasure and sacrifice feeling better long term (which is actually more pleasure overall) that's on you. It's not an excuse. Half the world eats fucking rice beans and a few scraps of veg, and they're grateful to get it. Do you deserve tastier food than they do?

A few tears ago I lost 60 pounds but it didn't make me feel any different and I ended up gaining it all back plus a bit more

Hahaha this

Some people just never never make it, lardass. Idk how fat u are but at 35% I still pull skinny chicks. It helps if you are cool, interesting, and not a woman hating piece of shit

It's not that I deserve it more but I just think why not have it if I can and it's there? Donald Trump doesn't deserve his own Jet more than any of us but he still has one because it's cool and he can.

Then you didn't set up sustainable habits. Crash dieting makes you feel garbage, but if you did it right then you wouldn't have relapsed so hard. You have to let go of the number and maintain momentum in things that will pay off. If you lose weight but didn't build your self worth through good habits, you'll eventually lose momentum and go back to where you were.

Fat gives you an extra cushion body to sit on and cushions you if you fall. There are lots of clothes bigger than extra large now like 2x and 3x. I'd rather die 10 years earlier than die of dementia in a nursing home.

To me it sounds like cope, the desperate idea that if you just do good on your own eventually women will start wanting you.

Maybe. But it doesn't fill that hole in your heart where all the love is supposed to go. It doesn't replace skinship. It's a hard, bitter road if you start walking it, and it's not what makes you into a good community man, it makes you into a rugged individual.

>Famine happens and there is no food.
>Anorexics die first
>Skinny people die next
>Normal people die next
>Chubby people die next
>Food comes back
>Fat people left standing from their bodies using up the fat reserves to survive.
>Fat people win.

You could smoke weed all day and not get out of bed ever, you could shoot heroin. I mean why not? You already already have a level you feel you're above doing. You know it'd feel good but you don't do it, why? Because you intuitively know it isn't going to get you what you really want. And continuing the way you are isn't what you want either, obviously, otherwise we wouldn't be having this conversation. Donald trump despite being a insufferable cunt, still gets out of bed every morning. He still puts on his suit and does his hair, even though most of the world despises him. So yeah he actually does deserve more, because he's doing things. You ask why should you try? Because deep down you know what will happen if you don't. Life will pass you by. You're actually choosing a less pleasurable life, you're just maxing out your metaphorical credit card to get as much pleasure now and sacrificing your future potential to have even more. You do want more don't you?

Normal people are self reliant and fit and motivated enough to organise themselves. Fatties are completely reliant on other people to sustain them. You'll be hiding out waiting for someone to cook you a burger while everyone else is preparing themselves, and if it comes to cannibalism, you're the tasty livestock.

>My back and joints don't hurt
They will in not too long

what most self-improvement propagandist seem to ignore is personality. I got fit and I'm not ugly, enough to have girls acting nice around me. But sooner or later they realize I'm not normal. I can't improve my ankwardeness. I really know how to be funny and how to listen, but I can't hide that I'm not a normie.