Boyfriend's best friend is some loser he's too "nice" to cut contact with

>boyfriend's best friend is some loser he's too "nice" to cut contact with

I get struggling to find your own identity when you're in your early 20's, but this woman is over the age of 30 and still doesn't have a real job. She still can't afford to live on her own, she can't drive, and she's so dumb. Why even bother keeping her around ? When he wants to hang out with her she's such a burden since she doesn't drive and we have to be the one pick her up and we can't go out for drinks because one of us has to be sober enough to drive her home. She's so fucking needy and I don't get why my boyfriend stays friends with her.

also she's a total bore and wierdo! She doesn't even make good conversation. Always a bunch of mumbling and short answer replies and sentences that go no where. She talks to herself a lot and zones out a lot.

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>we have to be the one pick her up and we can't go out for drinks because one of us has to be sober enough to drive her home
Uber/Lyft?
She sounds like she's got some kind of mental illness. I wonder what it is your boyfriend finds relatable about her. Have you asked him?

why should we believe any of this is true idiot?

let your boyfriend be friends with whoever he wants why should it matter you don't need to like her

I asked him and he gets defensive of her even though her shyness comes off as very rude. He genuinely enjoys her company and is always happy to see her.

I don't my boyfriend having female friends, I just rather he have friends that can take care of themselves.

Hate to break it to you but your boyfriend is definitely fucking her.

Sounds like he's obviously fucking her. Is she hotter than you?
Maybe her pussy is tighter
Even if she's not she sounds like she'd be easy pussy and he doesn't want to just throw that shit out
Why only have 1 pussy when you can have 2?

what kind of sex can she possibly give? She barely has any experience. She only had one boyfriend and she said the sex was very bad.

she's not even close to hot. She doesn't know how to moisturize and she doesn't know how to do her hair so she always keeps it short. My boyfriend and I work long hours and whenever we go out , we go out together . He has no time to cheat.

Sounds like you're really trying to rationalize away the reality that he's fucking her. Confront him about that shit and I guarantee you he'll crack like a fucking egg, sounds like your man has literally no spine.

>nasty shit posting fembot
Sorry this is a male safe space, can you kindly go FUCK OFF TO CRYSTAL CAFE YOU GIANT GAPING WHORE.

Either your boyfriend is too stupid to cut her off (or he's a wuss who can't say no) or he likes having her around for pussy or potential pussy. Either way, he needs to stop something.

My boyfriend has a ton of female friends that are way hotter and more accessible. If he was going to cheat it would be with them, not some pasty skinned girl who lives miles away and can't drive and can't go anywhere without freaking out.

Don't ask questions here if you don't like the answers, stupid roastie. Like I said confront him about it and I guarantee you he'll crack.

>I asked him and he gets defensive of her
Well you are very critical of her, so that's not surprising. Not that I blame you; I'd be insecure if I had a girlfriend with a close male friend who she stayed friends with for no obvious reason. Still, you're not going to understand her or why he stays friends with her if you can only look down on her. After all, there must be something redeeming about her if your boyfriend is friends with her, right? Although it sounds more like you think the opposite: there must be something bad about him because he's friends with her. Maybe the real problem here is that you don't respect your boyfriend.

honestly this desu; if you can't respect him enough to not shit all over his friends on an anonymous site full of social rejects instead of confronting him like a reasonable adult then you probably shouldn't even be with him.

Lmao, dude, so what? Men aren't hypercritical like men are. Easy and submissive pussy is enough. In fact he probably likes that she's mentally feeble, it makes her more easy to dominate
The hotter girls are more dangerous to fuck because they're harder to control and they could blab or start drama

*like women are

Normie here, he's right that your bf has no spine. But because of this there's no way he has the balls to cheat on you (maybe this is a quality that you like?)

You or I can't make him grow a spine though. Either you tell him to stop wasting his time with loser cunts, or you dump him (because he will do this shit forever if he doesn't change).

Go to Jow Forums you fucking normalfag or stop being a bitch

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Her bf is probably a submissive loser. She likes this because she can control him, but she doesn't like it when it inconveniences her.

Typical shitty/unhealthy Jow Forums bullshit relationship.

> fem""bot"" can only measure people by their social status
Sad!

He's not fucking her. how long have they been friends? I find with guys they really value long-lasting childhood friendships more than girls.

My boyfriend isn't submissive. He deosn't take shit from no one and he isn't afraid to call people on their bullshit.

It's not about social status, it's about how after a certain age you can't associate yourself with losers anymore.

They have been friends for over 10 years.

that's literally all women and most post-mellenials

>after a certain age you can't associate yourself with losers anymore
Because it's bad for your social status?

>woman has mental disability
>man has sympathy for her
>roastie: what an abomination, it doesn't deserve friendship or happiness!
Tell me again how normie women aren't fucking sociopaths?

> after a certain age you can't associate yourself with losers
Says who?

well, thats it. He won't leave the friendship if they have been friends for that long. He sees a part of himself in her from his past. Could be good or bad.
But I would see this as evidence of loyalty if anything. Does he have lots of old friends?

Sociopaths (typical NPC roasties)

She's fucking 31 years old! She shouldn't be relying on friendship from one guy for happiness. She needs to create her own happiness. She should have went to college or tradeschool and get herself a good $25or$30/hr job like pretty much any other adult her age. She's not some lost kid. Hanging out with her like hanging out with some special needs.

lol, she's your bf's personal fucktoy, only possible explanation. I understand why you'd be toasty.

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A person with empathy and morals wouldn't cut her out, he would encourage her to make more friends and be there for her
But you can't even fathom being friends with a low status special needs person. All you care about if yourself and your base desires
You probably cuck your boyfriend to or fantasize about ''upgrading'''

I really hope he can see how ugly she is on the inside and cucks her with the special needs lady out of spite
I mean, he probably does. No one in their right mind wouldn't be disgusted by this kind of person.

Once again; if you care so much about who your boyfriend chooses to associate with, either break up with him or have a conversation with him like a rational adult instead of whining on Jow Forums you vapid cunt.

Dear Op, you're reading into this all wrong. Your boyfriend has had a friendship with this girl for a decade, there close friends by now, you cant expect him to cut her out of his life simply because she is a female and you dislike her. Your boyfriend and her most likely dont have a sexual relationship either. I have friends like the girl you speak of, and the reason I stick around is because they've become an important part of my life now, and even if they font have many redeeming features from other peoples perspective's, I still couldn't live without them. She probably needs him in her life just to get by, and she seems to suffer from some mental or social issues. Your boyfriend is being a good friend and doing a good thing. I hope you can try to see this, and maybe try viewing her in a different light, she might be an amazing person if you put in the effort to really get to know her, while not being overbearing and understanding her limits. Its hard to make friends for people like her, and it honestly hurts to think that you want them to end their friendship because you think shes a loser. Your boyfriend makes her life better, and he wouldn't be spending time with her if he didn't think she was worth that time.

I hope you will be able to come to understand this, and maybe talk to your boyfriend honestly about your feelings and be open minded about what he has to say.

Who gives about you stupid norime whore this board isn't for you go to red*t people there will care

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>after a certain age you can't associate yourself with losers anymore.
For what reason?

because at that age you will probably have kids, work a real job, and have little life balance. Keeping a loser around makes you work harder.

even if she doesn't like her, she should respect that her bf has a long-standing friendship with her, and just don't associate with her, and let her bf hang out with her separately. If she has legitimate reason to think her bf is fucking her, then she should confront him about it

>dates a guy who is friends with retards
>blames everyone else
No its your fault If you had some standards and self respect this wouldnt have happened.

First off, you're a really horrible person.


Second, do they share any hobby? Or perhaps it's the ten year of friendship your boyfriend likes. He feels a connection to a part of life he's no longer around of - it's a nostalgia based friendship. Ther'esn othing wrong with that

No reason that life balance can't include people that you think 'losers'
And I would sooner die than have kids and have a real job, lel

Women shouldn't drive or have jobs.

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Honestly, kill yourself vile whore, your IQ is far less than the other girl.

They also shouldn't vote either
based and redpilled frogman

OP, here are some important questions to answer:

> How long have you and your boyfriend been together?

> How much do you genuinely care about/love him?

> What about him do you find appealing?

> Do you feel truly happy when you spend time with him, singularly or with others?

> Do you see a long-standing future with him?

These are the only things that actually matter regarding your relationship. If this somehow gets in the way of how you view your boyfriend, then your priorities are out of whack. As mentioned plenty of times before, if you can't trust or respect him, or by extension his friends, then you likely shouldn't be involved with him.

We have been together for 4 years now. I care about him a lot, he's the first man in life I see myself growing old with. I love that we have a similar sense of carefree-ness . I am very happy with him, alone, away, and with others. I see myself not being married with him since we both hate marriage, but we can be life long partners.

Based and Red Pilled

>You have been muted for 2 seconds, because your comment was not original.

>We have a similar sense of care-freeness
>Literally cares about who his friends are.

Really makes you think.

Then your connection and positive qualities are what you should be focused on, instead of his friend, as she isn't starting drama or being combative with you. This issue is self-generated, and you alone. Essentially, what I deem as the reason why you're rather negative of her is derived from how he gives her attention. You are jealous that she holds a special place in his heart, whether platonically or "more than". Whatever the case may be, if you are unable to trust or respect this dynamic they have together, then you should either accept it or speak to him directly about how you view and feel. As also echoed beforehand, you claim she isn't an adult, yet you are the one badmouthing her to anons like this is high school instead of being upfront with your boyfriend.

*his positive qualities
*by you alone.

LMFAO and of course this isnt acknowledged. I hope it is out of being humbled or embarrassed vs ignoring reality. You know we know youre reading all of this OP?

You mention that your boyfriend's friend should attain a degree. May I ask what degrees you have? How did you manage not to learn empathy or anything resembling psychology in the years that you've lived? You want your significant other to stop associating with a literal decade long friend because she's simply too low class for your ilk. And yet, who the fuck are you? What have you done? How much fo you make?

You're what TV shows depict when they want to portray someone as a cartoonishly snobbish bitch. I bet your boyfriend gets this glazed over look in his eye when you start pressuring him to be someone that he isn't, since he's normalized it as routine. "Hopefully it will be over soon," he thinks. Or better yet, you can't even say to his face and opt for being passive aggressive until he responds to the stimuli like a trained dog. Ultimately you are nothing more than a basic bitch and a loser in almost every way that counts, moreso than any pasty burnt-out woman who lives at home.

I can tell how far you actually are on the social ladder and it is low. people like u lead lives that are not failures by any means but not truly successful. there is a passion that was dropped or a yearning not yet filled; there are more above u on the totem pole than below. these are the types to develop entitlement and pretentiousness even more than the upper crust. here is how fulfilled people act: they want to get to know others. if someone is washed out or unskilled they still most assuredly have a few good ideas, let alone feelings and aspirations. someone who is completely comfortable with themselves doesn't mind talking to losers or even helping them out. now say it this person were a bigot or emotionally manipulating your boyfriend I would maybe understand. but all this is telling me is that you're horribly insecure with yourself. I hope you can learn to respect you apparent future husband's decisions someday

>When someone becomes old enough, they must detach from all who would be deemed losers. This is because they are bad for us. Our image cannot be tarnished. We, the Complete Ones, must not lower ourselves to their level. I hate laughing at myself or seeing myself as unimportant. I am a very important person with important things to do. This is how all adults should rightfully live, and they should abide by the standards that are set by me. As someone raised in a first world Westernized society my values are the same as common sense. Hopefully my life partner will see that I am right someday or I will be terribly upset and cause a huge uproar.

This is your mindset. Everyone but you can see it. They are all terribly worried. Please break out

Fucking hell, his girlfriend shouldn't be his ONLY women friend, that's how you get whipped men or emotionally retarded men, what the fuck? You're no normie, you're just stupid.

Men and women shouldn't be friends with each other.

Holy shit dude hold on, she's not bright enough to actually read all this and take it seriously.
you're 100% right though

>your name is Brad
>you're a 33 year old IT developer who gives killer gifts at Christmas parties
>by this time you have a decent home and a pretty girlfriend but it didn't always used to be this way
>not long after leaving college, you had no idea what you wanted to do with yourself
>but you met someone named Emily who shared in your struggle
>she was frumpy and not always talkative but you could complain to each other without judgement
>when you got her in her comfort zone she was an absolute delight to be around
>never get romantic with her but she's an important part of your life
>recently your girlfriend has been trying to talk to you about Emily
>"I think you need to break things off with this girl"
>why? what did she do?
>"She always mumbles and she still lives at home"
>she gets nervous in social situations and it's not too hard to understand her if you're listening. I know she doesn't have her career in order but she isn't exactly hurting anyone-
>"No, she'll drag you down if you keep talking to her. You can't waste time on her"
>I've known her for 10 years and she hasn't dragged me down
>"Okay but she's so stupid, she can't even dress right"
>some people don't take the time to learn fashion or skincare. you know if you get her talking about music that she's really knowledgeable on classical stuff? I don't think you're being fair honey-
>"No, you don't get it, we can't be seen with someone like her. She can only think of herself, look how shy she is. She's making the whole situation about her!"
>baby, introversion isn't an inherently selfish thing. there are many personality types, not to mention disorders, that cultivate shy people. it's not really a choice for someone with generalized anxiety disorder. maybe you should read those books on mental illness that I talk about?
>"Why would I need to? I've went to college, I already know enough. Stop talking to your friend or else"
>it was then that you realized your gf is a shitty person

>Men and women shouldn't be friends with each other.

Aw, you're sad the girls ignored you at recess Bobby? It's okay, they don't have cooties, you can get over it.
>there's literally no other reason to think this

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He's her last string and he knows it. Once he goes, she's finished.

Actually I developed this opinion after having lots of female friends and watching the way they interacted with the men they're friends with. Women are natural sluts and having male friends only makes it more likely that they will cheat on their significant other. Men and women being too socially integrated nowadays is one of the many causes of the collapse of marriage and the nuclear family.

>this
But not because it's actually true, realistically she /could/ still get someone, but because she thinks this she won't be ABLE to.
Also;
>"Why'd your last relationship end?"
>>"Oh, my boyfriend didn't want to end a 10 year friendship with an ugly bitch for ME, so I broke up with him, can you believe it?"
>"... No, I uh... can't."
>>"I KNOW RIGHT??? IT'S UNBELIEVABLE!"

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Holy shit op I almost sympathized with you but you are exactly what is wrong with western society

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>Actually I developed this opinion after having lots of female friends
>r9k
>Jow Forums
>F E M A L E S
Okay user, sure.

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Dumb fake thread. The waifu is constructed very well though, I'd marry her in a second.

The ideal scenario
>OP's bf breaks off friendship with retarded girl
>Retarded girl an hero's
>OP's bf is overcome with guilt and an hero's too
>OP becomes a cumslut

Some of us were normies in high school before giving up the life.

I would drop a girl I was dating instantly if she tried to tell me who to be friends with. A friend of over a decade is important to someone and if you can't respect that then you're a massive cunt.

If you have female friends while in a relationship, that's a massive red flag in the first place. Same goes for the other way around. Nothing good ever comes of that.

>what kind of sex can she possibly give?
Sex isn't a skill for women. I don't care who "good" you can ride a dick, it doesn't make much a difference. For men, sex is 15% sensation, 85% fantasy. The great majority is fulfilling a fantasy. This is why 99% of men through 99% of history would rather fuck a pure young maiden they rescued from the dragon in the castle than an old woman with """experience""", this is why the stories are about that and not saving an old whore.
You're getting cuckholded by a younger or more innocent woman, either deal with it or fuck off.

First of all, because I know you probably won't take the time to read the rest of my post let me just say you are an awful person.

You say you love your bf, but you don't love him enough to let him have female friends. You don't let him have female friends because you are insecure. Rightfully so, as you keep demonstrating in this thread you are human garbage that seems to only care about social status.
>Cannot associate with the "loser" that makes us look bad!
Hell I would be willing to bet social status is the only reason you are with this guy you pretend to love so much.
You do not own him and you cannot dictate who he can or cannot be friends with, especially not someone who he has stuck by for 10 FUCKING YEARS.

You are right to feel insecure. She deserves him far more than you do.
He would be much better off without a shallow sociopath like you.
Please come back and make a thread when he leaves you for her, it will be comedy gold.

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>normies in charge of compassion

oh no, his friend's poor and can't sell her labor to survive. Better cut her off for not being a good slave!

>is some loser he's too "nice" to cut contact with
>still doesn't have a real job
>can't drive
i'm a guy but that was literally me
in this case my friend was one the few people I felt a friendship with during and after high school
but eventually I thought I was too much of a burden and failure and I haven't seen or talked to him/his gf (who I was also friends with) in at least two years
wonder if they even remember me

>He has no time to cheat.
heh

Just chiming in that a woman will never do the same for a man.

Also OP is just seething because she has to compete with someone for male time and resources. Fuck off you greedy manipulative bitch.

Would you be this hard on a guy friend? Do you feel the same about male NEETs?