>start lifting again two weeks ago
>But starting today I have to work everyday for 12+ hours and no longer have time to lift
What do?
>tfw 33 year old khv
>shit job, low pay and long hours, still live with parents
>no friends and no social skills
>tfw lonely and unattractive too
Help Jow Forums, how do I turn my life around?
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unironically just be yourself
Get a better job and move out asap, that’s half the battle
do you have a lot of money saved?
I have a lot saved, but even with a mortgage my monthly payments would be too much for me in my city
Getting a job is hard without social skills or friends. My coworkers with social skills go into banking, but I can't even pass interviews
if you live with ur parents, then could you afford to leave the job for now and go to school/learn some other skill?
move out the city, it’s great out here. Everything is cheap and you can go /out/ all the time
gives you an excuse not to know anyone either
id bump my testicles into her clitoris if you know what i mean
If you live in America or Leafistan get a CDL and hit the road. Better pay and you can live in the truck instead of your parents' house. There's a ten-hour rest every day, do bodyweight workouts and have memberships to a few national gym chains like PF and AF so you can hit machines and use their showers when you're not by a truck stop.
Also, you could use your breaks to get a bullshit associates degree or something to get a normie job somewhere, meanwhile live in the truck full time so you can save up for a rental deposit and furniture.
If you can't even make it in life as a trucker you should just an hero.
Get a different job maybe? One where you don't work fucking 12+ hours a day.
Honestly thinking about this. But can't quit for another month, it's the busy time for my job
Maybe if I can get a good job there. But I do glamorize city life desu
I have a degree and an office job.. would rather try to make it by earning more and living more comfortably
name?
Don't have a network or social skills to pass interviews to get a better job
Nigga, I'm in 16 credit hours of classes, work 25-30 hours a week for nothing but resume credits, have a dog I walk for an hour and a half a day and still hit the gym 6 days a week. Get your shit together and get to work
I recommend brazilian jiu-jitsu to make astronomical social gains as well as getting fit and confident. Sounds like this would solve a lot of issues for you.
>Gain access to a legitimate brotherhood where you learn how to interact with people, you need experience this stage to get Stacy
>You learn to defend yourself, which makes the big world outside your parents house not appear so daunting
>Newfound confidence will cause you to inadvertently put yourself into new situations
>The posture you've gained now causes you to respect yourself much more, women have a 6th sense for lack of self-respect
>Your social circle expands, boom, you've got a girlfriend
move out of your parents house, NOW.
>But starting today I have to work everyday for 12+ hours and no longer have time to lift
Get a better job. If you need to educate yourself to escape wagecuck hell, start educating yourself. Nobody can do this except you.
why dont u become NEET? I've made more gains in the past 6 months than all the years before that
Thanks, actually tried it once
Hard to do because I need glasses to see. And at the time I was weak
I have a decent education, I'm an auditor. But it's hard to move to somewhere better without social skills
lindsey pelas
what keyword do i put into google for this demonic spawn of nigresses
Tbh thinking of taking 2 or 3 months off work just to focus on myself. My workplace allows unlimited vacations during April-September (I don't get paid, but my job is still there)
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Same tbqh
you waited too long to turn it around. my suggestion would be to just eat healthy and get lean doing aerobics at home. Then make as much money as possible. Work your fucking ass off and make so much money you can retire and enjoy that since you already wasted your 20s
I-i don't want it to be too late ;_;
Do bodyweight exercises till failure before you go to bed. Squats until you can barely stand. Pushups until you fall on your face. Situps until a final half rep. Pound some whey then crawl in to bed.
Go to the gym anyway. Its only an hour a day 3 times a week user
Thinking of doing this too
i dont get it
>working every single day of the week
>12 hour days
Bullshit idiot. Stop lying.
need help.
why am i only attract asian females? i am decently fit whiteboi but i cant seem to attract many whytegirl. What do?
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Be happy. I can't attract any fucking girl. Even the grotesque fatties look at me with disgust.
What ever you do, just don't be yourself.
i m happy i guess but i just find it strange and want to know if its like a fetish or if they playing a trick on me.
I'm trying not to be
damn I need one of those dresses.
man can you imagine the stank on that cunt?
Save up some money and go to Kenya. Fuck some chocolatey sluts. Fly to Europe and take advantage of free German university. Reinvent yourself. Idk man, I can give you lots of good advice but you probably already know what to do. The tricky part is the execution.
>s the busy time for my job
Wrong mindset, your job doesn't care about you. Loyalty is a two way street. If you want better social skills, join toastmasters or do some meet up group. The key is consistency. Social skills are just like any other skill- they need lots of constant practice.
entire thread is a fap bait
this is Jow Forums almost every thread is fap'n jill bait.
>your job doesn't care about you.
I know. But what if I quit and it doesn't work out. Id like to be able to return
>Toastmasters
I've joined a club, but have only been three times in the past year. Hard with my job and schedule...
>I've joined a club, but have only been three times in the past year. Hard with my job and schedule...
Again man, you know what you need to do. This thread is pointless. You don't need advice, you need to take action. You seem reasonably intelligent, or at least not completely fucking retarded. You're 33 and a KHV, the time for talking and ruminating is done. Get off your ass.
>tfw on my way home from work
>Saturday night, almost 11, so people are out. I have no friends, so haven't been out anywhere in over a decade
>Get on train to the suburbs and see stunning 9/10 girls exiting, probably going to some club
>While I go home to cry myself to sleep and get ready for another day of work tomorrow
What do
;_;
I do need to go more
Problem for me is my schedule and part of it is finding topics to talk about
The people in my Toastmasters meeting are usually pretty good speakers. And usually their stories involve overcoming a challenge or of something humorous. I have nothing to talk about tbqh
Just say: hi you cute, me cute, wonna fuq?
Make something up and/or talk about a subject that doesn't have to do with your life explicitly. Have you read Dale Carnegies's book on public speaking? amazon.com
Personally, I think Dale is a little overhyped but for a beginner/novice level speaker, you can definitely get something out of him. For "How to Win Friends and Influence People" the entire book can be summed up as be agreeable and focus on other people instead of yourself which can be useful in a business setting up to a point but for women it's only half-useful. I know PUA gets a lot of hate but just some of the basic concepts/mental frameworks have been very useful for me going from a KV to racking up a double digit partner count and multiple ONS. You don't need to get super autistic into the nitty gritty of it- I've found just a little can go a long way.
Get the fuck out of the city you retard. I grew up in LA and got sick of the rent/taxes/politics/faggotry that comes with metropolitan areas. Moved to Colorado, bought a big ass 4bed/4bath house with giant basement I turned into home gym. Has a mortgage that's $100 more/month than my 1bed/1.5bath apartment in LA. Seriously fuck that place if you ever plan on owning a business or enjoy the little things like, you know, freedom.
Thanks, will check out the book
I've looked into Pua, but desu, never put it in practice. Mostly afraid of being made fun of if I ever try talking to a girl with any kind of romantic intention
You're 33. Most men are over that at half your age. You need to internalize this: There's nothing wrong with you but there is something wrong with your will. You're not special. Countless men have chatted up women and achieved their role in the human mating process. Do what they do.
Lmao stop being a bitch, I'm a full time nursing student, just got off a 12 hour shift as a caregiver and am at the gym right now. Literally try harder you helpless boomer.
You have your problems laid out already. Solving them will "turn your life around". All you need to do is take the steps toward doing so. Change is difficult, but it's worth it.
Lifting won't help in your situation. You should focus on your social skills and getting a better job so you have time for friends and exercise
Thanks