Would it be odd to ask a chick for a bench press spot on a PR weight and shes the only one in the gym?
Would it be odd to ask a chick for a bench press spot on a PR weight and shes the only one in the gym?
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She'd think it's weird, but that's because women are dumb.
Explain to her even if you fail you won't stop pushing so if she needs to help it would only be a fingers worth of strength.
But it would work out fine.
I dont understand why it would be weird
Last time I tried that weight I failed on lockout at the top and i noticed there was nobody in the gym so I asked a random thot if she can spot. If there was a guy or someone else I wouldn't ask but I wanted to try for a PR again and she was the only one there
She said yea no problem and spot was good. I also made the lift
But now wondering is that weird ?
He didn't say it was weird. Why are you asking the same question twice?
> Putting your life in the hands of a woman
its stupid
She panicked and spilled spaghetti when I talked to her so I was wondering is this not proper gym etiquette? There was nobody there to spot and I ate well throughout the day I wanted to go for a PR bench
I thought someone else would be there but it was only some chick
She spilled spaghetti and I was wondering should I not ask a female for a spot?
Whats the weight
that is a fantastic way to get a peek up her cootch. 10/10, op
she wants ur small cock
bench in a rack dumbass
Its really uncomfortable in a rack and I have to get set up in an weird way but I'll do it from now on
She panicked when I asked her to spot but after a few seconds she said oh yea sure...
I didn't look
I was focused on the gym you sick fuck
I want nothing to do with her
255lb barbell flat bench
I know. Not back to my old glory days but I think in a few months i may hit 275lb again
I hit 255lb for one rep and that's why i needed a spot I wasn't sure if I could do it.
>lie down on bench
>she's standing behind the bar with your head between her legs
>take a deep sniff under the disguise of bracing your core preparing to lift
>test levels spike by 50%
>lifts increase 30% temporarily
Frank Yang was on to something. Does anyone have the image/video where he floor presses with his gf sitting on his face? I can't find the video.
if you want to die, go ahead
Put yourself in her shoes. She is doing her thot exercises to look good for social media when suddenly some weirdo comes up uninvited and starts bothering her to spot him on some exercise she has never done. She looks around nervously for a way to get out of it when she realizes they are the only two people in the gym. Now she is afraid to say “no” because she doesn’t know if it’ll set the weird guy off so she reluctantly agrees and hopes for the best. She is relieved when the weirdo who needed help from a weak girl is done and she is free to go back to her own life. Little does she know that the weirdo is now under the false impression that she likes him and is so infatuated with her that he goes on a Tibetan Mastiff breeding forum to talk about it to other weirdos.
That's what I'm worried about
I'm not some weirdo I just nedded a spot. The odd part is she usually hangs around the gym area where I am training and I find it annoying because I want to focus on the lifts but somehow she is always nearby and in my area.
I won't ask her again btw. I just needed a spot and wasn't sure I could handle the weight
>I'm not some weirdo
Nobody thinks they are and maybe you’re not, but to her that was weird.
>The odd part is she usually hangs around the gym area where I am
The odd part is that you know this.
>I want to focus on the lifts but somehow she is always nearby and in my area
How does her proximity affect your focus? It’s not your area. She has every right to go wherever she wants, she pays her membership fee too.
Honestly this whole thread seems like you’re trying to figure out if she likes you. Let me save you the worry, she doesn’t. Now move on with your life and stop bothering poor girls at the gym.
really good point, i dont know what i was thinking asking her to spot like that...
Do it
You won't even need her to spot because failing in front of a girl would be so gay you just won't do it
Look, if it was me there instead of her and you asked me to spot you it wouldn’t be any trouble at all. It’s different for girls though. It would be like if you were alone at the gym at night and when you walked outside two guys in a dark alley called you over asking for help. Maybe they really do need help with something, but you can’t be sure of their motives and until the situation is over you’re going to be nervous.
Your scenario is a classic example of someone about to be mugged. The spotting scenario is almost exclusively harmless. I don't think there is a large population of people who got to the gym worried about being asked to spot.
Maybe I just don't get women at all, but I doubt that is on their mind at all.
>Does anyone have the image/video where he floor presses with his gf sitting on his face
i too am gonna need some sauce on this
You don’t get it because you only see it from your point of view. I have to go, but good luck in your future PRs and next time use the rack if there are no guys around.
You sound like a freak. Girls just want to workout and not be talked to or approached
Leave them alone
You're overanalyzing. OP it's not weird to ask anyone for a spot, especially if she's the only one in the gym. She probably spilled her spaghetti because she probably didn't expect anyone to talk to her. It's better to ask someone to take 30 seconds out of their workout to spot you than potentially hurt yourself because you were too autistic to talk to people. Even if she thought it was weird, so what? The opinions of one thot don't matter my friend.
Unless OP is a faggot which.. i mean..
>ask female at gym for a spot
>just warming up actually
Last time I asked a girl to spot me, she went and fetched her boyfriend to do it instead. He was a nice guy, but she could have easily done it herself; I've seen her doing respectable weight on the bench and I wasn't lifting much.
Ugh why cant these creeps leave women alone, WOMEN DONT OWE YOU SHIT, fucking oppressive assholes!
Her spilling spaghetti is irrelevant and it is probably her first time spotting someone other than her friend. You needed help and you asked for help, how can you even imagine that it is bad etiquette?
if you really ask randoms for a spot in the gym you're a shitstain. Nobody likes this.
Nice bait dumbass
I ask anyone for a spot. It literally doesnt matter but this time there was nobody else there
depends actually if you could do it with ease or appear to try it could turn into a convo thanking her for being master spotter it could work but depends on how you can pull off a convo if you're not socially retarded