Tell me about your oneitis (or simply whomever you're interested in now), user

how old are you now?
you sound well rounded enough and presumably if you're not fat, there will be another

What hinterland are you in?

>thicc as fucc
>long black hair
>blue eyes
>makes loads of money
>hates feet

>known her since i'm 11
>started dating at 17
>moved 6 hours away for uni when i was 19, she stayed here
>stayed together, hard but we made it work
>come back 4 years later at 23
>spend past 6 months best we've ever been, love spending all our time together and we're planning on finally moving in and starting our family
>found out when we were at our darkest point at the beginning of the year, she met with her ex at a party and made out with him
>continued sexting him and meeting up to make out for two months, planning on breaking up with me before they fucked since it seemed inevitable we would
>we didn't, and ended up better than ever

now i don't know what to do
i feel constantly sick and i can't stop thinking about them together, i believe her with all my heart she didn't fuck him but that doesn't mean this wasn't cheating, i just want to leave and forget about her but i can't

I don't have anyone after a long time of oneitising

feels great tbqh

>volatile
>problematic
>passive aggressive
>a chad

>how old are you now?
I'm 18, and he's 19.
>you sound well rounded enough
You know nothing about me. Lol.
>presumably if you're not fat
My weight is healthy.
>there will be another
But I want this one.

Is that a place in a videogame?

A hinterland is a backwater. A place that's easily forgotten. If he is 2,700 miles away from you that implied you might be 2,700 miles from somewhere.

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>you might be 2,700 miles from somewhere
Bitch everyone is 2700 miles from "somewhere".
You need to specifiy.

Far away from somewhere important. Unless you're in the Rockies it's a moot point.

>You know nothing about me.
i know you were on a sports team and in a few clubs, probably puts you above 90% of the people on this board already. but tell me more?

>My weight is healthy.
height / weight? won't shame just curious

>But I want this one.
you're 18, about to be in your physical prime (if not already) i would advise not to waste too much of that chasing someone 2700 miles away

does he know how you feel? may as well tell him and get it over with

He's in NY, while I'm in CA.

>i know you were on a sports team and in a few clubs, probably puts you above 90% of the people on this board already. but tell me more?
I did lots of sports during my childhood, such as gymnastics, dance, soccer, swimming, cross country, and track and field. Swimming, cross country, and track and field were with the guy I've been talking about.
I also did Academic League and was president of the Math Club. I think he did Academic League, too, and maybe even math club.
Also, we had some honors/AP classes together.
Like I said, my memory sucks, but we definitely had a lot in common.
>height / weight?
A bit over 5'5", and a bit under 130 pounds.
>chasing someone 2700 miles away
Hahaha I mean, we did cross country and track together. He was quite a bit faster than me, though.
>does he know how you feel?
I'm not sure if he know I used to like him, but I'm fairly positive he doesn't know this time.
>may as well tell him and get it over with
I want to get my life into better shape first. I've been in a bad place and have to make things work despite my many past mistakes before I can even consider dating someone as awesome as him.

>long light blond hair
>glasses
>nearly 1,80m as female
>incredible student (two degrees at the same time + language courses + volley)
>very polite and feminine
>likes to read
>likes to write
We're friends and I asked her out for after our terms end. She said she'll "think about it" and discussed the places we can go see. But she threw an offmark about organizing something with everybody from our class that frustrated me, I only want us two going around.
I often wonder if she's into me from some flags, but I fear she doesn't see me as a romantic option. Though I thought so of many girls who actually were infatuated with me, so I really can't trust my judgement.

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On paper you look really good. Math whiz, healthy body, and young. If you weren't 1,500 miles from me I might say hi.

If she isn't making time for you then she's not into you. If you can schedule a lunch with her in the next 2 weeks you are a maybe. If you can't that's a hard no. Anyone can find an hour in their schedule in 2 weeks.

okay am i qualified to say you sound like you're well rounded now? cause you have just corroborated my theory.

what do you mean by get your life into better shape?

Maybe my past looks good, but right now I have to climb out of the huge hole I dug myself into since.

What sort of hole is that?

Probably the one between her legs

She made time during the semester, many times she stayed after class talking to me. Sometimes she'd stop before entering the subway station to keep talking to me too. Considering her chedule is indeed busy with all the activities she enrolls, perhaps that is a green flag? Or was I just a means to relax from said busy life?
It's the first time I mentioned us doing something outside our obligations, though.

>okay am i qualified to say you sound like you're well rounded now?
No, because you don't know the whole story of my past, let alone how things are now.
I'm not going to post my life story right now, but here are my current problems:
>not very good-looking by the standards of plenty of people
>have no irl friends
>this is my second hiatus from college
>was planning to kms up until a couple of weeks ago
>technically a NEET (though I have applied for several jobs)
>living with my parents again
>can't even legally drive yet
>addicted to internet
>obviously still mentally unhealthy
So yeah, lots to improve before I could date him.

Do your core values and life goals align? If they do pushing that maybe to a yes make sense.

>addicted to internet
unironically your worst one, start fixing that one first

See .

Actually I've been told my pussy is tight. Also, the first guy I banged even thought he was in the other whole towards the end... which led to a pregnancy scare.

how's him finishing in your ass lead to a pregnancy scare?

nevermind, I didn't read it right

Other way around. I thought the context made it clear that he thought he was in my ass when he was in my vag.

I think you've pushed though a lot of the worst of it. To my untrained self those all sound like they are symptomatic of larger issues. Were you studying something you had no real interest in?

>larger issues
yeah, like spending too much time on this cancerous internet

your generation is rapidly losing all your rites of passage. please try not to let your lack of a driver's license or the fact that you're living with your parents discourage you too much, it's much more common than you think.

>not very good-looking by the standards of plenty of people
not to sound shallow but as a girl this should probably be your first priority. IRL friends and jobs will follow shortly. losing weight (probably the hardest part but also the most important) will also teach you discipline and that will also bring many benefits along with it.

she was/is an emotional trainwreck,as all oneitis should be
i met her in high school years ago,she was in class with me,had no friends and barely came to school and when she did she was high and didnt pay attention to class.i used to lend her the tests results and cigs after school

>6/10
>pale white skin
>is into anime
>cute (to me)
>5'5
Oh & rejected me like 4 months ago for being a """"""""""hypocrite""""""""""".

i dont have one anymore but the last one i had was perfect besides being a neurotic jewess that thought i was someone else the whole time

Similar to my story
>went to same HS
>smart
>attractive
>dedicated
>regularly talk
>mutually competitive
>interested in medicine
>maybe likes me back
Problem is
>she went to uni across the country
>although we live in same neighborhood
>one grade/year below me
>likelihood of attending same med school is very, very small
>she will likely surpass me in all ways professionally