Femanons, do you have sexual fears? Like being bad at doing something like blowjobs, your pussy tasting or smelling bad...

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for the record stacy sucks her personality is shit and we'd have nothing in common and also i don't seek relationships just for sex personality is first and foremost

>Femanons, do you have sexual fears?
lots of them. I'm afraid of all of these things happening:
1. he's not big enough
2. he cums too quickly
3. he shames me for the number of notches on my bed-post.
4. he shames me for having HSV2 (it's totally normal!)
5. he's inexperienced
6. he wants to be exclusive

sometimes that shit just happens

>having sex with gf
>go soft for no reason or because tired
>god damn it
>gf thinks it's her fault
>double god damn it
>didn't get to blow my load and now have to deal with an upset gf

don't do this

troll harder next time
obvious bait is obvious

>still giving them (You)s
>ISHYGDDT

Are you a porn addict? Maybe you and your bf could be jerk-off buddies.

it's even worse when you do drugs, it makes the anxiety so much worse

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I have literal hypogondamism and was with a chronic masturbator gf that was packing a tunnel that could take in a gigantic dildo. Everything was fine.

fucking hell
this makes me never want to approach girls again

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thanks
I'm glad there's still people out there who think this way, it gives me a little hope

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Just flip it around in your mind, and make it his fault for being such a weak, non-virile man.

Shame him to the point of having an even harder time getting and maintaining erections due to performance anxiety.

robots, would you break up with a girl if she wouldn't let you put it in her butt ever?

i'm terrified of sex, end of.

also she was a fat roastie that I wasn't physically attracted to and I had erectile issues. anything is possible when you love each other. I only left her because she got way too clingy and hated it when I wanted to see my friends.

god this image... AAAAAAGHH!!

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I worry often I'm the only one, or that the people who think similarly will never find me. Time will tell if I'm right in my worrying or not I guess.

talking them into it is the funnest part about butt sex for me. I actually prefer vagina much more but it's satisfying as fuck to convince them to do something they claim they'd never do. try asking her during the heat of the moment or rub the area with a finger.

Wow this is such horrible advice.

I was asking as a girl who's afraid of buttsex
if you couldn't convince her, would it be a dealbreaker?

i like butts but I don't want to stick my dick in one, pussy is way better. just want her to sit on my face

Just make him hate himself to the point of placing his entire self-worth on pleasuring you, and eventually will be okay with letting a stronger bull fuck you in front of him so that his beloved girlfriend can experience true pleasure for once.

whoops, read it wrong. I wouldn't break up over it but I'd probably keep asking from time to time forever.

No, I mean I'm interested to try but it's really only an interest. Now, I'd break up with a girl who wouldn't put stuff in my but however.

Definitely would not be a dealbreaker

even if I knew the answer would 100% be no I'd still infrequently mention it for trolling purposes

>too tired to have sex
>gf's idea of getting me turned on is taking off her pants and lying down on the couch doing nothing
>i go to bed and try to nap
>have to hear her bitch about me making her feel unwanted for 2 days

Im so glad she decided to fuck off
Fucking hate women so much

what is the appeal of having your face sat on? i also like girls but i really don't get why this is such a big dude thing. is it just vagina? is vagina the reason?

not him but personally for me it's because of being able to cause my loved one intense pleasure

Men have an instinctive urge to be close to a woman's crotch
Having one on your face feels good

I can relate.

>try to initiate sex with gf
>almost never works
>tired as fuck
>she's suddenly super horny
>tell her to fuck off
>come on man
>oblige her in hopes she'll return the favor
>haha NOPE
>rinse and repeat

>gf tries to get a feel for sexual fetishes
>says or does some stupid shit to try impressing me instead of just taking like 5 minutes to talk about it at some point
Stop calling me daddy. Thats weird and you know it!

I'm into femdom so I like to have the girl in a position of obvious power over me. It's even better if she does it without my permission or when she's stinky and hasn't washed, it's more humiliating that way. Yeah it's pathetic but that's what I'm into

if retard sex was a porn genre it would be all I watched for weeks and I don't even enjoy porn

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>>try to initiate sex with gf
>>almost never works
>>tired as fuck
>>she's suddenly super horny
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
FFFFFUUUUCCCKKK THIS SHOULDN'T BE SO GOD DAMN RELATEABLE

>gf is attractive and loves sex
>cut dick jew slave goyim and i hardly like sex

top kek

it is an actual genre though

I absolutely love being "seduced" by someone literally just doing a starfish not even looking at me
Or when youre leaving and suddenly shes upset and half a day later you learn she wanted to fuck
>b-but if he really loved me hed know what i want without me telling him
Where do women get this retarded idea from i swear to god literally all of them think that

I swear women are just like cats sometimes.

My fears lie in male assumptions. I'm afraid of the guys who think things like having discolored bits means I've been fucking around when really it's just a normal genital variation. Ignorence is acceptable, it's just when the worse case scenarios are assumed...

no man will care once they see it. do you even man?

That's why you should have a talk with your partner about it if it concerns you that much.

Well I the only people I would ever date would be people that I also trust genuinely. All though if someone cheats on me it's gonna fuck me over really hard. Still wont stop me though.

pls let me suck on your multi colored vag

>tfw was cheated on in all my 3 relationships

I have completely lost the ability to put trust in anyone
Always hated the idea of having meaningless sex with random people, but came to term with the fact that that's all I'm gonna get

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That fucking sucks dude I hope you can transcend the desire to have a mate

not disability fetish, that's just depressing

I'd probably turn into a cheating monster myself at that point. Just being left for another guy makes me have serious trust issues as it is.

I worry my bf is getting tired of always initiating sex. for quite a while he had to move my hands to touch him because I was too nervous & at least now I know to do that on my own, but I'm still too scared to initiate. I don't have any trauma around sex it's just for no reason I guess.

>tfw no UlqiorraxOrhime relationship happened
instead we got shitty generic relationship that no one wanted
I hate you for reminding me of this

I mean anything that falls into that catagory. Like how it's normal for discharge to be a bit clumpy after a period but then it's assumed I have a yeast infection and am slob instead. Dumb shit that's easily explained but could and likely would be interpreted wrong then used to shame me even though there's nothing amiss.

I simultaneously hate you and feel for you. Literally every man is tired of initiating. A man will accept anything. JUST DO IT.

>tfw no dirty gf with a weird looking pussy and lumpy discharge

we have porn of her and just about every other espada member though.

Im turning older and I keep having thoughts of family, or get sad when I see small children in public
Tried to go on a date last week but ended up cancelling and deleting her number just because I really didn't feel like starting the shit cycle all over again

>tfw gf won't let you fug her during her period and makes you wait
maybe I should've been one of those squeamish guys instead

Unironically just do anything at all
If you always have to be moved to sex even when you want it he will flat out start assuming there's something wrong with him and it's gonna make him feel like shit

he'd probably even find your awkwardness cute as well. women can practically get away with murder in a relationship.

Nah, the sqimish guys are the most likely to get upset over most things. I don't know about others, but usually if someone else doesn't care, I don't care. I'd have period sex if asked.

>she asks me what kind of stuff i'd want her to do
>tell her i'd like it if she got stockings and wore them in bed
>she gets annoyed and tells me it's uncomfortable for her, makes fun of the idea

guess who never talked about his wishes again and then had to listen to complaints about being boring

yeah this sounds pretty much exactly like how it is to ask for something from women

i need something Canon doe and not porn
I just enjoy the dynamic they had

>tfw afraid of asking for anything weirder because they could use it as sexual blackmail when you break up

>couldnt get it up for the first time i was gonna fuck my gf
>she sends me a thousand word text about how she is a fat whale and multiple pics of her crying in shame afterwords
Made me feel awful desu

Why in the hell do people post pics of themselves crying? Do they not realize that you have to stop crying to pose for the damn picture? You're not supposed to WANT people to see you like that, let alone immortalize your face at it's worst in a photo.

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they do it for dramatic effect and they don't necessarily have to stop crying

So many. afraid of my pussy tasting or smelling weird due to having PCOS. Afraid of being bad at kissing but strangely not afraid of sucking at BJs
Im a virgin and Im afraid of choosing the wrong person for my first time
Im not afraid of it hurting bc it is not suppose to
I guess Im afraid of being too strung up to relax enough and be able to do it
Im afraid of not getting to take it at my pace. I wanna go slow at first and then I wanna do a lot of really weird stuff that I dont wanna get judged for
Not afraid of being asked to do weird stuff tho either Im into it or Im not
Im afraid of the person Im with not taking it as seriously as me
Im afraid of them leaving after like a one night stand because they got to have sex. I want my first time to be in the context of a relationship
Afraid of being wth someone who nitpickks at fine hairs or stretch marks or dumb things bc I dont care about those things. I guess falls into accidentally picking the wrong person to do it with or date
Afraid of convincing myself to do it when Im not ready just because I like to be the one in control that starts things
Afraid of STDs and damage big time

>then I wanna do a lot of really weird stuff that I dont wanna get judged for
w-what kind of weird stuff

These are pretty legitimate worries which is a bit surprising. It's hard to find somebody who you're comfortable with but g'luck

>fine hairs or stretch marks or dumb things bc I dont care about those things

im glad to hear it finally someone wit hthis opinion

Just curious, does your PCOS cause emotional issues/instability? Just asking because my ex also had it, and she became incredibly clingy to the point where she'd get very upset if I didn't text her back for half a day.

There was nothing wrong with her pussy, though, so I don't think you have to worry about that. My ex also grew fine hairs occasionally, had stretch marks from the weight gain the PCOS caused, it didn't bother me. Just make sure the person you choose to give your virginity to is genuine. Might be a little difficult to figure out at first, but I'd say another virgin is your best bet. You can explore your sexuality together and even discover mutual fetishes.

Just don't get upset that your boyfriend is busy and cheat on him like my PCOS girlfriend did.

That's an understandable worry for both the guy and the girl but it's really good when you're comfortable enough to just reset until he gets hard again and having neither person take it personally. That's the best kind of sex, where there's all that trust and no judgement, sprinkle in a bit of emotion and hnnnggg...that's love right there.

You gotta be a mind reader man. But fuck if you if you want her to learn what you like to get you in the mood, that would actually take some effort on her part.

Majority of women are lazy in love and lazy in bed, left me really fucking jaded like I just expect it now and it's not worth the arguments for the splattering of average sex that gets farther and farther apart.

> sexual blackmail when you break up
Fuck that bitch, wear it like a badge of honour.

Sorry to hear that happened to you, user, hope you find/have found someone better
I find mood swings are not an issue for me. I mean obviously sometimes I get sad, etc, but never have I been scared or weirded out by a reaction of mine to something. Tbh I dont know too many women with PCOS, so maybe Im the exception or something
>another virgin
Exactly what I was thinking, seems like the best bet to finding someone who is looking at sex in a similar way, thanks user. Im sure it will all work out in the end

Thank you user, you too

owo whats this lol idk I recently stopped watching porn because making the rounds on the usual sites was getting tedious, but I think I picked up some stuff that is too advanced for a virgin kek
Gonna be interesting to see if I maintain an interest in dudes peeing themselves after a little while of not watching pornos

All of my biggest fears have come true, I've come to the conclusion that I'm just horrible at making love.
>suck at giving blowjobs, can only take it in so far without gagging. during our first time he told me I used too much teeth
>weaklet, have boney arms and can barely jerk him off without my arm getting sore
>have accidentally hurt him for real instead of play hurting (accidentally pinched his nipples too hard, hurt his ears when I lick inside them)
>want to be the dominant one but get too shy to demand him to do stuff, sex ends up just being vanilla and boring
>also worst of all I can't make myself cum
I'm just counting down the days where he eventually gets fed up and leaves me, I feel like the only girl who performs this badly

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Piss is a patrician fetish desu, tfw no cute gf to pee on me
godspeed user

>have asked gf to wear collars, cat ears, fishnets, bunny ears/panties, or some combination of them
>she's a lot more willing to do dom/sub stuff and petplay now because she's seen just how much I enjoy it

Sucks to be you bro.

Right back at you user, let the blood river run yellow

Probably. I want a kinky girl that likes it up the butt.

You probably like anal of you find the right person to do it with femanon. Its supposed to be really slow sex.

I didn't learn how to cum for 8 years into
the relationship I was in my late 20s and figured out I had to be completely sober to not lose focus. Plus they had to practice too I guess. Hope you are as lucky.

Femanons would you break up with a guy because he is emotional and cries while cuddling?

this desu I have a lot of emotional problems and I just want to be held while I cry sometimes, are women going to be put off by this?

It's ok to be vulnerable around people you're supposed to trust and love, but try not to act like a girl on her period, and don't do it early into the relationship or so often that it comes off as a pity party. Also it helps to have something to be sad about and not just be a bpd fuck because it's not just women who hate that shit.

It's fine but shouldn't happen all the time or too frequently, that's the case for both genders.

Im just gonna learn to be alone all my life. Not like it matters, i accepted some people just dont find love and im one of them. I don't wanna show my heart to a women just to have her laugh at me. Women have laughed at me before and it doesn't feel good. I imagine a women you care about laughing at you and then breaking up would be even worse. Anyway thank you for your honesty.

I think it would be fucked up to laugh at someone for this but people with bpd and similar issues are chronic manipulators and get like this for no reason whatsoever just to make the person respond a certain way. Maybe you should get yourself checked out and see what your options are as far as managing your emotions?

Well it's not like I cry all the time, back in high school when I had a gf I cried in her arms once ever because I was worried she would leave me (we had been dating for like a year and she had been acting odd recently)
she said it was okay and that she wouldn't leave me but she did a few months later
to this day I wonder if it's because i showed weakness to her like that, not sure if I could trust another girl to not look down on me for crying sometimes

I doubt it was because of you crying since you guys were already having problems.

What about the other direction, how do girls feel about guys that bury their feelings and show utterly almost no emotion?