/FEELS THREAD/

I’m a stone masons apprentice/labourer. The work is heavy as fuck, 100 lb buckets of sand, scaffolding and stones. 45-55 hours a week. Still get to the gym 2 bench days and 1squat/deadlift day per week. If you have the desire you will make it to the gym, you will eat more and you will prioritize sleep. It’s simple, but difficult.

>3rd gf in a row says I act like a monster after coming home from the gym
>Says I need to spend less time at the gym and more with her
>Tell her the holes between her legs are open 24/7 but the gym closes at 10.
>Cries and leaves me
>Try to console her
>Doesn't work
Well looks like I'm single again. Maybe she's right, maybe the gym does things to me.

Worst meme

jesus christ mate

That's bullshit. You're lazy. Get some calcite stones, dyel.

based. keep it up user

21 is pretty early to have failed bro. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start creating the kind of future you wish you had.

lift first, wageslave after.
it's better to be tired at work than being tired on the gym.
i don't know about you but i'll never give effort to a minimum wage. for example, i'm on the job right now but phoneposting instead of working.

>dated ex-gf for 2 months again
>she's been acting all weird last week
>last saturday
>at her place
>she's not cuddling, no kisses nothing
>i check her phone
>she's semi flirting with one of her guy friends i know
>ask her why shes acting all weird
>ask her if she's sleeping with other guys
>well i stated that at the beginning user
>there are feelings towards you yes
>it just happened
>you were constricting me asking if i was meeting with said guydude
>b-but user somehow i can't be in a relationship with you but also don't want to imagine a life without you

packed my stuff and just went
deleted everything of her

it's been 2 days without any form of contact
thought she'd text me, nope
thought she'd ask to talk or something
nope

Keep up what?
Pissing away opportunities for no fucking Reason?

literally me except remove porn

>user somehow i can't be in a relationship with you but also don't want to imagine a life without you
We let women vote lmao

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>still lives with parents
This is absolutely fine, especially at 21. What are you going to do, rent and line someone else's pocket? Living at home is fine, and even makes the most economic sense.

yeah...
we were basically back together, then somehow her brain flicked a switch and she just had to fuck someone else to justify whatever it was her brain was telling her

>packed my stuff and just went
>deleted everything of her
>it's been 2 days without any form of contact
>thought she'd text me, nope
>thought she'd ask to talk or something
>nope
Good. A lot of 'men' would be too weak to do this. You're gonna be alright.

the fact she wasn't honest, didn't tell me she was fucking other guys
and throughout the last 2 months made me feel and showed friends, her mother and other people that we were back bonding again
what a whore

you're 100% in the right. lifting makes you a stronger, better, more focused person.
she was exhibiting typical gains goblin behavior
those holes were worthless anyway

>Pissing away opportunities for no fucking Reason?

You get so damn many opportunities in this life. Take the L on this one, plenty of fish in the sea.

Why I have home equipment. No excuses for me plus I just go straight downstairs and work out

absolutely based and science pilled.
>We have identified a potent phytoestrogen in hops, 8-prenylnaringenin, which has an activity greater than other established plant estrogens. The estrogenic activity of this compound was reflected in its relative binding affinity to estrogen receptors from rat uteri.
>Milligan SR, et al. J Clin Endocrinol Metab. 1999.

I believe in you, user.
Your brain is a fucking gains goblin and it will lie to you and do all kinds of stupid bullshit to prevent you from working out.
Keep lifting, no matter what. No matter what your brain says. Just fucking do it.
You are going to fucking make it.

As a child:
>alcoholic single mom of 5
>dad left when I was like 3
>grew up obese
>got into weed at 14, never stopped
>nearly flunked out of high school
>basically 0 prospects in life

Now:
>well paying job in career I like
>going back to school this upcoming year
>losing weight
>gf who loves me
>$5000 in bank, $0 debt
>quit weed and booze cold turkey recently
>feeling levels of mental clarity previously unknown to me

Feels good man. Strive to be a better man than you were yesterday and things will work out.

>almost exact same situation
>the text "hey. i may have over reacted, no idea what i'm going to do for now but i'll the contact for now

............ tell me why am i so weak anons

you're gonna make it. never contact her again. don't bother worrying what she's up to. you may still care about her. accept that you have this feeling but do not let it affect your actions. she will be off whoring around to make herself feel better. use this change in your life to center yourself and rebuild your discipline.

>why am i so weak anons
Attention is one hell of a drug.... Even if you have a good thing going...

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really thought she'd changed her mind, that is at least what her actions told me
we were cuddling at a house party of mutual friends, kissing in front of other friends

only her female cousin told me i'd be naive, thinking she would want something serious
damn
thanks user

...do i really want her attention, or do i want to control her and not let go, not share which i hav already shared, what's wrong with me

This is some great motivation. Thanks mate

low self esteem. it's a combination of "I deserve to be treated badly because I'm not valuable" and "this person who treats me badly is the only person who will ever love me, so I better put up with them".
Both statements are completely false. You are fucking valuable, user. You deserve - and more importantly, it is fully within your power to get - a decent woman who treats you right.

Stop asking the same question when the answer is obvious you fucking faggot. Stop being a pussy and go lift. Or get a new fucking job. Idk just shut the fuck up and change something christ

Fuck you I love craft beer

Feels like I'll always look like a skelly when clothed

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Yeah
You want attention from her, it's a special thing when a woman picks a man

Stop posting this exact same prompt if you're not taking any of our advice, you faggot.

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>. You deserve - and more importantly, it is fully within your power to get - a decent woman who treats you right.
legit tearing up right now user, fuck me, where's my self worth
really shouldn't send her that text, probably that guy's fucking her as we speak, was everything she showed me for nothing? god damn

>was everything she showed me for nothing?
Yeah. It were.
She's got a rational I'm sure but it's senseless. Best just hit the old Dusty trail, in my experience those kinds are always trouble even if you are the one they like ATM.
You should be looking for a wife anyway but that's my personal opinion.

Try heading over to the gym just for a few minutes, to teach yourself that it's not too demanding to go. Then start adding exercises to your routine. Each time, you'll get a bit stronger, and the gains will compel you to keep going! Once it's a habit, you'll structure your day around it, waiting to get off work so you can go to the gym! The first step is the hardest, so show it who's boss!

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shouldn't settle for less....

Das rite!

but what if, my head's telling me, this is just right

>my head
Your head, my head, everyone's head will try to rationalize the wrong move.

>tfw i could be texting her that just as they're fucking
yeah no fuck my head

I've been there you gotta just let it go man
I mean you probably can't but you must

have a hard time when it comes to letting go of girls i hold feelings for yeah
really need to learn to let go of people who don't want me to be part of their life

I literally had to move to a different state so
Idk
Have you considered a vacation? That might get your mind off it

can't sadly
i'd love to just leave everything behind and start anew
but that isn't that easy nowadays eh

It's been a year of lifting and i still wish to die. I thought exercise and healthy living was supposed to alleviate depression.

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Lift before going to work.

Well at least block her on all forms of contact
I do this
At least you can tell yourself you left on your terms and you can think about how she feels when she inevitably tries to contact you and is blocked from doing so.
Gotta take those little victories
Or
Or... You could just not be a bitch.
If you must be a bitch, be a smart one and get good at lying to yourself.

>got a traffic ticket
>dumb accident while driving my grandads super light truck that slides when you hit the brakes in the rain
>$380
>can't afford to pay gym membership this month, or buy any actual good food because of it
>tomorrow is chest day

Wagecuckery is equivalent to slavery

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you have the right mindset

welp
weak moment made me hit send

>>>Tell her the holes between her legs are open 24/7 but the gym closes at 10.
oooh fuck my sides

I remember you. Good fit you, you're better off without her cheating ass

thanks user

Yep.
Just force yourself to go. Do warm up sets, do a few minutes of cardio, just get your heart rate up and you're going to have more energy. You can push yourself through your sets.
Barely anyone has a physically demanding job. 99% of people are exhausted at the end of the day mentally, their bodies still have a full tank. You can change your mindset with willpower.

It's just slavery with the illusion of choice
>Be slave
>Forced to work, house and food provided - no choice, work or be beaten
>Be wageslave
>Be paid but spend 90% on food/house (this is true for the majority of people in western nations - not so much the demography of this website)
>No choice, either work or starve to death

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Block her before she replies
That way she knows you blocked her.
You gotta revel in what you imagine is her confusion.

go in before work you lazy fuck

deleted the message
and deleted her contact info

it's now a hundred times more cringe
as there's a deleted text on her phone from me
a contact she can no longer see the profile pic

but fuck me i can't give into that shit

>deleted the message
>and deleted her contact info
When I do this its immediate relief, I'm sure you are feeling that now.
Now instead of wallowing, you have nothing left to keep you down. Get busy doing something Friend. Laundry, dishes work. Just get to it.

Based af. You better lift?

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>I'm sure you are feeling that now.
yes
>Just get to it.
gonna take a shower now
cheers user
here's hoping i don't cave in another weak fucking moment

How can you? You don't have her number lmao

true that

I'm a 26yo NEET. What should I do ? What would have you done at 26yo ?

Sucked off a jew. Thats what getting into (((capitalism))) requires.
t.31 y/o NEET. degree in science

no, but it's a good start
as you progess, you gonna get your first mires, that should give you a boost
build up your self esteem, start to go out more and socialize
it will get you back to a high mood over time

I have a microdegree in Business, does that mean I should go full wageslave and finish it ?

21 years old huh? Based. READ FISHER AND BAP

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>Be me 4yo
>Dad abandons me
>Stepdad ignores me
>Mother abuses me
>I'm a sissy
>I'm gay
>"You were Born This Way"
>Get to 27yo and come across literature that makes me realise that's a lie
>I'm now trying to un-gay myself and am completely alone on this journey
>I'm angry at the world and angry at my parents
>I am now a kissless virgin with no male friends and am also losing the female ones and don't want anything to do with the gay ones
>I live with my parents who made me gay

I'm basically OP's pic but closer to 30.

How does one get a gf with these aesthetics?

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Everything I do is covered in 15 layers of irony and I no longer hold unironic thoughts and opinions

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switzerland/austria

but did you get the HIV

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You only need a few good friends, hold onto them, make new ones
You can still change careers or go to school
You can quit your job
You can finish those books
You can quit porn and excessive alcohol use
You have 4 years left brah. Literally just turn off the spectacle and start now you self loathing fag.

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>tfw no work
medfag and zero fucking work right now

thank you, venezuela

She's gorgeous you idiot

Dad was passive in childhood, mother made me play with girl toys, got molested and mom saw it as a positive experience since no one got physically hurt. It’s epic.
>get bullied in middle school for long hair and submissive behavior
>only friend dies from cancer at 10
>discord trannies take advantage of me
FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCK

congratulations my wigger im glad for you
keep that shit up and dont let anything stop you

One step at a time user.

This was an altar girl from a church where I used to go until when I was 16 or 17. I thought she was pretty, but I barely knew her, she was two years younger than me and I had a crush on someone else.

That's like a while ago, then I checked her Instagram recently and found out she goes to same uni and study nursing, but never saw her. I even tried to find her. However since then I started to fantasize about her daily, especially her eyes. Even though it was just her pictures from Instagram. She has like +800 followers and probably out of the league too. I dreamed of her sometimes how she would be a good wife. It's kinda tormenting me, especially I'm far away from there at the moment probably for a year. No one will ever have her eyes. I don't think this is like a real love, but an obsession with imagery.

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Is the cousin cute?

Prime pickings desu.
Come at her without trying to get into her pants immediately if she goes for it you are set for life if not, at least you weren't just like "hey you want some fuk"

work, plain a simple. If you are already working, educate yourself in something you are interest WHILE working. Then you can monetize that skill. Everything is about skills, people pay you for doing something or for making them make money. Make time, you can (and MUST) do it or you will end as a 33yo NEET. At least I am not virgin, kek.

BTW user, money is not important but not in the way hippie faggots tell you. Money is a tool, that simple. Do not worship it but also do not denied it.

Get Jow Forums and stop fantasizing. In a couple of months you’ll realize it’s a stupid oneitis dream your brain is making up because you think you’re a loser srs

Also she posted this pic after Valentine's Day. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

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you are just a retard. Keep working out, thought.

stop thinking like that, you just have a crush bro,
hit the gym and roids