Blog post coming up, try to bear with me and give me some advice if you have something to say.
>be me 27 >she's past 30 (around 32-34 tops) >we work in the same place and see each other briefly couple of times a day > she's married for some time (let's say around 3 years) >recently she started to give me those longer kind of looks, you can feel this tension in the air like it's a real thing >needless to say I'm obviously attracted to her and it probably shows
since she's married and thus a perfect case of no-no how do I fucking stop thinking about her? BTW she liked to talk to me before I got Jow Forums
It's not going to be easy. You are going to have to do your best to make choices that won't leave you two alone for a great deal of time in a private place. Make sure you have other people around you.
Cooper Jackson
Unironically just b yourself, she’ll give up
Adam Reed
There’s literally thousands of girls out there and you can’t stop thinking about ruining an older women’s marriage because she looks at you and talks to you
>wife is in the same age range >have been married for a similar amount of time I'll fucking kill you, user
Caleb Lewis
go find someone not married you fucking piece of shit
Liam Sullivan
Better start building the cuck shed, loser, I’ll be sleeping in your bed in 2 weeks tops.
Jaxson Nelson
I wouldn't date older woman at your age. You could fuck her but judging by your autism you won't.
The best option is to just use her for constant validation.
Jaxson Garcia
not me I won't even do anything, never (almost) planned to being alone for a longer period of time would probably do the trick as I'm super autistic when it happens (not a problem around other co-workers), and that alone makes it super obvious I'm into her
Treat her like a spoiled kid treats a doting mommy. You either get an illicit mommy gf or she gtfo
Adam Hughes
OP still waiting for some actual ways to better my situation
John Jackson
Shes past the wall, someone else's territory, and would probably claim you raped her to try and save the marriage when the husband inevitably finds out. Get some younger pussy, dude. You're lusting after someone's old station wagon with bald tires when theres a world of tight fast little sport coupes out there.
Aaron Powell
Maybe that would be an incentive for you to stop? I don't know. I am talking from experience of friends, not myself. If people are around you to rein you in, that could be very anchoring. If you want to be by yourself, there is no body to distract you to think of whatever you want.
Christopher King
>don't date woman from your work place. >don't fuck married women and ruin someone else marriage.
Eli Hall
It reads nicely but in my self-imposed autism I'm not thinking about her as fuckmeat by now, and what do we do about it?
Jackson Mitchell
There is literally nothing wrong with fucking someone else’s wife. Either he failed at keeping his wife in check or he married a whore, either way if you don’t someone else will, and not fucking her is literally enabling some other fag further down the ladder.
Zachary Clark
Nobody can police your thoughts but you. You can stop your mind wandering and thinking about her.
The wife is a husband's property. If you commit adultery with a man's wife you have committed a crime against that man. Adultery is never excusable.
Isaac Fisher
Honestly, just keep reminding yourself that it’s not worth it.
I was in almost the same situation (she was older, but unmarried) and the cons outweighed the pros by an order of magnitudes. Sure, the sex was some of the best I’ve had, the work flirting boosted my confidence and made going to work something I actually wanted to do, but once that relationship heads south (and it WILL go south), it completely fucked my life in a huge way. Eventually we couldn’t work together, every day became a nightmare, and I just had to leave the company. I couldn’t date anyone new without opening up another can of her homebrewed apocalypse fuel. It wasn’t worth it.
Tldr; don’t shit where you eat. Remember that when you think of her.
Owen Williams
>Since she's married and thus a perfect case of no-no how do I fucking stop thinking about her?
Try flirting a bit and see where it leads to. Life is a cruel place and it`s more fun to cheat than to get cheated on.
Jeremiah Fisher
now that's a bit of a story nad I AM trying to remind myself what would follow but every time I see that glance and also since it's in so early stages I just brush it off telling myself I'm gonna have a plenty of time to react later on if it even gets anywhere further.
I know it's fucking retarded how I try to rationalize it and make it seem any less dengerous but there's no reason in denying in cuz I'm anonymous
Adam Mitchell
We rationalize a lot of our shitty decisions, usually pretty effectively. The best thing you can do for yourself is to not brush it off; most importantly, listen to yourself. I hate to use all these catchphrases and idioms, but seriously, listen to your gut. That voice in your head that says “hey man, that’s a bad idea” that you’re brushing off is YOUR voice.
Wyatt Garcia
Allowing your property to hop onto another man’s dick is on you, cuck. Other men are not responsible to keep your wife from fucking them.
Blake Scott
Do it Do it Do it
Luis Gonzalez
I don't think I'm capable of doing it and it seems like she's not gonna move up much as well. So it's most likely going to stay in that sort of limbo and drive me fucking nuts
