Jow Forums how the fuck do I redeem myself after some fucking beautiful young qt was miring THE FUCK out of me while I...

I usually say "hey I thought you were cute so I wanted to come say hi" as an opening. Then you just start small talk just like with any other person. You'll be shit at the start but eventually you will learn how to keep the conversation. Practise user. Everybody starts somewhere. Also kinda this

listen bud

if you are honestly good looking then the next time this happens say something honest. I am like you and this worked for me, getting married to the girl in about a year's time.
The first thing I said to her was "I am awkward at parties." No context. No explanation. That is all I said. She wasn't even single at the time. In fact, she was WITH her boyfriend. That is all it took.
To a woman, especially a hot one that is constantly being hit on, being candid and honest is the best thing you can do. Here are two reasons why:
1) If she turns up her nose and blows you off you've just saved yourself 3-18 months of being her bitch and not socially progressing.
2) If she thinks its cute, now you have a shot at making her your qt3.14 and learning how to social.

Take it in small steps man
Learn to not be afraid, the worst thing that can happen is rejection which is nothing

How did you flirt while her bf was there? Sounds weird / creepy to me senpai

Not all flirting is overt. 90% of a social interaction is under the skin. The goal isn't to make them fall in love with you with your words. The purpose of flirting is to get the girl to start thinking about you. If you flirt correctly, she will find herself thinking about you when she wakes up, when she goes to sleep, when she masturbates. That is the goal bud.

You can make it if at least someone can look at you with admiration

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grow some balls fag

look yourself in the mirror and smile. work on making a smile your reflex when you see a beautiful girl. just check it often to make sure the autism isn't showing through as a creepy smile.

But I am autistic bitch boi. I can get girls mirin at my bod, but I can't even talk to normal people. I thought I'd get social skills when I lost "Obese" status. Now I just disappoint girls worse because I now look like someone they may want but my social awkwardness of an obese bullied nerd is still there. How does one stop caring and just "act naturally". I'd be myself, but myself is stuttery, nervous, and literally a complete idiot when it comes to socialization.

I just wish I could be more normal sometimes. You feel?

Okay lad. You're fit already, that's a good thing. Keep that in mind you're sexy. Even I'm not there yet. Now you need some social skills. Read "No more mr nice guy" "How to win friends and influence people" and "How to be a 3% man".

It could be worse man, you could be 34 like me.

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based

Start a stream where you force yourself to talk a lot. Practice and putting in the work.

For me: I went to CouchSurfing meetups. At first, shit was super awkward for me. After a year I can now socialize whenever I want to.

quit masturbating faggot, practice semen retention

Look, if they're eye fucking you before you even have said hi, used an opener, or introduced yourself, you've got a ton of leeway.

Literally, go over and say "Hi." Smile, then continue with this guy's satement: changing it up so you don't repeat with what you opened with and then close it out with "I'm ." While sticking your hand out for a shake, and if she extends do a light shake and continue that conversation. If you're at the mall, ask her what she's here for. Whatever establishment you're at, use as a base. Whatever she answers with, use that as the next link in the chain to advance.

Eventually, you want to progress from two people standing and chatting to two people walking and talking and then towards the end you can go one of two routes:

1. You close out with "It was really nice meeting you ." If you're near your car or whatever, follow up with "well, this is my stop. We should keep in touch."

If she's positive to that, take out your phone, unlock it and hand it to her. Then you have her name and number and you're good to go. Hit her up later, to do whatever.

Do this enough times and you'll figure out the social queues and body language, and ultimately know when you can and cannot make physical contact based off this little initial bout when you're wishing each other goodbye.

RINSE AND FUCKING REPEAT.

out of all the images like this posted.....this unironically is the one that got to me

you're still young OP
practice with baby steps

Don't read that stuff. It's just a form of procrastinating. Just do it. I'm serious just go do it. Nothing to it man. Just do it. Acknowledge that she is acknowledging you and just talk. But first start with a smile and look her in the eyes.

Actually interested in this idea, but can you elaborate on the "stream" part? Like, just getting a podcast going where I talk to myself or like streaming on a site similar to Twitch but for people socializing? I am curious on how I could go about this idea, so what did you envision user?

That's some really good advice. Thank you user. I am a huge nerd, literally, so this is the stuff that doesn't seem so intuitive to me. Question is though, is this applicable advice in most situations? To be honest, if I could want to find a girl I'd want her to be less "normal" because of the fact I really have a difficult time with "normal" girls. Nerdy girls I can talk about crazy philosophy and vidya (theoretically), I can't even imagine how I'd connect with a normal western woman. How does an individual interact with a woman when she has no immediately discernible similar interests?

Studying as much as possible. I am hoping to finally get the chance to go on my first date. Any advice on finding certain types, like tomboyish girls?

I’m 29/m married have a daughter, been with my wife since I was 17. I was always hesitant to go up to girls. Trust me, just fucking do i. Now that I’m married i see it how it is. Life’s to short. In 40 years it won’t even matter quit holding urself back if u see a hot girl say hi. If she says no, forget that bitch and find another.

Its fine user, let today be your year. I got my first girlfriend at 21

Good tip for virgins here: women may think differently, but they're not some alien species who judge and overanalyze every word you say. Just talk to them like they're dudes unironically

>Then you just start small talk just like with any other person.

Not OP but I am incapable of this. I just shutdown if there's no interesting topic.

Can confirm. I'm a nurse (inb4 psych nurse pasta) and I love to roast the girls at work. It's flirty, and I always appreciate a good roast back. Helps keep your ego in check while being funny

How about this weather we're havin ;)

This

and..how do you talk with dudes?

Pratice user. You'll learn not to give a fuck and how to handle small talk over the time

THis is an easy one.

“Are you going to say hello or just stare at me all day? :)”

Youre on your own from there though kid. t. chad

Nobody cares about your lack of a dating life you lame faggot, it's not our fault your failure parents didn't teach you how to talk to people.

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Ye this is important to note for anyone with any kind of anxiety.
People aren't paying nearly as much attention to what you're saying as you think they are. They're not going to analyze the conversation like schoolkids analyzing a poem, so your word choice doesn't matter.
The more you think about this the worse you will do.