I'm 28 years old and I've been in one relationship in my life, my current one.
I didn't get with the first girl I could. I waited, I picked my moment, I didn't know who I was looking for but I knew I'd feel it when I found them. I had second thoughts, I had doubts, but when I eventually met the one I truly clicked with I was glad I waited for him. I believe in one love for life, till death do us part. I have someone I can truly be myself around, who I can tell anything to, someone who always puts me first in his life. I know biologically we're programmed not to mate for life, but it's one of the few things in this life I strongly believe in on a sentimental level.
I'll never cheat, I'll never love another, the day he dies is the day I do.
What's actually wrong with that? You really think it's so great to encourage a world full of independant, selfish narcissists? People SHOULD depend on each other, to the point where if they split up it'd be a chaotic change. If you can just walk out the door no problem one day then what the fuck kind of relationship is that? If both people are happy and want to be together, then codependancy is the preferred way to be.
Charles Thomas
people like you shit up this board every day
Dominic Campbell
No, the people who shit up this board are:
>"Fembot" threads and their beta orbiters >Faggot generals >Normie blogs about uni or work >Normie blogs about being rejected by stacy >Normie blogs about hating NEETs
Oliver Ramirez
Is this not a normie blog about a gay lover?
Jackson Martin
LMAO.
Love the binary bullshit you're trying to pull on me right now.
>IF YOU CRITICIZE ME YOU MUST WANT EVERYONE TO BE EVIL SELFISH ASSHOLES.
lol, no. Codependency is like a horse with blinders. It can't see anything around it, and it creates warped boundaries (aka. the horse can only look forward, and therefore is cognizant of very little)
Next comes the guilt trips, the excessive clingyness, the unhealthy fights because you've staked everything on them. Codependancy isn't love-- you destroy the person you love by merging and projecting your identity onto them, and they onto you.
Owen Diaz
I think you're the one projecting.
Nothing of what you said describes my relationship. We've been together for 5 years, there was and never has been guilt trips, excessive clinginess or real fights. You just can't concieve of meeting someone you actually love and want to be around all day long because you're a vapid whore of a person.
Jace Nelson
gay people on r9k are the worst fucking losers they have their own board and everything
Brayden Smith
>I think you're the one projecting.
No, pretty sure I'm not. Unlike you I know the difference between projecting and speaking from an honest place. You can call me a vapid whore all you like-- but I'm one of the best friends you'll ever have, because I'm not afraid to assert myself, unlike you. I can smell your passive aggressive snark from here.
Five years and no real fights? Doesn't that make you pause for consideration at all?
Luke Roberts
What passive aggressiveness?
You're a jealous cunt, is that clear enough for you faggot? Mind your own business with your crazy conspiracy theories retard.
>Five years and no real fights? Doesn't that make you pause for consideration at all? Yeah, it makes me think how lucky I am. How lucky I'm not with a psychotic cunt like you who thinks the perfect relationship is a volatile mess both parties could easily walk away from whenever they get tired of playing chicken with each others feeling.
Aaron Williams
Ohohoho!
I can tell I've hit a sore spot.
Listen. there's always going to be people who rain on your parade, hun. You can either take a step back and examine it objectively, or you can chimp out. It makes no difference to me.
Christian Jenkins
>hun Oh, so you're just a jealous roastie.
Jealous of two men being perfectly happy without a woman being involved. Jealous I chose a man over a woman. You're single because every man out there can spot the bad ones. The vapid, empty whores. The shitty people. The worthless mentally unstable castoffs.
Your trash, no one wants you. No man will ever marry you, you will never raise children, you will never in a million years be happy. Enjoy your miserable life, dumb slut.
Wyatt Watson
Oh my god, you are an absolute scream, darling.
You're literally foaming at the mouth from one glib comment. Ask yourself if that's someone you wanna be.
Jason Davis
what's with girls and picking internet fights for no reason