Hey Jow Forums it's me again. The one that met a nerd girl and made a great relationship with her and made me fall for her. Let's update on what happened so far since last time
>be me >still talking to the girl >she realizes that the ex doesn't want her >she finally breaks her attraction to him >fuckyeah.jpg >a few days goes by and everything is looking pretty good >our relationship still hasnt deteriorated >still talk a lot >one day I was hanging out with a friend >his friend comes and talks to him about project or some shit >The girl sees the guy >guy leaves and I'm about to leave with my friend >girl runs up to me and calls me >turn around and met with a hug which I accept >She stops and says hi to me >I do the same >she suddenly questions me >"Who was that guy you were with user?" >feel my heart sink >tell her that I dont know him and that I just met him today >I ask my friend what the guys name is >friend tells me (let's call him Bob) >I tell girl and we go back home >she texts me >excitement.mp4 >normal routine, talking about random shit >she finally asks >do you know anything about Bob? >feel my hear sink even lower >tell her that I dont know anything about the guy except for his name >i ask her why >she says that he is super cute >begins talking about him even though she has seen Bob once >just take all this bragging and shit >she finally gets stops and tells me goodnight >tell her the same and head to bed and start crying >few days later, no mention of Bob, still talking to girl >she texts, "have you seen Bob? I haven't seen him around" >she forgot that I dont fucking know the guy >tell her no >we texts a few times and she leaves me on read >go to bed and cry
I'm officially thinking of ending it now. This hurts too fucking much. She knows I like her yet she does this shit still. Any way I can peacefully end it all? At least I'll die calmly and leave this shit behind.
is it an official thing or are you two just friends talking? I read a past one but forgot. But don't hang on like this if you want to go out with her, confront her about it.
Oliver Thomas
Friends. She's been the only real friend I've had since forever and made me more confident in talks with people. I want to confront her, but I dont wanna ruin everything that we've built up on
Cooper Phillips
Did you ever bring up you like her? If not just keep her as a friend, unless you feel confident enough that she won't reject you if you are willing to up your game and ask her out too. But if she likes him for whatever reason, look at him and wonder why, does he do more interesting stuff or have a different personality from you, etc
Hudson Ramirez
I did mention I like her and she said she was flattered and nothing else. I've been working hard and getting thinner and more muscular. I've been watching my hygiene and fixing my hairstyles. Hell, the guy she like is a fucking short little bitch.
Dominic Hernandez
selfimprovement is a meme in being the endall girls want. The personality and how you compose yourself are equally or more important, also how interesting of a person you are
Cameron Collins
I talk with her a lot and make her laugh. She talks to me everyday and we tell each others secrets. She never talked to the fucking guy she thought was cute. What the hell am I missing here? I'm not awkward anymore because I've finally stepped up in social interaction. One look and she falls head over heels for the guy. I feel like I wasted my time.
Carter Wright
I don't think women prefer the gentle kind guy to the manly personable talkative guy. They sense fear and its a turnoff for them, sometimes it seems like it almost disgusts them. But if you told her she probably wants you as a friend buy isn't into you currently. Keep upping your game, but add in more hobbies and things to your life before trying with her again, but keep her as a friend in the meantime
James Gray
>"Hey! You're not seeing anyone and neither am I. Wanna get together?" Literally all you have to do OP. If she turns you down get over her and move on. If she doesn't then you just got yourself a gf.
If someone makes you feel bad just don't talk to them nigger. That fucking easy. Almost everyone on this board would have their lives improved greatly if they follow that simple rule. Don't do shit that makes you feel bad if you can help it.
He could, but my hunch tells me it might be for the worse to try for it right now since he's been holding on for so long. I'd say move on but keep her as a friend in the meantime, and when you've upd the game some more try again if you want. >If someone makes you feel bad just don't talk to them nigger. That fucking easy. That's actually pretty good advice though, I wish I took it years ago
Josiah Perry
you gotta kiss bob and turn him gay, then she's all yours.
Matthew Sullivan
>getting over someone who literally made you the person you are
She's not just another girl in the street
Jack Wright
what does he look like anyway?
you vs him
face, body, colors, heights, etc
Colton Martinez
she must be indian since she wants to kiss bob so bad
Anthony Clark
I think what it is is that she's the type of person that's attracted to people mostly by their appearance, and that guy is what her "type" is physically. For example some girls like pretty boys that look like anime niggas, so there can be like a 6'4" rugged chad that likes her but she'll never see him as anything more than a friend due to her being into prettyboy niggas, or viceversa, she likes rugged chads and not prettyboys and that guys a rugged chad
idk thats my theory. other girls are reeled in by other things, like a deep voice or height or a talent or black guys or asians
Brody Adams
For him he just really short Mexican and has that haircut the looks like an ocean wave. For body he is not that muscular at all. He looks like he hasnt even worked out in years.n Never even notice the guy or gave him a glance. He's just the classic brown Mexican
I'm Asian and I'm pretty much taller than him. I'm sitting at 5'11 while he is at 5'. I'm more muscular than him but not overly muscular. I'm brown but a little lighter.
William Price
if she makes you fucking depressed just tell her how you feel man if shes your "friend" she will understand if not just stop talking to the bitch
Dude you're 5'11 and he's fucking 5'??? You could fucking kick his ass.
You need to man up. You need to stop orbiting her. You told her how you felt and that basically killed your chances but this is your chance to block her out of your life and move on. You're in the friendzone. >Keep adding hobbies OP, do this and talk to her less and less. Work out too.
>"Hey! You're not seeing anyone and neither am I. Wanna get together?" Do this if you feel the time is right and you followed my advice.
But don't be submissive or weak when asking her (especially if she rejects you.) Tell her you think you spend so much time together that you two should be dating.
And if she says rejects you, you let her know that you think she's beautiful but that you aren't going to waste your time talking to her just to be friends and then...you walk away.
Be confident. Be dominant. Be assertive. Even if you aren't. Fake it, till you make it.
I won't lie to you and say this will work out but you're supposed to a man. And you need to learn to walk away from a women and not kiss ass. If you do those things and she rejects you well guess what? You're a 5'11 chad go out and mingle dude.
I'm 5'6. I WISH I had what you had. You should feel better about yourself. Dont beat yourself up. It fucks with your confidence and selfimage.
OP, I had to learn all this the hard way and I just don't want other people to make the same mistakes.
Grow up.
Wyatt James
Stop being her gay male girlfriend. Tell her you're not interested in her as a friend. She's clearly not into you though so you're free to continue to be her friend
Evan Carter
Enlightened user.
Although with a big caveat -- definitely DO do shit that makes you feel bad if it's useful suffering and helps you work towards your goals. Exercising, working on your hobbies, meditating, pushing your comfort zone, etc. Life is struggle. But if it's useless suffering, absolutely drop that ASAP.
